Thursday, July 29, 2010

Advice: GUYS ONLY!!!?

Since the beginning of my school year, (since September) ive become really good friends with this boy Anthony. We've known eachother since 1st grade, but we never really talked until this year and we became best friends in a matter of weeks. (and then it wasnt long before i started liking him) We called eachother everyday and ive hung out with him a number of times at our houses, but in the last month things have been going downhill. Last friday he asked me to the dance at my school as friends, but i found out later he asked out of pity because he felt bad that i liked him and i said no to this other kid who asked because i didnt like the other kid who was also my friend. but since friday hes taken back asking me to the dance, and now he wont talk to me in school. ive tried calling him a few times but everytime we just start arguing and one of us hangs up on the other. were in the same group of friends so its kind of hard to avoid one another, and everytime one of out friends...Advice: GUYS ONLY!!!?
I think anything you Do would make the situation worse so the best advice in my opinion would be for you to do nothing. This may sound weird but this looks like the kind of situation that will just work itself out in time. It sounds like you would like to continue to be friends with this guy. If this is the goal then you have already accomplished it. I would suggest that you find some other productive distractions that may provide your mind an escape from thoughts of this situation so that time can pass more enjoyably.Advice: GUYS ONLY!!!?
This is childish. If he doesn't like you anymore there's nothing you can do; if he wants to act like that, just let him. You said yourself that you won't be going to the same school next year so there's no reason to even care.
1st love is the best love.
Ignore him, seriously, act like you are fine with it, and just play it off as nothing is the matter. It may take a week or even longer, but if you truly like him, you can stick it out. As soon as he sees you, being friends and such with others, and not him, he will miss you and want you as a friend again, maybe even more. Sounds like Zoey 101, doesn't it.


Good luck, and remember, you are in the 8th grade, not a senior leaving for college, your feelings will change at least 10 times before school starts again! He may even get ugly over the summer, you never know...:)

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