I really need some advice! Guys and girls would be great. Thanks!!?

There is this guy at my work and we've know each other for a year and ive liked him ever since we met. Im pretty sure im not his type but he said he likes anyone who isn't a chav lol. I would really like to see if i can give this a shot. What can a do to make him notice me/like me. I get really nervous when im at work with him so don't do much talking so most of it is on MSN. What can i say to make him interested? Hes sooo sweet and would love it if he liked me back. I need your help girls and guys :D Thanks i really appreciate it :) XI really need some advice! Guys and girls would be great. Thanks!!?
Maybe he already is interested... If you two work together, then ask him out to lunch sometime! Get to know him more, and let him get to know you. If he says no to the lunch, then it was a dwad end road to begin with... And you can move on.





Good luck.I really need some advice! Guys and girls would be great. Thanks!!?
guys dont need the girl to be his type to like





usually opposites attract





and usually guys may not lik a girl who is like him because he may just want friendship





idk there are so many factors most important if you are pretty and have a good personality





which it seems like you have so flirt a little like hold hands or idk i have not had a gf in years so just be cool ask him when you meet him
Be nice, talkative, polite, smile a lot at him and get close to him. If, say, you're in a group with him and others in a circle chatting, stand next to him and maybe brush your arm against his gently and smile when he realizes and looks at you. Be friendly and try to make him happy and laugh by making jokes and spending time with him.





Be brave and tell him how you feel about him, ask him if he wants to go get something to eat after work or something like that. Be creative, original and honest.
I think a little date out would definitely be key,like the other ppl suggested: coffee,lunch,movies.... I wouldn't go for the whole seducing and sexual crap,not if you're really into this guy. If a guy see's that you're easy chances are he probably won't be looking at you as anything more than a piece of booty. So def try a date maybe even his number! =)
let your friend ask him if he likes you..then..if you now know the answer if it is yes or no.you'll know what to do.


if it is YES.then try to approach him and say to him that you reallt really like him.


well.if its NO.then just stay the status between you two.(being friends or bestfriends.).who knows.maybe after a while,he will also fall onto you.:)
its good that you talk to him on msn but don't make that your primary way of communication. try to talk to person more and then text him and stuff.


while at work, bring up a movie thats in theaters right now and say you want to watch it. hopefully he'll want to watch it too and you guys can watch it together!
if i were u, i would avoid any kind romance in the office. it's unprofessional and when things go bad, like u broke up or got rejected, it would be awkward for the both of u guys. or at least, u only.





who wants to look for a new job in this economy?
Ask him out. Guys like to be asked out. Even if he says no, that won't affect your friendship, because if he was a real sweet guy, he would get over ut. Besides, you can find out your answer and stop thinking about him and move on.
Try talking to him in real time.. means not those chat stuffs which are simulated !!! Don't get nervous while meeting his eyes... dnt hurry... take ur own time... let him like you rather than u showing ur feelings rite away... To make him notice, the 1st thing u gonna do is not 2 notice him... b ur own self... ull win Him... all d luck !!!
What are you thirteen?! Talking on MSN is for teenagers and pedophiles. listen if you really like this guy just ask him out for a beer or dinner. He'll probably say yes. If he says no who cares you guys don't talk face to face anyway.
Maybe just start with upping it to talking in person instead of msn. Get to know him a little bit, find out what you both have in common and talk about that for a start.
Wear a shirt that shows off your breasts. then walk up to him and say hi and walk away. guys want what the cant have. and if you dangle a nice pair'o'**** in his face and walk away he will be running after you drooling.
Why not ask him if he'd like to have lunch with you? You won't know if he likes you back unless you make a move. Be willing to pay for it though just in case he doesn't offer.
just ask him to go out to bowlin with a grpoup of friends as youre a bit shy for just you too!





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There's no way but to ask him out. Invite him to grab a coffee at Starbucks after work or something. (not for the coffee itself, of course. Dunkin Donuts makes WAY better coffee than Starbucks but the atmosphere's wrong.)
You're a big girl now. Take your heart in your hand and ask him out.





Even asking him if he'd like to join you for coffee on break time will get things started. Or not.
1)seduce him


2)ignore him


3)he'll come to you (: or else he's not interested o.o
be friend ly to him and then ask him to some work thing as a friend and see if u actually like him
Love= strange feeling


on MSN tell him that u have a strange feeling deep inside and he will get ur meaning
every now and then give him a little tiny naughty face, but don't over do it!
Jeez your insceure. wow
What's a chav?
Well, the thing is that if you've known this guy for a year or so, if he likes you, you would probably already know about it. He DOES notice you, but the real kicker that always kills all of us is that he probably doesn't notice you in THAT way. You could definitely try coming out of your shell (i.e., say ';Hi!'; at work once in a while, strike up a conversation, etc.)


If guys love anything, it's confidence. A guy can appreciate a gal that can walk up to him, be charming, make comfortable conversation, and be fun and attractive but all these things stem from a can-do attitude.


The one thing I have to stress is that if he shoots you down, be a good sport, alright?


I wish you the best!
Sex is the answer.