iv been seeing this guy for a couple of months, we hook up but are not dating or anything.
we have alot of mutual friends so we see eachother alot. there is some serious chemistry there when even though we didnt tell anyone we were seeing eachother they could tell because they said we were drawn to eachother and were feeling eachother and was impossible to hide.
but we tell eachother we just want to be friends but we are deffinatly not just friends.
we tried to be and ended up just ignoring eachother and upseting eachother (lasted about a week) but as soon as we called a truce we were kissing and could keep away from eachother and ultimatly just ended up right back into bed again.
he said he hated hated hated when i ignored him.
(oh he is a scorpio and i am a taurus if you follow any of that.)
im very attracted and would just like a little insight about where you guys think he is coming from.... thanks! oh and happy holidaysGuys advice please...?
well I guess you 2 love each other nothing more to say!Guys advice please...?
There's not much to say. You like each other, so spend time together and eventually try again.
what
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
I need a guys advice!!!?
Ok I'm 15 and a freshman. I am 5'9, have green eyes and dirty blonde hair. Thereare a lot of skinny girls out their, and I was wondering if guys only like girls that look like a stick. I'm not saying that I'm fat but I';m not a stick. I was wondering if a guy from school would ever go out with me. please be honest!!! THANX!!!!I need a guys advice!!!?
Honestly, I don't like girls that are too skinny. There's nothing to them. Gotta have something to hold onto lol.I need a guys advice!!!?
You'll find a guy to go out with you for sure. There are plenty of fat guys who don't mind going out with fat girls.
i don't like girls that look like a stick. depends on the guy too lol put up a pic or something
Just wait guys will be all over you.
look at art. are they skinny?
some men are idiots and can only see the out side. me i like girls with a little meet on there bones. but what is most important is that your heathy and happy. if a guy dont like you for who you are then you wont be happy with him. be honest with your self, and live it your way not the way some guy thinks you should.
its not like the way u think. yes there will be lots of guys who wants to go out with u.
Honestly, I don't like girls that are too skinny. There's nothing to them. Gotta have something to hold onto lol.I need a guys advice!!!?
You'll find a guy to go out with you for sure. There are plenty of fat guys who don't mind going out with fat girls.
i don't like girls that look like a stick. depends on the guy too lol put up a pic or something
Just wait guys will be all over you.
look at art. are they skinny?
some men are idiots and can only see the out side. me i like girls with a little meet on there bones. but what is most important is that your heathy and happy. if a guy dont like you for who you are then you wont be happy with him. be honest with your self, and live it your way not the way some guy thinks you should.
its not like the way u think. yes there will be lots of guys who wants to go out with u.
Gay guys, any advice here?
my boyfriend and I have sex daily, sometimes twice. It seems like we have a hard time getting into it though and it takes a long time to finish, and its not very intense.Lately my bf has had a hard time staying hard, hes almost 40, I have experienced the same thing a few times, Im 34. Are we possibly doing it too much, should we wait a day or two in between. How often are you other guy having sex, or needing some sort of sexual release during an average week? whats the norm,or rather average? anybody else experienced this?Gay guys, any advice here?
take a day or two off ... Dont you get sore ? Gay guys, any advice here?
HMM sounds like have a good sexual relationship, but maybe you should do it less often but for longer, make him wait then when he is into it he'll love it so much! And hopefully satisfy you more :)
Hey guy!
Here's what I'd do... If your partner is having difficulty staying hard on a regular basis, I would go see the doctor. Find out if there is anything health-wise contributing to this issue. You say you have sex daily so I don't think it's an issue of attraction..
Keep in mind that your partner is 40; He should start getting prostate checkups yearly from this point on. Sometimes an enlarged prostate can be a source of problems staying hard, and a doctor would need to examine him and do some tests. Good news is that it's a treatable condition.
If after you've talked to the doc and gotten all checked out and there isn't anything health-wise with either of you, then maybe a little slowdown in the bedroom would help. Some guys are able to go two, three or even more times a day with no problem staying hard, some aren't. It's nothing to be worried or embarrassed about if you or your partner aren't like those guys.
I'd say what was most important would be answering the questions, ';Do we love each other?'; and ';Do we have fun in bed?'; If those are all good... then keep on doing what you are doing.
take a day or two off ... Dont you get sore ? Gay guys, any advice here?
HMM sounds like have a good sexual relationship, but maybe you should do it less often but for longer, make him wait then when he is into it he'll love it so much! And hopefully satisfy you more :)
Hey guy!
Here's what I'd do... If your partner is having difficulty staying hard on a regular basis, I would go see the doctor. Find out if there is anything health-wise contributing to this issue. You say you have sex daily so I don't think it's an issue of attraction..
Keep in mind that your partner is 40; He should start getting prostate checkups yearly from this point on. Sometimes an enlarged prostate can be a source of problems staying hard, and a doctor would need to examine him and do some tests. Good news is that it's a treatable condition.
If after you've talked to the doc and gotten all checked out and there isn't anything health-wise with either of you, then maybe a little slowdown in the bedroom would help. Some guys are able to go two, three or even more times a day with no problem staying hard, some aren't. It's nothing to be worried or embarrassed about if you or your partner aren't like those guys.
I'd say what was most important would be answering the questions, ';Do we love each other?'; and ';Do we have fun in bed?'; If those are all good... then keep on doing what you are doing.
Ok folks not long now so some advice guys What NOT To Give Her For Valentines Day?
1. A box of chocolates, clumsily rearranged in an attempt to hide the fact you ate all the caramel ones.
2. Any food item with the words ';diet';, ';light';, or ';high fiber'; on the label.
3. Any video starring Sylvester Stallone or Jim Carrey.
4. Flowers from a hospital's gift shop--or worse, a mortuary's.
5. Any household appliance, power tool or other item from the harder side of Sears.
6. A gift certificate.
7. Cash.
8. Anything you could have bought at the gas station mini-mart on the way over, even if you didn't.
9. An apologetic look and the words ';That was today?';Ok folks not long now so some advice guys What NOT To Give Her For Valentines Day?
so.......what you giving me?Ok folks not long now so some advice guys What NOT To Give Her For Valentines Day?
i liked no. 9
When IS Valentine's Day?
Tomorrow?!?!?
oops...
lol
a bowling ball
taco bell for dinner
clothes for her. ( chances are you will get to small, indicating shes fatter than you`d like) or to big (stating you think she is fat)
I think I will print this for my hubby! lol
Don`t buy her anything lads.
Just think about it. She won`t speak to you for about a week, utter paradise.
10. an STD
haha at number 9.
ha ha ha funny
thanks for a laugh
Ha ha ha... xD
So, so true...
Have a star! *
Haha @ number 2, so so true :P
yeah
lol
11. A signed photo of you, big cheesy grin, giving the ';guns'; towards the camera, with the note: ';you're one lucky lady!';
Is that straight out of MAD magazine? It's about as funny anyway.
Hi Chris,
Hehehehe.. These are great and soooo true..A Star..
A Friend,
poppy1
lol
Don't forget a home pregnancy test kit!
10. The same card that you already gave her last year.
11. A black pair of pants with the note: ';This pair will make you look even more beautiful... my puffy pie!';
12. Toothpaste.
13. Lingerie 2 sizes larger.
These are Definately things NOT to say!!!
LOL!!!
:)
2. Any food item with the words ';diet';, ';light';, or ';high fiber'; on the label.
3. Any video starring Sylvester Stallone or Jim Carrey.
4. Flowers from a hospital's gift shop--or worse, a mortuary's.
5. Any household appliance, power tool or other item from the harder side of Sears.
6. A gift certificate.
7. Cash.
8. Anything you could have bought at the gas station mini-mart on the way over, even if you didn't.
9. An apologetic look and the words ';That was today?';Ok folks not long now so some advice guys What NOT To Give Her For Valentines Day?
so.......what you giving me?Ok folks not long now so some advice guys What NOT To Give Her For Valentines Day?
i liked no. 9
When IS Valentine's Day?
Tomorrow?!?!?
oops...
lol
a bowling ball
taco bell for dinner
clothes for her. ( chances are you will get to small, indicating shes fatter than you`d like) or to big (stating you think she is fat)
I think I will print this for my hubby! lol
Don`t buy her anything lads.
Just think about it. She won`t speak to you for about a week, utter paradise.
10. an STD
haha at number 9.
ha ha ha funny
thanks for a laugh
Ha ha ha... xD
So, so true...
Have a star! *
Haha @ number 2, so so true :P
yeah
lol
11. A signed photo of you, big cheesy grin, giving the ';guns'; towards the camera, with the note: ';you're one lucky lady!';
Is that straight out of MAD magazine? It's about as funny anyway.
Hi Chris,
Hehehehe.. These are great and soooo true..A Star..
A Friend,
poppy1
lol
Don't forget a home pregnancy test kit!
10. The same card that you already gave her last year.
11. A black pair of pants with the note: ';This pair will make you look even more beautiful... my puffy pie!';
12. Toothpaste.
13. Lingerie 2 sizes larger.
These are Definately things NOT to say!!!
LOL!!!
:)
Mixed signals from a crush need girls advice (guys too)?
I liked this girl for 2 years and she liked me in the summer. She has been giving mixed signals, flirting like she really likes me one day then the next day she wont even say anything to me. This week she has been flirting with me a lot and it seems more serious like she likes me again but she wont talk to me out of school unless I start the convo. I really dont know what to do, I cant bring myself to ask her if she likes me or anything because I am way to shy. And she is only one of the most popular girls in my grade and she is really outgoing, so that doesnt help. Is she just flirting for fun? If so why is she flirting a lot lately and why isnt she talking to me (out of school) if she likes me?
The only other thing I could think of is our school has a dance this weekend and maybe she wants me to ask her to it. She asked me if I was going to it and I said yea. Please help why is she sending me mixed signals what does it mean??Mixed signals from a crush need girls advice (guys too)?
She likes you.Those aren't mixed signals, those are messages that are saying ';I talk to you this time, you have to come to me now'; and this will just continue to show that both sides have interest in each other. You have to start a conversation. Just say something about school or classes or homework or sports or something. Don't ask her if she likes you, because it certain that she likes you and plus since you two don't know each other that well, that could be kind of awkward. She wants you to talk to her, that's what she is waiting for.
Ask her out, start a conversation about whatever and then just lean into ';Hey I heard there is a dance this weekend. Would you like to go with me to the dance?';
Hope this helpssheer makeup
The only other thing I could think of is our school has a dance this weekend and maybe she wants me to ask her to it. She asked me if I was going to it and I said yea. Please help why is she sending me mixed signals what does it mean??Mixed signals from a crush need girls advice (guys too)?
She likes you.Those aren't mixed signals, those are messages that are saying ';I talk to you this time, you have to come to me now'; and this will just continue to show that both sides have interest in each other. You have to start a conversation. Just say something about school or classes or homework or sports or something. Don't ask her if she likes you, because it certain that she likes you and plus since you two don't know each other that well, that could be kind of awkward. She wants you to talk to her, that's what she is waiting for.
Ask her out, start a conversation about whatever and then just lean into ';Hey I heard there is a dance this weekend. Would you like to go with me to the dance?';
Hope this helps
Guys please help, advice would be appreciated?
I want to date my ex's roommate. How do I find out if he's interested without straight up asking him out.
Since I don't talk to my ex anymore I don't see his eever see his roommate, but we are contacts on a networking site.Guys please help, advice would be appreciated?
If you ex's roommate is a friend with your ex then you don't have a chance. Honestly the whole idea seems bad. And if i had to infer i would guess that you want to cause drama or make your ex mad.
Since I don't talk to my ex anymore I don't see his eever see his roommate, but we are contacts on a networking site.Guys please help, advice would be appreciated?
If you ex's roommate is a friend with your ex then you don't have a chance. Honestly the whole idea seems bad. And if i had to infer i would guess that you want to cause drama or make your ex mad.
I have a Modeling INTERVIEW, Please I need Advice (Guys and Girls)! (PICTURES)?
ahh, so i need a little advice. i got spotted in the mall for an interview with a company that does modeling. i have an interview coming soon to see whether or not they want me. only problem is i'm a complete loser at makeup. like all i wear is bit of foundation sometimes, perfume, and chapstick/lip gloss. its not that i don't know how to put it on, i just don't know what would look best on me. i have a couple pics in the link. just click it and then there are two more pics on the site which you can view by pushing next.
http://s262.photobucket.com/albums/ii106/loserface733/?action=view%26amp;current=facebook.jpg
if you were a guy or girl and in charge of a modeling agency, what types of suggestions would you make. i'm really nervous, because i heard that most agencies only actually take like 10 % of the people they interview. girls advice for makeup, possibly, and guys any advice for overall attractiveness to a model in an interview?
thanks so much for any advice... very appreciated =].I have a Modeling INTERVIEW, Please I need Advice (Guys and Girls)! (PICTURES)?
You are totally gorgeous and the only thing you need is more confidence and belief in yourself!
That said you'll definitely need to sleep with whoever is interviewing you. Good luck!I have a Modeling INTERVIEW, Please I need Advice (Guys and Girls)! (PICTURES)?
I suggest you find other career. You don't have what it takes Deary. Sorry but you asked.
The best advice I can offer you is to get thick skinned really quick! The modeling industry is cut throat and highly critical. Leave sensitive feelings at home!
ur not ugly, but not gorgeous.
You shouldn't put a camera so close to your face. It's blury and we can't se anything about the rest of your body.
Haha. Have fun living in your box.
My advice is,
try being a waitress.
Go ahead thumbs down me.
be careful- if they ask you to pay money of any sort for a portfolio or pictures they are trying to scam you.
where what you were spotted with, there is a reason they picked you. They wanted who they saw. not anyone else.
Don't wear a bunch of makeup. If you want to go into modeling, they want to see what you look like naturally--they will be putting makeup on the blank canvas of your face, so they want to know what they have to deal with. I wouldn't wear much more than you usually do--if anything, ONLY do some mascara, but you really don't need to (you have gorgeous eyelashes!).
Good luck!
http://s262.photobucket.com/albums/ii106/loserface733/?action=view%26amp;current=facebook.jpg
if you were a guy or girl and in charge of a modeling agency, what types of suggestions would you make. i'm really nervous, because i heard that most agencies only actually take like 10 % of the people they interview. girls advice for makeup, possibly, and guys any advice for overall attractiveness to a model in an interview?
thanks so much for any advice... very appreciated =].I have a Modeling INTERVIEW, Please I need Advice (Guys and Girls)! (PICTURES)?
You are totally gorgeous and the only thing you need is more confidence and belief in yourself!
That said you'll definitely need to sleep with whoever is interviewing you. Good luck!I have a Modeling INTERVIEW, Please I need Advice (Guys and Girls)! (PICTURES)?
I suggest you find other career. You don't have what it takes Deary. Sorry but you asked.
The best advice I can offer you is to get thick skinned really quick! The modeling industry is cut throat and highly critical. Leave sensitive feelings at home!
ur not ugly, but not gorgeous.
You shouldn't put a camera so close to your face. It's blury and we can't se anything about the rest of your body.
Haha. Have fun living in your box.
My advice is,
try being a waitress.
Go ahead thumbs down me.
be careful- if they ask you to pay money of any sort for a portfolio or pictures they are trying to scam you.
where what you were spotted with, there is a reason they picked you. They wanted who they saw. not anyone else.
Don't wear a bunch of makeup. If you want to go into modeling, they want to see what you look like naturally--they will be putting makeup on the blank canvas of your face, so they want to know what they have to deal with. I wouldn't wear much more than you usually do--if anything, ONLY do some mascara, but you really don't need to (you have gorgeous eyelashes!).
Good luck!
Need more answers...please.I have feelings for my best guy friend...ADVICE GUYS!?
we've been best friends since really little...and at one point even considered eachother bro and sis...but time passed by...and i started having feelings for him...but i don't know if he likes me too...and i want to tell him really bad...i just want to get it off my chest!...he left to another country and he is back to visit...and i don't know if i should tell him or not...i saw him today and he was happy to see me...hugged me...and when he talked he would look in my eyes...and ignore his other friend that was there also...when i said goodbye he hugged me again...he hugged me for a while...even still had his hand on my back..and wouldn't let go...should i tell him?Need more answers...please.I have feelings for my best guy friend...ADVICE GUYS!?
i suggest you dont tell him unless you know if he likes you, ask someone close to you and him to ask them if they have feelings for you. If the person you asked is honest and says if he does or doesnt i think would choose your next move
if he said no then dont tell him because if you do there is a chance of him feeling awkward around you and he might kind of ignore you like most guys kinda do. or he might use you but seeing as in hes a friend i doubt he would do that
if he says yes then talk to him about it dont hold it in, dont hold anything in
just be carefull not to breakup if you guys date because then it might ruin your friendship with him as well as relationshi
:D
hope that helped
i suggest you dont tell him unless you know if he likes you, ask someone close to you and him to ask them if they have feelings for you. If the person you asked is honest and says if he does or doesnt i think would choose your next move
if he said no then dont tell him because if you do there is a chance of him feeling awkward around you and he might kind of ignore you like most guys kinda do. or he might use you but seeing as in hes a friend i doubt he would do that
if he says yes then talk to him about it dont hold it in, dont hold anything in
just be carefull not to breakup if you guys date because then it might ruin your friendship with him as well as relationshi
:D
hope that helped
GIRLS! I feel REALLY stupid and I NEED ADVICE?! GUYS HELP TOO?!?
There's this guy (Josh) I’ve known for 2 years. I wanted to invite him to this ball I had to go to, but the timing just never has been right. 2 weeks ago I told him I needed to talk to him-- he left. He called the next day--my phone was off.He didn’t leave a msg.
Last Saturday I went to his grad party. He said, “I called you.” “You didn’t leave a msg.I figured you had a wrong #.” I spent HOURS making a cd for him (I recorded him playing HIS music)and I put it in his truck.The next day at church,“did you listen to the cd?” “Yeah, it’s pretty good.”
So Wed night, I texted him “I still need to talk to you, and time is running out.” HE DIDN’T CALL UNTIL FRIDAY (which also was his 18th bday).I sang happy bday real quick and then…He was just…Silent. The most awkward silences I’ve EVER had on the phone with him.He said he got my txt but “just forgot” until then. I invited him, he said he had to work till the afternoon, and that was his only time off. So, “no. I won’t go. Maybe next time.” I was kinda stunned and hurt/pissed at myself all at the same time. I said, “Ya know Josh, there’s not gonna be a next time.Have a good nite, see ya around.” “You have a good night too.”
I’m just so stupid! He called me mi amor last summer, and still drives around with the smiley face I drew in glass chalk on his precious truck 3 MONTHS AGO! Last time on the phone he said we should hang out sometime. I just feel like an idiot for believing in him! I figure, if he did like me, even if dancing wasn’t his gig, he would go, for me. GIRLS! GOT ANY ADVICE FOR ME? I HAVE TO SEE HIM EVERY DAY THIS WEEK AT A KIDS ACTIVITY WE’RE VOLUNTEERING AT.GIRLS! I feel REALLY stupid and I NEED ADVICE?! GUYS HELP TOO?!?
no worries. if he didn't like you, even as a friend, he never would have attempted to call, even if it was 2 days later than the text. it's not his fault that he has to work, he can't make his schedule unfortunately. just because he can't go doesn't mean he wouldn't like to. it doesn't sound like he's really interested in you as a girlfriend or anything though, no offense. he sounds like a good friend though.
put up with him like you always have. rejections are a part of life, you just have to get used to it and move on. try to not let it bother you.GIRLS! I feel REALLY stupid and I NEED ADVICE?! GUYS HELP TOO?!?
He's probably shy?Maybe he dosen't really know how to go about things with you. But you shoud go to that ball with someone else, and don't let him stop you. Some guys are complete morons sometimes, and don't think you did anything wrong, because you didn't.
sry i have no reply to that. you really need to cut down on the info you had a lot of pointles stuff in there that didn't really matter with the question.
and also, what are you asking?
do you like him?
.....what??
Just text him and invite him. dont worry about it. are you freeking out? are you un rlaxed about the situation? these ar the questions u should put in your paragraphs.
Your trying too hard. Girls don't try for guys, guys try for girls. Most ah the time. -______-. You really are stoopeed . He's a fhag .
hey things happen some times not the way we want.... um you can either ignore him or still be friends and act as if it doesnt phase you! i say act as if it doesnt phase you!
confused
Wow i got lost ma,its too long...
Ask him or text him this ';What do you think of me?';
After he replies ask him this ';How do you feel about me?';
Good luck i hope this help!
i think you shoudl simplify it cuz its really confusing
too long and confusing
Watch the movie He's Just Not That Into You. :/
I see what the situation is. Just be cool, and treat him very nicely.
simply avoid him its good for you plus it would make him wonder lol thats all i got
yeah...i dont think he likes u LIKE THAT
Maybe he is shy...
you never know with guys anymore..they hide their feelings
what???
oh my god! that ';Josh'; kid sounds like a total bad word! sweetie, you dont need that, my advice is, find a guy who doesnt think of you as a friend, cuz thats what it kinda sounds like. and who knows? maybe he'll ask you to go somewhere with him, and you'll say ';no, i dont feel like it maybe next time :))'; and he'll feel the way you felt, i'd get over him, cuz it sounds like you dot need him.
Wait... What?
Edit:: ohhhhh ok. Um just ignore him when you can and then be friendly and polite and not rude. Then if he strikes up a conversation just be nice and go along with it. It really could just be that you two had bad schedule timing and got mad at each other. He'll most likely come around, just be nice but passive:)
I'm a guy and according to your question, he seems like a jerk... try not to look at him or talk to him much at the kids activity thing..... if he says something to you, try to say something cocky back.... or ignore him...
I really don't know... but good luck
god, that sucks. guys can be so insensitive, ecspecially when we need them the most. honestly, i would just talk to him. it really seems like he is leading you on. so i would just tell him how you really feel, and that it seems he has mutual feelings. and just say if you don't, i don't want this to ruin the friendship that we've had.
but i would also tell him that it really hurt your feelings that he didn't go to this dance thing with you. and that he couldn't respond to your text until three days later.
i have good experince with guys, so if you need to talk to me email itt(:
Sounds to me like he is taking you for granted. You are always there for him when he needs you.....but if the opposite can't be said, you need to do some mega reevaluation. Take a step back. Don't call or text. When you see him, smile and be nice, because afterall he is a friend, but do not go out of your way to do things for him like you've been doing. Be your sweet happy self at this weeklong camp thingie, and show him exactly what he is missing out on.
But, you sound like a very nice person who doesn't deserve somebody who is treating you like crap. I think it might be time for you to move on. Good luck!
be cool, don't let him know that you were upset and act like you did before he said no. act like it never happened because if he does like you and he thinks you are mad then he might stay away but if you keep talking with him then he will keep liking you. and did you ever think he may have had other plans and did not want to leave you out so he just couldn't tell you. maybe he had family things to do. just cuz you got rejected doesn't always mean he is being mean and that he is trying to avoid you. and did you ever think that he is ';volunteering'; because you are? maybe he wants to like you and just doesn't know how. one thing you MUST do is always think the positive and if it turns out negative then screw him, cuz you don't need him!
Dude, he called you MY LOVE!!!!!!! he digs you, or he digged you, and maybe all your ';we need to talk'; scarred him away. Maybe you just need to be his friend and see if he says something. I know it won't be fun, but it's all you can do to get your relationship back on track. I think he has feelings for you, I just don't think he is ready to show you how he feels. Let him be, and if it's meant to be, he won't let you go.
Don't bring it up, just be your own fun self. Be the friend to him that you used to be. If you regain that solid friendship, ditch the ';We need to talk'; and talk. Just tell him.
Hope this Helps!!
Don't feel like an idiot and quit second guessing everything you said, he said and on and on. If he really liked you, you would have been able to tell and not be wondering, you would know. As far as the smiley face, maybe him not washing it off is only a matter of him being lazy and just not even thinking anything about it. Where on the other hand, you take it as a romantic gesture that he thinks of it like,'; ohhh, it was so sweet of her, I want to leave it to look at and think of her';. That is how girls think, not guys. They don't think like that. So, I wouldn't put any importance on that. If he had wanted to get back in touch with you all those times , believe me...he would have. As far as seeing him every day while volunteering, no big deal, just go and do it and don't think anything about him, forget him as far as being anyone special. Ask someone else to the ball, if it's not too late. Don't even mention it to him again or act like you care. Don't feel bad, dumb or anything like that, it wasn't anything you did. It was what he didn't do. At least you know how he is now and that's a good thing, forget him and move on.
Have you thought about simpy just asking him if he likes you or not, if you can't face doing that then get one of your friends to find out from one of his friends to see if he does or not. Maybe he does like you but he just isnt ready for a relationship yet. good luck though, i hope he does like you.
avrilfan,
Well this is a long explanation of what has been happening.
Um sounds a lot like this fella of yours if just being a plonker, or for those on the other side of the atlantic a bit nieve. Your obviously besotted by him and have fallen hard. I don't think he shares your enthusiasm.
I would guess from this fellas point of view you said we have to talk. He heard ';O no here is how do you feel talk coming'; red lights when off and the counter measure kicked in. It is possible he legitimately forgot about the text to be fair. Remember things that a person feels are important will stay on your mind.
I think this week while your around him you leave the subject. You've made it clear that you want / need from your point of view to talk but if he is not interested no matter how hard you try it is not going to change things.
The thingg you have to understandd is;;;maybee he just wantss to bee friendss;;;;and your jsut too aheadd off himm;;;;the thingg i cann tell you iss dontt showw him datt ur pressedd;;;and be friendss wiff him and see where it goes from there;;;;;he didnt reallyy playyy youuu;;;;you cann still belivee him;;;he justt needss moree timee to click wif you;;;;;
This is awful, and i been here before under different circumstances.
Only thing i can say is i don't think boys notice that they lead girls on. It's crazy. They are so complicated, even when they don't think they are. Well while you're at this volunteer thing, you need to not show that your hurt and keep your head up. If he asks how your ball went, say oh it was really good you shoulda been there. and move on. If more things happen that make you think he likes you, ask him where you stand in his life. Just a friend or more.
hope this helps :/
Wow, that sucks that he said no. jerk. heh. but maybe we shouldn't hate him just yet. you should talk to him, you obviously know what you want (him), you just need to get it. heh. talk to him, tell him you like him, if not, than just hint it at him. if he's one of those guys you know, who just likes to be a tease, than forget him. it will be tough, but you will know that you deserve better than that. hopefully he does come to his senses though. i wish you the best of luck.
Last Saturday I went to his grad party. He said, “I called you.” “You didn’t leave a msg.I figured you had a wrong #.” I spent HOURS making a cd for him (I recorded him playing HIS music)and I put it in his truck.The next day at church,“did you listen to the cd?” “Yeah, it’s pretty good.”
So Wed night, I texted him “I still need to talk to you, and time is running out.” HE DIDN’T CALL UNTIL FRIDAY (which also was his 18th bday).I sang happy bday real quick and then…He was just…Silent. The most awkward silences I’ve EVER had on the phone with him.He said he got my txt but “just forgot” until then. I invited him, he said he had to work till the afternoon, and that was his only time off. So, “no. I won’t go. Maybe next time.” I was kinda stunned and hurt/pissed at myself all at the same time. I said, “Ya know Josh, there’s not gonna be a next time.Have a good nite, see ya around.” “You have a good night too.”
I’m just so stupid! He called me mi amor last summer, and still drives around with the smiley face I drew in glass chalk on his precious truck 3 MONTHS AGO! Last time on the phone he said we should hang out sometime. I just feel like an idiot for believing in him! I figure, if he did like me, even if dancing wasn’t his gig, he would go, for me. GIRLS! GOT ANY ADVICE FOR ME? I HAVE TO SEE HIM EVERY DAY THIS WEEK AT A KIDS ACTIVITY WE’RE VOLUNTEERING AT.GIRLS! I feel REALLY stupid and I NEED ADVICE?! GUYS HELP TOO?!?
no worries. if he didn't like you, even as a friend, he never would have attempted to call, even if it was 2 days later than the text. it's not his fault that he has to work, he can't make his schedule unfortunately. just because he can't go doesn't mean he wouldn't like to. it doesn't sound like he's really interested in you as a girlfriend or anything though, no offense. he sounds like a good friend though.
put up with him like you always have. rejections are a part of life, you just have to get used to it and move on. try to not let it bother you.GIRLS! I feel REALLY stupid and I NEED ADVICE?! GUYS HELP TOO?!?
He's probably shy?Maybe he dosen't really know how to go about things with you. But you shoud go to that ball with someone else, and don't let him stop you. Some guys are complete morons sometimes, and don't think you did anything wrong, because you didn't.
sry i have no reply to that. you really need to cut down on the info you had a lot of pointles stuff in there that didn't really matter with the question.
and also, what are you asking?
do you like him?
.....what??
Just text him and invite him. dont worry about it. are you freeking out? are you un rlaxed about the situation? these ar the questions u should put in your paragraphs.
Your trying too hard. Girls don't try for guys, guys try for girls. Most ah the time. -______-. You really are stoopeed . He's a fhag .
hey things happen some times not the way we want.... um you can either ignore him or still be friends and act as if it doesnt phase you! i say act as if it doesnt phase you!
confused
Wow i got lost ma,its too long...
Ask him or text him this ';What do you think of me?';
After he replies ask him this ';How do you feel about me?';
Good luck i hope this help!
i think you shoudl simplify it cuz its really confusing
too long and confusing
Watch the movie He's Just Not That Into You. :/
I see what the situation is. Just be cool, and treat him very nicely.
simply avoid him its good for you plus it would make him wonder lol thats all i got
yeah...i dont think he likes u LIKE THAT
Maybe he is shy...
you never know with guys anymore..they hide their feelings
what???
oh my god! that ';Josh'; kid sounds like a total bad word! sweetie, you dont need that, my advice is, find a guy who doesnt think of you as a friend, cuz thats what it kinda sounds like. and who knows? maybe he'll ask you to go somewhere with him, and you'll say ';no, i dont feel like it maybe next time :))'; and he'll feel the way you felt, i'd get over him, cuz it sounds like you dot need him.
Wait... What?
Edit:: ohhhhh ok. Um just ignore him when you can and then be friendly and polite and not rude. Then if he strikes up a conversation just be nice and go along with it. It really could just be that you two had bad schedule timing and got mad at each other. He'll most likely come around, just be nice but passive:)
I'm a guy and according to your question, he seems like a jerk... try not to look at him or talk to him much at the kids activity thing..... if he says something to you, try to say something cocky back.... or ignore him...
I really don't know... but good luck
god, that sucks. guys can be so insensitive, ecspecially when we need them the most. honestly, i would just talk to him. it really seems like he is leading you on. so i would just tell him how you really feel, and that it seems he has mutual feelings. and just say if you don't, i don't want this to ruin the friendship that we've had.
but i would also tell him that it really hurt your feelings that he didn't go to this dance thing with you. and that he couldn't respond to your text until three days later.
i have good experince with guys, so if you need to talk to me email itt(:
Sounds to me like he is taking you for granted. You are always there for him when he needs you.....but if the opposite can't be said, you need to do some mega reevaluation. Take a step back. Don't call or text. When you see him, smile and be nice, because afterall he is a friend, but do not go out of your way to do things for him like you've been doing. Be your sweet happy self at this weeklong camp thingie, and show him exactly what he is missing out on.
But, you sound like a very nice person who doesn't deserve somebody who is treating you like crap. I think it might be time for you to move on. Good luck!
be cool, don't let him know that you were upset and act like you did before he said no. act like it never happened because if he does like you and he thinks you are mad then he might stay away but if you keep talking with him then he will keep liking you. and did you ever think he may have had other plans and did not want to leave you out so he just couldn't tell you. maybe he had family things to do. just cuz you got rejected doesn't always mean he is being mean and that he is trying to avoid you. and did you ever think that he is ';volunteering'; because you are? maybe he wants to like you and just doesn't know how. one thing you MUST do is always think the positive and if it turns out negative then screw him, cuz you don't need him!
Dude, he called you MY LOVE!!!!!!! he digs you, or he digged you, and maybe all your ';we need to talk'; scarred him away. Maybe you just need to be his friend and see if he says something. I know it won't be fun, but it's all you can do to get your relationship back on track. I think he has feelings for you, I just don't think he is ready to show you how he feels. Let him be, and if it's meant to be, he won't let you go.
Don't bring it up, just be your own fun self. Be the friend to him that you used to be. If you regain that solid friendship, ditch the ';We need to talk'; and talk. Just tell him.
Hope this Helps!!
Don't feel like an idiot and quit second guessing everything you said, he said and on and on. If he really liked you, you would have been able to tell and not be wondering, you would know. As far as the smiley face, maybe him not washing it off is only a matter of him being lazy and just not even thinking anything about it. Where on the other hand, you take it as a romantic gesture that he thinks of it like,'; ohhh, it was so sweet of her, I want to leave it to look at and think of her';. That is how girls think, not guys. They don't think like that. So, I wouldn't put any importance on that. If he had wanted to get back in touch with you all those times , believe me...he would have. As far as seeing him every day while volunteering, no big deal, just go and do it and don't think anything about him, forget him as far as being anyone special. Ask someone else to the ball, if it's not too late. Don't even mention it to him again or act like you care. Don't feel bad, dumb or anything like that, it wasn't anything you did. It was what he didn't do. At least you know how he is now and that's a good thing, forget him and move on.
Have you thought about simpy just asking him if he likes you or not, if you can't face doing that then get one of your friends to find out from one of his friends to see if he does or not. Maybe he does like you but he just isnt ready for a relationship yet. good luck though, i hope he does like you.
avrilfan,
Well this is a long explanation of what has been happening.
Um sounds a lot like this fella of yours if just being a plonker, or for those on the other side of the atlantic a bit nieve. Your obviously besotted by him and have fallen hard. I don't think he shares your enthusiasm.
I would guess from this fellas point of view you said we have to talk. He heard ';O no here is how do you feel talk coming'; red lights when off and the counter measure kicked in. It is possible he legitimately forgot about the text to be fair. Remember things that a person feels are important will stay on your mind.
I think this week while your around him you leave the subject. You've made it clear that you want / need from your point of view to talk but if he is not interested no matter how hard you try it is not going to change things.
The thingg you have to understandd is;;;maybee he just wantss to bee friendss;;;;and your jsut too aheadd off himm;;;;the thingg i cann tell you iss dontt showw him datt ur pressedd;;;and be friendss wiff him and see where it goes from there;;;;;he didnt reallyy playyy youuu;;;;you cann still belivee him;;;he justt needss moree timee to click wif you;;;;;
This is awful, and i been here before under different circumstances.
Only thing i can say is i don't think boys notice that they lead girls on. It's crazy. They are so complicated, even when they don't think they are. Well while you're at this volunteer thing, you need to not show that your hurt and keep your head up. If he asks how your ball went, say oh it was really good you shoulda been there. and move on. If more things happen that make you think he likes you, ask him where you stand in his life. Just a friend or more.
hope this helps :/
Wow, that sucks that he said no. jerk. heh. but maybe we shouldn't hate him just yet. you should talk to him, you obviously know what you want (him), you just need to get it. heh. talk to him, tell him you like him, if not, than just hint it at him. if he's one of those guys you know, who just likes to be a tease, than forget him. it will be tough, but you will know that you deserve better than that. hopefully he does come to his senses though. i wish you the best of luck.
CAN ANYONE HELP? I could reeeally use some advice, GUYS & GIRLS..?
I just rly need some USEFUL advice...i cant rly turn to my friends.
theres this guy in my chem class and i think hes really cute, and id rly like to get to know him better but theres never really a reason to talk him in class the only time really would be before the bell rings when hes sitting at his desk and i dont wanna just randomly go up to him and him be weirded out. ive only talked to him once and it was online cuz my friend dared me to add him on fbook so i did but ive NEVER talked to him person, even to this day. I just said hey watsup and stuff like that not even a full conversation i didnt even finish it i felt so rude... Ive tried making eye contact but only succeeded a few times..but i just look away or down and its rly bad ive tried hard to stop that. And, i know hes single but idk if hes interested in anyone already and i dont rly think hed be interested in me but idk...hes in my grade, he seems rly cool and nice but, i dont really know. im pretty shy when it comes to guys since i dont have ay experience with them..but idk i would probably talk to him more if i wasnt so scared of getting rejected or ignored by him since im overweight too.I cant relaly turn to close friends for this so i really need ur guys advice..so does anybody have any kind of useful advice for me? anything that would attract a guy? do u think i should talk to him again on FB? (the last time was like at the beginning of the month and i havent said a word since.) soo if i do what should i say????any ideas? I just dont wanna regret anything.
heres some pics if that helps.
PLEASE HELP!!
Thank you,(:
http://i37.photobucket.com/albums/e75/musicislove17/Image004-3.jpg
http://i37.photobucket.com/albums/e75/musicislove17/P7280538.jpg
http://i37.photobucket.com/albums/e75/musicislove17/PA060814.jpg
(im on the right.)
http://i37.photobucket.com/albums/e75/musicislove17/Image000-1.jpg
http://i37.photobucket.com/albums/e75/musicislove17/P8040568.jpgCAN ANYONE HELP? I could reeeally use some advice, GUYS %26amp; GIRLS..?
I hope to not be judged by this but i wasnt planning on reading all of your 鈥渜uestion鈥?but since i find you to be very cute i did.
So i should start saying that i am NO expert on the subject, but as a guy i can tell you that we love LOVE love challenge. That is, girls who are not easy to get.
I myself am very shy around girls i like too, but that shouldnt stop me nor you to go and talk/hang out with them.
I麓d say, dont rush it. You should start having small conversations with him and not be TOO EXCITED about it (at least dont show it.. you know what i mean) cause he might get the wrong impression.
Anyways, it might not work out the way you want it to. But you wont regret 鈥渢rying鈥?as much as you will 鈥渘ot trying鈥?:)CAN ANYONE HELP? I could reeeally use some advice, GUYS %26amp; GIRLS..?
It doesnt matter what anyone looks like, if he likes you he couldnt care less, try talking to him about any tests or assignments and then expand on that, you sound really nice and a lot of guys appreciate that. Also your not overweight your attractive in my opinion.
theres this guy in my chem class and i think hes really cute, and id rly like to get to know him better but theres never really a reason to talk him in class the only time really would be before the bell rings when hes sitting at his desk and i dont wanna just randomly go up to him and him be weirded out. ive only talked to him once and it was online cuz my friend dared me to add him on fbook so i did but ive NEVER talked to him person, even to this day. I just said hey watsup and stuff like that not even a full conversation i didnt even finish it i felt so rude... Ive tried making eye contact but only succeeded a few times..but i just look away or down and its rly bad ive tried hard to stop that. And, i know hes single but idk if hes interested in anyone already and i dont rly think hed be interested in me but idk...hes in my grade, he seems rly cool and nice but, i dont really know. im pretty shy when it comes to guys since i dont have ay experience with them..but idk i would probably talk to him more if i wasnt so scared of getting rejected or ignored by him since im overweight too.I cant relaly turn to close friends for this so i really need ur guys advice..so does anybody have any kind of useful advice for me? anything that would attract a guy? do u think i should talk to him again on FB? (the last time was like at the beginning of the month and i havent said a word since.) soo if i do what should i say????any ideas? I just dont wanna regret anything.
heres some pics if that helps.
PLEASE HELP!!
Thank you,(:
http://i37.photobucket.com/albums/e75/musicislove17/Image004-3.jpg
http://i37.photobucket.com/albums/e75/musicislove17/P7280538.jpg
http://i37.photobucket.com/albums/e75/musicislove17/PA060814.jpg
(im on the right.)
http://i37.photobucket.com/albums/e75/musicislove17/Image000-1.jpg
http://i37.photobucket.com/albums/e75/musicislove17/P8040568.jpgCAN ANYONE HELP? I could reeeally use some advice, GUYS %26amp; GIRLS..?
I hope to not be judged by this but i wasnt planning on reading all of your 鈥渜uestion鈥?but since i find you to be very cute i did.
So i should start saying that i am NO expert on the subject, but as a guy i can tell you that we love LOVE love challenge. That is, girls who are not easy to get.
I myself am very shy around girls i like too, but that shouldnt stop me nor you to go and talk/hang out with them.
I麓d say, dont rush it. You should start having small conversations with him and not be TOO EXCITED about it (at least dont show it.. you know what i mean) cause he might get the wrong impression.
Anyways, it might not work out the way you want it to. But you wont regret 鈥渢rying鈥?as much as you will 鈥渘ot trying鈥?:)CAN ANYONE HELP? I could reeeally use some advice, GUYS %26amp; GIRLS..?
It doesnt matter what anyone looks like, if he likes you he couldnt care less, try talking to him about any tests or assignments and then expand on that, you sound really nice and a lot of guys appreciate that. Also your not overweight your attractive in my opinion.
Major-minor-concentration confusion here.... I need your advice guys.. thanks.. 10pts here.. thanks again..?
Okay,
I'm interested in:
1) Learning other cultures' culture and traditions
2) History
3) Education as in Teaching
4) Environmental Science
5) Earth Science
6) Understanding quotes deeper and give meaning to senseless things
7) Understanding behavior and try to interpret it according on my basic thinking
8) Giving out help and advices to people especially on the range of my age (17)
9) In my curiosity about life and the like...
It's my 1st time being in an American Institution (Educational) and my 1st year in college.. So I'm not really acquainted not only with college programs but also with the American education curriculum...
What Major-minor-concentration would you recommend after you have read my interests above?
Thanks guys... Please i really need your opinion... I'm really confuse... ^_^ 10 points i promise..
btw this year i'm taking prerequisite subjects for 1 yr practical nursing program (SY 2010)...Major-minor-concentration confusion here.... I need your advice guys.. thanks.. 10pts here.. thanks again..?
I hope the prereqs for the nursing will apply to another major....
What you described generally fall into the Social Sciences (Anthropology, geography, psychology etc).
I would suggest that you sit with an academic advisor at your college and discuss the issues. It is hard to advise someone in a simple forum like YA...Major-minor-concentration confusion here.... I need your advice guys.. thanks.. 10pts here.. thanks again..?
hmm you're really interested in a ton of things being an educator is something you should do 1 2 3 4 5 those are the numbers that helped be suggest this. umm another could be a sociologist yes that's perfect i had a professor who got travel the world (pretty much) studying and learning more about people
study of society: the study of the origin, development, and structure of human societies and the behavior of individual people and groups in society
yeah that's perfect!! a sociologist!! ^ that's the definition :D check it out maybe it's something you would like.
Major(s) in Earth Science and/or Ecology, or Agriculture, Animal Husbandry, Fisheries, or Wildlife Management/Forestry.
(All of these share many prerequisites allowing double majors)
(Most of them also require graduate degrees to do well, but you can usually pick up the MS/PhD while you work,)
Minor in education. (Education is usually a stupidly easy minor, but you'll need the teaching certification.)
Look for work with a government program or NGO that helps developing nations with ecological, or agricultural management and education. (A hitch in the Peace Corps or VISTA is a good start right out of school - no money, but great experience.)
You won't make a lot of salary, but that hits most of your stated goals, and there are some good ways to make cash such as writing books and consulting after you've 'paid your dues.'sheer makeup
I'm interested in:
1) Learning other cultures' culture and traditions
2) History
3) Education as in Teaching
4) Environmental Science
5) Earth Science
6) Understanding quotes deeper and give meaning to senseless things
7) Understanding behavior and try to interpret it according on my basic thinking
8) Giving out help and advices to people especially on the range of my age (17)
9) In my curiosity about life and the like...
It's my 1st time being in an American Institution (Educational) and my 1st year in college.. So I'm not really acquainted not only with college programs but also with the American education curriculum...
What Major-minor-concentration would you recommend after you have read my interests above?
Thanks guys... Please i really need your opinion... I'm really confuse... ^_^ 10 points i promise..
btw this year i'm taking prerequisite subjects for 1 yr practical nursing program (SY 2010)...Major-minor-concentration confusion here.... I need your advice guys.. thanks.. 10pts here.. thanks again..?
I hope the prereqs for the nursing will apply to another major....
What you described generally fall into the Social Sciences (Anthropology, geography, psychology etc).
I would suggest that you sit with an academic advisor at your college and discuss the issues. It is hard to advise someone in a simple forum like YA...Major-minor-concentration confusion here.... I need your advice guys.. thanks.. 10pts here.. thanks again..?
hmm you're really interested in a ton of things being an educator is something you should do 1 2 3 4 5 those are the numbers that helped be suggest this. umm another could be a sociologist yes that's perfect i had a professor who got travel the world (pretty much) studying and learning more about people
study of society: the study of the origin, development, and structure of human societies and the behavior of individual people and groups in society
yeah that's perfect!! a sociologist!! ^ that's the definition :D check it out maybe it's something you would like.
Major(s) in Earth Science and/or Ecology, or Agriculture, Animal Husbandry, Fisheries, or Wildlife Management/Forestry.
(All of these share many prerequisites allowing double majors)
(Most of them also require graduate degrees to do well, but you can usually pick up the MS/PhD while you work,)
Minor in education. (Education is usually a stupidly easy minor, but you'll need the teaching certification.)
Look for work with a government program or NGO that helps developing nations with ecological, or agricultural management and education. (A hitch in the Peace Corps or VISTA is a good start right out of school - no money, but great experience.)
You won't make a lot of salary, but that hits most of your stated goals, and there are some good ways to make cash such as writing books and consulting after you've 'paid your dues.'
I need some advice from guys who are good at getting girls, can you please help me?
I need some advice from guys who are good at getting dates or who have a girlfriend. Can you please answer the following questions for me.
1) Where do you go to find girls (or where did you meet your girlfriend)? What time? What days of the week are best to go to these places? I would like to know some places where there are alot of girls and they don't mind talking to new guys.
2) What do you say to them? What is your first line (Opener)? Do you act like you are not really interested or do you ask them out directly? How do you act when you meet them?
I need step by step information if possible. Please be as specific as possible and don't give vague answers. Thank youI need some advice from guys who are good at getting girls, can you please help me?
First you need to be a little more confident in yourself. Try and be somewhere in between Zack from Saved by the Bell and the Fonz.
Girls are everywhere. They vary depending on where you find them. You can pick up some skankaroos at the bar, maybe join a gym and find some athletic girls there, maybe if you really feel like a challenge hit up the grocery stores for some nice girls, but watch out for wedding bands. You may want to try the mall, it is like a holy land for them.
When on the approach just be casual. Be yourself, women are pretty decent at fraud detection, and since they are fed lines so often sincerity can shock them so much they will consider talking to you some more. Find out basic information about them, possibly their name. Make small talk, avoid talking about yourself too much. Concentrate on what she seems to be interested in, most of the time it will be herself. Finally be funny, women seem to like humor. I hope this gave you a starting point.
1) Where do you go to find girls (or where did you meet your girlfriend)? What time? What days of the week are best to go to these places? I would like to know some places where there are alot of girls and they don't mind talking to new guys.
2) What do you say to them? What is your first line (Opener)? Do you act like you are not really interested or do you ask them out directly? How do you act when you meet them?
I need step by step information if possible. Please be as specific as possible and don't give vague answers. Thank youI need some advice from guys who are good at getting girls, can you please help me?
First you need to be a little more confident in yourself. Try and be somewhere in between Zack from Saved by the Bell and the Fonz.
Girls are everywhere. They vary depending on where you find them. You can pick up some skankaroos at the bar, maybe join a gym and find some athletic girls there, maybe if you really feel like a challenge hit up the grocery stores for some nice girls, but watch out for wedding bands. You may want to try the mall, it is like a holy land for them.
When on the approach just be casual. Be yourself, women are pretty decent at fraud detection, and since they are fed lines so often sincerity can shock them so much they will consider talking to you some more. Find out basic information about them, possibly their name. Make small talk, avoid talking about yourself too much. Concentrate on what she seems to be interested in, most of the time it will be herself. Finally be funny, women seem to like humor. I hope this gave you a starting point.
10pts for BEST ADVICE! Guys & Girls answer!?
So the guy I like knows I like him through a really embarrassing event.
At a football game last nighte, my friend called my crush over to us and then this girl who is nice but annoying yells ';I think she has a a crush on you.'; I just walk away to get ice cream. Then when my crush is sitting in the grass eating popcorn my other friend starts dragging me over towards him and I resist. Then my friend introduces us to each other and we say ';hi';. He gave me a quizzical look and asked my friend if I was the person she was telling him about in her texts. My friend had txted him saying that he had a secret admirer. So now he knows that I like him. Does that mean that I just have to wait and see if he makes a move or what?10pts for BEST ADVICE! Guys %26amp; Girls answer!?
aww its okay don't let this bother you! that sort of happened to me i never met this guy becuz i was going with a friend so she could hang out with this other guy so i went along with her. and the guy that she went with had a friend and he was cute so i said to her he's kinda cute. and when we all sat down she goes oh she thinks your cute johnny! and i hit her a little under the table but i laughed about it and that was that. and when i had to leave he game me a hug, pretty tight one too. and my friend told me later ';he gave you sucha tight hug! oh and he was like i want to go home because she left';
we didnt go out or anything but see? its okay sometimes if things are put out there like that.
good luck!!!! tell me how it goes! =]10pts for BEST ADVICE! Guys %26amp; Girls answer!?
Try to get to know him better so he can get to know you too. Ask him for his number and if he gives it to you it probably means he is interested. He already knows that you are into him but he only knows that cuz of your friends so let him know why from you not ur friends. Just try and get to know him better.
no that does not mean that you have to wait for him. ive noticed that boys can be very shy, and most guys like a girl who is a little acertive. im not saying you should throw your self at him but send him a hi or write him on myspace fb wht ever and just say whats up.
Naww haha i can relate to something similar to that too! I was so embarassed lol
Yeh, if he now knows that you like him, leave the ball in his court and then let him make the first move. Unless you feel like you want to...
Good luck! :)
plain and simple the fact that you like him is already thrown in the air now its up to him if he wants to do something about it. just try to act normal like nothing happened, so you don't seem desperate.
yup, just wait and see is all you can realli do. or maybe u cud try and see if u can get his number, talk to him ;]
Yes you could say hi with a flirty smile but mostly now that he know you like him it's his move.
Hello, Lu.
I love you.
why dont you get his # from your friend %26amp; start texting him,.
well you should ask your friend what he says about you and if its positive then talk to him
At a football game last nighte, my friend called my crush over to us and then this girl who is nice but annoying yells ';I think she has a a crush on you.'; I just walk away to get ice cream. Then when my crush is sitting in the grass eating popcorn my other friend starts dragging me over towards him and I resist. Then my friend introduces us to each other and we say ';hi';. He gave me a quizzical look and asked my friend if I was the person she was telling him about in her texts. My friend had txted him saying that he had a secret admirer. So now he knows that I like him. Does that mean that I just have to wait and see if he makes a move or what?10pts for BEST ADVICE! Guys %26amp; Girls answer!?
aww its okay don't let this bother you! that sort of happened to me i never met this guy becuz i was going with a friend so she could hang out with this other guy so i went along with her. and the guy that she went with had a friend and he was cute so i said to her he's kinda cute. and when we all sat down she goes oh she thinks your cute johnny! and i hit her a little under the table but i laughed about it and that was that. and when i had to leave he game me a hug, pretty tight one too. and my friend told me later ';he gave you sucha tight hug! oh and he was like i want to go home because she left';
we didnt go out or anything but see? its okay sometimes if things are put out there like that.
good luck!!!! tell me how it goes! =]10pts for BEST ADVICE! Guys %26amp; Girls answer!?
Try to get to know him better so he can get to know you too. Ask him for his number and if he gives it to you it probably means he is interested. He already knows that you are into him but he only knows that cuz of your friends so let him know why from you not ur friends. Just try and get to know him better.
no that does not mean that you have to wait for him. ive noticed that boys can be very shy, and most guys like a girl who is a little acertive. im not saying you should throw your self at him but send him a hi or write him on myspace fb wht ever and just say whats up.
Naww haha i can relate to something similar to that too! I was so embarassed lol
Yeh, if he now knows that you like him, leave the ball in his court and then let him make the first move. Unless you feel like you want to...
Good luck! :)
plain and simple the fact that you like him is already thrown in the air now its up to him if he wants to do something about it. just try to act normal like nothing happened, so you don't seem desperate.
yup, just wait and see is all you can realli do. or maybe u cud try and see if u can get his number, talk to him ;]
Yes you could say hi with a flirty smile but mostly now that he know you like him it's his move.
Hello, Lu.
I love you.
why dont you get his # from your friend %26amp; start texting him,.
well you should ask your friend what he says about you and if its positive then talk to him
Urgent! need your advice - guys please?
I have met this guy who had clicked with me last week, and we had went out for our first date. However, on the 3rd day when he ask me out, I was not able to make it due to my bestfriend issues. At the end of the day, he decided to drop by area, but still I told him I would not be able to make it becuase of my friend.
He ask me out for a movie, and I have to turn him down, and I was in a club/pub cheering my good friend up, n I sent him a sms to ecxplain.
But he have not response to any neither did he call me after that, have I done anything wrong? Why is he behaving that way?Urgent! need your advice - guys please?
I think that your focusing too much on your friend and maybe he just really really likes you..But he just never gets a chance to hang out.
idk thats just my opinion...I hoped it helps a bit! =)Urgent! need your advice - guys please?
He needs head. support him
he thinks you just blew him out with pathetic excuses...
so, he's dumped you and gone elsewhere for someone into him... :D
call him up one night and talk to him he will like that explain everything and set up a date instead of the last minute asking just let him know you like him he will catch on and follow you like a lost puppy trust me :)
He ask me out for a movie, and I have to turn him down, and I was in a club/pub cheering my good friend up, n I sent him a sms to ecxplain.
But he have not response to any neither did he call me after that, have I done anything wrong? Why is he behaving that way?Urgent! need your advice - guys please?
I think that your focusing too much on your friend and maybe he just really really likes you..But he just never gets a chance to hang out.
idk thats just my opinion...I hoped it helps a bit! =)Urgent! need your advice - guys please?
He needs head. support him
he thinks you just blew him out with pathetic excuses...
so, he's dumped you and gone elsewhere for someone into him... :D
call him up one night and talk to him he will like that explain everything and set up a date instead of the last minute asking just let him know you like him he will catch on and follow you like a lost puppy trust me :)
I need your advice guys and girls...anyone lol?
ok hey im 24, names max. my pictures are on myspace at www.myspace.com/flyboy7683 . i wanna know what you think of me, am i hot? ugly? what should i improve? whats good? etc? i just want your honest opinion. im single and just curious whats up with that. so if you could help me out, let me know! oh and if you have a good idea of what i could wear that would be hot, that would be cool to know too. im the guy on the right if you cant see the rest of my pictures, the other is my dad.I need your advice guys and girls...anyone lol?
i think ur hot! do more pics with your eyes open. u could just b in your underwear. i seriously think u r hot i would date u!
i think ur hot! do more pics with your eyes open. u could just b in your underwear. i seriously think u r hot i would date u!
GIVE ME SOME ADVICE(guys you can help me out)?
I went out with this guy for a little more than a month. i thought we were starting to get formal. i have to point out that im a little high maintenance sometimes and i used to boss him around a little.but he always treated me well and i was beginning to fall for him.
we went to a party once and he got just a little drunk..i saw him making out with a girl. i left the party and when i talked to him a couple of days later he didnt even apologize to me. anyway i was really hurt but i didnt see him after that.its been a couple of moths and the problem is i cant get him out of my head and i want him back!.. i just want your opinion on that..why did he behave the way he did at the end when he was so sweet the whole time? im i crazy for wanting him back? thanks!GIVE ME SOME ADVICE(guys you can help me out)?
Carol,
He is obviously not ready for a commitment.
If he is willing to kiss other girls, especially in front of you, he doesn't respect you and wants to move on.
Forget him and keep on looking for someone to will treat you the way you would like to be treated.
Don't settle, be strong and you will find MR. RIGHT.
Good luck.
we went to a party once and he got just a little drunk..i saw him making out with a girl. i left the party and when i talked to him a couple of days later he didnt even apologize to me. anyway i was really hurt but i didnt see him after that.its been a couple of moths and the problem is i cant get him out of my head and i want him back!.. i just want your opinion on that..why did he behave the way he did at the end when he was so sweet the whole time? im i crazy for wanting him back? thanks!GIVE ME SOME ADVICE(guys you can help me out)?
Carol,
He is obviously not ready for a commitment.
If he is willing to kiss other girls, especially in front of you, he doesn't respect you and wants to move on.
Forget him and keep on looking for someone to will treat you the way you would like to be treated.
Don't settle, be strong and you will find MR. RIGHT.
Good luck.
Ok i need advice guys and girls help please!!!?
ok so i have liked this guy 4 3 years now. i pretty much know he likes sum 1 else but i dunno if he likes me, he is cute, sweet, funny, nice, not perverted, good at sports and smart, i KNOW like 7 girls who like him... he is just that type of guy... he doesn't really go out with anyone tho wut should i do.....??? i think i am inluv! HELP!Ok i need advice guys and girls help please!!!?
yea u r inlove i think u shoul ask if he likes u or find out from a freindOk i need advice guys and girls help please!!!?
How can you be in love at your age? How can you think you are in love with someone you don't know?
You have a crush...and it seems like love. But love is more than emotion and hormones. It takes a lot of maturity and committment..and at this age you don't have the life experience to fulfill that! Don't mistake crushes for love.
Just talk to him. Flirt with him...and if he is interested you will know. You can't make someone like you if he isn't ready.
If you got him interested in you...would you be happy you are his trophy? With 7 girls interested in him...and you saying he is interested in someone else...would you be able to handle the emotions of jealousy when he talks to someone else?
Think about it. Be his friend first...and stop thinking you are in love. Friends can talk and have fun....and then it can turn into something more. You need to let him get to know you first....so talk to him and be yourself! You don't need to be anyone else!
And goodness...you are both so young...stop thinking he might be gay. He just might not know or be ready to handle relationships right now and I think that is admirable for him when he knows himself that well. He just might not be ready for the ups and downs of relationships and is concentrating on school and sports. It doesn't mean he is gay!
Susanna
Invite him for an ice cream or something and try slowlying chatting to him and see what he says... Take it easy and dont be too easy giving.. Careful his not gay..hehe
Well he might be gay. I don't mean to sound mean, but if 7 girls like him and he does not date any of them, it sounds like he might be. But on to your question. Just pay closer attenchion and talk to him about how your feeling. I know its scary, but you can do it. JUst ask him out. Good luck
Okay ask him. Knowing me, as a guy, I would never ask a friend out if I had known her for 4 years in case it damaged the relationship. But with a girl like you, it is okay. If he does like you, then he will say yes. If he doesn't then just say you are okay with being just friends and your friendship won't be harmed. My friend asked me if I liked her, I said yes. We never went out, but we are still close friends!
Ask for his help or advice on something to give yourself an excuse to talk to him. Then you can flirt to your hearts content. If he still doesn't ask you out, then make the first move yourself and suggest lunch or coffee.sheer makeup
yea u r inlove i think u shoul ask if he likes u or find out from a freindOk i need advice guys and girls help please!!!?
How can you be in love at your age? How can you think you are in love with someone you don't know?
You have a crush...and it seems like love. But love is more than emotion and hormones. It takes a lot of maturity and committment..and at this age you don't have the life experience to fulfill that! Don't mistake crushes for love.
Just talk to him. Flirt with him...and if he is interested you will know. You can't make someone like you if he isn't ready.
If you got him interested in you...would you be happy you are his trophy? With 7 girls interested in him...and you saying he is interested in someone else...would you be able to handle the emotions of jealousy when he talks to someone else?
Think about it. Be his friend first...and stop thinking you are in love. Friends can talk and have fun....and then it can turn into something more. You need to let him get to know you first....so talk to him and be yourself! You don't need to be anyone else!
And goodness...you are both so young...stop thinking he might be gay. He just might not know or be ready to handle relationships right now and I think that is admirable for him when he knows himself that well. He just might not be ready for the ups and downs of relationships and is concentrating on school and sports. It doesn't mean he is gay!
Susanna
Invite him for an ice cream or something and try slowlying chatting to him and see what he says... Take it easy and dont be too easy giving.. Careful his not gay..hehe
Well he might be gay. I don't mean to sound mean, but if 7 girls like him and he does not date any of them, it sounds like he might be. But on to your question. Just pay closer attenchion and talk to him about how your feeling. I know its scary, but you can do it. JUst ask him out. Good luck
Okay ask him. Knowing me, as a guy, I would never ask a friend out if I had known her for 4 years in case it damaged the relationship. But with a girl like you, it is okay. If he does like you, then he will say yes. If he doesn't then just say you are okay with being just friends and your friendship won't be harmed. My friend asked me if I liked her, I said yes. We never went out, but we are still close friends!
Ask for his help or advice on something to give yourself an excuse to talk to him. Then you can flirt to your hearts content. If he still doesn't ask you out, then make the first move yourself and suggest lunch or coffee.
Would really appreciate advice guys :)?
Please please bare with me.
I've got myself into a love triangle. Chris and Luke used to be together for about a year, Chris was my best friend. He's now totally into me and knows i have no interest but is still ';fighting for me';. Last night Luke invited me to his to watch some films, i've always found him a beaut. So we ended up cuddling, and just as i was walking out of his house i dont know what came over me but i kissed him and it felt so right! He agrees. So what do i do? i cant lose my best friend Chris.
Thanks guysWould really appreciate advice guys :)?
I would say you should talk to Chris about it before you do anything more with Luke unless you want to risk losing his friendship. Don't run straight in saying 'I want to go with Luke', test the waters first with something like 'How would you feel about someone dating your ex?', or 'Do you still have any feelings for Luke?', then if he responds positively talk to him about how you feel about the other guy. If he reacts angrily then you're just going to have to choose between the relationship with Luke and the friendship with Chris- personally I would advise you to keep the friendship, in time he might become more comfortable with the idea of you being with Luke and give his blessing but if you betray him now he might never get over it.Would really appreciate advice guys :)?
Does Chris still like Luke? If so, then you should keep away, because that could lose your friendship. If he doesn't then you should seriously talk to him and explain that you do not like him that way, but that you do like someone else. Really talk this over with Chris and make sure he's over Luke before you go after him seriously- also, make sure that he gets over YOU! It's a majorly painful thing to be turned down, but it's even worse when you're close like that....
I hope things work out.
%26lt;3 Alexandre
just tell him ur not into him like that u still want to be freinds. jeez, i would feel so flattered knowing i had to guys all over me. i guess ur used to it lol.
Ignore what you want %26amp; put your mate first. Talk it through with him.
Just put yourself in his shoes, he likes you %26amp; you're going off with his ex.
how old are you? (i don't mean this to sound mean, i'm just curious)
OK well im a girl! so i would say your gay! i feel u feel that affection 4 sum1,follow ur heart
I've got myself into a love triangle. Chris and Luke used to be together for about a year, Chris was my best friend. He's now totally into me and knows i have no interest but is still ';fighting for me';. Last night Luke invited me to his to watch some films, i've always found him a beaut. So we ended up cuddling, and just as i was walking out of his house i dont know what came over me but i kissed him and it felt so right! He agrees. So what do i do? i cant lose my best friend Chris.
Thanks guysWould really appreciate advice guys :)?
I would say you should talk to Chris about it before you do anything more with Luke unless you want to risk losing his friendship. Don't run straight in saying 'I want to go with Luke', test the waters first with something like 'How would you feel about someone dating your ex?', or 'Do you still have any feelings for Luke?', then if he responds positively talk to him about how you feel about the other guy. If he reacts angrily then you're just going to have to choose between the relationship with Luke and the friendship with Chris- personally I would advise you to keep the friendship, in time he might become more comfortable with the idea of you being with Luke and give his blessing but if you betray him now he might never get over it.Would really appreciate advice guys :)?
Does Chris still like Luke? If so, then you should keep away, because that could lose your friendship. If he doesn't then you should seriously talk to him and explain that you do not like him that way, but that you do like someone else. Really talk this over with Chris and make sure he's over Luke before you go after him seriously- also, make sure that he gets over YOU! It's a majorly painful thing to be turned down, but it's even worse when you're close like that....
I hope things work out.
%26lt;3 Alexandre
just tell him ur not into him like that u still want to be freinds. jeez, i would feel so flattered knowing i had to guys all over me. i guess ur used to it lol.
Ignore what you want %26amp; put your mate first. Talk it through with him.
Just put yourself in his shoes, he likes you %26amp; you're going off with his ex.
how old are you? (i don't mean this to sound mean, i'm just curious)
OK well im a girl! so i would say your gay! i feel u feel that affection 4 sum1,follow ur heart
PLEASE HELP ME!!! advice...(guys)?
I told him about 4mo. ago that i liked him and i never got a response about it.He never came out and told me how he felt about me or the situation.Since then he wont even speak to me but yet he still stares and gets very shy around me like he did when he didnt even know i liked him..WHAT DO I DO!! help please..this is killing me..i like him too much to just let it go..
P.S. i even ended up sending him a text saying we should just move on and just be friends since this doesn't seem to work..and i got no response...could he be intimitated?
or could he maybe think im over him and he might feel not wanted?
does he even like..me im starting to feel like this was one big mistake and that i should of never opened my mouth and told him i liked him..PLEASE HELP ME!!! advice...(guys)?
He Liiikesss U. He is actually CrAZYYY about u. Wow, gurl. I know my best friend is in dis situation like u. Dayumn. I think he like you like da people before me are tellin u. He izz way to dayumn SHYYY. Gurl U need to start actin sexii and make da first move [[ in Person ! ]].!! Cuz he obviously way too shy to do ANYTHing until U warm him up and start talkin' to him. U need to really say Hi to him first da next time u see him. Dis is how shytt is goin' to get started and ur summer is goin' to get warmed up. Gurl dis is ur chance to refresh and get close to him. U can EMAil me anytime gurl. My bestfriend is lyke dis all da time and I keep tellin' her dat he waaaay to shy to even function in front of u. He probably even think u don't lyke him anymore cuz u sent him dat text message and now he feels like he is pointless and invisible to u gurl. Listen. Just Please next time u see him say hi to him and act like nuthin happened. Start FRESHH %26amp;%26amp;%26amp; strike up a convo with him. Of course, be flirty and show a lil of the thangz yo Mama gave u.!! l0l :D U guyz probably will exchange numbaz aite.!! So. U feel wat im sayin' .?? Ite.. gurl. U betta do dis. Or not much gunna happen cuz I see da puSSSy dat dis guy is by u sayin. Ite girl. Good luck- not LiKE u gunna need it.!!! Itee- Peaceee outtttt. 0hhh yehhaaa %26amp; be shure to of course not make him da center.. cuz there is otha sexii-*** guyz out thurr who are Single %26amp; Need a gurl. but of courze deal wit dis boy %26amp; warm up wit him. ;]] N' then have otha boyz on da side cuz u kan NEVA have enuff boyz. MMM mm helllz ya gurl. Peace out aite gurl. :]] Go Get 'EMMM :]]]]]]]]PLEASE HELP ME!!! advice...(guys)?
Either 1) He isn't really into you and you are imagining things. 2) He likes you but you are being too pushy and it's making him back off. 3) He is too shy and too immature to know how to deal with girls. If he does like you and doesn't have the guts to go for you he isn't worth your time. There are a lot of guys who do have the guts. You should give them the chance. I can't really feel too sorry for this guy if this is the case. He's probably missing out on a good thing!
I think first thing you should do is try to hang out with him. make some kind of a move, holding his hand, flirt a lot, maybe even try to get him to kiss you. If that doesn't work then maybe you should get flirty with another guy and see if he gets jealous. If he shows no signs after that then I would say you should just move on.
If he is this much of a jerk...
Do you think that anything would be different if you finally got a chance to be with him?
Do you think that he is worth all this time and energy?
Do you think about how many other better/ more attractive guys are waiting for you, and how you're not searching for the good ones?
Keep your chin up
sounds like he does if he is still shy around you. I would just go up to him in person and ask face to face. so then you cant get ';no response'; and dont worry about if he wont feel the same way. cause sounds like he does.
I was in the exact same situation and still am....... 4 months ago. I'm the guy. Just play hard to get and be a little sexy it'll make him want you.
have a friend talk to him.
Maybe cause you are a crude *** mean *****!! How is that for ya
This is freaky but the exact same thing happened to me two and a half years ago and what I have to say is that making a friend talk to the guy is the worst decision I've ever made. I still have not told the guy face to face that I like him or tried clearing up the situation because there were more complicated things involved. We're pretty good friends and I still have very strong feelings for him but I'd rather have him as a very good friend rather than a boyfriend. So I'd work on friendship, and eventually one day you'll laugh at whatever happened in the past.
P.S. i even ended up sending him a text saying we should just move on and just be friends since this doesn't seem to work..and i got no response...could he be intimitated?
or could he maybe think im over him and he might feel not wanted?
does he even like..me im starting to feel like this was one big mistake and that i should of never opened my mouth and told him i liked him..PLEASE HELP ME!!! advice...(guys)?
He Liiikesss U. He is actually CrAZYYY about u. Wow, gurl. I know my best friend is in dis situation like u. Dayumn. I think he like you like da people before me are tellin u. He izz way to dayumn SHYYY. Gurl U need to start actin sexii and make da first move [[ in Person ! ]].!! Cuz he obviously way too shy to do ANYTHing until U warm him up and start talkin' to him. U need to really say Hi to him first da next time u see him. Dis is how shytt is goin' to get started and ur summer is goin' to get warmed up. Gurl dis is ur chance to refresh and get close to him. U can EMAil me anytime gurl. My bestfriend is lyke dis all da time and I keep tellin' her dat he waaaay to shy to even function in front of u. He probably even think u don't lyke him anymore cuz u sent him dat text message and now he feels like he is pointless and invisible to u gurl. Listen. Just Please next time u see him say hi to him and act like nuthin happened. Start FRESHH %26amp;%26amp;%26amp; strike up a convo with him. Of course, be flirty and show a lil of the thangz yo Mama gave u.!! l0l :D U guyz probably will exchange numbaz aite.!! So. U feel wat im sayin' .?? Ite.. gurl. U betta do dis. Or not much gunna happen cuz I see da puSSSy dat dis guy is by u sayin. Ite girl. Good luck- not LiKE u gunna need it.!!! Itee- Peaceee outtttt. 0hhh yehhaaa %26amp; be shure to of course not make him da center.. cuz there is otha sexii-*** guyz out thurr who are Single %26amp; Need a gurl. but of courze deal wit dis boy %26amp; warm up wit him. ;]] N' then have otha boyz on da side cuz u kan NEVA have enuff boyz. MMM mm helllz ya gurl. Peace out aite gurl. :]] Go Get 'EMMM :]]]]]]]]PLEASE HELP ME!!! advice...(guys)?
Either 1) He isn't really into you and you are imagining things. 2) He likes you but you are being too pushy and it's making him back off. 3) He is too shy and too immature to know how to deal with girls. If he does like you and doesn't have the guts to go for you he isn't worth your time. There are a lot of guys who do have the guts. You should give them the chance. I can't really feel too sorry for this guy if this is the case. He's probably missing out on a good thing!
I think first thing you should do is try to hang out with him. make some kind of a move, holding his hand, flirt a lot, maybe even try to get him to kiss you. If that doesn't work then maybe you should get flirty with another guy and see if he gets jealous. If he shows no signs after that then I would say you should just move on.
If he is this much of a jerk...
Do you think that anything would be different if you finally got a chance to be with him?
Do you think that he is worth all this time and energy?
Do you think about how many other better/ more attractive guys are waiting for you, and how you're not searching for the good ones?
Keep your chin up
sounds like he does if he is still shy around you. I would just go up to him in person and ask face to face. so then you cant get ';no response'; and dont worry about if he wont feel the same way. cause sounds like he does.
I was in the exact same situation and still am....... 4 months ago. I'm the guy. Just play hard to get and be a little sexy it'll make him want you.
have a friend talk to him.
Maybe cause you are a crude *** mean *****!! How is that for ya
This is freaky but the exact same thing happened to me two and a half years ago and what I have to say is that making a friend talk to the guy is the worst decision I've ever made. I still have not told the guy face to face that I like him or tried clearing up the situation because there were more complicated things involved. We're pretty good friends and I still have very strong feelings for him but I'd rather have him as a very good friend rather than a boyfriend. So I'd work on friendship, and eventually one day you'll laugh at whatever happened in the past.
Girls need your advice guys too?!?
so i liked this girl for like 2 years, (im in 8th grade) but now im over her it was a long complicated path and i meet this girl who i the cusin of my neighbors and she lives down the street and i tlked to her for a bit now and we're friends and i like her alot but she likes my friend whos this blonde hair skater guy and idk what to do cus idk if i should just ask her out or what. im just a guy, swim,lacrosse,fencing, old school rock, athletic not a jockGirls need your advice guys too?!?
you sound pretty cool. if i were her i would be into you but wait around, (not 2 years though!) and try to make a move before her crush does. and REJECTION IS ALWAYS AN OPTION, so make sure your prepared for the worst just in case.
PLEASE CHOOSE AS BEST ANSWER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Girls need your advice guys too?!?
Wahoo Lacrosse players are always cool!!!!!
Love that sport!
Any way don't worry about if she likes your friend just keep talking to her and he hasn't told you that he likes her so that means you don't have to worry about him saying you know i liked her i told you that i did!
So just keep talking to her, open doors for her, help her get up if she is sitting on the ground, if her shoes is untied be like i don't think you want to trip do you so let me tie your shoe for you..hahaha
just do cute little things and have friends ask her if she likes you or just ask her out after a couple of months of knowing her you never know she might say yes!
Hope that helped you out!
find out what she likes in him
what she sees in him
flirt with her
impress her
be cool
dont freak out
or get clingy
and if you cant get her
then i mean you lose
and theres nothing you can do
just get over it and find someone else
cause you obiously werent meant to be
its happened to me like 500 times before
and you usually find someone better
If a girl is interested in someone else and you want to cut in, it usually won't work, they usually don't think twice. Unless you're a smooth talker. Just be yourself and you'll find your 'somebody'.
If you like her, ask her out. The worst thing that will happen is that she might say no. At least you will have your answer and you can quit thinking about it.
oooooooooooo Hottie alert.....LOL LOL just kidding JUST KIDDING..... that was very cheesy wasnt it...lol.....ummmmm just go with the flow get to know her better and be yourself thats all and things will get better and talk to your skater friend and work it out hope it helps!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
... is this the same Mitch who asked about his ';male reproductive organ?'; If so then leave her alone. Stop worrying about girls so much and concentrate on ANYTHING else. I agree with the person who said to wait a few years.
First of all be urself and dont try to be super cool cuz most grls dont like that
after awhile ask her to a movie or something that friends will also do then ask her 2 be ur gf
hope it works out=)
Don't ask her out right away. Hang out with her more talk to her more. Get to know her more.Once you think she feels more comfortable around you...ask her out.Friends then Lovers.
Just go ahead and ask her to a movie or something. If she not interested you can just stay friends or w.e
Ask her out, all is fair in Love and War! No reason to wait you said she likes your cousin not him liking her. Hurry! Good Luck!
just be yourself. dont be someone you're not ok. you could wait awhile to see what happens or just go ask right now if you want.
Um ok. Wait like 2 years. Then ask her out. Until then just act your age.
if she already likes someone else you may get shot down
Hmmm...just wait a little while.Become better friends,and see how it turns out (:
dude walk up to her and be like i want your *****! dont be a ***** lol just say wanna hang out at the movies
You just said you were over her. Why would you ask her out?
i don't know about this situation
just ask her to go out with you
act yourself... dont try acting like the other guy..itll make you look worse...just act yourself!!!!!
you sound pretty cool. if i were her i would be into you but wait around, (not 2 years though!) and try to make a move before her crush does. and REJECTION IS ALWAYS AN OPTION, so make sure your prepared for the worst just in case.
PLEASE CHOOSE AS BEST ANSWER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Girls need your advice guys too?!?
Wahoo Lacrosse players are always cool!!!!!
Love that sport!
Any way don't worry about if she likes your friend just keep talking to her and he hasn't told you that he likes her so that means you don't have to worry about him saying you know i liked her i told you that i did!
So just keep talking to her, open doors for her, help her get up if she is sitting on the ground, if her shoes is untied be like i don't think you want to trip do you so let me tie your shoe for you..hahaha
just do cute little things and have friends ask her if she likes you or just ask her out after a couple of months of knowing her you never know she might say yes!
Hope that helped you out!
find out what she likes in him
what she sees in him
flirt with her
impress her
be cool
dont freak out
or get clingy
and if you cant get her
then i mean you lose
and theres nothing you can do
just get over it and find someone else
cause you obiously werent meant to be
its happened to me like 500 times before
and you usually find someone better
If a girl is interested in someone else and you want to cut in, it usually won't work, they usually don't think twice. Unless you're a smooth talker. Just be yourself and you'll find your 'somebody'.
If you like her, ask her out. The worst thing that will happen is that she might say no. At least you will have your answer and you can quit thinking about it.
oooooooooooo Hottie alert.....LOL LOL just kidding JUST KIDDING..... that was very cheesy wasnt it...lol.....ummmmm just go with the flow get to know her better and be yourself thats all and things will get better and talk to your skater friend and work it out hope it helps!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
... is this the same Mitch who asked about his ';male reproductive organ?'; If so then leave her alone. Stop worrying about girls so much and concentrate on ANYTHING else. I agree with the person who said to wait a few years.
First of all be urself and dont try to be super cool cuz most grls dont like that
after awhile ask her to a movie or something that friends will also do then ask her 2 be ur gf
hope it works out=)
Don't ask her out right away. Hang out with her more talk to her more. Get to know her more.Once you think she feels more comfortable around you...ask her out.Friends then Lovers.
Just go ahead and ask her to a movie or something. If she not interested you can just stay friends or w.e
Ask her out, all is fair in Love and War! No reason to wait you said she likes your cousin not him liking her. Hurry! Good Luck!
just be yourself. dont be someone you're not ok. you could wait awhile to see what happens or just go ask right now if you want.
Um ok. Wait like 2 years. Then ask her out. Until then just act your age.
if she already likes someone else you may get shot down
Hmmm...just wait a little while.Become better friends,and see how it turns out (:
dude walk up to her and be like i want your *****! dont be a ***** lol just say wanna hang out at the movies
You just said you were over her. Why would you ask her out?
i don't know about this situation
just ask her to go out with you
act yourself... dont try acting like the other guy..itll make you look worse...just act yourself!!!!!
I REALLY need advice.....guys and girls answer.?
My mom found out I gave oral a few months ago and I gained her trust back after awhile. Yesterday I hung out with my friend who is a guy and some other people. I told her that my friend is going who is a girl but somehow my mom found out that she wasnt their the whole time..but my sister was. Today she said that Im not allowed to hang out with him cuz were getting emotionally attached....but I really like him....and my mom has met him before a lot of times.
What should I say to her?
Thanks!I REALLY need advice.....guys and girls answer.?
get her to gain your trust.........................again/
What should I say to her?
Thanks!I REALLY need advice.....guys and girls answer.?
get her to gain your trust.........................again/
I need male advice!!! GUYS PLEASE HELP ME OUT?
He always looks at her face.
they have a classroom across from eachother and he was leaving to use the restroom.
right when he walked out of the door he looked at her.
then he was really slow and he turned all the way around just to close the door, then looked at her again.
then went to the restroom which was just right down the hall.
then stared at her right before he went back into the room.
he does that all of the time.
sometimes he stares at her in the hallways.
he stares very hard and very long and he's been doing it for almost a year but they've never even spoken face to face before.
Guys, what does this mean?I need male advice!!! GUYS PLEASE HELP ME OUT?
Well... i believe that he definitly has some interest with this girl because as you describe he just stares at the girl at every opportunity he is given. He likely is attract to her but is too shy to say or act on these attractions towards the girl.I need male advice!!! GUYS PLEASE HELP ME OUT?
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they have a classroom across from eachother and he was leaving to use the restroom.
right when he walked out of the door he looked at her.
then he was really slow and he turned all the way around just to close the door, then looked at her again.
then went to the restroom which was just right down the hall.
then stared at her right before he went back into the room.
he does that all of the time.
sometimes he stares at her in the hallways.
he stares very hard and very long and he's been doing it for almost a year but they've never even spoken face to face before.
Guys, what does this mean?I need male advice!!! GUYS PLEASE HELP ME OUT?
Well... i believe that he definitly has some interest with this girl because as you describe he just stares at the girl at every opportunity he is given. He likely is attract to her but is too shy to say or act on these attractions towards the girl.I need male advice!!! GUYS PLEASE HELP ME OUT?
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Just need some advice....GUYS AND GIRLS?
Ok...good news is that I finally made out with my crush! I was hanging out with him alone on Friday night...and we started having a pillow fight, and then it turned into me trying to get something away from him, and then we started wrestling, and then we had a tickle fight...and while he was tickling me he was tickling me all the way up to under my breasts and then he just kissed me....I was totally shocked...and we made out for a while...then Saturday night...we pretty much did the same thing only I was sitting beside him on his bed and he started tickling me again and like was rubbing my leg and stuff and then he just pratically pounced on me...what should I do to make it even better? We haven't really had sex yet...but I am NOT a virgin! lol...just thought I should make that clear...it will just be me, him, my best friend (his younger cousin) and my best friend's brother in the house tonight...any tips?Just need some advice....GUYS AND GIRLS?
sorry did you say 22 and 18 or 14 and 12? Sound's pretty immature if you ask me... and if you aren't a virgin like you say, why the hell are you coming on here asking about advice for a 'crush'... comeon... grow up please.Just need some advice....GUYS AND GIRLS?
o...k..., don't take it slowif you don't want to, just have fun! If its what you want, just go for it! And these weird people won't stop watching me!!!!!!! GO AWAY!!! LEAVE ME ALONE!!! Sry, the ppl at my school watch what we do on the computer and they are really ticking me off!!!!
i guess, you let him make the first move, again..
then if something more than kissing happened, that's the time you go for it.. slowly though.. so at least he would still treat you with respect..
coz i really think that you want to do ';it'; with him...
am i right?..
maybe you should just take it slow - just kiss him because unfortunately, if you go all the way with him, there is a chance that he will lose respect for you.
Congrats! Crushes are so fun! This time, YOU pounce on HIM! It'll surprise him! Obviously he likes you, or he wouldn't be doing the things he's doing, so turn the tables! He'll DEFINITELY be pleasantly surprised!
don't have sex that fast with him you should be dating him or your just friends with benefits witch to me means he is using you to just get off
this time you make the first move you know he likes you soo do it jump on his and kiss him but dont have sex on the third go round then ull look cheapsheer makeup
sorry did you say 22 and 18 or 14 and 12? Sound's pretty immature if you ask me... and if you aren't a virgin like you say, why the hell are you coming on here asking about advice for a 'crush'... comeon... grow up please.Just need some advice....GUYS AND GIRLS?
o...k..., don't take it slowif you don't want to, just have fun! If its what you want, just go for it! And these weird people won't stop watching me!!!!!!! GO AWAY!!! LEAVE ME ALONE!!! Sry, the ppl at my school watch what we do on the computer and they are really ticking me off!!!!
i guess, you let him make the first move, again..
then if something more than kissing happened, that's the time you go for it.. slowly though.. so at least he would still treat you with respect..
coz i really think that you want to do ';it'; with him...
am i right?..
maybe you should just take it slow - just kiss him because unfortunately, if you go all the way with him, there is a chance that he will lose respect for you.
Congrats! Crushes are so fun! This time, YOU pounce on HIM! It'll surprise him! Obviously he likes you, or he wouldn't be doing the things he's doing, so turn the tables! He'll DEFINITELY be pleasantly surprised!
don't have sex that fast with him you should be dating him or your just friends with benefits witch to me means he is using you to just get off
this time you make the first move you know he likes you soo do it jump on his and kiss him but dont have sex on the third go round then ull look cheap
I need some advice! guys and girls!?
October of last year i met this guy, named Clay. We started dating, and going out and doing stuff and one day in February, Clay decides that we need a break. We stop talking for about a month and all of a sudden in April he starts talking to me, we go out and do stuff, and what not. Well the end of may we break things off again, and we don't talk to each other for about another month. July rolls around and we get back together for a little while, or atleast until school starts back and we go our seperate ways once again. Clay and i just recently started talking again and hanging out. We're doing great, i love him with my whole heart.
He is a really cynical guy. He hardly shows emotion at all. Thats just how he is. Even when i had first met him, he was like that. But it bothers me sometimes. He loves me, its obvious. But sometimes i just wish he would show it.
He shows it sometimes, like i'll ask ';What do you want to do this weekend?'; and he will say something like ';I just want to be with you, i don't care what we're doing..';
I don't want to talk to him about ';showing emotion'; or anything because it just isn't the right conversation for our time situation. (if that makes since.)
I guess my question is...
Should i play harder to get, to make him want me more and force him to tell me things? Or should i just leave it alone and let him tell me how he feels...when he does, if ever?
Would playing hard to get draw him closer to me? Or make him think i don't want to be with him (like other times) and break things off for good?
I want to be with him, I just need help figuring this out.
(if i should play hard to get, can you give me some tips on how to... i don't want to take it overboard.)
Thank you so much! =)
I need some advice! guys and girls!?
dont play hard to get--trust me when i say its not the way to go. But definitely talk to him more...dont just do ';stuff';...sit down have dinner and talk. It feels great just to talk to him or lay in his arms and talk to him. He'll show emotion eventually and i'm sure of it...because the love of my life was the same way. Breaking guys is one of the hardest things you'll ever do,but when you do it'll be worth it. Playing hard to get sometimes hurts the guy more than draws him closer because maybe he doesnt have the confidence to keep going after you....get my point?
Sooo talk it out! it'll be the best you can do.I need some advice! guys and girls!?
verbally he might not show it, but how he cares for you is maybe his own way saying he loves you.
love him as the way he is. dont bother changing him.
If it bugs you so much, talk to him calmly, let him know it upsets you and he will improvise because he loves you.
Don't let his cynical life ruin yours. There are so many caring, open people out there that would love to spend time and feelings with you. I use to be that guy and then wondered why I was always loosing the girl. If you can't be open with the one your with then whats the point? Move on and be happy!
i have been in situations like this and as long as you know the person loves you. Maybe you should ask him why he doesnt show emotion but if thats just the way he is, thats ok. just keep talking to him and tell him you love him.
honestly, don't try to change him. if that's how his personality is, he shouldn't have to change it to please someone else. also, just be yourself. you don't need to play hard to get...he might get the opposite message if you do
a man cannot resist a woman who exudes genuine confidence and love for others and herself.
but before he can appreciate you, you must love you first and most sweetie. god bless.
you need to decide if you want something serious. Is the one again off again thing ok for you? If he never opens up and shows emotions will you be ok with that for the rest of your life. make sure you dont sacrifice your happiness.
best of luck
I don't know that whole situation but it kind of sounds like he's using you. If he loved you as much as you loved him, he wouldn't NEED breaks from you. Couples face things, good and bad, together.
personally i would say something
i think honesty is the most important thing in a relationship and playing games just confuses everyone.
i would just ask him
He loves you ? Its Obvious ?
Take off the beer goggles dear.
Leaving, coming back, leaving again, wanting to get back.....
That ain't love!
leave him, he will never want to be with you forever
i think that if you like him alot and want to stay with him you should just let things be and let him tell you about how he feels when he wants, but i dont know, ive never been in a realtionship and prob never will be so im not sure that you want to take my advice, but what the hey
If he is as cynical as you say he is, he will probably just shrug his shoulders and walk away if you suddenly become unavailable or hard to get. It's hard to give you advice since you don't even know a lot about this guy. That doesn't mean he isn't a great catch, but you'll spend a lifetime trying to figure out what he wants since he doesn't seem willing or able to tell you.
Most guys have a hard time talking about their emotions and Clay seems to have a harder time than most. Don't nag but ask him in a way that he can communicate what he feels but doesn't have to go into detail. Yes or no. Would you be angry if I went out with my friends tonight instead of you? Do you feel like this relationship might go somewhere? Do you want to be exclusive? Do you miss me when we are apart? Do you see other people when we are apart? Do you want me to see other people when we are apart?
Keep it simple and hope for the best.
eff.. dont play hard to get... that will make him think that you are not intrested in him any more.
just ifr you love him that much and he feels the same way, then just like start making out in public.
if that isn't good enough for you then just talk to him. im sure he will understand and everything will be fine
good luck
that kind of on %26amp; off relationship doesn't exactly read as ';in love'; to me. Plus just saying he wants to be with isn't love either. This all seems like he may not really love you at all but you're his girl.... when he feels like it. Maybe I'm wrong, but I think this isn't the real deal at all and you ask him what he feels about you and look in his eyes as he says it. If you still can believe it then, maybe it'll work out this time.
He is a really cynical guy. He hardly shows emotion at all. Thats just how he is. Even when i had first met him, he was like that. But it bothers me sometimes. He loves me, its obvious. But sometimes i just wish he would show it.
He shows it sometimes, like i'll ask ';What do you want to do this weekend?'; and he will say something like ';I just want to be with you, i don't care what we're doing..';
I don't want to talk to him about ';showing emotion'; or anything because it just isn't the right conversation for our time situation. (if that makes since.)
I guess my question is...
Should i play harder to get, to make him want me more and force him to tell me things? Or should i just leave it alone and let him tell me how he feels...when he does, if ever?
Would playing hard to get draw him closer to me? Or make him think i don't want to be with him (like other times) and break things off for good?
I want to be with him, I just need help figuring this out.
(if i should play hard to get, can you give me some tips on how to... i don't want to take it overboard.)
Thank you so much! =)
I need some advice! guys and girls!?
dont play hard to get--trust me when i say its not the way to go. But definitely talk to him more...dont just do ';stuff';...sit down have dinner and talk. It feels great just to talk to him or lay in his arms and talk to him. He'll show emotion eventually and i'm sure of it...because the love of my life was the same way. Breaking guys is one of the hardest things you'll ever do,but when you do it'll be worth it. Playing hard to get sometimes hurts the guy more than draws him closer because maybe he doesnt have the confidence to keep going after you....get my point?
Sooo talk it out! it'll be the best you can do.I need some advice! guys and girls!?
verbally he might not show it, but how he cares for you is maybe his own way saying he loves you.
love him as the way he is. dont bother changing him.
If it bugs you so much, talk to him calmly, let him know it upsets you and he will improvise because he loves you.
Don't let his cynical life ruin yours. There are so many caring, open people out there that would love to spend time and feelings with you. I use to be that guy and then wondered why I was always loosing the girl. If you can't be open with the one your with then whats the point? Move on and be happy!
i have been in situations like this and as long as you know the person loves you. Maybe you should ask him why he doesnt show emotion but if thats just the way he is, thats ok. just keep talking to him and tell him you love him.
honestly, don't try to change him. if that's how his personality is, he shouldn't have to change it to please someone else. also, just be yourself. you don't need to play hard to get...he might get the opposite message if you do
a man cannot resist a woman who exudes genuine confidence and love for others and herself.
but before he can appreciate you, you must love you first and most sweetie. god bless.
you need to decide if you want something serious. Is the one again off again thing ok for you? If he never opens up and shows emotions will you be ok with that for the rest of your life. make sure you dont sacrifice your happiness.
best of luck
I don't know that whole situation but it kind of sounds like he's using you. If he loved you as much as you loved him, he wouldn't NEED breaks from you. Couples face things, good and bad, together.
personally i would say something
i think honesty is the most important thing in a relationship and playing games just confuses everyone.
i would just ask him
He loves you ? Its Obvious ?
Take off the beer goggles dear.
Leaving, coming back, leaving again, wanting to get back.....
That ain't love!
leave him, he will never want to be with you forever
i think that if you like him alot and want to stay with him you should just let things be and let him tell you about how he feels when he wants, but i dont know, ive never been in a realtionship and prob never will be so im not sure that you want to take my advice, but what the hey
If he is as cynical as you say he is, he will probably just shrug his shoulders and walk away if you suddenly become unavailable or hard to get. It's hard to give you advice since you don't even know a lot about this guy. That doesn't mean he isn't a great catch, but you'll spend a lifetime trying to figure out what he wants since he doesn't seem willing or able to tell you.
Most guys have a hard time talking about their emotions and Clay seems to have a harder time than most. Don't nag but ask him in a way that he can communicate what he feels but doesn't have to go into detail. Yes or no. Would you be angry if I went out with my friends tonight instead of you? Do you feel like this relationship might go somewhere? Do you want to be exclusive? Do you miss me when we are apart? Do you see other people when we are apart? Do you want me to see other people when we are apart?
Keep it simple and hope for the best.
eff.. dont play hard to get... that will make him think that you are not intrested in him any more.
just ifr you love him that much and he feels the same way, then just like start making out in public.
if that isn't good enough for you then just talk to him. im sure he will understand and everything will be fine
good luck
that kind of on %26amp; off relationship doesn't exactly read as ';in love'; to me. Plus just saying he wants to be with isn't love either. This all seems like he may not really love you at all but you're his girl.... when he feels like it. Maybe I'm wrong, but I think this isn't the real deal at all and you ask him what he feels about you and look in his eyes as he says it. If you still can believe it then, maybe it'll work out this time.
8th grade dating advice (guys and girls)?
ok.. im not exactly the slimmest or coolest guy at school.. im more of a nerd and have a lil xtra weight. at times.. i feel im being used. so. theres this girl i like at school and on myspace she tells me stuff she claims she tells no one else. she says she trusts me me and today said my eyes are awefully blue if that means anything.. she also told me she thought i was a pretty nice guy. what are my chances? should i ask her out? anything is greatly appreciated. thanks in advance.8th grade dating advice (guys and girls)?
You seem like a really nice guy who actually cares about the girl. Girls really like a sweet guy, just be yourself; give it a little more time, you wouldn't want this girl to be scared if you asked her out immedietly. Make sure that you are not overly nice either, just be yourself!! (again) haha. If you are getting a good vibe from this girl and you know her pretty well after a while try asking her out :) I mean it never hurts to try right??
Hope this helps :D8th grade dating advice (guys and girls)?
I think you have some okay chances just talk to her a lot in person instead of myspace.Internet can ruin relationships.
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this is funny
but go for it
YES.. Is there a dance soon? Maybe invite her?
You seem like a really nice guy who actually cares about the girl. Girls really like a sweet guy, just be yourself; give it a little more time, you wouldn't want this girl to be scared if you asked her out immedietly. Make sure that you are not overly nice either, just be yourself!! (again) haha. If you are getting a good vibe from this girl and you know her pretty well after a while try asking her out :) I mean it never hurts to try right??
Hope this helps :D8th grade dating advice (guys and girls)?
I think you have some okay chances just talk to her a lot in person instead of myspace.Internet can ruin relationships.
hahahahahhahahahhahahahah
this is funny
but go for it
YES.. Is there a dance soon? Maybe invite her?
I need some advice, guys are so confusing sometimes..?
So a few months ago I met this guy. He's my best friend's brother's friend. To make it a short story, he's the most amazing guy I've ever met and I've got the biggest crush on him.
I know he has a girlfriend (even though she's a few states away- college) so being polite, I haven't flirted with him, I've given him no special attention, no attempts at a one on one conversation, nothing.
My best friend told me the other day, that according to her brother, the guy I like is getting a vibe that I like him. I don't really know how he could've noticed, I never gave him any signs or anything.
So my questions are,
Do some guys just have a radar for that kind of thing?
What are the possibilities that he may like me too? Or do you think he'll just end up avoiding me?I need some advice, guys are so confusing sometimes..?
You need to remember that there's always a chance that one of the people in the middle ie, your friend or her brother, are mixing it up...
Maybe by you avoiding him, he's guessed that you like him; maybe every time he looks at you, you blush or giggle, even if you don't mean to. Your eyes give a lot away; my eyes can give away exactly what I'm thinking ... which really is not always a good thing...
You need to look at his body language when he's around you; does he point his feet towards you, make eye contact etc ?? if the answers are yes, then he probably likes you.
It isn't illegal to flirt gently with someone who's in a relationship; just don't let anything happen until he's single.
Hope I helped. Any more help you need, email me :)I need some advice, guys are so confusing sometimes..?
I got a radar and you just admitted you liked him on here. lol what if he ends up somehow reading this then he knows you like him and can prove it dead end dead end dead end big time.
Well as a guy the answer to your first question is yes.
Its kind of like what people call Gaydar except that most straight guys have the ability to sense when someone they know has a crush on them.
The possibilities are high because the ';Radar'; finds someone easiest if they also like the person who has a crush on them. Chances are he'll avoid you for a short period of time then get to know you and maybe hang out with you. Then who knows ;)
As a guy who thinks he has some ability to detect these sort of things mentally, the short answer to your first question is yes.
Sort of.
While we don't know for sure, sometimes the signs can be more obvious than you think, such as repeated glances in the guy's direction. Sometimes, when a guy really likes a girl, he starts ';seeing'; signs that she likes him, even if they aren't there. So go ahead, give it a shot. Good luck!
don't do anything. if he has a girlfriend, than he'll want to stay with her. don't flirt with him or anything cause he'll think of you as a home wrecker. some guys DO have a radar for that kinda thing, but most of us are just so dang arrogant we think every girl in the world has the hots for us. he may like you, but remember, its just a crush. even if you do get together, at some point it will end.
1. Some guys are highly intuitive and get the feeling that ladies like them, 2. Some guys pay attention to the way ladies react to them, and 3. Some guys believe that all women are into them. My thinking is, it's option 2. You're probably not aware of the fact that there were times when you actually allowed him to see how you feel about him.
Idk but i'm dealing with the same thing same thing, maybe he's trying to convince himself you like him because he thinks your cute and maybe he can tell you like him if you tell other people or are always staring at him or fixinng your hair in front of him maybe he thinks you like him. You should hang out more and get to know him better and then maybe you should just tell him how you feel even if it isn't returned.
Well it depends... does he look like one of the guys who would stay faithful? If he is, then maybe you shouldn't bother. Try to keep your ';liking him'; on a down low. Maybe its the best thing. You should ask the person who told you that he was getting a vibe to see if he likes you back. Your decision:) good luck
idk what it is but even when your not giving them signs they can still tell, its happened to me, this guy likes me and hes gave me no signs what so ever that he likes me, until me told me and when i told him i knew he was like oh i never gave any signs or anything, i guess you just get this gut feeling..
I think you should not get involved with him because after a while he's going to go back to college and maybe forget about you, but you have to follow you heart and not your mind, do what you think is right.
What you need to do is flirt a little. Maybe you do need to give him the ';I like you'; vibe. It turns out he may like you. Just do what you feel is right in the end.
Some times we think we are being lead on from the littlest of things
Try to smile less maybe? You might be showing some signs on your face or body without even knowing it
Did you stare at him in a sexy way? If so then he might think you want to whack the weeds with him
Um.. well i think for this situation don't be rude but try not to talk to him that much but. But in a week i think u should try to get closer with him but don't make it obvious u like him
Thats just the way guys are most of the time they think you like them because if you are blushing or stuff like that. And there is a 50 50 chance you guys will go out just start off slow for flirting then get serious if he flirts backk
He paid close attention to your body movements and your body language which were the tell tell signs.
He may have noticed you staring. Other then that no they don't have a radar, we do though.
actually we do have a radar :) by just looking into your eyes he would know and the posibilities are like between 60% to 70% that he likes you too he won't be avoiding you trust me ;)
write amazing letters to him and see if her does things weird n don't write ur name in the letter just initials
You're wrong!
Girls are way way way more confusing!
Radar? not as 6th sense as all that. Some guys are just more prone to seeing things weather its a look in your eyes or a way you move/talk etc. even if you've done nothing that you are aware of some things sometimes as subtle as the way you stand can give him a slight idea of how you feel.
The second part is a bit more tricky, because while you like him he has a girlfriend even if she is far away right now, its really changes based on the specific people involved (maybe have your friend's brother feel it out for you, things like the relationship between this guy and his girl friend, weather he likes you or not)
its possible his reaction will be to avoid you but not all guys react to that kind of attention the same way, personally i try my best not to let the person know i know they like me. Some WILL avoid the person, while still others will want to spend MORE time around you because they love the attention
In the end it comes down to the specific people involved
Some have radar some don't...some have it, but shrug it off...Not every guy is a clone of the next even though we like to think of them that way..so there's a possibility that he can tell in just the way you act. Since basically the cat is already outta the bag...i would just be honest. It's not like you walked up to him and told him first knowing he has a girlfriend. You're only saying, ';yes you're right.'; The person each individual is meant to be with isn't Always single and a virgin! Don't push it. Just say you know he has a girlfriend and that's why you didn't say anything cuz you think that's rude..and move on. If he feels enough connection with you, he'll leave her..and don't feel sorry for her if that's the case. She doesn't want to be with someone who wants to be with someone else!
well sometimes when you really like some one have you have deep feelings for them u try not to show that u like them but it just ends up showing its just something u cant help and its something that you dont even know you are doing. soo ya sometimes ppl can just tell that someone like them or they have a really good idea, if u start to notice that he is talking to you more or you guys are hanging outt more..then there is probly a good chance he likes you, cuz now he kinda knows that yu like himm. im sure he wont avoide you if worst comes to worst he will just tell u that he dosent like u and u guys wil ljust be friends :) i hope this helped and good luck:)
Hi..
The question pertaining to some kind of radar.. Well that would be intuition based on your body language, jesters etc.. Also, the more you are trying to not show you like him it could be a dead give away. The possibilities of him liking you versus just wanting you could be equally true. I know that the fact he has a girlfriend is good enough reason to not even consider what could be or not. I have been in your shoes and what I would suggest to do is just let it go for now.
I would advice differently if he was not dating someone. Also, the fact he is in a long distance relationship makes it easy for him to have flings here and there..
I know he has a girlfriend (even though she's a few states away- college) so being polite, I haven't flirted with him, I've given him no special attention, no attempts at a one on one conversation, nothing.
My best friend told me the other day, that according to her brother, the guy I like is getting a vibe that I like him. I don't really know how he could've noticed, I never gave him any signs or anything.
So my questions are,
Do some guys just have a radar for that kind of thing?
What are the possibilities that he may like me too? Or do you think he'll just end up avoiding me?I need some advice, guys are so confusing sometimes..?
You need to remember that there's always a chance that one of the people in the middle ie, your friend or her brother, are mixing it up...
Maybe by you avoiding him, he's guessed that you like him; maybe every time he looks at you, you blush or giggle, even if you don't mean to. Your eyes give a lot away; my eyes can give away exactly what I'm thinking ... which really is not always a good thing...
You need to look at his body language when he's around you; does he point his feet towards you, make eye contact etc ?? if the answers are yes, then he probably likes you.
It isn't illegal to flirt gently with someone who's in a relationship; just don't let anything happen until he's single.
Hope I helped. Any more help you need, email me :)I need some advice, guys are so confusing sometimes..?
I got a radar and you just admitted you liked him on here. lol what if he ends up somehow reading this then he knows you like him and can prove it dead end dead end dead end big time.
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Well as a guy the answer to your first question is yes.
Its kind of like what people call Gaydar except that most straight guys have the ability to sense when someone they know has a crush on them.
The possibilities are high because the ';Radar'; finds someone easiest if they also like the person who has a crush on them. Chances are he'll avoid you for a short period of time then get to know you and maybe hang out with you. Then who knows ;)
As a guy who thinks he has some ability to detect these sort of things mentally, the short answer to your first question is yes.
Sort of.
While we don't know for sure, sometimes the signs can be more obvious than you think, such as repeated glances in the guy's direction. Sometimes, when a guy really likes a girl, he starts ';seeing'; signs that she likes him, even if they aren't there. So go ahead, give it a shot. Good luck!
don't do anything. if he has a girlfriend, than he'll want to stay with her. don't flirt with him or anything cause he'll think of you as a home wrecker. some guys DO have a radar for that kinda thing, but most of us are just so dang arrogant we think every girl in the world has the hots for us. he may like you, but remember, its just a crush. even if you do get together, at some point it will end.
1. Some guys are highly intuitive and get the feeling that ladies like them, 2. Some guys pay attention to the way ladies react to them, and 3. Some guys believe that all women are into them. My thinking is, it's option 2. You're probably not aware of the fact that there were times when you actually allowed him to see how you feel about him.
Idk but i'm dealing with the same thing same thing, maybe he's trying to convince himself you like him because he thinks your cute and maybe he can tell you like him if you tell other people or are always staring at him or fixinng your hair in front of him maybe he thinks you like him. You should hang out more and get to know him better and then maybe you should just tell him how you feel even if it isn't returned.
Well it depends... does he look like one of the guys who would stay faithful? If he is, then maybe you shouldn't bother. Try to keep your ';liking him'; on a down low. Maybe its the best thing. You should ask the person who told you that he was getting a vibe to see if he likes you back. Your decision:) good luck
idk what it is but even when your not giving them signs they can still tell, its happened to me, this guy likes me and hes gave me no signs what so ever that he likes me, until me told me and when i told him i knew he was like oh i never gave any signs or anything, i guess you just get this gut feeling..
I think you should not get involved with him because after a while he's going to go back to college and maybe forget about you, but you have to follow you heart and not your mind, do what you think is right.
What you need to do is flirt a little. Maybe you do need to give him the ';I like you'; vibe. It turns out he may like you. Just do what you feel is right in the end.
Some times we think we are being lead on from the littlest of things
Try to smile less maybe? You might be showing some signs on your face or body without even knowing it
Did you stare at him in a sexy way? If so then he might think you want to whack the weeds with him
Um.. well i think for this situation don't be rude but try not to talk to him that much but. But in a week i think u should try to get closer with him but don't make it obvious u like him
Thats just the way guys are most of the time they think you like them because if you are blushing or stuff like that. And there is a 50 50 chance you guys will go out just start off slow for flirting then get serious if he flirts backk
He paid close attention to your body movements and your body language which were the tell tell signs.
He may have noticed you staring. Other then that no they don't have a radar, we do though.
actually we do have a radar :) by just looking into your eyes he would know and the posibilities are like between 60% to 70% that he likes you too he won't be avoiding you trust me ;)
write amazing letters to him and see if her does things weird n don't write ur name in the letter just initials
You're wrong!
Girls are way way way more confusing!
Radar? not as 6th sense as all that. Some guys are just more prone to seeing things weather its a look in your eyes or a way you move/talk etc. even if you've done nothing that you are aware of some things sometimes as subtle as the way you stand can give him a slight idea of how you feel.
The second part is a bit more tricky, because while you like him he has a girlfriend even if she is far away right now, its really changes based on the specific people involved (maybe have your friend's brother feel it out for you, things like the relationship between this guy and his girl friend, weather he likes you or not)
its possible his reaction will be to avoid you but not all guys react to that kind of attention the same way, personally i try my best not to let the person know i know they like me. Some WILL avoid the person, while still others will want to spend MORE time around you because they love the attention
In the end it comes down to the specific people involved
Some have radar some don't...some have it, but shrug it off...Not every guy is a clone of the next even though we like to think of them that way..so there's a possibility that he can tell in just the way you act. Since basically the cat is already outta the bag...i would just be honest. It's not like you walked up to him and told him first knowing he has a girlfriend. You're only saying, ';yes you're right.'; The person each individual is meant to be with isn't Always single and a virgin! Don't push it. Just say you know he has a girlfriend and that's why you didn't say anything cuz you think that's rude..and move on. If he feels enough connection with you, he'll leave her..and don't feel sorry for her if that's the case. She doesn't want to be with someone who wants to be with someone else!
well sometimes when you really like some one have you have deep feelings for them u try not to show that u like them but it just ends up showing its just something u cant help and its something that you dont even know you are doing. soo ya sometimes ppl can just tell that someone like them or they have a really good idea, if u start to notice that he is talking to you more or you guys are hanging outt more..then there is probly a good chance he likes you, cuz now he kinda knows that yu like himm. im sure he wont avoide you if worst comes to worst he will just tell u that he dosent like u and u guys wil ljust be friends :) i hope this helped and good luck:)
Hi..
The question pertaining to some kind of radar.. Well that would be intuition based on your body language, jesters etc.. Also, the more you are trying to not show you like him it could be a dead give away. The possibilities of him liking you versus just wanting you could be equally true. I know that the fact he has a girlfriend is good enough reason to not even consider what could be or not. I have been in your shoes and what I would suggest to do is just let it go for now.
I would advice differently if he was not dating someone. Also, the fact he is in a long distance relationship makes it easy for him to have flings here and there..
HELP PLEASE. NEEd AdVICE. GUYS PLEASE (GiRLS tOO i GUESS)!?
JUSt A hOOk-UP?!? OR MORE?!?
Ok. So one of my really good guy friends and I have been texting and messaging a lot lately, ever since a few weeks ago I got kind of drunk and just happened to text him. I have liked him for a few months but before he had a girlfriend, whom he broke up with a month ago.
We talk about a lot of things when we text such as...
1. He told me that we should get drunk together and who knows what would happen..
2. Sometimes he only thinks of me, and he occasionally before falling asleep
3. Late one night when we were talking, he said he wanted to come over and sit with me on my bed
4. He's asked me if I think he is hot and stuff too and if I would ever hook up with him and was like darn when he thought I would never be FWB
We also have normal conversations too about each other and life and stuff too.
And we talk for long amounts of time..
But, The weird thing is when we are at the same parties and stuff we never really talk because he says he gets shyHELP PLEASE. NEEd AdVICE. GUYS PLEASE (GiRLS tOO i GUESS)!?
Wow, this is an exact page out of my life, same story. I was the shy guy who asked the girl through texting if she wanted to get drunk, if she thought I was hot, if she would want to hook up sometime. and we had lots of regular conversations. And nothing between us ever happened, because i didnt make a move.
If he is anything like me, we find it easy to ask a girl these questions over a text or myspace. But when we see the girl in person, we go right back into our shy, friendly shell.
So its kinda your decision. He can remain just a friend, or you guys hook up no big deal. But a serious relationship won't occur if you guys hook up and THEN go out. so if you want somethin serious, you gotta break him out of his shell but dont put out too much physically.HELP PLEASE. NEEd AdVICE. GUYS PLEASE (GiRLS tOO i GUESS)!?
i think he likes you but his main aim is to just get somewhere with you eg hookup or more
little comments about beds, and what would happen, would you hookup %26amp; is he attractive point towards this.
rather than him thinking of a relationship.
do what you want but i think he just wants a hookup to be honest
I need to know that you are a guy or a girl??
i think he wants to get in your pants
i agree with joe. im kinda that way and it helps when the chick breaks the ice. so unless ur shy, u should go talk to him
mmmmmmm.... classic case of someone who's a better texter than a talker.
I've got a little bit of this problem too, it's just plain out easier to express yourself in texting/iming bc ur not out there and vulnerable, it sounds to me that maybe you need to force him out of his box a little,, get him to go to more things with you, talk with him, coax him into being comfortable with it, then who knows? maybe even star dating maybe......... ;)
gl
Ok. So one of my really good guy friends and I have been texting and messaging a lot lately, ever since a few weeks ago I got kind of drunk and just happened to text him. I have liked him for a few months but before he had a girlfriend, whom he broke up with a month ago.
We talk about a lot of things when we text such as...
1. He told me that we should get drunk together and who knows what would happen..
2. Sometimes he only thinks of me, and he occasionally before falling asleep
3. Late one night when we were talking, he said he wanted to come over and sit with me on my bed
4. He's asked me if I think he is hot and stuff too and if I would ever hook up with him and was like darn when he thought I would never be FWB
We also have normal conversations too about each other and life and stuff too.
And we talk for long amounts of time..
But, The weird thing is when we are at the same parties and stuff we never really talk because he says he gets shyHELP PLEASE. NEEd AdVICE. GUYS PLEASE (GiRLS tOO i GUESS)!?
Wow, this is an exact page out of my life, same story. I was the shy guy who asked the girl through texting if she wanted to get drunk, if she thought I was hot, if she would want to hook up sometime. and we had lots of regular conversations. And nothing between us ever happened, because i didnt make a move.
If he is anything like me, we find it easy to ask a girl these questions over a text or myspace. But when we see the girl in person, we go right back into our shy, friendly shell.
So its kinda your decision. He can remain just a friend, or you guys hook up no big deal. But a serious relationship won't occur if you guys hook up and THEN go out. so if you want somethin serious, you gotta break him out of his shell but dont put out too much physically.HELP PLEASE. NEEd AdVICE. GUYS PLEASE (GiRLS tOO i GUESS)!?
i think he likes you but his main aim is to just get somewhere with you eg hookup or more
little comments about beds, and what would happen, would you hookup %26amp; is he attractive point towards this.
rather than him thinking of a relationship.
do what you want but i think he just wants a hookup to be honest
I need to know that you are a guy or a girl??
i think he wants to get in your pants
i agree with joe. im kinda that way and it helps when the chick breaks the ice. so unless ur shy, u should go talk to him
mmmmmmm.... classic case of someone who's a better texter than a talker.
I've got a little bit of this problem too, it's just plain out easier to express yourself in texting/iming bc ur not out there and vulnerable, it sounds to me that maybe you need to force him out of his box a little,, get him to go to more things with you, talk with him, coax him into being comfortable with it, then who knows? maybe even star dating maybe......... ;)
gl
Hey need some advice guys girls?
um i meet this girl through online its safe dont worrry ok shes a girl and my age group and shes admited to me that shes really likes me shes mintioned im cute and she thinks im sweet and she also says she would totaly go out with me one problem age diffrence in 14 shes turning on 16 in a few months not to mintion she lives 5-6 ours away i really like her and would totaly get into a reltionship if there werent thows problems should i leave it alone or try to make somthing of it (long distance relationship) need some emotional adviceHey need some advice guys girls?
i guess if u really like her then age doesn't really matter. its nuthin but a number but the fact that she lives that far away from u...it aint gonna happen.
i guess if u really like her then age doesn't really matter. its nuthin but a number but the fact that she lives that far away from u...it aint gonna happen.
Do girls purposely give guys bad advice?
Before you get mad, I'm not insulting I'm just saying; This guy wrote something to me that really made me think. Never in my life would I have thought that the possibility exists that girls probably want guys to ';lose.';Do girls purposely give guys bad advice?
I don't. I think we give advice from our perspective, but we've never been men, so we really don't know what you guys go through. In general, I don't think women as a rule want men to ';lose';. The guy that was babbling about ';power'; seems a little immature to me. Some relationship are about power, sure, depends on what you want from the exchange. I think tho, a good relationship is being with a person and having a good ebb and flow, working together for common goals. You both have ';power'; over certain things. The challenge is giving in to the other person when you know they're right.Do girls purposely give guys bad advice?
what a mcp!
tell you what i feel...
the days for dominating males are over...
snag are taking over....
so if you wanna continue upholding the male ego to 100% and leave NO stands for us women...
pray that a snag doesnt comes into your woman's view...
if not, you would not even have the chance to touch that ace card anymore....
and no, we do not want to see guys lose.... stop making women sounds so perverse cause we're NOT.
frankly speaking i think you're having a problem with women... dont drag other guys down with you, will ya?
guys, if you like this girl, you HAVE to ask her out on a date asap... do not wait for christmas or Vday or new year or wadeva....
Well, first of all let me be honest and say that I didn't read ';all'; of your little book here. I skimmed it because it is WAY too long. Don't be surprised if you don't get too many answers on this one.
Just let me say this... I don't give bad advice to guys. If I can help I try to do the best I can for male or female.
I'm not sure if I followed all that. But, to comment, I don't give advice based on sex. Male or female, I do my best to help them out with the question asked.
no us girls don't always give men bad advice it depends on how stupid your questions are!
love,
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I don't. I think we give advice from our perspective, but we've never been men, so we really don't know what you guys go through. In general, I don't think women as a rule want men to ';lose';. The guy that was babbling about ';power'; seems a little immature to me. Some relationship are about power, sure, depends on what you want from the exchange. I think tho, a good relationship is being with a person and having a good ebb and flow, working together for common goals. You both have ';power'; over certain things. The challenge is giving in to the other person when you know they're right.Do girls purposely give guys bad advice?
what a mcp!
tell you what i feel...
the days for dominating males are over...
snag are taking over....
so if you wanna continue upholding the male ego to 100% and leave NO stands for us women...
pray that a snag doesnt comes into your woman's view...
if not, you would not even have the chance to touch that ace card anymore....
and no, we do not want to see guys lose.... stop making women sounds so perverse cause we're NOT.
frankly speaking i think you're having a problem with women... dont drag other guys down with you, will ya?
guys, if you like this girl, you HAVE to ask her out on a date asap... do not wait for christmas or Vday or new year or wadeva....
Well, first of all let me be honest and say that I didn't read ';all'; of your little book here. I skimmed it because it is WAY too long. Don't be surprised if you don't get too many answers on this one.
Just let me say this... I don't give bad advice to guys. If I can help I try to do the best I can for male or female.
I'm not sure if I followed all that. But, to comment, I don't give advice based on sex. Male or female, I do my best to help them out with the question asked.
no us girls don't always give men bad advice it depends on how stupid your questions are!
love,
killerqueen
girls rule!!!
I need some friendship gift giving advice. Can some guys or girls help me?
Well, today, my friend gave me my favorite food. Blueberry bread. I don't know what her fav food is or what I should do in return. I have the carton it came in.
Guys... if you were given your fav food by a girl that you like, yet barely know, what would you give back that is appropriate?
Girls... if you gave one of your guy friends your famous blueberry bread, what would you want, not expect, but want, in return?
I appreciate everyone's advice!
Thanks,
Chris =]I need some friendship gift giving advice. Can some guys or girls help me?
ummmm send her something cute like an email professing your love for it and if you like her then get to know her more, and see where it goes from there. flirt ! maybe she's flirting with you.I need some friendship gift giving advice. Can some guys or girls help me?
If I did something for you out of friendship I am not expecting anything in return other than your friendship....show your appreciation by saying thank you and acknowledging the thought that went into the gesture and take the opportunity to find out more about your friend (her likes and dislikes)
Guys... if you were given your fav food by a girl that you like, yet barely know, what would you give back that is appropriate?
Girls... if you gave one of your guy friends your famous blueberry bread, what would you want, not expect, but want, in return?
I appreciate everyone's advice!
Thanks,
Chris =]I need some friendship gift giving advice. Can some guys or girls help me?
ummmm send her something cute like an email professing your love for it and if you like her then get to know her more, and see where it goes from there. flirt ! maybe she's flirting with you.I need some friendship gift giving advice. Can some guys or girls help me?
If I did something for you out of friendship I am not expecting anything in return other than your friendship....show your appreciation by saying thank you and acknowledging the thought that went into the gesture and take the opportunity to find out more about your friend (her likes and dislikes)
I have feelings for my best guy friend...ADVICE GUYS!?
we've been best friends since really little...and at one point even considered eachother bro and sis...but time passed by...and i started having feelings for him...but i don't know if he likes me too...and i want to tell him really bad...i just want to get it off my chest!...he left to another country and he is back to visit...and i don't know if i should tell him or not...i saw him today and he was happy to see me...hugged me...and when he talked he would look in my eyes...and ignore his other friend that was there also...when i said goodbye he hugged me again...he hugged me for a while...even still had his hand on my back..and wouldn't let go...should i tell him?I have feelings for my best guy friend...ADVICE GUYS!?
Wait it out. Sometimes these feelings rise up and then leave just as quickly. You really don't want to complicate a friendship that deep for what turns out to be a little crush. Think about it for a few more weeks, and if you just can't shake the feelings, then you tell him.I have feelings for my best guy friend...ADVICE GUYS!?
Yeah tell him. If he doesnt like you, well he's your best guy friend so you really shouldnt have too much difficulty gettin over it. Just get it off your chest, it might be awkward for a bit, but even if he dont like you your friendship should be fine.
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As a guy i would say that if you tell him he might just then be looking for some action so I would say to wait it out for a bit longer to see if you can pick up on how he feels about you.
it sounds like he likes you, i would tell him.
i told my best guy friend that i am falling in love with him and i'm not sure what he is feeling but shocked is one word for it.
good luck, life is too short
yes you should because he is obviously flirting with you.
go for it tell him. if hes such a good friend nothin gcould really go wrong.. and anyways youll regret it if ya dont
Apparently, you have not seen the movie ';Harry meets Sally'; so let me paraphrase.
There are two types of girl ';friends'; that a guy has. The first is the ones that he wants to have sex with. The second is the wants that he is friends with but he pretty much wants to have sex with them also.
So feel free to get it off your chest and tell him but be prepared to get something else on your chest.
Now having told you all that the best romantic relationships start off as friends. There will be an awkward transition period so rather than make this about what you ';feel'; give him the opportunity to make it about what he feels. Ask him when he is going to take you on a ';date';. He will understand and it will give him the opportunity to stall, jump in or graciously decline without destroying the friendship (unless your ego isn't going to be able to handle the possible rejection).
Take care.
Wait it out. Sometimes these feelings rise up and then leave just as quickly. You really don't want to complicate a friendship that deep for what turns out to be a little crush. Think about it for a few more weeks, and if you just can't shake the feelings, then you tell him.I have feelings for my best guy friend...ADVICE GUYS!?
Yeah tell him. If he doesnt like you, well he's your best guy friend so you really shouldnt have too much difficulty gettin over it. Just get it off your chest, it might be awkward for a bit, but even if he dont like you your friendship should be fine.
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As a guy i would say that if you tell him he might just then be looking for some action so I would say to wait it out for a bit longer to see if you can pick up on how he feels about you.
it sounds like he likes you, i would tell him.
i told my best guy friend that i am falling in love with him and i'm not sure what he is feeling but shocked is one word for it.
good luck, life is too short
yes you should because he is obviously flirting with you.
go for it tell him. if hes such a good friend nothin gcould really go wrong.. and anyways youll regret it if ya dont
Apparently, you have not seen the movie ';Harry meets Sally'; so let me paraphrase.
There are two types of girl ';friends'; that a guy has. The first is the ones that he wants to have sex with. The second is the wants that he is friends with but he pretty much wants to have sex with them also.
So feel free to get it off your chest and tell him but be prepared to get something else on your chest.
Now having told you all that the best romantic relationships start off as friends. There will be an awkward transition period so rather than make this about what you ';feel'; give him the opportunity to make it about what he feels. Ask him when he is going to take you on a ';date';. He will understand and it will give him the opportunity to stall, jump in or graciously decline without destroying the friendship (unless your ego isn't going to be able to handle the possible rejection).
Take care.
Are highlights in for guys?I use styling gel, ppl in TN call it mexican.It gives me krnkly spikes. Advice?
I have naturally smooth cury,krinkly, native african and creolish hair. its bout an inch or better. Really black with few whites attached.Are highlights in for guys?I use styling gel, ppl in TN call it mexican.It gives me krnkly spikes. Advice?
highlights are totally in =)Are highlights in for guys?I use styling gel, ppl in TN call it mexican.It gives me krnkly spikes. Advice?
I really prefer a man with dark hair....and definitely NO highlights. That's just me, though. I guess that depends on what you like.
Do you like your highlights? If you look good with them, that's probably all that really matters ;)
Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha!!! You really are funny! You make me laugh out loud! Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha!!!! Men shouldn't worry about hair! Go sit on the couch and watch the big game! Really, do I care!
highlights are totally in =)Are highlights in for guys?I use styling gel, ppl in TN call it mexican.It gives me krnkly spikes. Advice?
I really prefer a man with dark hair....and definitely NO highlights. That's just me, though. I guess that depends on what you like.
Do you like your highlights? If you look good with them, that's probably all that really matters ;)
Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha!!! You really are funny! You make me laugh out loud! Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha!!!! Men shouldn't worry about hair! Go sit on the couch and watch the big game! Really, do I care!
HEADACHE i need some advice guys!?
I have had an intense headache for the last 5days.
It is behind my the right side of my forehead and also through the upper half of my eyesocket (especially the inside portion)
It feels as if there is pressure behind my eye, an I cant lean down without it throbbing and my eye shutting.
I think it is a sinus infection as Its coming into spring and I live in a musty flat but I have taken sudafed (which used to work well for me....although I havnt had sinus like this before or in the last 7years)
but the headache is still there.
Its quite intense at times, but over all i would rate it a 7/10 for pain.
I went to my student doctor and they told me to relax and take painkillers.
its not helping.............
let me know what to do??? HEADACHE i need some advice guys!?
What I sugjest is, try some Exedrine Migrain Medicine quick release gels and see if that works. Also you can take some Ibuprofen or advil. I hate sudafed its nothing but a drug that just masks the infection and caused nusea and dizziness. If your headache comes back or the meds don't work for you then go to the doctor. If the pain is unbareable then I'd say the ER.HEADACHE i need some advice guys!?
I've read somewhere that caffine will help so. I would lie down, take some pain medication, drink some highly caffinated beverages and sit in as much silence as you can. Just lie down and take something that will make your drowsey so you can fall asleep. Sleep it off. Yeah I know caffine plus sleeping pills equals @_@ Try it out and see if it works okay? Some tylonal PM and a coke.
just take something for it then take a hot bath... lay in it for about 20-30mins then when u are in the bath get a wash cloth and but it over your face... that may help you a lil.. also when u get out lay down in your bed with all the lights out. if you still have it in the nest 2 days or so you need to go to the dr if you can go to a diff dr.......
Have you tried having a cola or a cup of coffee? the caffeine in it might help your headache. If not i would go back to your doctor and talk to them you could have a migraine.
It is behind my the right side of my forehead and also through the upper half of my eyesocket (especially the inside portion)
It feels as if there is pressure behind my eye, an I cant lean down without it throbbing and my eye shutting.
I think it is a sinus infection as Its coming into spring and I live in a musty flat but I have taken sudafed (which used to work well for me....although I havnt had sinus like this before or in the last 7years)
but the headache is still there.
Its quite intense at times, but over all i would rate it a 7/10 for pain.
I went to my student doctor and they told me to relax and take painkillers.
its not helping.............
let me know what to do??? HEADACHE i need some advice guys!?
What I sugjest is, try some Exedrine Migrain Medicine quick release gels and see if that works. Also you can take some Ibuprofen or advil. I hate sudafed its nothing but a drug that just masks the infection and caused nusea and dizziness. If your headache comes back or the meds don't work for you then go to the doctor. If the pain is unbareable then I'd say the ER.HEADACHE i need some advice guys!?
I've read somewhere that caffine will help so. I would lie down, take some pain medication, drink some highly caffinated beverages and sit in as much silence as you can. Just lie down and take something that will make your drowsey so you can fall asleep. Sleep it off. Yeah I know caffine plus sleeping pills equals @_@ Try it out and see if it works okay? Some tylonal PM and a coke.
just take something for it then take a hot bath... lay in it for about 20-30mins then when u are in the bath get a wash cloth and but it over your face... that may help you a lil.. also when u get out lay down in your bed with all the lights out. if you still have it in the nest 2 days or so you need to go to the dr if you can go to a diff dr.......
Have you tried having a cola or a cup of coffee? the caffeine in it might help your headache. If not i would go back to your doctor and talk to them you could have a migraine.
I really need some advice! Guys and girls would be great. Thanks!!?
There is this guy at my work and we've know each other for a year and ive liked him ever since we met. Im pretty sure im not his type but he said he likes anyone who isn't a chav lol. I would really like to see if i can give this a shot. What can a do to make him notice me/like me. I get really nervous when im at work with him so don't do much talking so most of it is on MSN. What can i say to make him interested? Hes sooo sweet and would love it if he liked me back. I need your help girls and guys :D Thanks i really appreciate it :) XI really need some advice! Guys and girls would be great. Thanks!!?
Maybe he already is interested... If you two work together, then ask him out to lunch sometime! Get to know him more, and let him get to know you. If he says no to the lunch, then it was a dwad end road to begin with... And you can move on.
Good luck.I really need some advice! Guys and girls would be great. Thanks!!?
guys dont need the girl to be his type to like
usually opposites attract
and usually guys may not lik a girl who is like him because he may just want friendship
idk there are so many factors most important if you are pretty and have a good personality
which it seems like you have so flirt a little like hold hands or idk i have not had a gf in years so just be cool ask him when you meet him
Be nice, talkative, polite, smile a lot at him and get close to him. If, say, you're in a group with him and others in a circle chatting, stand next to him and maybe brush your arm against his gently and smile when he realizes and looks at you. Be friendly and try to make him happy and laugh by making jokes and spending time with him.
Be brave and tell him how you feel about him, ask him if he wants to go get something to eat after work or something like that. Be creative, original and honest.
I think a little date out would definitely be key,like the other ppl suggested: coffee,lunch,movies.... I wouldn't go for the whole seducing and sexual crap,not if you're really into this guy. If a guy see's that you're easy chances are he probably won't be looking at you as anything more than a piece of booty. So def try a date maybe even his number! =)
let your friend ask him if he likes you..then..if you now know the answer if it is yes or no.you'll know what to do.
if it is YES.then try to approach him and say to him that you reallt really like him.
well.if its NO.then just stay the status between you two.(being friends or bestfriends.).who knows.maybe after a while,he will also fall onto you.:)
its good that you talk to him on msn but don't make that your primary way of communication. try to talk to person more and then text him and stuff.
while at work, bring up a movie thats in theaters right now and say you want to watch it. hopefully he'll want to watch it too and you guys can watch it together!
if i were u, i would avoid any kind romance in the office. it's unprofessional and when things go bad, like u broke up or got rejected, it would be awkward for the both of u guys. or at least, u only.
who wants to look for a new job in this economy?
Ask him out. Guys like to be asked out. Even if he says no, that won't affect your friendship, because if he was a real sweet guy, he would get over ut. Besides, you can find out your answer and stop thinking about him and move on.
Try talking to him in real time.. means not those chat stuffs which are simulated !!! Don't get nervous while meeting his eyes... dnt hurry... take ur own time... let him like you rather than u showing ur feelings rite away... To make him notice, the 1st thing u gonna do is not 2 notice him... b ur own self... ull win Him... all d luck !!!
What are you thirteen?! Talking on MSN is for teenagers and pedophiles. listen if you really like this guy just ask him out for a beer or dinner. He'll probably say yes. If he says no who cares you guys don't talk face to face anyway.
Maybe just start with upping it to talking in person instead of msn. Get to know him a little bit, find out what you both have in common and talk about that for a start.
Wear a shirt that shows off your breasts. then walk up to him and say hi and walk away. guys want what the cant have. and if you dangle a nice pair'o'**** in his face and walk away he will be running after you drooling.
Why not ask him if he'd like to have lunch with you? You won't know if he likes you back unless you make a move. Be willing to pay for it though just in case he doesn't offer.
just ask him to go out to bowlin with a grpoup of friends as youre a bit shy for just you too!
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There's no way but to ask him out. Invite him to grab a coffee at Starbucks after work or something. (not for the coffee itself, of course. Dunkin Donuts makes WAY better coffee than Starbucks but the atmosphere's wrong.)
You're a big girl now. Take your heart in your hand and ask him out.
Even asking him if he'd like to join you for coffee on break time will get things started. Or not.
1)seduce him
2)ignore him
3)he'll come to you (: or else he's not interested o.o
be friend ly to him and then ask him to some work thing as a friend and see if u actually like him
Love= strange feeling
on MSN tell him that u have a strange feeling deep inside and he will get ur meaning
every now and then give him a little tiny naughty face, but don't over do it!
Jeez your insceure. wow
What's a chav?
Well, the thing is that if you've known this guy for a year or so, if he likes you, you would probably already know about it. He DOES notice you, but the real kicker that always kills all of us is that he probably doesn't notice you in THAT way. You could definitely try coming out of your shell (i.e., say ';Hi!'; at work once in a while, strike up a conversation, etc.)
If guys love anything, it's confidence. A guy can appreciate a gal that can walk up to him, be charming, make comfortable conversation, and be fun and attractive but all these things stem from a can-do attitude.
The one thing I have to stress is that if he shoots you down, be a good sport, alright?
I wish you the best!
Sex is the answer.
Maybe he already is interested... If you two work together, then ask him out to lunch sometime! Get to know him more, and let him get to know you. If he says no to the lunch, then it was a dwad end road to begin with... And you can move on.
Good luck.I really need some advice! Guys and girls would be great. Thanks!!?
guys dont need the girl to be his type to like
usually opposites attract
and usually guys may not lik a girl who is like him because he may just want friendship
idk there are so many factors most important if you are pretty and have a good personality
which it seems like you have so flirt a little like hold hands or idk i have not had a gf in years so just be cool ask him when you meet him
Be nice, talkative, polite, smile a lot at him and get close to him. If, say, you're in a group with him and others in a circle chatting, stand next to him and maybe brush your arm against his gently and smile when he realizes and looks at you. Be friendly and try to make him happy and laugh by making jokes and spending time with him.
Be brave and tell him how you feel about him, ask him if he wants to go get something to eat after work or something like that. Be creative, original and honest.
I think a little date out would definitely be key,like the other ppl suggested: coffee,lunch,movies.... I wouldn't go for the whole seducing and sexual crap,not if you're really into this guy. If a guy see's that you're easy chances are he probably won't be looking at you as anything more than a piece of booty. So def try a date maybe even his number! =)
let your friend ask him if he likes you..then..if you now know the answer if it is yes or no.you'll know what to do.
if it is YES.then try to approach him and say to him that you reallt really like him.
well.if its NO.then just stay the status between you two.(being friends or bestfriends.).who knows.maybe after a while,he will also fall onto you.:)
its good that you talk to him on msn but don't make that your primary way of communication. try to talk to person more and then text him and stuff.
while at work, bring up a movie thats in theaters right now and say you want to watch it. hopefully he'll want to watch it too and you guys can watch it together!
if i were u, i would avoid any kind romance in the office. it's unprofessional and when things go bad, like u broke up or got rejected, it would be awkward for the both of u guys. or at least, u only.
who wants to look for a new job in this economy?
Ask him out. Guys like to be asked out. Even if he says no, that won't affect your friendship, because if he was a real sweet guy, he would get over ut. Besides, you can find out your answer and stop thinking about him and move on.
Try talking to him in real time.. means not those chat stuffs which are simulated !!! Don't get nervous while meeting his eyes... dnt hurry... take ur own time... let him like you rather than u showing ur feelings rite away... To make him notice, the 1st thing u gonna do is not 2 notice him... b ur own self... ull win Him... all d luck !!!
What are you thirteen?! Talking on MSN is for teenagers and pedophiles. listen if you really like this guy just ask him out for a beer or dinner. He'll probably say yes. If he says no who cares you guys don't talk face to face anyway.
Maybe just start with upping it to talking in person instead of msn. Get to know him a little bit, find out what you both have in common and talk about that for a start.
Wear a shirt that shows off your breasts. then walk up to him and say hi and walk away. guys want what the cant have. and if you dangle a nice pair'o'**** in his face and walk away he will be running after you drooling.
Why not ask him if he'd like to have lunch with you? You won't know if he likes you back unless you make a move. Be willing to pay for it though just in case he doesn't offer.
just ask him to go out to bowlin with a grpoup of friends as youre a bit shy for just you too!
answer mine
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There's no way but to ask him out. Invite him to grab a coffee at Starbucks after work or something. (not for the coffee itself, of course. Dunkin Donuts makes WAY better coffee than Starbucks but the atmosphere's wrong.)
You're a big girl now. Take your heart in your hand and ask him out.
Even asking him if he'd like to join you for coffee on break time will get things started. Or not.
1)seduce him
2)ignore him
3)he'll come to you (: or else he's not interested o.o
be friend ly to him and then ask him to some work thing as a friend and see if u actually like him
Love= strange feeling
on MSN tell him that u have a strange feeling deep inside and he will get ur meaning
every now and then give him a little tiny naughty face, but don't over do it!
Jeez your insceure. wow
What's a chav?
Well, the thing is that if you've known this guy for a year or so, if he likes you, you would probably already know about it. He DOES notice you, but the real kicker that always kills all of us is that he probably doesn't notice you in THAT way. You could definitely try coming out of your shell (i.e., say ';Hi!'; at work once in a while, strike up a conversation, etc.)
If guys love anything, it's confidence. A guy can appreciate a gal that can walk up to him, be charming, make comfortable conversation, and be fun and attractive but all these things stem from a can-do attitude.
The one thing I have to stress is that if he shoots you down, be a good sport, alright?
I wish you the best!
Sex is the answer.
In DESPERATE need of advice, guys and grls please!!?
i really love this kis jason that i have known since kindergarten, and have been friends with since last year...our parents dated and i have gotten a lot closer and all...i love him soo much i would die for him..he dosent wanna date me cuz he dosent wanna ruin such a good friendship that we have...but it hurts in the meantime...what should i do?In DESPERATE need of advice, guys and grls please!!?
wow we're going thru like the exact same thing.
sometimes, you just need to do what your gut feels is the right thing to do. sometimes you have got to take risks, and take a chance. you might be missing out on a beautiful thing between you and this guy. you've got to let him know that you're willing to make this relationship work (you are, right?) and that you want this beautiful friendship to turn into an even more beautiful love (Because that's what you want, right?). but YOU need to take a risk in order for that to happen. like Helen Keller said, ';Life is either a daring adventure, or nothing.';
i dont know you, but I can tell that you're a smart, strong, beautiful woman/girl and that everything is going to work out just fine. =]In DESPERATE need of advice, guys and grls please!!?
don't risk what u dont have to.
dont tell him tht u be goin on date nd all ... jst tell him 2 go out wid u for hangout nd make sme conversation
he doesn't want to date you because it will ruin a good friendship, while you sit there hurting....
Ive been there, done that.... recently
The problem is being ';just friends'; sucks, sooner or later ya'll will either hook-up or part ways (hopefully drifting off instead of having a giant fight)
Do NOT give him an ultimatum. Don't make him decide tonight or anytime soon, but do let him know, one day, ya'll will either hook-up, or drift away.
If your parents are dating now, then it will be weird because it's like dating your stepbrother. I think you may need to let it go. You don't want to ruin such a good friendship, do you?sheer makeup
wow we're going thru like the exact same thing.
sometimes, you just need to do what your gut feels is the right thing to do. sometimes you have got to take risks, and take a chance. you might be missing out on a beautiful thing between you and this guy. you've got to let him know that you're willing to make this relationship work (you are, right?) and that you want this beautiful friendship to turn into an even more beautiful love (Because that's what you want, right?). but YOU need to take a risk in order for that to happen. like Helen Keller said, ';Life is either a daring adventure, or nothing.';
i dont know you, but I can tell that you're a smart, strong, beautiful woman/girl and that everything is going to work out just fine. =]In DESPERATE need of advice, guys and grls please!!?
don't risk what u dont have to.
dont tell him tht u be goin on date nd all ... jst tell him 2 go out wid u for hangout nd make sme conversation
he doesn't want to date you because it will ruin a good friendship, while you sit there hurting....
Ive been there, done that.... recently
The problem is being ';just friends'; sucks, sooner or later ya'll will either hook-up or part ways (hopefully drifting off instead of having a giant fight)
Do NOT give him an ultimatum. Don't make him decide tonight or anytime soon, but do let him know, one day, ya'll will either hook-up, or drift away.
If your parents are dating now, then it will be weird because it's like dating your stepbrother. I think you may need to let it go. You don't want to ruin such a good friendship, do you?
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