Im 19 and im in my 3rd semester in college i have not been asked out yet i been in school quite a while and no guy has asked me out did i mention i am shy and nervous to talk to a guy, i want to get past my fear and actually talk to a cute guy if he comes along but i want him to be interested in me, what should i do to get a guy to notice me change my make up do hair diff or what i had my heart broke b4 and i am afraid to get hurt again i need help i dont want to be alone the rest of my life what should i do i work and make pretty good money at what i do but ne ways i deserve a good guy i just wish hed come along it hurts to see my friends having boyfriends what should i do help.Advice Guys Only?
are you uglyAdvice Guys Only?
you have to get over your shyness.
Guys like a good, smart, funny, confident girl.
And if you aren't showing those qualities, you're not going to get noticed.
Saturday, July 31, 2010
I need some advice from the guys on here...?
Just a little advice if you would please. I've been with this guy for over 3 years and I just would like to know your opinion on how often a girlfriend should call their boyfriend. I call mine about twice a week so as not to bug him too much. And I think it's bugging him that I don't call him more often! Lol. Should I be calling him to say hi more often? Just a simple opinion on this is all I need. Thanks!I need some advice from the guys on here...?
It all depends on the person, before my girlfriend and I moved in together, we used to call each other every day. It also depends on how serious your relationship with him is. Are you two serious? Are you just in the dating stage?
There are a lot of factors here that would determine this. In my opinion however, there shouldn't be a specific number of times a person should be allowed to call their boyfriend or girlfriend every week. But no one should call their boyfriend or girlfriend every five minutes either.I need some advice from the guys on here...?
WHAT THE H*LL?! ok hes ur bf i call my gf about every day i didnt call her 1 day and she thought i 4got her and wen i dnt she calls me and i love it wen she calls it makes me feel all special ;) so it u wanna keep ur dude i suggest u call him AT LEAST every other day.........man grl 2 times a week
If the guy really likes you you can not possibly call him too often.
It all depends on the person, before my girlfriend and I moved in together, we used to call each other every day. It also depends on how serious your relationship with him is. Are you two serious? Are you just in the dating stage?
There are a lot of factors here that would determine this. In my opinion however, there shouldn't be a specific number of times a person should be allowed to call their boyfriend or girlfriend every week. But no one should call their boyfriend or girlfriend every five minutes either.I need some advice from the guys on here...?
WHAT THE H*LL?! ok hes ur bf i call my gf about every day i didnt call her 1 day and she thought i 4got her and wen i dnt she calls me and i love it wen she calls it makes me feel all special ;) so it u wanna keep ur dude i suggest u call him AT LEAST every other day.........man grl 2 times a week
If the guy really likes you you can not possibly call him too often.
Advice? (guys and gals)?
I'm a freshman in college and met this girl that I am curious about.
We talked for the first time in this workshop
i let her know that i enjoyed the conversation via online and she agreed. then one day i see her and she invites me to lunch with her. we have another great conversation. and afterwards i ask her to show me around and she does.
on the tour we talk and she makes a couple jokes to try and make me laugh and i invite her to play sports with me at another time and she agrees, saying i can teach her. so after the tour we return to our dorms and she says bye with a big smile.
then I asked her to dinner the following week and she agreed happily. she gave me her number and said to call her to set up a time. i did. so i went to her dorm to get her and when we were walking to dinner, two mutual girl friends saw us and asked to join. i said ok. but then at dinner we didnt talk much. and we all walked back together. then they held the doors for us. after they left we said goodbye and I gave her a hug. then she suggested that we do our homework together this weekend.Advice? (guys and gals)?
what exactly is your question? You sound like you are moving at a good pace to find something real.Advice? (guys and gals)?
itss good
its a like sign
she like u
so what do u want now
if u like her so go get her !
good luck !
And........your Question would be ??????????????????????????
umm go for it
so what is your question again?
We talked for the first time in this workshop
i let her know that i enjoyed the conversation via online and she agreed. then one day i see her and she invites me to lunch with her. we have another great conversation. and afterwards i ask her to show me around and she does.
on the tour we talk and she makes a couple jokes to try and make me laugh and i invite her to play sports with me at another time and she agrees, saying i can teach her. so after the tour we return to our dorms and she says bye with a big smile.
then I asked her to dinner the following week and she agreed happily. she gave me her number and said to call her to set up a time. i did. so i went to her dorm to get her and when we were walking to dinner, two mutual girl friends saw us and asked to join. i said ok. but then at dinner we didnt talk much. and we all walked back together. then they held the doors for us. after they left we said goodbye and I gave her a hug. then she suggested that we do our homework together this weekend.Advice? (guys and gals)?
what exactly is your question? You sound like you are moving at a good pace to find something real.Advice? (guys and gals)?
itss good
its a like sign
she like u
so what do u want now
if u like her so go get her !
good luck !
And........your Question would be ??????????????????????????
umm go for it
so what is your question again?
Guys... need you guy's advice?
I've heard that guys like girls for their legs. What do you guys mean? Will you still like a girl and think she's hot if she doesn't have really muscular legs, but not fat ones?Guys... need you guy's advice?
They have to be at least a little muscular. But you can join a gym and start working out, and before long you will have good legs. The best girls are the ones with big, muscular thighs and calves.Guys... need you guy's advice?
As I'm sure it's the same with girls, it's difficult to say. There are ';face'; guys, ';boobs'; guys, ';butt guys etc. If you know what I mean. Find out what the guy you like likes best and make sure you do something to have that stand out. Personally I'm an all around type of guy, though I do look at butts the most, and that goes hand in hand with the legs.
Hahah, well different guys like girls for different reasons...me, she has to have a cute face, long legs and ';breasts';. But, the legs might be the guys physical interest, but if this person likes your personality then a real relationship begins. Some guys dont care for legs..im pretty shure its not the end of the world...what you lack in that department, you'll prolly make up in another. It depends what scale the guy is on from shallow to deep
Only 1 out of 10 girls can be put into the muscular leg category. Just like only 1 out of 10 guys can be put into the muscular abs category. (This is for people over 18, not sure how old you are asking about). Nice color, soft and attractive looking legs are what guys are referring to here.
yeah muscular isnt a good thing. fat isnt either. but neither is bony. idk legs can be really hot or really mad or just the girl is hot enough that it doesnt matter. good luck answer mine?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AltPYWd2nnpcOwqhfwyGLxDsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090817210213AAMNEBb
I like big legs and big girls. I kind of like chubby girls. I really can't stand really tiny girls like fairies who live in flowers or something. I don't think it's sexy at all for a girl to be skinny to the point where you can see their bones. So, bigger legs are a plus for me.
alright here's a simple answer as long as they are not hairy or pale(tan preffered) and thats pretty much it muscles dont matter as long as theyre skinny haha, like soccer chick legs haha but #1 thing guys look at is the face then the body. but if your pretty then you should be good!
There are a lot of different views on what different guys find attractive! Most men like women to have more slender model like legs then overly muscular legs (it makes them feel less masculine if their legs are less toned then yours)
alright This is a good answer for this,
A good conversation is like a Minny skirt, Short enough to keep your attention but long enough to cover the subject :D think about it
This is kind of an odd question. Men like different things in women. Some men will like fat legs, some skinny, hell some will even like hairy ones. Really, it's just a matter of taste
I like a girl for who she is, and looks wise, face is the most important thing anyway. I'm sure your legs are fine, as long as you're not proportionate, don't worry bout it!
i like a girl for who she is more than what she looks like....what you look like is just who you are to other people but your personalty is who you are to people that care
Legs, to me, are just another physical attraction. Just like breasts or butt. If you don't have great legs its fine, that means you have a great something else.
Yes. I think length is the biggest factor when guys judge legs (longer is better). I remember that there was research done on on this and there was an actual biological reason for it.
Keep them shaved, and yours are perfect. Long legs are just a bonus. If you don't have them, don't sweat it. Only shallow guys look for that kind of stuff anyways. Go get 'em girl! :D
UM I DO NT WANT A GIRL WITH MUSCULAR LEGS THOSE VOLLEY BALL GIRLS, TRACK GIRLS, OR REALLY ANY SPORT ARE NOT SEXY TO ME UUGGGH THEY LOOK LIKE MEN
yes because i do like hot girls but really im focused on how they think of me and and wat i think about there personality i wont lie i do like hot girls and i like tan girls
I'm not a guy but I have alot of guy friend and majority of them don't give a damn about legs guys tend to look at a girls face over all body parts
Some guys like girls with slim legs, but in the real world personality is much more important than perfect legs
My friends and I don't really pay much attention to women's legs. Now the thighs and up are a different story...
not all guys worry bout legs but if she cutee and got a good personallity we can dig her
but its not all bout legs
I like hips more then legs...I like knee socks on legs, I think thats sexy. Other then that, legs are legs.
I think its sexy when a girl has nice but firm legs.
It is all in the attitude and presentation of self.
Well if their long and skinny thats money but if their thich and short legs are legs . i like a big butt.
T
it doesnt matter that much for all people some poeple enjoy them, its a turn on but other guys do have other turn ons
muscular is kinda gross fat too, but long, tan shaved legs miam!
NO WAY!!! GUYS LOVE MUSCULAR LEGS ITS A FACT!!!!
of course, they don't have to be perfect, and its the personality that counts
ont fat legs but they dont have to be athletic
legs are amazing....if they are kinda muscular-ish
but its not a big factor i think
They have to be at least a little muscular. But you can join a gym and start working out, and before long you will have good legs. The best girls are the ones with big, muscular thighs and calves.Guys... need you guy's advice?
As I'm sure it's the same with girls, it's difficult to say. There are ';face'; guys, ';boobs'; guys, ';butt guys etc. If you know what I mean. Find out what the guy you like likes best and make sure you do something to have that stand out. Personally I'm an all around type of guy, though I do look at butts the most, and that goes hand in hand with the legs.
Hahah, well different guys like girls for different reasons...me, she has to have a cute face, long legs and ';breasts';. But, the legs might be the guys physical interest, but if this person likes your personality then a real relationship begins. Some guys dont care for legs..im pretty shure its not the end of the world...what you lack in that department, you'll prolly make up in another. It depends what scale the guy is on from shallow to deep
Only 1 out of 10 girls can be put into the muscular leg category. Just like only 1 out of 10 guys can be put into the muscular abs category. (This is for people over 18, not sure how old you are asking about). Nice color, soft and attractive looking legs are what guys are referring to here.
yeah muscular isnt a good thing. fat isnt either. but neither is bony. idk legs can be really hot or really mad or just the girl is hot enough that it doesnt matter. good luck answer mine?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AltPYWd2nnpcOwqhfwyGLxDsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090817210213AAMNEBb
I like big legs and big girls. I kind of like chubby girls. I really can't stand really tiny girls like fairies who live in flowers or something. I don't think it's sexy at all for a girl to be skinny to the point where you can see their bones. So, bigger legs are a plus for me.
alright here's a simple answer as long as they are not hairy or pale(tan preffered) and thats pretty much it muscles dont matter as long as theyre skinny haha, like soccer chick legs haha but #1 thing guys look at is the face then the body. but if your pretty then you should be good!
There are a lot of different views on what different guys find attractive! Most men like women to have more slender model like legs then overly muscular legs (it makes them feel less masculine if their legs are less toned then yours)
alright This is a good answer for this,
A good conversation is like a Minny skirt, Short enough to keep your attention but long enough to cover the subject :D think about it
This is kind of an odd question. Men like different things in women. Some men will like fat legs, some skinny, hell some will even like hairy ones. Really, it's just a matter of taste
I like a girl for who she is, and looks wise, face is the most important thing anyway. I'm sure your legs are fine, as long as you're not proportionate, don't worry bout it!
i like a girl for who she is more than what she looks like....what you look like is just who you are to other people but your personalty is who you are to people that care
Legs, to me, are just another physical attraction. Just like breasts or butt. If you don't have great legs its fine, that means you have a great something else.
Yes. I think length is the biggest factor when guys judge legs (longer is better). I remember that there was research done on on this and there was an actual biological reason for it.
Keep them shaved, and yours are perfect. Long legs are just a bonus. If you don't have them, don't sweat it. Only shallow guys look for that kind of stuff anyways. Go get 'em girl! :D
UM I DO NT WANT A GIRL WITH MUSCULAR LEGS THOSE VOLLEY BALL GIRLS, TRACK GIRLS, OR REALLY ANY SPORT ARE NOT SEXY TO ME UUGGGH THEY LOOK LIKE MEN
yes because i do like hot girls but really im focused on how they think of me and and wat i think about there personality i wont lie i do like hot girls and i like tan girls
I'm not a guy but I have alot of guy friend and majority of them don't give a damn about legs guys tend to look at a girls face over all body parts
Some guys like girls with slim legs, but in the real world personality is much more important than perfect legs
My friends and I don't really pay much attention to women's legs. Now the thighs and up are a different story...
not all guys worry bout legs but if she cutee and got a good personallity we can dig her
but its not all bout legs
I like hips more then legs...I like knee socks on legs, I think thats sexy. Other then that, legs are legs.
I think its sexy when a girl has nice but firm legs.
It is all in the attitude and presentation of self.
Well if their long and skinny thats money but if their thich and short legs are legs . i like a big butt.
T
it doesnt matter that much for all people some poeple enjoy them, its a turn on but other guys do have other turn ons
muscular is kinda gross fat too, but long, tan shaved legs miam!
NO WAY!!! GUYS LOVE MUSCULAR LEGS ITS A FACT!!!!
of course, they don't have to be perfect, and its the personality that counts
ont fat legs but they dont have to be athletic
legs are amazing....if they are kinda muscular-ish
but its not a big factor i think
Guys - I need your advice over my ex boyfriend?
What is the best way to get an ex to come back to you? What methods do you think would be best? I know that he does still love me- 100% still loves me. but i hurt him and at the minute he is mad at me.Guys - I need your advice over my ex boyfriend?
By making up for the hurt first, sincerely apologizing, and asking for forgiveness. Then asking him to get back together again. If he doesn't want to I wouldn't push it. He probably just needs some space.maybelline
By making up for the hurt first, sincerely apologizing, and asking for forgiveness. Then asking him to get back together again. If he doesn't want to I wouldn't push it. He probably just needs some space.
Hey guys need advice on dating someone five years bigger than oyu?
It would depend on your age. If you are 16 and your significant other is 21 then that would be a problem. The older you get, the less significant the age difference seems, though, so if you are 30 and he/she is 35 then no biggie.Hey guys need advice on dating someone five years bigger than oyu?
You mean Older? It depends on how old you are. If you are over 18 then it's cool. If not, then don't do it.
You mean Older? It depends on how old you are. If you are over 18 then it's cool. If not, then don't do it.
Any GUY please answer. I need more advice!!!! GUYS ONLY!!!!!!?
ok, so there's this guy who is a senior and im a freshman. he started siting by me in one of my classes and giving me compliments until we switched rooms and now he doesn't sit by me anymore. We used to talk and laugh the whole period. He is always loking at me and looks away when i see him. We have the same lunch period and this week he started walking by my table like 5 times. I still like him but don't know what to do. Does he like me? And I'm to shy to go up and talk to him though I want to. Don't say he's trying to get in my pants because i am 100% sure he is not that kind of guy. Any advice is appreciated. Thanks!!
Most of u r saying hes gay when i said hes not that kind of a guy. What I meant is that he wouldn't have sex right away.
Another question: I have dirty blonde hair, green eyes, am tall. I'm not skinny and not fat. [in the middle] Just out of curiosity would anyone guy go out with a girl like me????Any GUY please answer. I need more advice!!!! GUYS ONLY!!!!!!?
Yes! Guys would dig to go out with you!
And...
I'm not bible bashing please don't think I am:
But God created you he knew you before you were born. He even knew how many hairs you had on head. He made you and you are special and he loves you.
Please go to your mirror every morning and say I'm special and God loves me!
As 4 the guy - I say he is ';checking you out'; he most probably is thinking if he should make a move or not. The eye contact is a sign he is still interested.
Guys like girls who are upfront so I suggest you tell him you miss him siting with you and invite him over. Communicate honestly... don't hold make your feelings...
Good Luck...Any GUY please answer. I need more advice!!!! GUYS ONLY!!!!!!?
Just go up to him and say hi, you'll just keep on wondering if you don't make a move first
Most of u r saying hes gay when i said hes not that kind of a guy. What I meant is that he wouldn't have sex right away.
Another question: I have dirty blonde hair, green eyes, am tall. I'm not skinny and not fat. [in the middle] Just out of curiosity would anyone guy go out with a girl like me????Any GUY please answer. I need more advice!!!! GUYS ONLY!!!!!!?
Yes! Guys would dig to go out with you!
And...
I'm not bible bashing please don't think I am:
But God created you he knew you before you were born. He even knew how many hairs you had on head. He made you and you are special and he loves you.
Please go to your mirror every morning and say I'm special and God loves me!
As 4 the guy - I say he is ';checking you out'; he most probably is thinking if he should make a move or not. The eye contact is a sign he is still interested.
Guys like girls who are upfront so I suggest you tell him you miss him siting with you and invite him over. Communicate honestly... don't hold make your feelings...
Good Luck...Any GUY please answer. I need more advice!!!! GUYS ONLY!!!!!!?
Just go up to him and say hi, you'll just keep on wondering if you don't make a move first
Okay.....need more advice guys???
Now, I recently asked a question about me and my bf. Now, me and my bf have big sexual appetites and since we have moved into the new apt, hes been slacking in the bedroom area. Before, i would give him head and he never had a problem doing the same for me.
We get into the apt and he stops doing it and I am doing all the work now. I let him know about why my attitude has been so pissy lately and he gets upset with me for letting him know. Now, people have responded by telling me to just withhold the twat from him, which I have been doing and he has been on me like white on rice and I still and withholding. But the thing is...now I am horny as hell and I really want some wood, i mean, badly, so I just been masturbating while he is right there, so he can also be sexually frustrated liike me, which is happening.
I am withholding, so he can know what it feels not to get what you want, but I am now sexually frustrated badly....
what should i do guys...........?Okay.....need more advice guys???
Stay the course. You are forcing him to learn that YOU control when he can have a cookie. Keep it up. He'll end up begging you for it. Just hang in there. Let him know what it takes (giving you oral on command) for him to get his cookie. Now is as good as time as any to train your bf to serve you and service you on command.Okay.....need more advice guys???
masturbate him even if he is not in the mood,u go create the mood...be creative...good luck...
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Sounds like you need to take care of the box a bit more often. Yeast infections are a turn-off. And I doubt you never would cheat on him.
BIG DOLLARS IN THE MACHINE
My ex used to hold out too; worked like a charm.
Give in and both get what you want. Take him by the head and show him where the prize is. I don't know what's wrong with this guy...I'm horny just reading your question. Maybe you need something new and different????
Um...I would think using sex to get revenge for something wouldn't be the best way of handling a situation, but I think in this case it's about all you can do. From the sounds of it you've tried talking to him about it and it doesn't work, I think he's gotten the point. I wouldn't hold out much longer or the sexual frustration might drive him to cheat.
tie him down and take what you want. hands and feet tied, ride his face, then plant yourself on him til you burst. if he does fine if he doesnt better punishment.
We get into the apt and he stops doing it and I am doing all the work now. I let him know about why my attitude has been so pissy lately and he gets upset with me for letting him know. Now, people have responded by telling me to just withhold the twat from him, which I have been doing and he has been on me like white on rice and I still and withholding. But the thing is...now I am horny as hell and I really want some wood, i mean, badly, so I just been masturbating while he is right there, so he can also be sexually frustrated liike me, which is happening.
I am withholding, so he can know what it feels not to get what you want, but I am now sexually frustrated badly....
what should i do guys...........?Okay.....need more advice guys???
Stay the course. You are forcing him to learn that YOU control when he can have a cookie. Keep it up. He'll end up begging you for it. Just hang in there. Let him know what it takes (giving you oral on command) for him to get his cookie. Now is as good as time as any to train your bf to serve you and service you on command.Okay.....need more advice guys???
masturbate him even if he is not in the mood,u go create the mood...be creative...good luck...
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Sounds like you need to take care of the box a bit more often. Yeast infections are a turn-off. And I doubt you never would cheat on him.
BIG DOLLARS IN THE MACHINE
My ex used to hold out too; worked like a charm.
Give in and both get what you want. Take him by the head and show him where the prize is. I don't know what's wrong with this guy...I'm horny just reading your question. Maybe you need something new and different????
Um...I would think using sex to get revenge for something wouldn't be the best way of handling a situation, but I think in this case it's about all you can do. From the sounds of it you've tried talking to him about it and it doesn't work, I think he's gotten the point. I wouldn't hold out much longer or the sexual frustration might drive him to cheat.
tie him down and take what you want. hands and feet tied, ride his face, then plant yourself on him til you burst. if he does fine if he doesnt better punishment.
Girl Advice (Guys AND Girls please answer)?
Loneliness seems like it never breaks. For two months now I have been single. Let me tell you, it's been starting to get on my nerves. I'm the kind of guy that really loves relationships. I mean, I'm normally an optimist but I've been a hard core pessimist lately. Especially in the last few days when it really hit me.
I've tried getting to know girls and then after awhile I've asked them out. First one said no because ';she wasn't dating at the moment.'; Next one said that apparently I'm ';too good'; for her.
Last one, the one I currently have the biggest crush of all on, and I think I may have even fallen in love with her, Randi. We've been really good friends for awhile now. Only problem is she has a boy friend. A big freaking idiot if you ask me. I sit next to him in Latin and if she knew anything that he talks about in there she would dump him without a second thought. For instance, he's only doing this because he mad a big freaking bet with a friend that he could last two months. And he's one of the biggest perverts alive. But he hides this from her. But I can't tell her any of this. I mean she knows I like her and she would just hate me if I said anything.
So basically what I'm saying is that I am in a lonely state that just can't be broken. Hell I even wrote a poem about it:
I have nothing to hold on to,
Nothing to live by,
Nothing to breathe through,
And nothing to break my fall.
What more is a simple raft,
Than a piece of wood,
If it has no paddle to row,
Nor sail to catch wind?
I'm stranded out at sea,
My only companion a broken floorboard;
How I'll get back,
I just can't know.
I've tried to paddle with bare hands and feet,
But the waves keep pushing me back;
I've tried searching for a lifeline,
But none can be found in this oversized lake.
I've tried a dive to scavenge for food,
But the current keeps pushing me out;
I've tried to drink from the endless waters,
But the salt threatens to gag me.
I call for help in a loud echo,
Yet even I can't hear my own voice;
The only company I have is a raft,
To keep me above the loneliness threatening to engulf me.
So as you can see, this hurts a lot guys. I mean I'm even guilty of crying because of this. One time I almost just completely broke down in tears right in the middle of the hall because I saw Randi holding hands with he boyfriend. I know this may sound pathetic or even creepy but... i don't know. I really just need to talk about this to people cause I deny to talk to people I know. But I would absolutely LOVE any advice or suggestions ANYONE can give! Thanks!Girl Advice (Guys AND Girls please answer)?
Yeah the first three are crap answers.
Anyway I haven't been going out with anyone for years. I don't know what to say about it. I'm 17 and never really had a boyfriend. You haven't been in a relationship for 2 months and you're already lonely. I guess it takes a lot to get used to the fact you are alone. Here and there I will feel really bad that I don't date but I'm too afraid to fall in love or go out with someone. I want to cry myself as I type this. This is a very emotional situation.
here's a fact for you, unless Randi is like those obsessed girls on lifetime, she'll break up with that dumb kid and go for you. She will realize. I would just hang out with her more. MAKE HER LAUGH! be really nice to her. Maybe hang out after school? You don't want to get to being ';just a friend'; so the whole time just ';pretend'; you're going out with her and it will make the vibes between you different.
Sorry this is a lame answer but I hope that you feel better. Don't be ashamed to cry. You're the one a lot of girls would prefer. Someone who actually cares and gives a damn.Girl Advice (Guys AND Girls please answer)?
1) You don't love her. That **** is not love
2) Suck it the **** up. My god, girls say they like sensitive guys but they really don't. Get over yourself.
i dontt havee an answerrr
jusst a comment , alicee is angry (:
Grow a pair and ask her out... and for God's sake, stop crying in public... the ';sensitive'; act won't work... girls like *******... the worse they are treated, the more they come back to the ******.
You need to get in touch with your inner ******. Don't fawn over her... ignore her... she'll come to you.
Well, if the other guy only intends to last 2 months, then I suppose the fact that Randi likes him doesnt really matter anyways. I'd say there's no need to be upset about them if you know it wont last.
As for loving Randi, I say go for it. Maybe you should stick friends for a bit, maybe even best friends, then go for the final prize. Just take it slow (especially after they break u, cos u dont just wanna be the re-bound guy), but not so slow it gets frustrating. See what she likes. Get to know her if that's what she wants. Does she talk to you about celebs she thinks are hot or anything? Maybe you should act like them (unless they're cocky little assholes). I say just be a little rugged, but a gentleman to her (work-outs shouldnt go a-miss either).
You're right not to tell her what he says though, just really be there for her after it's over. Be a good guy to her, but masculine at the same time.
Cya
If you've only hit a slump for a couple months, it's not the end of the world! I used to date a million guys all the time, then i got a guy for a year and a half. After i broke up with him, it took about six to get back in the swing of things. Remember, you're in a fish filled sea. You'll find that angelfish surrounded by those piranahs. I LOVE relationships, but it's worth a little wait for you to find that one. I found one after six months... Well, i liked him a couple years ago, and i wooed him after my split with my boyfriend. Here's your options: You can wait the two months and be there for her to cry on and woo her that way, try to win her over the boyfriend she has now, but, If she doesn't work... in no time, you'll find someone else if you quit focusing on that one girl. Lots of times... guys don't have bets... they just either feel embarrassed or they dont liked being called out, so they say they do... I've ran into that PLENTY of times
Awwww, i'm sorry.
:(( I have been single for 15 years.
(Don't freak, i'm not like a 40 year old virgin, i'm 15.)
Never had a bf before. I see your problem, it happens to me
alllll the freakin' time. And yes, it hurts. BAD.
You should type a note out and rat him out.
ORRRR just tell her yourself.
Be like,
';Randi i need to talk to you.
Promise not to get mad? (Make her promise)
I'm telling you this because i care about you,
(then tell her what a creep he is.)';
I can assure you she won't get mad at YOU.
If she does, sorry.
Good luck. Just keep going and follow your heart.
If you want her, FIGHT FOR HER!
AND WHAT THE HELL?!
What's up with these idiots that answered your question?!
DONT LISTEN TO THEM.
Girls like nice boys!
TRRRRRRRRRRRUSTTTTT MEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!
Well you are right, its a little creepy, and a little sad, but at least you are getting it out there. I might suggest, depending on your age, you focus a little more on work, or school, or a hobby, and let things happen man. I have found that when I am lonely thinking about it makes it worse. Instead be productive and not so emo(no disrespect to you) about it. Its life man, let the things that will be happen, and it will get better. Also, talking from experience, if you legitimatelylike this girl, let it be know, it will be a test of courage for you. Drop SUBTLE(don't be over the top while she has a boyfriend) hints to her, flirt, tell her she is pretty, those sorts of things. She will eventually come around, and if she doesn't well, chalk it up to experience and find the next one, at least you got some practice trying to woo a woman, and use it on the next on. Best of luck
This must be hard for you but if its just 2 months surely if you wait it out and then when she gets dumped you can try to be with her.
But don't tell her you knew about the guys bet or she will be angry with you for not telling her.nothing good will come of telling her.
Good Luck with her im sure after its over she will want you too
To be fair, you need to sort your own **** out before you do anything. Being single sucks ***, but the fact that you're in tears over a girl who isn't yours with a douchebag boyfriend means you really aren't right in the head at the moment.
Take a minute and just think. Check yourself. Is she REALLY that important to you, or do you just need someone you can depend on to hold you up, to give you strength, do you need someone else to live for?
Because if the answer is yes, you need to stop thinking, and stop trying to get yourself into relationships. If that is the case, you need to stop, think about who you really are, find out why you really need that love from someone else, and learn to love yourself, so that you don't have to rely on someone else being there.
I mean don't get me wrong, I love being in a relationship just as much as the next guy, but Randi's got a pussy dude, she doesn't need another one, and if you're dependent in a relationship, that's all you're going to look like to her.
Also, pro tip, bring a tape recorder to Latin and Record Captain Douchebag saying that **** about her, and send her the tape in the mail anonymously. Watch the fun ensue.
I've tried getting to know girls and then after awhile I've asked them out. First one said no because ';she wasn't dating at the moment.'; Next one said that apparently I'm ';too good'; for her.
Last one, the one I currently have the biggest crush of all on, and I think I may have even fallen in love with her, Randi. We've been really good friends for awhile now. Only problem is she has a boy friend. A big freaking idiot if you ask me. I sit next to him in Latin and if she knew anything that he talks about in there she would dump him without a second thought. For instance, he's only doing this because he mad a big freaking bet with a friend that he could last two months. And he's one of the biggest perverts alive. But he hides this from her. But I can't tell her any of this. I mean she knows I like her and she would just hate me if I said anything.
So basically what I'm saying is that I am in a lonely state that just can't be broken. Hell I even wrote a poem about it:
I have nothing to hold on to,
Nothing to live by,
Nothing to breathe through,
And nothing to break my fall.
What more is a simple raft,
Than a piece of wood,
If it has no paddle to row,
Nor sail to catch wind?
I'm stranded out at sea,
My only companion a broken floorboard;
How I'll get back,
I just can't know.
I've tried to paddle with bare hands and feet,
But the waves keep pushing me back;
I've tried searching for a lifeline,
But none can be found in this oversized lake.
I've tried a dive to scavenge for food,
But the current keeps pushing me out;
I've tried to drink from the endless waters,
But the salt threatens to gag me.
I call for help in a loud echo,
Yet even I can't hear my own voice;
The only company I have is a raft,
To keep me above the loneliness threatening to engulf me.
So as you can see, this hurts a lot guys. I mean I'm even guilty of crying because of this. One time I almost just completely broke down in tears right in the middle of the hall because I saw Randi holding hands with he boyfriend. I know this may sound pathetic or even creepy but... i don't know. I really just need to talk about this to people cause I deny to talk to people I know. But I would absolutely LOVE any advice or suggestions ANYONE can give! Thanks!Girl Advice (Guys AND Girls please answer)?
Yeah the first three are crap answers.
Anyway I haven't been going out with anyone for years. I don't know what to say about it. I'm 17 and never really had a boyfriend. You haven't been in a relationship for 2 months and you're already lonely. I guess it takes a lot to get used to the fact you are alone. Here and there I will feel really bad that I don't date but I'm too afraid to fall in love or go out with someone. I want to cry myself as I type this. This is a very emotional situation.
here's a fact for you, unless Randi is like those obsessed girls on lifetime, she'll break up with that dumb kid and go for you. She will realize. I would just hang out with her more. MAKE HER LAUGH! be really nice to her. Maybe hang out after school? You don't want to get to being ';just a friend'; so the whole time just ';pretend'; you're going out with her and it will make the vibes between you different.
Sorry this is a lame answer but I hope that you feel better. Don't be ashamed to cry. You're the one a lot of girls would prefer. Someone who actually cares and gives a damn.Girl Advice (Guys AND Girls please answer)?
1) You don't love her. That **** is not love
2) Suck it the **** up. My god, girls say they like sensitive guys but they really don't. Get over yourself.
i dontt havee an answerrr
jusst a comment , alicee is angry (:
Grow a pair and ask her out... and for God's sake, stop crying in public... the ';sensitive'; act won't work... girls like *******... the worse they are treated, the more they come back to the ******.
You need to get in touch with your inner ******. Don't fawn over her... ignore her... she'll come to you.
Well, if the other guy only intends to last 2 months, then I suppose the fact that Randi likes him doesnt really matter anyways. I'd say there's no need to be upset about them if you know it wont last.
As for loving Randi, I say go for it. Maybe you should stick friends for a bit, maybe even best friends, then go for the final prize. Just take it slow (especially after they break u, cos u dont just wanna be the re-bound guy), but not so slow it gets frustrating. See what she likes. Get to know her if that's what she wants. Does she talk to you about celebs she thinks are hot or anything? Maybe you should act like them (unless they're cocky little assholes). I say just be a little rugged, but a gentleman to her (work-outs shouldnt go a-miss either).
You're right not to tell her what he says though, just really be there for her after it's over. Be a good guy to her, but masculine at the same time.
Cya
If you've only hit a slump for a couple months, it's not the end of the world! I used to date a million guys all the time, then i got a guy for a year and a half. After i broke up with him, it took about six to get back in the swing of things. Remember, you're in a fish filled sea. You'll find that angelfish surrounded by those piranahs. I LOVE relationships, but it's worth a little wait for you to find that one. I found one after six months... Well, i liked him a couple years ago, and i wooed him after my split with my boyfriend. Here's your options: You can wait the two months and be there for her to cry on and woo her that way, try to win her over the boyfriend she has now, but, If she doesn't work... in no time, you'll find someone else if you quit focusing on that one girl. Lots of times... guys don't have bets... they just either feel embarrassed or they dont liked being called out, so they say they do... I've ran into that PLENTY of times
Awwww, i'm sorry.
:(( I have been single for 15 years.
(Don't freak, i'm not like a 40 year old virgin, i'm 15.)
Never had a bf before. I see your problem, it happens to me
alllll the freakin' time. And yes, it hurts. BAD.
You should type a note out and rat him out.
ORRRR just tell her yourself.
Be like,
';Randi i need to talk to you.
Promise not to get mad? (Make her promise)
I'm telling you this because i care about you,
(then tell her what a creep he is.)';
I can assure you she won't get mad at YOU.
If she does, sorry.
Good luck. Just keep going and follow your heart.
If you want her, FIGHT FOR HER!
AND WHAT THE HELL?!
What's up with these idiots that answered your question?!
DONT LISTEN TO THEM.
Girls like nice boys!
TRRRRRRRRRRRUSTTTTT MEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!
Well you are right, its a little creepy, and a little sad, but at least you are getting it out there. I might suggest, depending on your age, you focus a little more on work, or school, or a hobby, and let things happen man. I have found that when I am lonely thinking about it makes it worse. Instead be productive and not so emo(no disrespect to you) about it. Its life man, let the things that will be happen, and it will get better. Also, talking from experience, if you legitimatelylike this girl, let it be know, it will be a test of courage for you. Drop SUBTLE(don't be over the top while she has a boyfriend) hints to her, flirt, tell her she is pretty, those sorts of things. She will eventually come around, and if she doesn't well, chalk it up to experience and find the next one, at least you got some practice trying to woo a woman, and use it on the next on. Best of luck
This must be hard for you but if its just 2 months surely if you wait it out and then when she gets dumped you can try to be with her.
But don't tell her you knew about the guys bet or she will be angry with you for not telling her.nothing good will come of telling her.
Good Luck with her im sure after its over she will want you too
To be fair, you need to sort your own **** out before you do anything. Being single sucks ***, but the fact that you're in tears over a girl who isn't yours with a douchebag boyfriend means you really aren't right in the head at the moment.
Take a minute and just think. Check yourself. Is she REALLY that important to you, or do you just need someone you can depend on to hold you up, to give you strength, do you need someone else to live for?
Because if the answer is yes, you need to stop thinking, and stop trying to get yourself into relationships. If that is the case, you need to stop, think about who you really are, find out why you really need that love from someone else, and learn to love yourself, so that you don't have to rely on someone else being there.
I mean don't get me wrong, I love being in a relationship just as much as the next guy, but Randi's got a pussy dude, she doesn't need another one, and if you're dependent in a relationship, that's all you're going to look like to her.
Also, pro tip, bring a tape recorder to Latin and Record Captain Douchebag saying that **** about her, and send her the tape in the mail anonymously. Watch the fun ensue.
Any advice? guys ... or girls?
K so i really like this guy who used to be in one of my classes and now he is only in my lunch. today i had to ask a teacher a question in his classroom and he kept staring at me and doing stuff to get my attention. even if i barely know him is it okay to ask him to hang out or is that weird. i want to get to know him better and i think he might be interested in me. what should i do. i cant stop thinking about him. but whenever i see him he is like always with a bunch of his guy friends. how could i flirt with him in a way to keep his mind on me. what would drive him crazy and make him even more interested in me. any tips thanksAny advice? guys ... or girls?
i think u should talk to him and ask him out, this happens normaly,
i mean he was staring at u and trying to get ur attention its enough
response from him to conclude that he like u, {life is a risk and the biggest risk is not taking one} , instead of u thinking at home and going
crazy talk him privetly , trust me its gonna be fine !
anne,Any advice? guys ... or girls?
Sure go for it, ask him to hang out. You could try to myspace him to start up a convo. or when you see him alone go up and just be yourself.
Well if he likes you he will tell you. Try starting a conversation in class with him only during free time! Also wear your cutest outfits and look at him too. Good luck!
woah exact same situation im in, i was planning on asking him to hang out, when we were talking on myspace. good luck! just ask him!
No not really but good luck!
IT WIll BE OK alright
Just look at him
just go up and talk to him then just walk away
how old r u?
i think u should talk to him and ask him out, this happens normaly,
i mean he was staring at u and trying to get ur attention its enough
response from him to conclude that he like u, {life is a risk and the biggest risk is not taking one} , instead of u thinking at home and going
crazy talk him privetly , trust me its gonna be fine !
anne,Any advice? guys ... or girls?
Sure go for it, ask him to hang out. You could try to myspace him to start up a convo. or when you see him alone go up and just be yourself.
Well if he likes you he will tell you. Try starting a conversation in class with him only during free time! Also wear your cutest outfits and look at him too. Good luck!
woah exact same situation im in, i was planning on asking him to hang out, when we were talking on myspace. good luck! just ask him!
No not really but good luck!
IT WIll BE OK alright
Just look at him
just go up and talk to him then just walk away
how old r u?
Fashion advice guys, what to wear for my shape?
Hey,
Im in between sizes. On my tops im a 12, but for my bottom's, i vary from size 12 to 14, i have a bit of a waist, so sometimes i find that 12 is too tight on my tummy, and a 14 fits on my stomach, but too baggy for my legs! Its a nightmare!!!
I would call myself an apple shape, i have 36b boobs, a 32'; waist, large hips and thighs. What shape would that make me?
I need advice on what styles of clothing i should be wearing to flatter my shape?
Thankyou! :)Fashion advice guys, what to wear for my shape?
why dont you try a corset. like underneath your stuff... it sucks everyine in and makes you look skinnier.. or you could get a proper fitting bra, or a push-up to make yourself look hotter.. try wearing things like babydoll tops because they fitt you on your skinny parts.. like the boobs, and right underneath the boobs but the stomache its loose.. other tops would be the wrap around kinds.. and if your REALLY uncomfortable with the way you look then go get a gym membership.. i mean seriously!! :) but anyways i hop i helped! and also wear DARK wash jeans! :)Fashion advice guys, what to wear for my shape?
curvy is good (:
1. make sure you wear a waist belt to give the impression of a small waist. your clothing doesnt have to be tight so this will avoid the problem of tight on the tummy, but by wearing a belt you are giving shape to what you are wearing.
2. wear plain bottoms to draw attention away from the thighs, hips and legs and pattern over the chest area so people will focus on the top half ie your chest.
3 avoid skinny jeans./trousers-jeans that go out at the bottom will balance out your figure and make youre hips appear smaller.
4 Finally, dont wear horizontal stripes as they will just make you appear wider.
basically, you want fabric to skim across the areas you want to hide whilst accentuate areas like the chest and waist.
you have a lovely figure:)
I would say you have a pretty common body type, at least compared to most of the women I know. Umpire waisted shirts usually look great, they emphasize the cleavage some, and flow out more towards the torso, creating a more flattering look. Large hips and thighs need jeans that are solid colors and don't have whiskering or flap pockets on the rear. I have a few friends who have larger hips and thighs and they sometimes shop at this store called Bebe, in the mall. Good luck :)
-Sam
You need to wear flaired trousers to balance out your hips. Also, wear a v necked, but not to low to show your clevage. Also, to show off your waist, wear a belt to nip you in at the smallest part of your waist.
A good place would also be to look on Gok's website to go along with his programmed, Gok's fashion fix.
Hope this helps.
Your a curvy goddess! You could dress up in gorgeous dresses with waist belts, this makes your waist smaller and your curviness look amazing. Take Whitney Thompson, winner of Americas Next Top Model Cycle 10 as a clothing idol.
girl im 13%26amp;i have a 38c%26amp;rlly skinney so u got nda compaired 2 memaybelline
Im in between sizes. On my tops im a 12, but for my bottom's, i vary from size 12 to 14, i have a bit of a waist, so sometimes i find that 12 is too tight on my tummy, and a 14 fits on my stomach, but too baggy for my legs! Its a nightmare!!!
I would call myself an apple shape, i have 36b boobs, a 32'; waist, large hips and thighs. What shape would that make me?
I need advice on what styles of clothing i should be wearing to flatter my shape?
Thankyou! :)Fashion advice guys, what to wear for my shape?
why dont you try a corset. like underneath your stuff... it sucks everyine in and makes you look skinnier.. or you could get a proper fitting bra, or a push-up to make yourself look hotter.. try wearing things like babydoll tops because they fitt you on your skinny parts.. like the boobs, and right underneath the boobs but the stomache its loose.. other tops would be the wrap around kinds.. and if your REALLY uncomfortable with the way you look then go get a gym membership.. i mean seriously!! :) but anyways i hop i helped! and also wear DARK wash jeans! :)Fashion advice guys, what to wear for my shape?
curvy is good (:
1. make sure you wear a waist belt to give the impression of a small waist. your clothing doesnt have to be tight so this will avoid the problem of tight on the tummy, but by wearing a belt you are giving shape to what you are wearing.
2. wear plain bottoms to draw attention away from the thighs, hips and legs and pattern over the chest area so people will focus on the top half ie your chest.
3 avoid skinny jeans./trousers-jeans that go out at the bottom will balance out your figure and make youre hips appear smaller.
4 Finally, dont wear horizontal stripes as they will just make you appear wider.
basically, you want fabric to skim across the areas you want to hide whilst accentuate areas like the chest and waist.
you have a lovely figure:)
I would say you have a pretty common body type, at least compared to most of the women I know. Umpire waisted shirts usually look great, they emphasize the cleavage some, and flow out more towards the torso, creating a more flattering look. Large hips and thighs need jeans that are solid colors and don't have whiskering or flap pockets on the rear. I have a few friends who have larger hips and thighs and they sometimes shop at this store called Bebe, in the mall. Good luck :)
-Sam
You need to wear flaired trousers to balance out your hips. Also, wear a v necked, but not to low to show your clevage. Also, to show off your waist, wear a belt to nip you in at the smallest part of your waist.
A good place would also be to look on Gok's website to go along with his programmed, Gok's fashion fix.
Hope this helps.
Your a curvy goddess! You could dress up in gorgeous dresses with waist belts, this makes your waist smaller and your curviness look amazing. Take Whitney Thompson, winner of Americas Next Top Model Cycle 10 as a clothing idol.
girl im 13%26amp;i have a 38c%26amp;rlly skinney so u got nda compaired 2 me
BOYFRIEND ADVICE.. GUYS AND GIRLS.?
I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years now. I met him when I was 17 and he was 21 through a friend. Within the first 2 years of our relationship he lived 45 minutes away from me and I'd only see him on the weekends. We never fought EVER. Finally he moved out of his parents house. (his dad still pays for him to live and he doesnt have a job, meaning: i don't pay anything either) I moved in with him for a year then moved out for 6 months because we didn't get along. We would get in fights all the time. I moved back in expecting things to get better but they have only got worse. Here are some abnormal things we do. Why would we both put up with this type of behavior?
1) We spend every minute together. Such as: When we work, we are on the phone with the other person. When we go to class, the other person is listening from inside their pocket. weird right?
2) When we get into a fight we call up our families and complain about eachother. Within an hour everything is back to 'normal' but our families are still upset.
3) We say hurtful things to eachother when we fight. He said to me that he wishes I would die. It's shocking i know, it was to me too. Plus, We call eachother names.
4) There is NO... absolutely NO trust.
5) We stay together even though we make eachothers lives hell.
We control eachothers lives and we take advantage of it. I know that he likes to smoke 2 or 3 cigs a day. If he makes me upset I take them and hide them and a fight starts because of that. I like to go tan but he doesnt like to wait the 20 minutes so he won't go with me if he's upset.
I need some advice PLEASE!
*Is there a way to get trust back in a relationship?
Any way to save this longterm relationship or am I wasting my time?
*Would you ever tolerate a girl/guy wanting to be such a large part of your life?BOYFRIEND ADVICE.. GUYS AND GIRLS.?
The only way to save a relationship is to become understanding to partner's wants and needs. Plus, if you feel that you still love him and he still loves you -try to understand him first and give him the chance to express what he really feels for you. If you feel that there is no way of making the relationship work, you can then decide to let yourselves enjoy the freedom of being single again.BOYFRIEND ADVICE.. GUYS AND GIRLS.?
OK, I dont know if I would tolerate this, but they say that the best couples fight every so often, but it sounds like you guys fight a lot.
To get back the trust, maybe take a break from it. Take some time off from each other and if it turns out that one of you doesnt wanna get back with the other than thats the way it should be. But taking time off would give each of you time to do whatever and blow off steam and when you get back together, it will be like a fresh start. hope this helps.
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Space is necessary. You both have maturing to do, and you should consider taking a little break. That does not sound healthy. It sounds like something I went through, and trust me....people NEVER CHANGE unless they want themselves to. You can't do much to make a person be something they're not...it's instilled in their minds to be that way. You can always try, there's always hope, don't give up completely.
I think he's a little too old for you, and its normal that you feel so attached to him because youve been together for do long.
I think you guys shouldn't do too much stuff together for like a week to see how that feels.
if you really love him stay if not pause the relationship
and tell him stop being a pussy and stop smoking cigs. he should roll 1 up instead ;)
1) We spend every minute together. Such as: When we work, we are on the phone with the other person. When we go to class, the other person is listening from inside their pocket. weird right?
2) When we get into a fight we call up our families and complain about eachother. Within an hour everything is back to 'normal' but our families are still upset.
3) We say hurtful things to eachother when we fight. He said to me that he wishes I would die. It's shocking i know, it was to me too. Plus, We call eachother names.
4) There is NO... absolutely NO trust.
5) We stay together even though we make eachothers lives hell.
We control eachothers lives and we take advantage of it. I know that he likes to smoke 2 or 3 cigs a day. If he makes me upset I take them and hide them and a fight starts because of that. I like to go tan but he doesnt like to wait the 20 minutes so he won't go with me if he's upset.
I need some advice PLEASE!
*Is there a way to get trust back in a relationship?
Any way to save this longterm relationship or am I wasting my time?
*Would you ever tolerate a girl/guy wanting to be such a large part of your life?BOYFRIEND ADVICE.. GUYS AND GIRLS.?
The only way to save a relationship is to become understanding to partner's wants and needs. Plus, if you feel that you still love him and he still loves you -try to understand him first and give him the chance to express what he really feels for you. If you feel that there is no way of making the relationship work, you can then decide to let yourselves enjoy the freedom of being single again.BOYFRIEND ADVICE.. GUYS AND GIRLS.?
OK, I dont know if I would tolerate this, but they say that the best couples fight every so often, but it sounds like you guys fight a lot.
To get back the trust, maybe take a break from it. Take some time off from each other and if it turns out that one of you doesnt wanna get back with the other than thats the way it should be. But taking time off would give each of you time to do whatever and blow off steam and when you get back together, it will be like a fresh start. hope this helps.
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Space is necessary. You both have maturing to do, and you should consider taking a little break. That does not sound healthy. It sounds like something I went through, and trust me....people NEVER CHANGE unless they want themselves to. You can't do much to make a person be something they're not...it's instilled in their minds to be that way. You can always try, there's always hope, don't give up completely.
I think he's a little too old for you, and its normal that you feel so attached to him because youve been together for do long.
I think you guys shouldn't do too much stuff together for like a week to see how that feels.
if you really love him stay if not pause the relationship
and tell him stop being a pussy and stop smoking cigs. he should roll 1 up instead ;)
Girl Advice (Guys AND Girls please answer)?
Loneliness seems like it never breaks. For two months now I have been single. Let me tell you, it's been starting to get on my nerves. I'm the kind of guy that really loves relationships. I mean, I'm normally an optimist but I've been a hard core pessimist lately. Especially in the last few days when it really hit me.
I've tried getting to know girls and then after awhile I've asked them out. First one said no because ';she wasn't dating at the moment.'; Next one said that apparently I'm ';too good'; for her.
Last one, the one I currently have the biggest crush of all on, and I think I may have even fallen in love with her, Randi. We've been really good friends for awhile now. Only problem is she has a boy friend. A big freaking idiot if you ask me. I sit next to him in Latin and if she knew anything that he talks about in there she would dump him without a second thought. For instance, he's only doing this because he mad a big freaking bet with a friend that he could last two months. And he's one of the biggest perverts alive. But he hides this from her. But I can't tell her any of this. I mean she knows I like her and she would just hate me if I said anything.
So basically what I'm saying is that I am in a lonely state that just can't be broken. Hell I even wrote a poem about it:
I have nothing to hold on to,
Nothing to live by,
Nothing to breathe through,
And nothing to break my fall.
What more is a simple raft,
Than a piece of wood,
If it has no paddle to row,
Nor sail to catch wind?
I'm stranded out at sea,
My only companion a broken floorboard;
How I'll get back,
I just can't know.
I've tried to paddle with bare hands and feet,
But the waves keep pushing me back;
I've tried searching for a lifeline,
But none can be found in this oversized lake.
I've tried a dive to scavenge for food,
But the current keeps pushing me out;
I've tried to drink from the endless waters,
But the salt threatens to gag me.
I call for help in a loud echo,
Yet even I can't hear my own voice;
The only company I have is a raft,
To keep me above the loneliness threatening to engulf me.
So as you can see, this hurts a lot guys. I mean I'm even guilty of crying because of this. One time I almost just completely broke down in tears right in the middle of the hall because I saw Randi holding hands with he boyfriend. I know this may sound pathetic or even creepy but... i don't know. I really just need to talk about this to people cause I deny to talk to people I know. But I would absolutely LOVE any advice or suggestions ANYONE can give! Thanks!Girl Advice (Guys AND Girls please answer)?
Yeah the first three are crap answers.
Anyway I haven't been going out with anyone for years. I don't know what to say about it. I'm 17 and never really had a boyfriend. You haven't been in a relationship for 2 months and you're already lonely. I guess it takes a lot to get used to the fact you are alone. Here and there I will feel really bad that I don't date but I'm too afraid to fall in love or go out with someone. I want to cry myself as I type this. This is a very emotional situation.
here's a fact for you, unless Randi is like those obsessed girls on lifetime, she'll break up with that dumb kid and go for you. She will realize. I would just hang out with her more. MAKE HER LAUGH! be really nice to her. Maybe hang out after school? You don't want to get to being ';just a friend'; so the whole time just ';pretend'; you're going out with her and it will make the vibes between you different.
Sorry this is a lame answer but I hope that you feel better. Don't be ashamed to cry. You're the one a lot of girls would prefer. Someone who actually cares and gives a damn.Girl Advice (Guys AND Girls please answer)?
1) You don't love her. That **** is not love
2) Suck it the **** up. My god, girls say they like sensitive guys but they really don't. Get over yourself.
i dontt havee an answerrr
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Grow a pair and ask her out... and for God's sake, stop crying in public... the ';sensitive'; act won't work... girls like *******... the worse they are treated, the more they come back to the ******.
You need to get in touch with your inner ******. Don't fawn over her... ignore her... she'll come to you.
Well, if the other guy only intends to last 2 months, then I suppose the fact that Randi likes him doesnt really matter anyways. I'd say there's no need to be upset about them if you know it wont last.
As for loving Randi, I say go for it. Maybe you should stick friends for a bit, maybe even best friends, then go for the final prize. Just take it slow (especially after they break u, cos u dont just wanna be the re-bound guy), but not so slow it gets frustrating. See what she likes. Get to know her if that's what she wants. Does she talk to you about celebs she thinks are hot or anything? Maybe you should act like them (unless they're cocky little assholes). I say just be a little rugged, but a gentleman to her (work-outs shouldnt go a-miss either).
You're right not to tell her what he says though, just really be there for her after it's over. Be a good guy to her, but masculine at the same time.
Cya
If you've only hit a slump for a couple months, it's not the end of the world! I used to date a million guys all the time, then i got a guy for a year and a half. After i broke up with him, it took about six to get back in the swing of things. Remember, you're in a fish filled sea. You'll find that angelfish surrounded by those piranahs. I LOVE relationships, but it's worth a little wait for you to find that one. I found one after six months... Well, i liked him a couple years ago, and i wooed him after my split with my boyfriend. Here's your options: You can wait the two months and be there for her to cry on and woo her that way, try to win her over the boyfriend she has now, but, If she doesn't work... in no time, you'll find someone else if you quit focusing on that one girl. Lots of times... guys don't have bets... they just either feel embarrassed or they dont liked being called out, so they say they do... I've ran into that PLENTY of times
Awwww, i'm sorry.
:(( I have been single for 15 years.
(Don't freak, i'm not like a 40 year old virgin, i'm 15.)
Never had a bf before. I see your problem, it happens to me
alllll the freakin' time. And yes, it hurts. BAD.
You should type a note out and rat him out.
ORRRR just tell her yourself.
Be like,
';Randi i need to talk to you.
Promise not to get mad? (Make her promise)
I'm telling you this because i care about you,
(then tell her what a creep he is.)';
I can assure you she won't get mad at YOU.
If she does, sorry.
Good luck. Just keep going and follow your heart.
If you want her, FIGHT FOR HER!
AND WHAT THE HELL?!
What's up with these idiots that answered your question?!
DONT LISTEN TO THEM.
Girls like nice boys!
TRRRRRRRRRRRUSTTTTT MEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!
Well you are right, its a little creepy, and a little sad, but at least you are getting it out there. I might suggest, depending on your age, you focus a little more on work, or school, or a hobby, and let things happen man. I have found that when I am lonely thinking about it makes it worse. Instead be productive and not so emo(no disrespect to you) about it. Its life man, let the things that will be happen, and it will get better. Also, talking from experience, if you legitimatelylike this girl, let it be know, it will be a test of courage for you. Drop SUBTLE(don't be over the top while she has a boyfriend) hints to her, flirt, tell her she is pretty, those sorts of things. She will eventually come around, and if she doesn't well, chalk it up to experience and find the next one, at least you got some practice trying to woo a woman, and use it on the next on. Best of luck
This must be hard for you but if its just 2 months surely if you wait it out and then when she gets dumped you can try to be with her.
But don't tell her you knew about the guys bet or she will be angry with you for not telling her.nothing good will come of telling her.
Good Luck with her im sure after its over she will want you too
To be fair, you need to sort your own **** out before you do anything. Being single sucks ***, but the fact that you're in tears over a girl who isn't yours with a douchebag boyfriend means you really aren't right in the head at the moment.
Take a minute and just think. Check yourself. Is she REALLY that important to you, or do you just need someone you can depend on to hold you up, to give you strength, do you need someone else to live for?
Because if the answer is yes, you need to stop thinking, and stop trying to get yourself into relationships. If that is the case, you need to stop, think about who you really are, find out why you really need that love from someone else, and learn to love yourself, so that you don't have to rely on someone else being there.
I mean don't get me wrong, I love being in a relationship just as much as the next guy, but Randi's got a pussy dude, she doesn't need another one, and if you're dependent in a relationship, that's all you're going to look like to her.
Also, pro tip, bring a tape recorder to Latin and Record Captain Douchebag saying that **** about her, and send her the tape in the mail anonymously. Watch the fun ensue.
I've tried getting to know girls and then after awhile I've asked them out. First one said no because ';she wasn't dating at the moment.'; Next one said that apparently I'm ';too good'; for her.
Last one, the one I currently have the biggest crush of all on, and I think I may have even fallen in love with her, Randi. We've been really good friends for awhile now. Only problem is she has a boy friend. A big freaking idiot if you ask me. I sit next to him in Latin and if she knew anything that he talks about in there she would dump him without a second thought. For instance, he's only doing this because he mad a big freaking bet with a friend that he could last two months. And he's one of the biggest perverts alive. But he hides this from her. But I can't tell her any of this. I mean she knows I like her and she would just hate me if I said anything.
So basically what I'm saying is that I am in a lonely state that just can't be broken. Hell I even wrote a poem about it:
I have nothing to hold on to,
Nothing to live by,
Nothing to breathe through,
And nothing to break my fall.
What more is a simple raft,
Than a piece of wood,
If it has no paddle to row,
Nor sail to catch wind?
I'm stranded out at sea,
My only companion a broken floorboard;
How I'll get back,
I just can't know.
I've tried to paddle with bare hands and feet,
But the waves keep pushing me back;
I've tried searching for a lifeline,
But none can be found in this oversized lake.
I've tried a dive to scavenge for food,
But the current keeps pushing me out;
I've tried to drink from the endless waters,
But the salt threatens to gag me.
I call for help in a loud echo,
Yet even I can't hear my own voice;
The only company I have is a raft,
To keep me above the loneliness threatening to engulf me.
So as you can see, this hurts a lot guys. I mean I'm even guilty of crying because of this. One time I almost just completely broke down in tears right in the middle of the hall because I saw Randi holding hands with he boyfriend. I know this may sound pathetic or even creepy but... i don't know. I really just need to talk about this to people cause I deny to talk to people I know. But I would absolutely LOVE any advice or suggestions ANYONE can give! Thanks!Girl Advice (Guys AND Girls please answer)?
Yeah the first three are crap answers.
Anyway I haven't been going out with anyone for years. I don't know what to say about it. I'm 17 and never really had a boyfriend. You haven't been in a relationship for 2 months and you're already lonely. I guess it takes a lot to get used to the fact you are alone. Here and there I will feel really bad that I don't date but I'm too afraid to fall in love or go out with someone. I want to cry myself as I type this. This is a very emotional situation.
here's a fact for you, unless Randi is like those obsessed girls on lifetime, she'll break up with that dumb kid and go for you. She will realize. I would just hang out with her more. MAKE HER LAUGH! be really nice to her. Maybe hang out after school? You don't want to get to being ';just a friend'; so the whole time just ';pretend'; you're going out with her and it will make the vibes between you different.
Sorry this is a lame answer but I hope that you feel better. Don't be ashamed to cry. You're the one a lot of girls would prefer. Someone who actually cares and gives a damn.Girl Advice (Guys AND Girls please answer)?
1) You don't love her. That **** is not love
2) Suck it the **** up. My god, girls say they like sensitive guys but they really don't. Get over yourself.
i dontt havee an answerrr
jusst a comment , alicee is angry (:
Grow a pair and ask her out... and for God's sake, stop crying in public... the ';sensitive'; act won't work... girls like *******... the worse they are treated, the more they come back to the ******.
You need to get in touch with your inner ******. Don't fawn over her... ignore her... she'll come to you.
Well, if the other guy only intends to last 2 months, then I suppose the fact that Randi likes him doesnt really matter anyways. I'd say there's no need to be upset about them if you know it wont last.
As for loving Randi, I say go for it. Maybe you should stick friends for a bit, maybe even best friends, then go for the final prize. Just take it slow (especially after they break u, cos u dont just wanna be the re-bound guy), but not so slow it gets frustrating. See what she likes. Get to know her if that's what she wants. Does she talk to you about celebs she thinks are hot or anything? Maybe you should act like them (unless they're cocky little assholes). I say just be a little rugged, but a gentleman to her (work-outs shouldnt go a-miss either).
You're right not to tell her what he says though, just really be there for her after it's over. Be a good guy to her, but masculine at the same time.
Cya
If you've only hit a slump for a couple months, it's not the end of the world! I used to date a million guys all the time, then i got a guy for a year and a half. After i broke up with him, it took about six to get back in the swing of things. Remember, you're in a fish filled sea. You'll find that angelfish surrounded by those piranahs. I LOVE relationships, but it's worth a little wait for you to find that one. I found one after six months... Well, i liked him a couple years ago, and i wooed him after my split with my boyfriend. Here's your options: You can wait the two months and be there for her to cry on and woo her that way, try to win her over the boyfriend she has now, but, If she doesn't work... in no time, you'll find someone else if you quit focusing on that one girl. Lots of times... guys don't have bets... they just either feel embarrassed or they dont liked being called out, so they say they do... I've ran into that PLENTY of times
Awwww, i'm sorry.
:(( I have been single for 15 years.
(Don't freak, i'm not like a 40 year old virgin, i'm 15.)
Never had a bf before. I see your problem, it happens to me
alllll the freakin' time. And yes, it hurts. BAD.
You should type a note out and rat him out.
ORRRR just tell her yourself.
Be like,
';Randi i need to talk to you.
Promise not to get mad? (Make her promise)
I'm telling you this because i care about you,
(then tell her what a creep he is.)';
I can assure you she won't get mad at YOU.
If she does, sorry.
Good luck. Just keep going and follow your heart.
If you want her, FIGHT FOR HER!
AND WHAT THE HELL?!
What's up with these idiots that answered your question?!
DONT LISTEN TO THEM.
Girls like nice boys!
TRRRRRRRRRRRUSTTTTT MEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!
Well you are right, its a little creepy, and a little sad, but at least you are getting it out there. I might suggest, depending on your age, you focus a little more on work, or school, or a hobby, and let things happen man. I have found that when I am lonely thinking about it makes it worse. Instead be productive and not so emo(no disrespect to you) about it. Its life man, let the things that will be happen, and it will get better. Also, talking from experience, if you legitimatelylike this girl, let it be know, it will be a test of courage for you. Drop SUBTLE(don't be over the top while she has a boyfriend) hints to her, flirt, tell her she is pretty, those sorts of things. She will eventually come around, and if she doesn't well, chalk it up to experience and find the next one, at least you got some practice trying to woo a woman, and use it on the next on. Best of luck
This must be hard for you but if its just 2 months surely if you wait it out and then when she gets dumped you can try to be with her.
But don't tell her you knew about the guys bet or she will be angry with you for not telling her.nothing good will come of telling her.
Good Luck with her im sure after its over she will want you too
To be fair, you need to sort your own **** out before you do anything. Being single sucks ***, but the fact that you're in tears over a girl who isn't yours with a douchebag boyfriend means you really aren't right in the head at the moment.
Take a minute and just think. Check yourself. Is she REALLY that important to you, or do you just need someone you can depend on to hold you up, to give you strength, do you need someone else to live for?
Because if the answer is yes, you need to stop thinking, and stop trying to get yourself into relationships. If that is the case, you need to stop, think about who you really are, find out why you really need that love from someone else, and learn to love yourself, so that you don't have to rely on someone else being there.
I mean don't get me wrong, I love being in a relationship just as much as the next guy, but Randi's got a pussy dude, she doesn't need another one, and if you're dependent in a relationship, that's all you're going to look like to her.
Also, pro tip, bring a tape recorder to Latin and Record Captain Douchebag saying that **** about her, and send her the tape in the mail anonymously. Watch the fun ensue.
BOYFRIEND ADVICE.. GUYS AND GIRLS.?
I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years now. I met him when I was 17 and he was 21 through a friend. Within the first 2 years of our relationship he lived 45 minutes away from me and I'd only see him on the weekends. We never fought EVER. Finally he moved out of his parents house. (his dad still pays for him to live and he doesnt have a job, meaning: i don't pay anything either) I moved in with him for a year then moved out for 6 months because we didn't get along. We would get in fights all the time. I moved back in expecting things to get better but they have only got worse. Here are some abnormal things we do. Why would we both put up with this type of behavior?
1) We spend every minute together. Such as: When we work, we are on the phone with the other person. When we go to class, the other person is listening from inside their pocket. weird right?
2) When we get into a fight we call up our families and complain about eachother. Within an hour everything is back to 'normal' but our families are still upset.
3) We say hurtful things to eachother when we fight. He said to me that he wishes I would die. It's shocking i know, it was to me too. Plus, We call eachother names.
4) There is NO... absolutely NO trust.
5) We stay together even though we make eachothers lives hell.
We control eachothers lives and we take advantage of it. I know that he likes to smoke 2 or 3 cigs a day. If he makes me upset I take them and hide them and a fight starts because of that. I like to go tan but he doesnt like to wait the 20 minutes so he won't go with me if he's upset.
I need some advice PLEASE!
*Is there a way to get trust back in a relationship?
Any way to save this longterm relationship or am I wasting my time?
*Would you ever tolerate a girl/guy wanting to be such a large part of your life?BOYFRIEND ADVICE.. GUYS AND GIRLS.?
The only way to save a relationship is to become understanding to partner's wants and needs. Plus, if you feel that you still love him and he still loves you -try to understand him first and give him the chance to express what he really feels for you. If you feel that there is no way of making the relationship work, you can then decide to let yourselves enjoy the freedom of being single again.BOYFRIEND ADVICE.. GUYS AND GIRLS.?
OK, I dont know if I would tolerate this, but they say that the best couples fight every so often, but it sounds like you guys fight a lot.
To get back the trust, maybe take a break from it. Take some time off from each other and if it turns out that one of you doesnt wanna get back with the other than thats the way it should be. But taking time off would give each of you time to do whatever and blow off steam and when you get back together, it will be like a fresh start. hope this helps.
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Space is necessary. You both have maturing to do, and you should consider taking a little break. That does not sound healthy. It sounds like something I went through, and trust me....people NEVER CHANGE unless they want themselves to. You can't do much to make a person be something they're not...it's instilled in their minds to be that way. You can always try, there's always hope, don't give up completely.
I think he's a little too old for you, and its normal that you feel so attached to him because youve been together for do long.
I think you guys shouldn't do too much stuff together for like a week to see how that feels.
if you really love him stay if not pause the relationship
and tell him stop being a ***** and stop smoking cigs. he should roll 1 up instead ;)
1) We spend every minute together. Such as: When we work, we are on the phone with the other person. When we go to class, the other person is listening from inside their pocket. weird right?
2) When we get into a fight we call up our families and complain about eachother. Within an hour everything is back to 'normal' but our families are still upset.
3) We say hurtful things to eachother when we fight. He said to me that he wishes I would die. It's shocking i know, it was to me too. Plus, We call eachother names.
4) There is NO... absolutely NO trust.
5) We stay together even though we make eachothers lives hell.
We control eachothers lives and we take advantage of it. I know that he likes to smoke 2 or 3 cigs a day. If he makes me upset I take them and hide them and a fight starts because of that. I like to go tan but he doesnt like to wait the 20 minutes so he won't go with me if he's upset.
I need some advice PLEASE!
*Is there a way to get trust back in a relationship?
Any way to save this longterm relationship or am I wasting my time?
*Would you ever tolerate a girl/guy wanting to be such a large part of your life?BOYFRIEND ADVICE.. GUYS AND GIRLS.?
The only way to save a relationship is to become understanding to partner's wants and needs. Plus, if you feel that you still love him and he still loves you -try to understand him first and give him the chance to express what he really feels for you. If you feel that there is no way of making the relationship work, you can then decide to let yourselves enjoy the freedom of being single again.BOYFRIEND ADVICE.. GUYS AND GIRLS.?
OK, I dont know if I would tolerate this, but they say that the best couples fight every so often, but it sounds like you guys fight a lot.
To get back the trust, maybe take a break from it. Take some time off from each other and if it turns out that one of you doesnt wanna get back with the other than thats the way it should be. But taking time off would give each of you time to do whatever and blow off steam and when you get back together, it will be like a fresh start. hope this helps.
answer mine:
http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Aj73sh9mv0XeGMI.P2C_wWgazKIX;_ylv=3?qid=20091011201838AAdmjBo
Space is necessary. You both have maturing to do, and you should consider taking a little break. That does not sound healthy. It sounds like something I went through, and trust me....people NEVER CHANGE unless they want themselves to. You can't do much to make a person be something they're not...it's instilled in their minds to be that way. You can always try, there's always hope, don't give up completely.
I think he's a little too old for you, and its normal that you feel so attached to him because youve been together for do long.
I think you guys shouldn't do too much stuff together for like a week to see how that feels.
if you really love him stay if not pause the relationship
and tell him stop being a ***** and stop smoking cigs. he should roll 1 up instead ;)
Fashion advice guys, what to wear for my shape?
Hey,
Im in between sizes. On my tops im a 12, but for my bottom's, i vary from size 12 to 14, i have a bit of a waist, so sometimes i find that 12 is too tight on my tummy, and a 14 fits on my stomach, but too baggy for my legs! Its a nightmare!!!
I would call myself an apple shape, i have 36b boobs, a 32'; waist, large hips and thighs. What shape would that make me?
I need advice on what styles of clothing i should be wearing to flatter my shape?
Thankyou! :)Fashion advice guys, what to wear for my shape?
why dont you try a corset. like underneath your stuff... it sucks everyine in and makes you look skinnier.. or you could get a proper fitting bra, or a push-up to make yourself look hotter.. try wearing things like babydoll tops because they fitt you on your skinny parts.. like the boobs, and right underneath the boobs but the stomache its loose.. other tops would be the wrap around kinds.. and if your REALLY uncomfortable with the way you look then go get a gym membership.. i mean seriously!! :) but anyways i hop i helped! and also wear DARK wash jeans! :)Fashion advice guys, what to wear for my shape?
curvy is good (:
1. make sure you wear a waist belt to give the impression of a small waist. your clothing doesnt have to be tight so this will avoid the problem of tight on the tummy, but by wearing a belt you are giving shape to what you are wearing.
2. wear plain bottoms to draw attention away from the thighs, hips and legs and pattern over the chest area so people will focus on the top half ie your chest.
3 avoid skinny jeans./trousers-jeans that go out at the bottom will balance out your figure and make youre hips appear smaller.
4 Finally, dont wear horizontal stripes as they will just make you appear wider.
basically, you want fabric to skim across the areas you want to hide whilst accentuate areas like the chest and waist.
you have a lovely figure:)
I would say you have a pretty common body type, at least compared to most of the women I know. Umpire waisted shirts usually look great, they emphasize the cleavage some, and flow out more towards the torso, creating a more flattering look. Large hips and thighs need jeans that are solid colors and don't have whiskering or flap pockets on the rear. I have a few friends who have larger hips and thighs and they sometimes shop at this store called Bebe, in the mall. Good luck :)
-Sam
You need to wear flaired trousers to balance out your hips. Also, wear a v necked, but not to low to show your clevage. Also, to show off your waist, wear a belt to nip you in at the smallest part of your waist.
A good place would also be to look on Gok's website to go along with his programmed, Gok's fashion fix.
Hope this helps.
Your a curvy goddess! You could dress up in gorgeous dresses with waist belts, this makes your waist smaller and your curviness look amazing. Take Whitney Thompson, winner of Americas Next Top Model Cycle 10 as a clothing idol.
girl im 13%26amp;i have a 38c%26amp;rlly skinney so u got nda compaired 2 me
Im in between sizes. On my tops im a 12, but for my bottom's, i vary from size 12 to 14, i have a bit of a waist, so sometimes i find that 12 is too tight on my tummy, and a 14 fits on my stomach, but too baggy for my legs! Its a nightmare!!!
I would call myself an apple shape, i have 36b boobs, a 32'; waist, large hips and thighs. What shape would that make me?
I need advice on what styles of clothing i should be wearing to flatter my shape?
Thankyou! :)Fashion advice guys, what to wear for my shape?
why dont you try a corset. like underneath your stuff... it sucks everyine in and makes you look skinnier.. or you could get a proper fitting bra, or a push-up to make yourself look hotter.. try wearing things like babydoll tops because they fitt you on your skinny parts.. like the boobs, and right underneath the boobs but the stomache its loose.. other tops would be the wrap around kinds.. and if your REALLY uncomfortable with the way you look then go get a gym membership.. i mean seriously!! :) but anyways i hop i helped! and also wear DARK wash jeans! :)Fashion advice guys, what to wear for my shape?
curvy is good (:
1. make sure you wear a waist belt to give the impression of a small waist. your clothing doesnt have to be tight so this will avoid the problem of tight on the tummy, but by wearing a belt you are giving shape to what you are wearing.
2. wear plain bottoms to draw attention away from the thighs, hips and legs and pattern over the chest area so people will focus on the top half ie your chest.
3 avoid skinny jeans./trousers-jeans that go out at the bottom will balance out your figure and make youre hips appear smaller.
4 Finally, dont wear horizontal stripes as they will just make you appear wider.
basically, you want fabric to skim across the areas you want to hide whilst accentuate areas like the chest and waist.
you have a lovely figure:)
I would say you have a pretty common body type, at least compared to most of the women I know. Umpire waisted shirts usually look great, they emphasize the cleavage some, and flow out more towards the torso, creating a more flattering look. Large hips and thighs need jeans that are solid colors and don't have whiskering or flap pockets on the rear. I have a few friends who have larger hips and thighs and they sometimes shop at this store called Bebe, in the mall. Good luck :)
-Sam
You need to wear flaired trousers to balance out your hips. Also, wear a v necked, but not to low to show your clevage. Also, to show off your waist, wear a belt to nip you in at the smallest part of your waist.
A good place would also be to look on Gok's website to go along with his programmed, Gok's fashion fix.
Hope this helps.
Your a curvy goddess! You could dress up in gorgeous dresses with waist belts, this makes your waist smaller and your curviness look amazing. Take Whitney Thompson, winner of Americas Next Top Model Cycle 10 as a clothing idol.
girl im 13%26amp;i have a 38c%26amp;rlly skinney so u got nda compaired 2 me
***>>>NEED ADVICE GUYS???<<<***?
Me and this guy have known eachother for about 3 years and have had an off again on again type of relationship. We have never been b/f and g/f (we are both in our late 20's). We have mostly been friends and FWB. I'm not a fan of the FWB thing and there has been alot of drama between us, but you live and learn I guess. My question is a year and a half ago we has messed around and I thought I was PG and had a miscarriage. I told him that I might have been before the miscarriage happened and he laughed at me and told me whatever and was a complete jerk to me. He said just have an abortion or something I can't have kids I'm sterile and just laughed. I hung up on him and found out I did have a miscarriage a little later. I never told him. We didn't talk for a year, he went back out with ex. Then recently we started to talk again a few months ago and he told me that he was broken up with his ex and made me believe he wanted to be with me. Then turned it back on me when I started to have feelings for him. I just don't get it. Well the other night we got into an argument over text and I told him that I didn't want to talk to him anymore and told him that something happened a year ago that I'm sure he could figure out. (it was bothering me so I had to tell him). He sent a text back like 3 hours later saying if you were trying to tell me you had an abortion or a miscarriage that is pretty F**ked up. And that was it. What does that mean? I'm sure he doesn't believe me. I asked him what he meant, but he hasn't written back yet. I just want to tell him not even to bother writing me back..ever again. Why would he say something like that???***%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;NEED ADVICE GUYS???%26lt;%26lt;%26lt;***?
i have never been in that kind of situation so i can't really say anything
i have never been in that kind of situation so i can't really say anything
Boyfriend advice guys?
I want to be more comfortable around my boyfriend. i think that i'm not because he is so shy, but i don't wanna blame him or anything. We are a new couple, but we have liked each other for the past year or so. I really want to hold his hand and hug him and stuff, but im so shy and self consious. I know that i shouldn't force it, but we have been together for two months. i'm gonna try and get the confidence by friday, but is there any advice that might make me more comfortable? He is 16 and im 15. thank you!Boyfriend advice guys?
what helps me is that i dont think about what i want to do i just do it. with my bf if he doesnt want to kiss or something ill kiss him on the cheek. when i want to hug him i just rap my arms around his neck and tell him he means a lot to me. if you have never held hands before what i learned was during a movie play the poke game. poke his leg till he pokes you back but dont poke every second. every once in a while do it.once he pokes u back poke him again till you start having a poking war or whatever. then poke his hand but if he hasnt grabbed ur hand by then, then tell him to open his hand up with his palm up and kinda tickle his hand. be kind of touchy feely. if he doesnt try and hold your hand by then, match your hands up so that palms are together. and then move your fingers where his arnt and start to kind of grab his hand. i hope this advice works for you like it did for me! good luck!Boyfriend advice guys?
Give it some time. It sounds like you both are shy, and really, two months is not that long of a time. It takes a while to really get to know a person and become comfortable with them.
im sure hes nervous to. i bet you that if you make a move he'll make a move back..as in getting less nervous
id say to... probally just hold his hand and start from there
Just grab his hand just hug him just kiss him, if you can't and if he can't then maybe you two should re-think things.
Just talk to him exactly the same way you talk to us here on Yahoo Answers! Tell him what you just wrote!maybelline
what helps me is that i dont think about what i want to do i just do it. with my bf if he doesnt want to kiss or something ill kiss him on the cheek. when i want to hug him i just rap my arms around his neck and tell him he means a lot to me. if you have never held hands before what i learned was during a movie play the poke game. poke his leg till he pokes you back but dont poke every second. every once in a while do it.once he pokes u back poke him again till you start having a poking war or whatever. then poke his hand but if he hasnt grabbed ur hand by then, then tell him to open his hand up with his palm up and kinda tickle his hand. be kind of touchy feely. if he doesnt try and hold your hand by then, match your hands up so that palms are together. and then move your fingers where his arnt and start to kind of grab his hand. i hope this advice works for you like it did for me! good luck!Boyfriend advice guys?
Give it some time. It sounds like you both are shy, and really, two months is not that long of a time. It takes a while to really get to know a person and become comfortable with them.
im sure hes nervous to. i bet you that if you make a move he'll make a move back..as in getting less nervous
id say to... probally just hold his hand and start from there
Just grab his hand just hug him just kiss him, if you can't and if he can't then maybe you two should re-think things.
Just talk to him exactly the same way you talk to us here on Yahoo Answers! Tell him what you just wrote!
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Ok, so this guy John knows i like him, and he is cool with it, but now this girl who i THOUGHT was my friend is ALWAYS sending him notes! and shes so pretty and funny that i think he might start to like her! i've been telling her to stop but she just says she's not doing anything! UGH!!! any tips on what to do?? Since i sit next to him in geography i was thinking i could start passing him notes, too, so he could start noticing me more. But what should I talk about (im gonna do it tomorrow)?
GUYS: do you think it would be weird to just pass a note saying ';hey whats up?'; and then just talk about school or something? or what do YOU think is a good idea for a girl to talk to YOU about??
thanks for all your help! = )HELP / ADVICE?! GUYS MAINLY but girls too!!!?
how old are you?
Anyways play footsie, you know? play with his feet with yours.
Ask to borrow something pass him a note about anything ask id he wants to hang out this weekend or go to the movies drop your pencil and bend down to get it (wearing a skirt) right in front of him even if your wering leggings so he dosent ';see'; anything he will like the ideaHELP / ADVICE?! GUYS MAINLY but girls too!!!?
Well if you don't have anything to talk about in your notes to him, ask him if he wants to hang out one time. That way, you will have things to talk about, plus you'll be one up on your friend becuase you spent time with him. But if you friend is trying to move in on a guy she knows you like, thats pretty rude, not a true friend! Good Luck!
write him a note asking him if he likes sex...that will get his attention. take it from there.
whatever you do dont let him know you feel in competition or jealous of this other girl\
your confidence with yourself will catch his eye alot faster than the green-eyed monster of jealousy
Talk to him. And if you must pass notes, hey what's up is an alright thing to say, i guess. and things to talk to him about depends on what he's like. if he's really athletic, then talk about him. if he is popular, talk about him, if he is anything else talk about you.
just send a nice note going ';man this is boring...'; and then talk about something that happened, maybe. or ask some interesting question
Wait until you have something to say to him.
write:
lets do something this weekend
He isn't just going to just decide to like you. If he knows you like him and he's cool with that, then why not pass notes? Usually you become friends before you start going out (at least in my experience... i'm not insanely good looking, so I kind of have to talk to people to get them to notice me). However, direct conversation is much more fluid than note-writing, so maybe hang out with whoever he hangs out with at lunch, and if you're nervous about going there to find him, then maybe start talking to him after class is over and work from there. I don't know. i'm still a guy, maybe not the best person to listen to.
Talk about anything. It doesn't matter what, really. And if it doesnt work (conversation doesm't flow well), just forget about it.
Oh, and I agree with whoever just said that if he's already going out with her to just leave it be. She's still your friend, and you don't want that suppressed hostility to build up. My gf's two best friends are... well, sort of fighting over this one guy (one thinks the other likes him, so she's annoyed with her). it's ugly.
Pass that note. But make sure he's the one you want.
pass him notes..;)
but if he knows you like him and he hasnt put the move on you i'd just move on.
yea go for it. and maybe ask him out so he REALLY notices you.
ok if you were a guy and your friend does that to a girl that you like then that would be called ';c*ck blocking'; or in this case, erm ';vag blocking';
just talk and start out with ';wussup'; you know? say something like ';this class blows';, etc etc maybe a game of hangman? tic tac toe?
just ask him out to a movie...be confidant and make a move. Passing notes is so sillyyyyyyy
confidence is the key.
also, if he likes your friend better, then dont bother asking him out. cause if you does go out with you, your friend will be on his mind!! it wouldnt work b/w you too then
good luck!
no pass him a note
no, that wouldnt be strange at all. i wrote a note to a girl today and it was about absolutely nothing. well, technically i wrote 2 notes because the first 1 got taken away and then the teacher yelled at me, so i just wrote her another one. but that wouldnt be strange to me.
dont send him notes instead try to get along with him and youll be ahead your competition. invite him to a party or something
Go for it
forget about him
pass hima note and start a conversation with him and make him fall for u and always compliment him
The note's not weird. If you try too hard you might come across as needy, which might not be good. If that girl is really your friend, she wouldn't be trying to pull that **** and then act like she isn't doing anything. It's cut-throat and undermines your intelligence.
Yeah start the note like that and when its kinda close to the end of class, then ask him if he wants to hang out at lunch
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Kay here's what the note should say
Hey John!!!
hehe my friend _______________ ( whatever that girls name was ) passes you notes alot, doesn't she! lol Yeah she doesn't like you just so you know. I'm serious. So whats up
Make convorsation
How old are you
and email me with the deets.
Irishsweetie1512@yahoo.com
If it was meant to be, it was meant to be. If he decides not to like you, its his loss, and it shows you could do better anyways. =) BUT in the mean time, go for it! MAKE him notice you. Put your friend to shame. lol. =D
If you're serious about this guy, then you should talk to him directly when possible(break time, lunch, after school, etc.).
Notes are not exactly the best way to go about things other than letting them know something, ie: I'd like to talk to you about something. When is a good time for you?
Simple notes like 'Do you like me?' are lame and as someone else said silly in others eyes and they may in turn laugh at you and I know that's not what you want.
Either send a note like I described above or just catch him at some point and talk to him directly. It may be scary, but sometimes the direct approch is the best way.
PS: If you're really scared to talk yo him directly until you know, then write him a letter and get it to him in some fashion (stick it in his locker if you have them, stick it in his backpack when he isn't look; be creative if you want). That should help more so than a note. You decide.
Well, you should talk to him more. And if the girl is your friend, you can talk to her and tell her your feelings about him. She might back off if she IS a friend. If she doesnt care, just stay calm. Dont pass notes, 1. because you'll get in trouble and the teacher will read it aloud. 2. He might think your scared to talk to him or something. So basically just talk to him more. Talk about stuff he likes. ect.
~Good Luck
Sweetheart, he is a guy you like, and if you feel that he is important to you, and you do want to go out with him and only him. Then go for it, write him a note about how you truly feel, and ask him to hang out with you. like to get to know him more. yah know.! but if he does pick the girl or he is more with the chick i would just give it up. I wouldn't fight over a guy if my life depended on it. when you like someone, my method is go for the relatioship, if it doesn't work its not meant to be. Got me. good. luck.!
you should go with that i guess.
wut grade u in?
GUYS: do you think it would be weird to just pass a note saying ';hey whats up?'; and then just talk about school or something? or what do YOU think is a good idea for a girl to talk to YOU about??
thanks for all your help! = )HELP / ADVICE?! GUYS MAINLY but girls too!!!?
how old are you?
Anyways play footsie, you know? play with his feet with yours.
Ask to borrow something pass him a note about anything ask id he wants to hang out this weekend or go to the movies drop your pencil and bend down to get it (wearing a skirt) right in front of him even if your wering leggings so he dosent ';see'; anything he will like the ideaHELP / ADVICE?! GUYS MAINLY but girls too!!!?
Well if you don't have anything to talk about in your notes to him, ask him if he wants to hang out one time. That way, you will have things to talk about, plus you'll be one up on your friend becuase you spent time with him. But if you friend is trying to move in on a guy she knows you like, thats pretty rude, not a true friend! Good Luck!
write him a note asking him if he likes sex...that will get his attention. take it from there.
whatever you do dont let him know you feel in competition or jealous of this other girl\
your confidence with yourself will catch his eye alot faster than the green-eyed monster of jealousy
Talk to him. And if you must pass notes, hey what's up is an alright thing to say, i guess. and things to talk to him about depends on what he's like. if he's really athletic, then talk about him. if he is popular, talk about him, if he is anything else talk about you.
just send a nice note going ';man this is boring...'; and then talk about something that happened, maybe. or ask some interesting question
Wait until you have something to say to him.
write:
lets do something this weekend
He isn't just going to just decide to like you. If he knows you like him and he's cool with that, then why not pass notes? Usually you become friends before you start going out (at least in my experience... i'm not insanely good looking, so I kind of have to talk to people to get them to notice me). However, direct conversation is much more fluid than note-writing, so maybe hang out with whoever he hangs out with at lunch, and if you're nervous about going there to find him, then maybe start talking to him after class is over and work from there. I don't know. i'm still a guy, maybe not the best person to listen to.
Talk about anything. It doesn't matter what, really. And if it doesnt work (conversation doesm't flow well), just forget about it.
Oh, and I agree with whoever just said that if he's already going out with her to just leave it be. She's still your friend, and you don't want that suppressed hostility to build up. My gf's two best friends are... well, sort of fighting over this one guy (one thinks the other likes him, so she's annoyed with her). it's ugly.
Pass that note. But make sure he's the one you want.
pass him notes..;)
but if he knows you like him and he hasnt put the move on you i'd just move on.
yea go for it. and maybe ask him out so he REALLY notices you.
ok if you were a guy and your friend does that to a girl that you like then that would be called ';c*ck blocking'; or in this case, erm ';vag blocking';
just talk and start out with ';wussup'; you know? say something like ';this class blows';, etc etc maybe a game of hangman? tic tac toe?
just ask him out to a movie...be confidant and make a move. Passing notes is so sillyyyyyyy
confidence is the key.
also, if he likes your friend better, then dont bother asking him out. cause if you does go out with you, your friend will be on his mind!! it wouldnt work b/w you too then
good luck!
no pass him a note
no, that wouldnt be strange at all. i wrote a note to a girl today and it was about absolutely nothing. well, technically i wrote 2 notes because the first 1 got taken away and then the teacher yelled at me, so i just wrote her another one. but that wouldnt be strange to me.
dont send him notes instead try to get along with him and youll be ahead your competition. invite him to a party or something
Go for it
forget about him
pass hima note and start a conversation with him and make him fall for u and always compliment him
The note's not weird. If you try too hard you might come across as needy, which might not be good. If that girl is really your friend, she wouldn't be trying to pull that **** and then act like she isn't doing anything. It's cut-throat and undermines your intelligence.
Yeah start the note like that and when its kinda close to the end of class, then ask him if he wants to hang out at lunch
Answer my question too please
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?…
Kay here's what the note should say
Hey John!!!
hehe my friend _______________ ( whatever that girls name was ) passes you notes alot, doesn't she! lol Yeah she doesn't like you just so you know. I'm serious. So whats up
Make convorsation
How old are you
and email me with the deets.
Irishsweetie1512@yahoo.com
If it was meant to be, it was meant to be. If he decides not to like you, its his loss, and it shows you could do better anyways. =) BUT in the mean time, go for it! MAKE him notice you. Put your friend to shame. lol. =D
If you're serious about this guy, then you should talk to him directly when possible(break time, lunch, after school, etc.).
Notes are not exactly the best way to go about things other than letting them know something, ie: I'd like to talk to you about something. When is a good time for you?
Simple notes like 'Do you like me?' are lame and as someone else said silly in others eyes and they may in turn laugh at you and I know that's not what you want.
Either send a note like I described above or just catch him at some point and talk to him directly. It may be scary, but sometimes the direct approch is the best way.
PS: If you're really scared to talk yo him directly until you know, then write him a letter and get it to him in some fashion (stick it in his locker if you have them, stick it in his backpack when he isn't look; be creative if you want). That should help more so than a note. You decide.
Well, you should talk to him more. And if the girl is your friend, you can talk to her and tell her your feelings about him. She might back off if she IS a friend. If she doesnt care, just stay calm. Dont pass notes, 1. because you'll get in trouble and the teacher will read it aloud. 2. He might think your scared to talk to him or something. So basically just talk to him more. Talk about stuff he likes. ect.
~Good Luck
Sweetheart, he is a guy you like, and if you feel that he is important to you, and you do want to go out with him and only him. Then go for it, write him a note about how you truly feel, and ask him to hang out with you. like to get to know him more. yah know.! but if he does pick the girl or he is more with the chick i would just give it up. I wouldn't fight over a guy if my life depended on it. when you like someone, my method is go for the relatioship, if it doesn't work its not meant to be. Got me. good. luck.!
you should go with that i guess.
wut grade u in?
Serious advice-guys perspective could be helpful?
So, I just got divorced three months ago. my ex and I have a child together. while we were married he repeatedly left us and came back. He punched me in the face and after two and half years I filed for divorce. I am with someone now( who I have known since I was 16) and my ex is now wanting me back. Saying he will do anything and even if i get married to my new boyfriend he will still tell me he loves me. My new guy is in Iraq and will be back in December. My ex has to come to my house for visitations with our daughter bc of him never being around she doesnt know him very well. The guy im with now wants to be a family man. He is crazy about my daughter. He is nice to me. Im torn. I want to make the right decision for my daughter, but I see no potential in my ex. He always says he will change and never does. Help Guys why is my ex doing this now?!Serious advice-guys perspective could be helpful?
Well for alot of people like this abuse be it sexual, physical, or emotional is a cycle. First the abuse occurs, it keeps going on until it reaches a breaking point, then the guilty party will apologize for said actions, and then after a while the abuse will occur again until it reaches a new breaking point. The answer is simple, some people just dont know how to let things go, you broke the cycle and left him and now he cant stand the fact that you have moved on. Now think about this really carefully, if this person was willing to punch you in the face do you really believe its best for him to be around your daughter. Your ex is doing this because he really wants you back, but if you take him back the cycle will continue, and you will blow your chances with what is seemingly a good family guy who is serving his country. You know what to do, dont be disloyal to someone who is trying so hard to do everything right. Instead stay away from the one who WILL wrong you.
Well for alot of people like this abuse be it sexual, physical, or emotional is a cycle. First the abuse occurs, it keeps going on until it reaches a breaking point, then the guilty party will apologize for said actions, and then after a while the abuse will occur again until it reaches a new breaking point. The answer is simple, some people just dont know how to let things go, you broke the cycle and left him and now he cant stand the fact that you have moved on. Now think about this really carefully, if this person was willing to punch you in the face do you really believe its best for him to be around your daughter. Your ex is doing this because he really wants you back, but if you take him back the cycle will continue, and you will blow your chances with what is seemingly a good family guy who is serving his country. You know what to do, dont be disloyal to someone who is trying so hard to do everything right. Instead stay away from the one who WILL wrong you.
*****ANY ADVICE GUYS????******?
So I have known this guy for about 3 years. When we did meet he was over in Iraq, we talked alot and basically really liked eachother. Before he came home we had a long talk about his cousins best friend (with whom he previously had slight feelings for but they never dated) he wanted to try things with her. It bothered me because we had deep feelings for eachother. I thought. So he comes home from Iraq, we talk every now and then, he starts dating this other girl, then he tells her that she needs to date other people and basically he it seemed (now I know) that he rebounded on me, we would see eachother often, hook up, go out do things. I fall hard, I was naieve, and stupid. Then me and him kind of went our seperate ways again because him and his ex got back together, which basically broke my heart and I kirked out on him. So we stopped talking for a year and then recently we started talking again, just general life things. We goof around as good friends would (I just am the type that forgives too easily I think and doesn't hold grudges) so I was over it (after a year) and didn't see him as anything more than a friend because of how he hurt me before. Well as we continued to talk more frequently he said that him and his ex broke up, she re-enlisted for another 3 years overseas and supposedly they want different things. He's ready for a family, she wants to continue her military career. He tried to move there he told me, but doesn't want to move anymore and can't find a job. So we met one night, drank, watched a movie, and he said how interested he was in me ALL night, said he made a mistake yadda yadda. We got intimate (it shouldn't have happened and I told him I didn't want to prior to us meeting because I was afraid those old feelings would come back and he agreed (it seemed)). Then we saw eachother the following weekend and went to dinner and a movie which was nice and I went home. The following weekend after that I came to his house and we watched a movie, drank just a few beers and it was like he starts again with cuddling me and just looking at me like he was so interested, like we were a couple. We got intimate again and I said that I can't do it anymore. The intimacy. I just felt disgusted with myself, because I don't want to be that rebound girl ya know. He of course agreed, which I think is a load of crap and said that there will be no more intimacy anytime soon since he is not ready for a relationship anytime soon.
My question is..after the first time we saw eachother again after awhile recently...he seemed so interested, wanting to drive an hour to see me etc..then says when I questioned his motives gets defensive and then says that he is interested, but doesn't know what he wants right now and that he's not ready for a relationship. There is alot more stuff about all this but too much to write. So now he wont' text me anymore like he did a few weeks ago, at all. Won't IM me at all. If I wrote him he would respond, but that's it.
What should I do?? Leave him alone, just be friends, or try and talk it out with him (which when I asked him why he doesn't seem so interested now, he shuts up and says ';I don't want to talk about this right now'; ) I just don't get it.
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We were talking on IM last night too and it seems that he thinks I'm being ';obssessive'; which seriously I have NO clue what he's talking about. I have asked him why he doesn't seem interested anymore (of course joking around, but also being serious) but I had no idea that meant being ';obssessive';..I feel like he is saying that because he still has feelings for his ex and really didn't like me to begin with...I mean what is asking questions because your curious about something and trying to talk about it obssessive?? lol I just think that is funny. What is his deal?? Do guys really think that???
And today just so I would try and get over it faster I posted a comment on my AIM saying that had a date tonight and he texted me and said date huh? that's exciting...and I just said yeah..and he was like woot woot. What was that about???????? Why would he even care??*****ANY ADVICE GUYS????******?
He is only cheater for girls nothing else.
Hoe is not in love he like only do sex with more girls.
Kick him and find a new good boyfriend.*****ANY ADVICE GUYS????******?
let him come to you dont chase him if hes interested hell come back
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Just move on. Why do you spend time to someone who doesn't care about you. It's clear as day. He's just using you. Hope i helped. And on another note, be concise and be as brief as possible.
He doesn't want to be and a relationship because he ';isn't ready'; and you said you're the kind of person that falls hard. You'll get hurt by this guy again if you let it happen! and it seems like he's just treating you like a hook up. If i was in your position i wouldn't waste my time on him. It's okay if you keep being friends (if you both can handle that without getting ';intimate'; again) but move on, go out, meet other guys out there. There are a few good ones, it's just gonna take you sometime to find them.
My question is..after the first time we saw eachother again after awhile recently...he seemed so interested, wanting to drive an hour to see me etc..then says when I questioned his motives gets defensive and then says that he is interested, but doesn't know what he wants right now and that he's not ready for a relationship. There is alot more stuff about all this but too much to write. So now he wont' text me anymore like he did a few weeks ago, at all. Won't IM me at all. If I wrote him he would respond, but that's it.
What should I do?? Leave him alone, just be friends, or try and talk it out with him (which when I asked him why he doesn't seem so interested now, he shuts up and says ';I don't want to talk about this right now'; ) I just don't get it.
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We were talking on IM last night too and it seems that he thinks I'm being ';obssessive'; which seriously I have NO clue what he's talking about. I have asked him why he doesn't seem interested anymore (of course joking around, but also being serious) but I had no idea that meant being ';obssessive';..I feel like he is saying that because he still has feelings for his ex and really didn't like me to begin with...I mean what is asking questions because your curious about something and trying to talk about it obssessive?? lol I just think that is funny. What is his deal?? Do guys really think that???
And today just so I would try and get over it faster I posted a comment on my AIM saying that had a date tonight and he texted me and said date huh? that's exciting...and I just said yeah..and he was like woot woot. What was that about???????? Why would he even care??*****ANY ADVICE GUYS????******?
He is only cheater for girls nothing else.
Hoe is not in love he like only do sex with more girls.
Kick him and find a new good boyfriend.*****ANY ADVICE GUYS????******?
let him come to you dont chase him if hes interested hell come back
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Just move on. Why do you spend time to someone who doesn't care about you. It's clear as day. He's just using you. Hope i helped. And on another note, be concise and be as brief as possible.
He doesn't want to be and a relationship because he ';isn't ready'; and you said you're the kind of person that falls hard. You'll get hurt by this guy again if you let it happen! and it seems like he's just treating you like a hook up. If i was in your position i wouldn't waste my time on him. It's okay if you keep being friends (if you both can handle that without getting ';intimate'; again) but move on, go out, meet other guys out there. There are a few good ones, it's just gonna take you sometime to find them.
Girls Advice? (guys too!)Why can't I just ask?
All my friends have the courage to ask a guy out or w/e and they always end up dating somone but then theres me..I have never had a bf :|
I am most sertainly NOT desperate. i just want to finally meet the right guy and have the courage to ask him out!
The Valentines dance is coming up soon and there are some guys i like but they barely know me... well one is in my class and he kind of likes me but alot of girls are crushing on him so i dont know what to do.
What should I do at the dance? Well I know i should ask him to dance but after that what can I do to get to know him better and eventually some day ask him out...? I am confident but I have lvery low self esteem so what can i do to make myself feel better and not make an idiot of myself infront of a bunch of people. And how do I know who not to date and who would be ok to date?
As you can tell im new to this. please no rude comments =]Girls Advice? (guys too!)Why can't I just ask?
Saying you are confident and have very low self esteem is a complete contradiction. The best thing to do when you have low self esteem is to hang around people who you think are the most confident. Soon you will realize they arent as great as they potray themselves. You need to let loose but give up on trying to find somebody who is ok to date. Just make friends and things will begin to evolve and your intuition will tell you is right for yourself. Dont rush it, because you always end up messing things up when you do that. Personality overrules everything so be yourself and you shall conquer the world and people will want to be around your beautiful spirit especially boys.Girls Advice? (guys too!)Why can't I just ask?
go out skating or to the mall or to a party with a group of yours and his friends thats how you get to know him :)
but makee sure the friedn you choose to go with you are not slutty, flirty or would steal him
goodluck girlly!
um just go for it like dance on him on the dance girl dont be scared talk to him ask for his number
HAVE SEX WITH EVERY MAN
I am most sertainly NOT desperate. i just want to finally meet the right guy and have the courage to ask him out!
The Valentines dance is coming up soon and there are some guys i like but they barely know me... well one is in my class and he kind of likes me but alot of girls are crushing on him so i dont know what to do.
What should I do at the dance? Well I know i should ask him to dance but after that what can I do to get to know him better and eventually some day ask him out...? I am confident but I have lvery low self esteem so what can i do to make myself feel better and not make an idiot of myself infront of a bunch of people. And how do I know who not to date and who would be ok to date?
As you can tell im new to this. please no rude comments =]Girls Advice? (guys too!)Why can't I just ask?
Saying you are confident and have very low self esteem is a complete contradiction. The best thing to do when you have low self esteem is to hang around people who you think are the most confident. Soon you will realize they arent as great as they potray themselves. You need to let loose but give up on trying to find somebody who is ok to date. Just make friends and things will begin to evolve and your intuition will tell you is right for yourself. Dont rush it, because you always end up messing things up when you do that. Personality overrules everything so be yourself and you shall conquer the world and people will want to be around your beautiful spirit especially boys.Girls Advice? (guys too!)Why can't I just ask?
go out skating or to the mall or to a party with a group of yours and his friends thats how you get to know him :)
but makee sure the friedn you choose to go with you are not slutty, flirty or would steal him
goodluck girlly!
um just go for it like dance on him on the dance girl dont be scared talk to him ask for his number
HAVE SEX WITH EVERY MAN
Need Advice! Guys and Girls!?
I really like this guy in my year. I know him really well and I'd call him one of my best friends. How can i let him know I have feelings for him without him being overwhelmed as he is fairly shy when it comes to relationships infact he has never had one. I wouldn't know what to say. I have been texting him and I said how he always made me happy and he said how I was so caring, sweet and really kind and he's always teasing me. I can't stop thinking about him! Could he have feelings for me as well?
Were both going to a friends 16th party should I tell him and how? Remember, he's not really had a relationship!
Thanyou! xxxxx
Need Advice! Guys and Girls!?
The first step is what you have take; being friends. Just ask him if you guys can move up to the next level and see what happens from there...Need Advice! Guys and Girls!?
Well, i think that he does like you, that much is obvious. He obviously knows deep down how you feel about him, as you have said how he makes you happy. Just ask him if he wants to go to the party with you.. it's not really like going on a date as you know he is going anyway. That might ease into it, and if you have a good time, ask to do something with you another time, like cinema or something.
You've said plenty to him already. Any fool could figure out that you like him. Don't do anything rash by pouring your heart out to him. Just keep things light and funny so he can see what a great person you are. Then when he can't take not having more out of your relationship, he will pounce. Of course, you have to remain prepared for the other possibility - that there are no feelings from his side at all. But it sounds like things are coming to a head for you whether you say something to him or not.
From what you have said it sounds like he likes you too. Just be calm, and suggest going to the cinema or something... Once you have spent time with him on your own you can gauge it, then decide whether to tell him. I would keep it all light hearted he seems shy and you dont want to scare it away.
Good luck Darling x
He definitely sounds like he is attracted to you as well. I'm a shy guy and I would really like it if the girl took me aside one day and told me she was attracted to me. That would be really sweet.
Maybe then your friend will ask you out but maybe you should do the asking if he seems nervous.
If you don't think he wants pressure, and a straight-out declaration of 'this here is a relationship, yeah, that is what it is, boy'; then don't do that to him!
Ask him about seeing a film... you really want to see it... leave the hint so dropped it is broken in pieces...
Just keep it going...sounds like you guys are slowly drifting into a relationship anyway...all it needs is an ';accidental'; kiss during the party, and a cuddle, and you're there!
Just tell him how you feel, make sure its the right time, but randomly ask him ';do you like me?';
xD thats what I do with everyone especially boys. they all say they like/love me as a friend. ;p
giv it tim itll get there and he probly does hav feelins for u
answer mine plz
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
just tell him you would like to be more than friends and if he would take you to the party if he shy you might need to work on him a bit but he will come around obviously he likes you
start a big game of truth and dare and ask him
or get 1 of ur friends to ask u in front of him
just flirt with him alot and i think he'll get the point :].
works for me.
You've actually got the hard bit out of the way lol .. uve already been speaking to each other as well as texting .. and by the sounds of things he likes you lol congrats
Its really this simple, hes shy you say? Just text him before the party and ask him '; Do you want do you wanna hook up 2 night'; you can rephrase this if you want lol, he should know what hook up means, and if you ask him that it is really also stating ';That i really like you';
If he likes you theres no way he'll say no XD
Remember you should always have confidence when it comes to your feelings
Hope this helps ... Peter
Yeah, i'm pretty sure he has some feelings for you as well.
Maybe before the party ask if he could give you a ride there, and be your ride home too or something. And then when he drops you off you tell him there!
Or, at the end of the party or when you can grab him alone tell him then.
And just start talking to him , and then tell him you have something to tell him. then when he asks what, tell him that lately you've been thinking about him a lot and that you really like him and hope that he feels the same way too.
and whatever happens from there !
good luck :)
Were both going to a friends 16th party should I tell him and how? Remember, he's not really had a relationship!
Thanyou! xxxxx
Need Advice! Guys and Girls!?
The first step is what you have take; being friends. Just ask him if you guys can move up to the next level and see what happens from there...Need Advice! Guys and Girls!?
Well, i think that he does like you, that much is obvious. He obviously knows deep down how you feel about him, as you have said how he makes you happy. Just ask him if he wants to go to the party with you.. it's not really like going on a date as you know he is going anyway. That might ease into it, and if you have a good time, ask to do something with you another time, like cinema or something.
You've said plenty to him already. Any fool could figure out that you like him. Don't do anything rash by pouring your heart out to him. Just keep things light and funny so he can see what a great person you are. Then when he can't take not having more out of your relationship, he will pounce. Of course, you have to remain prepared for the other possibility - that there are no feelings from his side at all. But it sounds like things are coming to a head for you whether you say something to him or not.
From what you have said it sounds like he likes you too. Just be calm, and suggest going to the cinema or something... Once you have spent time with him on your own you can gauge it, then decide whether to tell him. I would keep it all light hearted he seems shy and you dont want to scare it away.
Good luck Darling x
He definitely sounds like he is attracted to you as well. I'm a shy guy and I would really like it if the girl took me aside one day and told me she was attracted to me. That would be really sweet.
Maybe then your friend will ask you out but maybe you should do the asking if he seems nervous.
If you don't think he wants pressure, and a straight-out declaration of 'this here is a relationship, yeah, that is what it is, boy'; then don't do that to him!
Ask him about seeing a film... you really want to see it... leave the hint so dropped it is broken in pieces...
Just keep it going...sounds like you guys are slowly drifting into a relationship anyway...all it needs is an ';accidental'; kiss during the party, and a cuddle, and you're there!
Just tell him how you feel, make sure its the right time, but randomly ask him ';do you like me?';
xD thats what I do with everyone especially boys. they all say they like/love me as a friend. ;p
giv it tim itll get there and he probly does hav feelins for u
answer mine plz
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
just tell him you would like to be more than friends and if he would take you to the party if he shy you might need to work on him a bit but he will come around obviously he likes you
start a big game of truth and dare and ask him
or get 1 of ur friends to ask u in front of him
just flirt with him alot and i think he'll get the point :].
works for me.
You've actually got the hard bit out of the way lol .. uve already been speaking to each other as well as texting .. and by the sounds of things he likes you lol congrats
Its really this simple, hes shy you say? Just text him before the party and ask him '; Do you want do you wanna hook up 2 night'; you can rephrase this if you want lol, he should know what hook up means, and if you ask him that it is really also stating ';That i really like you';
If he likes you theres no way he'll say no XD
Remember you should always have confidence when it comes to your feelings
Hope this helps ... Peter
Yeah, i'm pretty sure he has some feelings for you as well.
Maybe before the party ask if he could give you a ride there, and be your ride home too or something. And then when he drops you off you tell him there!
Or, at the end of the party or when you can grab him alone tell him then.
And just start talking to him , and then tell him you have something to tell him. then when he asks what, tell him that lately you've been thinking about him a lot and that you really like him and hope that he feels the same way too.
and whatever happens from there !
good luck :)
Boy advice: guys or girls?
ok so i am a freshman in high school
%26amp; this weekend was our school homecoming
i didnt go with a date i just went with my guy and girl friends in a group
they also didnt have dates, because we wanted to have more fun
but at the dance a guy i know in my grade, we arent exacly friends..
him and me started dancing and he kept asking me to again.
it seemed like he kinda liked me but, he was dancing with a couple
other girls, but it seemed different because they just went up to him.
%26amp; today he talked to me a little more then usual.
and i think i might like him.
i have the same lunch hour as him and i sat with them the last 10 mins.
should i start flirting/catching his eye??
HELP MEBoy advice: guys or girls?
Just make some eye contact, laugh at his jokes, be there for him as a friend. You'll probably be dating soon. Boy advice: guys or girls?
well in my view.. its just that your instincts are asking you to start this.. but in this age , teen i.e. eople are vulnerable and if you start such things they go long and sometimes end up bitter.
So my advice should be to concentrate on studies and get good in acreer.
This would be like being parents to you and you wouldnt like this advice, but its life.. i hev been thru such things and have had consequences, so its just a advice .
yes of corse you should! sounds exciting, go for it!maybelline
%26amp; this weekend was our school homecoming
i didnt go with a date i just went with my guy and girl friends in a group
they also didnt have dates, because we wanted to have more fun
but at the dance a guy i know in my grade, we arent exacly friends..
him and me started dancing and he kept asking me to again.
it seemed like he kinda liked me but, he was dancing with a couple
other girls, but it seemed different because they just went up to him.
%26amp; today he talked to me a little more then usual.
and i think i might like him.
i have the same lunch hour as him and i sat with them the last 10 mins.
should i start flirting/catching his eye??
HELP MEBoy advice: guys or girls?
Just make some eye contact, laugh at his jokes, be there for him as a friend. You'll probably be dating soon. Boy advice: guys or girls?
well in my view.. its just that your instincts are asking you to start this.. but in this age , teen i.e. eople are vulnerable and if you start such things they go long and sometimes end up bitter.
So my advice should be to concentrate on studies and get good in acreer.
This would be like being parents to you and you wouldnt like this advice, but its life.. i hev been thru such things and have had consequences, so its just a advice .
yes of corse you should! sounds exciting, go for it!
Need advice!!! Guys please read, what would you do if...?
Last night at a party, this 16 year old guy and I (I'm 14) went for a walk in the woods, and then it started down pouring so we sat under a tree and talked about just about everything and anything, and then eventually we laid down on the leaves under the tree (his idea) and we laid silently under the tree for about an hour, and when I said I was cold, pulled me up next to him and cuddled with me and held me close and tight, and he didn't do anything suggestive, like he wanted to have sex or anything. And then I apologized (while laying there) for not being one of those slutty drunk girls he's used to (he was telling me the girls at his school), and he said for me not to apologize, that it was really nice and he was comfortable and calm and happy. When we stood up to walk back to the party, we hugged and he put his arm around me as we walked.
I'm not friends with him on Facebook, and I really really like him and want to see him again, so guys, put yourselves in his shoes and:
Should I say anything to him? If so, what?
I really want to see him again but i don't want to seem too forward... idk... advice, please! Thanks :)Need advice!!! Guys please read, what would you do if...?
Make sure if its love or lustNeed advice!!! Guys please read, what would you do if...?
look im a guy i liked a girl for awihle but whenever i loked at her she acted shy i was stupid at the time and couldent tell if she liked me(she actually really did and i missed out) i say be forward and ask him out for a smoothie or something try not to be a slut but a little trampy isnt bad every once in awihle.
i hope i helped you Avionn
Yeh you should definitely say something
to him. Don't be to reckless though saying '; I like you';
just be friendly by saying '; want to go hang sometime?';
If I don't know better I believe the guy probably
felt the same mutual feeling you did that night.
Add him on Facebook lol. I would definitely remember a girl that I spent like 2 hours with in the woods lol. And all that stuff he did - well, looks like he likes you too lol.
to be honest, most guys like to test their strengths. see what kind of girls they can pull off. how many girls, different kinda girls. i'd let him be. sounds like he's experimenting. make him come to you, that'd make him respect you a little more.
um you should try talking to him more and taking it slow and don't try to be his girlfriend yet and don't forget that you are 14 and he's 16. And don't change into one of those slutty drunks to be wit him.
I am a girl but that is so sweet. You could try to just go and talk to him. Some guys don't mind when girls are being forward. Good luck.
just give him some sighns that you like him and if he doesnt pick up on any of them if he doesnt because some guys are like that then go forward ask him to go to a movie with you or something like that hope this helps.
Oh my gosh you lucky thing! Add him on facebook, do anything lol he seems really nice and i think you should try talking to him again! Don't worry about being too forward:) go for it!
ask him out he sounds nice and it doesn't sound like hes trying to get in your pants ether just sound like he wants to tri some thing new if you know what i mean
gays should be destroyed have a girlfriend a loyol one not a bossy type
sounds like a nice kid call him
he's a player
cant you tell?
Well, if he ain't your friend in Facebook.... Sigh...
He's 16, he's smart, he's smooth, he's a bloke.
You're 14 [Trophy like ''I banged a 2 years younger girl], you're obviously quite naive [You considered Facebook mentionworthy with this dilemma], you weren't drunk so he told you how much better YOU are than other girls he knows in order to get in your panties.
Things he'd like to hear:
Hiya, it's me! Let's go all the way tonight ;)
Hiya, let's act like nothing happened if you don't want to but I'd like you to know that I'm interested in a relationship with you.
Wanna be my boyfriend? :')
Things you should say:
You tried to exploit me, act nice or otherwise I'll sue your ***.
Let's forget the thing that happened under the tree and start out fresh.
Let's make out!
hes a player and hes 2 years older than! ur probably in 8th grade and hes in 10th-11th - thats not the right time of having a bf of that age, and i think that you shouldnt rush of having a bf now just to prove to youf riends that ur capable of getting 1. im sure ur a very hot girl who will grow into a beautiful young woman/lady and then you will be probably able to get ANY guy you want =)
I'm not friends with him on Facebook, and I really really like him and want to see him again, so guys, put yourselves in his shoes and:
Should I say anything to him? If so, what?
I really want to see him again but i don't want to seem too forward... idk... advice, please! Thanks :)Need advice!!! Guys please read, what would you do if...?
Make sure if its love or lustNeed advice!!! Guys please read, what would you do if...?
look im a guy i liked a girl for awihle but whenever i loked at her she acted shy i was stupid at the time and couldent tell if she liked me(she actually really did and i missed out) i say be forward and ask him out for a smoothie or something try not to be a slut but a little trampy isnt bad every once in awihle.
i hope i helped you Avionn
Yeh you should definitely say something
to him. Don't be to reckless though saying '; I like you';
just be friendly by saying '; want to go hang sometime?';
If I don't know better I believe the guy probably
felt the same mutual feeling you did that night.
Add him on Facebook lol. I would definitely remember a girl that I spent like 2 hours with in the woods lol. And all that stuff he did - well, looks like he likes you too lol.
to be honest, most guys like to test their strengths. see what kind of girls they can pull off. how many girls, different kinda girls. i'd let him be. sounds like he's experimenting. make him come to you, that'd make him respect you a little more.
um you should try talking to him more and taking it slow and don't try to be his girlfriend yet and don't forget that you are 14 and he's 16. And don't change into one of those slutty drunks to be wit him.
I am a girl but that is so sweet. You could try to just go and talk to him. Some guys don't mind when girls are being forward. Good luck.
just give him some sighns that you like him and if he doesnt pick up on any of them if he doesnt because some guys are like that then go forward ask him to go to a movie with you or something like that hope this helps.
Oh my gosh you lucky thing! Add him on facebook, do anything lol he seems really nice and i think you should try talking to him again! Don't worry about being too forward:) go for it!
ask him out he sounds nice and it doesn't sound like hes trying to get in your pants ether just sound like he wants to tri some thing new if you know what i mean
gays should be destroyed have a girlfriend a loyol one not a bossy type
sounds like a nice kid call him
he's a player
cant you tell?
Well, if he ain't your friend in Facebook.... Sigh...
He's 16, he's smart, he's smooth, he's a bloke.
You're 14 [Trophy like ''I banged a 2 years younger girl], you're obviously quite naive [You considered Facebook mentionworthy with this dilemma], you weren't drunk so he told you how much better YOU are than other girls he knows in order to get in your panties.
Things he'd like to hear:
Hiya, it's me! Let's go all the way tonight ;)
Hiya, let's act like nothing happened if you don't want to but I'd like you to know that I'm interested in a relationship with you.
Wanna be my boyfriend? :')
Things you should say:
You tried to exploit me, act nice or otherwise I'll sue your ***.
Let's forget the thing that happened under the tree and start out fresh.
Let's make out!
hes a player and hes 2 years older than! ur probably in 8th grade and hes in 10th-11th - thats not the right time of having a bf of that age, and i think that you shouldnt rush of having a bf now just to prove to youf riends that ur capable of getting 1. im sure ur a very hot girl who will grow into a beautiful young woman/lady and then you will be probably able to get ANY guy you want =)
SEX ADVICE.... guys and girls please help me?
Right, i've been sexually active for 4 years, and have been with my current boyfriend for 1 year!
I am confident when it comes to sex except for when it come to me going on top/ rideing him.
I don't know how to do it! Obviously i've done it, but I feel like im not doing it great or it comes out... I'm doing the wrong movements... PLEASE SOME ONE TELL ME EXACTLY HOW I AM SUPPOSED TO MOVE, PUT MY HANDS ETC!SEX ADVICE.... guys and girls please help me?
When you are riding; you can either lean forward or go backwards.
maybe put your hands on his chest with leaning forward; it makes them feel better and kinda stronger in a way.
Ride gently would be helpfulSEX ADVICE.... guys and girls please help me?
ok if it keeps falling out you are most likely sitting to far up on him but you could be to far back also but most likely to far forward so try scooting back a little since you are on top and you have a leg on each side of him there will be a deeper penetration and your balance should be ok you are in control in this position so have fun and make sure that you are enjoying yourself you can have your hands almost any where try one on each side of him palm down and then you can lean down to kiss or nibble him but do that slowly or you can run your hands on your body and give him a show or on his Body for extra pleasure
Just go with it. Being on top is one of the best positions! It gives you full control of the amount of pleasure you're getting and guys love it. Just do what feels good to you. Practice moving your hips in different ways and see what feels best (up and down, circular motions, etc.) Most likely if you're into and enjoying it, the guy will be too. Try not to let it stress you and just have fun!
http://www.sexinfo101.com/sp_asiancowgir鈥?/a>
this should show you some infoo sweetiee :)
also when on top, the guy could always help a bit with his hands and his movement, instead of going up and down try to do a more smoother movement, like you see on that link I sent you :)
Hi there rqfan I will tell you exactly what to do. E-mail me at samretep@yahoo.com. It'll work what I am going to tell you but I will tel you in E-mail because it's very explicit to put up for thw world to see. But don't be shy. Just E-mail me and I'll tell you everything.
once it starts to feel good you just do it. You move so it feels good to you. It's not a how to or a how do I look thing.
Watch porn. They are pros and know how to do it right :)
I am confident when it comes to sex except for when it come to me going on top/ rideing him.
I don't know how to do it! Obviously i've done it, but I feel like im not doing it great or it comes out... I'm doing the wrong movements... PLEASE SOME ONE TELL ME EXACTLY HOW I AM SUPPOSED TO MOVE, PUT MY HANDS ETC!SEX ADVICE.... guys and girls please help me?
When you are riding; you can either lean forward or go backwards.
maybe put your hands on his chest with leaning forward; it makes them feel better and kinda stronger in a way.
Ride gently would be helpfulSEX ADVICE.... guys and girls please help me?
ok if it keeps falling out you are most likely sitting to far up on him but you could be to far back also but most likely to far forward so try scooting back a little since you are on top and you have a leg on each side of him there will be a deeper penetration and your balance should be ok you are in control in this position so have fun and make sure that you are enjoying yourself you can have your hands almost any where try one on each side of him palm down and then you can lean down to kiss or nibble him but do that slowly or you can run your hands on your body and give him a show or on his Body for extra pleasure
Just go with it. Being on top is one of the best positions! It gives you full control of the amount of pleasure you're getting and guys love it. Just do what feels good to you. Practice moving your hips in different ways and see what feels best (up and down, circular motions, etc.) Most likely if you're into and enjoying it, the guy will be too. Try not to let it stress you and just have fun!
http://www.sexinfo101.com/sp_asiancowgir鈥?/a>
this should show you some infoo sweetiee :)
also when on top, the guy could always help a bit with his hands and his movement, instead of going up and down try to do a more smoother movement, like you see on that link I sent you :)
Hi there rqfan I will tell you exactly what to do. E-mail me at samretep@yahoo.com. It'll work what I am going to tell you but I will tel you in E-mail because it's very explicit to put up for thw world to see. But don't be shy. Just E-mail me and I'll tell you everything.
once it starts to feel good you just do it. You move so it feels good to you. It's not a how to or a how do I look thing.
Watch porn. They are pros and know how to do it right :)
Need advice....guys only?
ok my ex and i broke up 2 years ago and after we broke up we remained friends and would sometimes hook up (kiss). i found out that he now has a new girlfriend (he didnt tell me) which ill admit hurts a bit because i still love him...he still calls me every now and then even though hes in a relationship...i just told him to stop calling me and texting me because its the only way that i can move on and get my mind off of him...he said ';you got it'; and got all angry that i told him to stop contacting me...do you think what i said was wrong?? im trying my best to move on and by him calling me its gonna make it worse...what do u guys think??Need advice....guys only?
no you werent wrong he just wanted to use youNeed advice....guys only?
Well relationships are hard. First off how old are you? How old is he? If you are young anyways tell him I still love you. Give me a 2nd chance. Doesn't work than rehab but thats least suggested. Talk to him about how you feel about whats happening and tell him how depressed you are. Worked with me.
no you werent wrong he just wanted to use youNeed advice....guys only?
Well relationships are hard. First off how old are you? How old is he? If you are young anyways tell him I still love you. Give me a 2nd chance. Doesn't work than rehab but thats least suggested. Talk to him about how you feel about whats happening and tell him how depressed you are. Worked with me.
Uhm advice guys?!?
okay, well, talking about the past. whne i was 16, i lost my virginity because i was kind of drunk, and my boyfriend took advantage of me and i dont remember the night.
now its 4 yrs later, and i never had sex after that, so i sort of consider myself a virgin because i didn't remember the first time i had sex. and i have THE best boyfriend Kyle whose 26 and im 20. hes much more experienced, and last week we were on his couch in his apartment, making out when he started to undress me. i quickly stopped him, and told him that i wasn't ready. and that i was taken advantage of %26amp; he was being really cute about it and said that he could wait for me.
so i dont know when to do it with him. i mean, im developing really strong feelings for him, and it will be our month anniversary soon, so i dont know when to have sex. pls advice?Uhm advice guys?!?
wow, you shouldn't feel pressured by anyone in a month; take your time; if he's ready and you're not thats fine, if he waits thats great, if not he isn't worth being upset about.Uhm advice guys?!?
It doesn't sound like he's pressuring you, so I don't know why you would pressure yourself. Do it when you want to, not because you think you should.
its gonna sound cliche, but youll know when youre ready. youll feel it psychologically and physically. So just let it happen when it happens. Now you can always do other things too if you cant get into the whole intercourse part too. so talk to your boyfriend about it and if he understand then thatss great. Good luck
Only have sex with him when you are ready and feel comfortable with it.
now its 4 yrs later, and i never had sex after that, so i sort of consider myself a virgin because i didn't remember the first time i had sex. and i have THE best boyfriend Kyle whose 26 and im 20. hes much more experienced, and last week we were on his couch in his apartment, making out when he started to undress me. i quickly stopped him, and told him that i wasn't ready. and that i was taken advantage of %26amp; he was being really cute about it and said that he could wait for me.
so i dont know when to do it with him. i mean, im developing really strong feelings for him, and it will be our month anniversary soon, so i dont know when to have sex. pls advice?Uhm advice guys?!?
wow, you shouldn't feel pressured by anyone in a month; take your time; if he's ready and you're not thats fine, if he waits thats great, if not he isn't worth being upset about.Uhm advice guys?!?
It doesn't sound like he's pressuring you, so I don't know why you would pressure yourself. Do it when you want to, not because you think you should.
its gonna sound cliche, but youll know when youre ready. youll feel it psychologically and physically. So just let it happen when it happens. Now you can always do other things too if you cant get into the whole intercourse part too. so talk to your boyfriend about it and if he understand then thatss great. Good luck
Only have sex with him when you are ready and feel comfortable with it.
BOYFRIEND ADVICE??? GUYS AND GIRLS.?
I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years now. I met him when I was 17 and he was 21 through a friend. Within the first 2 years of our relationship he lived 45 minutes away from me and I'd only see him on the weekends. We never fought EVER. Finally he moved out of his parents house. (his dad still pays for him to live and he doesnt have a job, meaning: i don't pay anything either) I moved in with him for a year then moved out for 6 months because we didn't get along. We would get in fights all the time. I moved back in expecting things to get better but they have only got worse. Here are some abnormal things we do. Why would we both put up with this type of behavior?
1) We spend every minute together. Such as: When we work, we are on the phone with the other person. When we go to class, the other person is listening from inside their pocket. weird right?
2) When we get into a fight we call up our families and complain about eachother. Within an hour everything is back to 'normal' but our families are still upset.
3) We say hurtful things to eachother when we fight. He said to me that he wishes I would die. It's shocking i know, it was to me too. Plus, We call eachother names.
4) There is NO... absolutely NO trust.
5) We stay together even though we make eachothers lives hell.
We control eachothers lives and we take advantage of it. I know that he likes to smoke 2 or 3 cigs a day. If he makes me upset I take them and hide them and a fight starts because of that. I like to go tan but he doesnt like to wait the 20 minutes so he won't go with me if he's upset.
I need some advice PLEASE!
*Is there a way to get trust back in a relationship?
Any way to save this longterm relationship or am I wasting my time?
*Would you ever tolerate a girl/guy wanting to be such a large part of your life?BOYFRIEND ADVICE??? GUYS AND GIRLS.?
personally, i think you're wasting your time. it's very hard to make your kind of relationship work because of your trust issues and habitual fighting habits. it is obviously a very stressful relationship... ask yourself: '; do i truly love him?';, ';can i see myself with him in 5 years?'; etc. think about it. if you say no to any of those questions its time to say goodbye. truly answer those questions, and dont just tell yourself what you want to hear. hope i helped a little :] and good luckBOYFRIEND ADVICE??? GUYS AND GIRLS.?
um, every minute? wow, that must be weird when someone has to go to the bathroom. seriously though, you need to get away from that.
ask yourself how much youth i have? should i stay like this any longer?
the answer is inside of your heart only you would know
1) We spend every minute together. Such as: When we work, we are on the phone with the other person. When we go to class, the other person is listening from inside their pocket. weird right?
2) When we get into a fight we call up our families and complain about eachother. Within an hour everything is back to 'normal' but our families are still upset.
3) We say hurtful things to eachother when we fight. He said to me that he wishes I would die. It's shocking i know, it was to me too. Plus, We call eachother names.
4) There is NO... absolutely NO trust.
5) We stay together even though we make eachothers lives hell.
We control eachothers lives and we take advantage of it. I know that he likes to smoke 2 or 3 cigs a day. If he makes me upset I take them and hide them and a fight starts because of that. I like to go tan but he doesnt like to wait the 20 minutes so he won't go with me if he's upset.
I need some advice PLEASE!
*Is there a way to get trust back in a relationship?
Any way to save this longterm relationship or am I wasting my time?
*Would you ever tolerate a girl/guy wanting to be such a large part of your life?BOYFRIEND ADVICE??? GUYS AND GIRLS.?
personally, i think you're wasting your time. it's very hard to make your kind of relationship work because of your trust issues and habitual fighting habits. it is obviously a very stressful relationship... ask yourself: '; do i truly love him?';, ';can i see myself with him in 5 years?'; etc. think about it. if you say no to any of those questions its time to say goodbye. truly answer those questions, and dont just tell yourself what you want to hear. hope i helped a little :] and good luckBOYFRIEND ADVICE??? GUYS AND GIRLS.?
um, every minute? wow, that must be weird when someone has to go to the bathroom. seriously though, you need to get away from that.
ask yourself how much youth i have? should i stay like this any longer?
the answer is inside of your heart only you would know
Relationship advice guys and girls please?
im currently dating this wonderful guy. he is 17, im 14, and he keeps telling me how much he loves me and how much he wants to marry me. and that i make him so hard. like he is a virgin and im not and he wants to lose it to me. but like idk if i love him as much as he loves me. i mean he is a great guy! he has a great personality, funny as hell, perverted as anything, which i like, adorable, he's emo, which is sexy!!!!and he treats me so good. he has never been mean to me and we have never got in a fight. what should i do?Relationship advice guys and girls please?
I won't pretend to be able to tell you what to do about your decision, but I will tell you this:
If you DO have sex with him, do not let ANYONE else know, because you're only 14. That means, in EVERY state, he would be guilty of statutory rape, whether you consented or not, or even if you made the first move. The law says that at 14 you are not old enough to make that kind of a decision, and he WOULD be arrested.Relationship advice guys and girls please?
First of all, there's no reason to be having sex with this guy. You don't even know if you see yourself with him for the long haul. Sex really complicates things and if you sleep with him, he will feel even worse if things don't work out between you two. We can't help who we fall head over heels for, and we can't 'convince' ourselves to fall in love (even with a totally great guy) if it just doesn't happen. I think you should tell him you want to see where the relationship goes for another five months or so and then you'll see how you feel. If he loves you, he'll wait. And by then, you'll probably know better if you really see yourself ending up with this guy.
ok, im 14 too and i personaly wouldnt do it, because however much you try to put it aside hes way older than u.
wich means if u do have sex with him them he can be arrested, wich i gather u soo dont want!,
but i no you probably know all this already so im gonna say,
take it slow wiv him, im not saying u cant touch, but i wouldnt take it further than a make out :)
by tha way he sounds cute ;p emo boiis rule =D hope ive helped ya
You could help him loose it, but I think you should make sure that you really love him and that he's not using you. I'm not saying he would, just open up to the possiblities.
how long have you been dating?
if he really loves you and wants to marry you, he wouldnt be so adament about the sexmaybelline
I won't pretend to be able to tell you what to do about your decision, but I will tell you this:
If you DO have sex with him, do not let ANYONE else know, because you're only 14. That means, in EVERY state, he would be guilty of statutory rape, whether you consented or not, or even if you made the first move. The law says that at 14 you are not old enough to make that kind of a decision, and he WOULD be arrested.Relationship advice guys and girls please?
First of all, there's no reason to be having sex with this guy. You don't even know if you see yourself with him for the long haul. Sex really complicates things and if you sleep with him, he will feel even worse if things don't work out between you two. We can't help who we fall head over heels for, and we can't 'convince' ourselves to fall in love (even with a totally great guy) if it just doesn't happen. I think you should tell him you want to see where the relationship goes for another five months or so and then you'll see how you feel. If he loves you, he'll wait. And by then, you'll probably know better if you really see yourself ending up with this guy.
ok, im 14 too and i personaly wouldnt do it, because however much you try to put it aside hes way older than u.
wich means if u do have sex with him them he can be arrested, wich i gather u soo dont want!,
but i no you probably know all this already so im gonna say,
take it slow wiv him, im not saying u cant touch, but i wouldnt take it further than a make out :)
by tha way he sounds cute ;p emo boiis rule =D hope ive helped ya
You could help him loose it, but I think you should make sure that you really love him and that he's not using you. I'm not saying he would, just open up to the possiblities.
how long have you been dating?
if he really loves you and wants to marry you, he wouldnt be so adament about the sex
Need advice guys please...thanks?
there's this guy that i just recently met and he was sweet and everything but i don't have any interest in him at all. The problem is that i told him that i feel the same way and bla bla ... only because i felt bad and i know im not making the situation any better by lien to him. My question is how do i completely make him stop calling me. He seems a little to interested and he's really sweet which makes it hard. I would avoid him but he goes to the same college as me and has a class next to mine. Please help i really want to stop talking to this guy. Advice pleaseeee!!!Need advice guys please...thanks?
Force yourself to go out to lunch with him. Next time he calls you, tell him he's nice but you just didn't feel the spark you thought might be there and you don't see any romance happening with him.Need advice guys please...thanks?
awww dude yd you do that. Well no matter what you do you are gona hurt this poor guy so do it quik before his feelings become deeper. Do it QUIK!
stop lying and tell him you're not interested?
Force yourself to go out to lunch with him. Next time he calls you, tell him he's nice but you just didn't feel the spark you thought might be there and you don't see any romance happening with him.Need advice guys please...thanks?
awww dude yd you do that. Well no matter what you do you are gona hurt this poor guy so do it quik before his feelings become deeper. Do it QUIK!
stop lying and tell him you're not interested?
Any Advice Guys! I want to know what i could do!?
I like my BESTFRIEND alot!
HE is So SWEET and NICE and we talk 24/7
During school WE text... Well I asked him out...I waited for him 2days and still didnt responded to my question(but we still talked) so I asked him if he just wanted to stay friends...He said THATS SOUNDS GOOD,AFTER THAT THING THAT CRYSTAL SAID(they dated for 3days and she only dated him for his hopes) i said oka
but if you ever want to go out with me i will most likely say yes! So Yeah!
Well I want him to notice me more, When we go to the movies I wanna kiss him! How do i get this to work. (He would have to make the first move so what can i do to get him to know i want him to kiss me with out saying it)(PS we both are 15 and never kissed anyone)
PS we always hug!Any Advice Guys! I want to know what i could do!?
why does he have to make the first move??? if you want it that bad, put your hand on his knee, look him in the eye, and just tell him '; I sure wish you would just kiss me right now';, see what happens. If he doesnt kiss you, then you aint built right for this guy!Any Advice Guys! I want to know what i could do!?
ask him out.
please answer mine. http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20090317210151AAoVxtd
Docent sound like he wants to ruin your friendship and kissing him would chance many things really if its your first one.
Try to get close to him when your at the movies so dont put the arm thing in between you guys.
wait for the magic moment
It kind of sounds like he doesn't want to be anything more then friends, sorry to say.
first pick a romantic movie then sit as close to him as is he need to hug you. then come romantic scene in the movie try to motive him
He would have been tried something with you. If you do him its probable he'll just hit and run. So....DONT TRY NUThIN
HE is So SWEET and NICE and we talk 24/7
During school WE text... Well I asked him out...I waited for him 2days and still didnt responded to my question(but we still talked) so I asked him if he just wanted to stay friends...He said THATS SOUNDS GOOD,AFTER THAT THING THAT CRYSTAL SAID(they dated for 3days and she only dated him for his hopes) i said oka
but if you ever want to go out with me i will most likely say yes! So Yeah!
Well I want him to notice me more, When we go to the movies I wanna kiss him! How do i get this to work. (He would have to make the first move so what can i do to get him to know i want him to kiss me with out saying it)(PS we both are 15 and never kissed anyone)
PS we always hug!Any Advice Guys! I want to know what i could do!?
why does he have to make the first move??? if you want it that bad, put your hand on his knee, look him in the eye, and just tell him '; I sure wish you would just kiss me right now';, see what happens. If he doesnt kiss you, then you aint built right for this guy!Any Advice Guys! I want to know what i could do!?
ask him out.
please answer mine. http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20090317210151AAoVxtd
Docent sound like he wants to ruin your friendship and kissing him would chance many things really if its your first one.
Try to get close to him when your at the movies so dont put the arm thing in between you guys.
wait for the magic moment
It kind of sounds like he doesn't want to be anything more then friends, sorry to say.
first pick a romantic movie then sit as close to him as is he need to hug you. then come romantic scene in the movie try to motive him
He would have been tried something with you. If you do him its probable he'll just hit and run. So....DONT TRY NUThIN
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