There is this girl. She just dumped her BF and she knows I like her. I know no she likes me because of her friend but, her friend also said that I should ask her out.
So, any advice? I'm kind of nervous and dont really know how to ask her out properly if I do. My last GF asked me out so it was a lot easier.
Help!Girls, Advice!(Guys Too)?
Relax, man. Your mind is already spinning out of control with anxiety. Keep it simple. First, just talk with her. About anything you have in common, be it a class at school, mutual friends or some interest. Get yourself comfortable around and let it take a couple of days or a week or two if you need it. Don't force any conversation either. You may not know her well enough to engage in long meaningful dialogues, so don't be afraid to cut it short. Thus you avoid the uncomfortable silences and you live to fight again another day. Find ways to talk with her (and if she likes you, she will do the same).
Once you are relaxed enough with her, start asking to do things together. Again keep it simple. Go to the movies (you could ask your mutual friend to come along as an ice breaker at first). You could study together or see if you have a tv show you both like and go over or invite over to watch it. Keep it simple, but stay after her. Don't talk to her once a week and expect things to blossom. Good luck.Girls, Advice!(Guys Too)?
MAN UP! GROW A SET!
;)
Good luck.
just talk to her in private....do in person though because its more manly. just tell her that you want to be more then just friends. ask her if she wants to be your girlfriend :)
be brave, take a risk, go for it!! good luck
ive said this in more than one answer but i will keep saying it.
HAVE CONFIDENCE IN YOURSELF.
dont beat around the bush saying, uuuumm..... uuuuh, like would you maybe, if your not doing anything, go out with me sometime.
pick something you want to do like go see a certain movie, have it picked out already and say. hey i was thinking about going to ';certain movie'; would you care to join me. or something like that. once you feel good about yourself others will like that in you too. so just be confident (not cocky) and ask her out.
dont be a ****** about it, just do it
Haha.
Your EX had the guts to ask you out
what makes you think you can't do the same?
Before you do anything, make sure that asking her out
would be the best option. If you're having
second thoughts get to know her first then think about doing
the asking out part.
:)
Goodluck
give her time
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