Really need answers and advice guys!! please help me out?!!?

my best friend and i have been friends for 15 years (since 5th grade-we're now 28).





have always been really close up until about 2 years ago when she broke up w/her bf of 5 years b/c he was caught cheating on her (had been with same girl for last 3 years of their relationship). she's been bitter towards men and hasn't dated since then.


hates my bf of 3 years. we've had our ups and downs in our relationship but nothing bad (he just recently decided he needed a little more time to get used to me and the 3 kids being in his house all the time before we moved in after we decided we would live together-but he was being honest-he's never been married or had kids and i'm his first long term relationship). since he made that decision-my friend told me if i stayed with him-she'd end our friendship. is majorly jealous of him too.





i had a cell phone contract with her (it was in her name but was a family plan w/me). after me telling her to butt out of my relationship-things changed....Really need answers and advice guys!! please help me out?!!?
it is only changing the mobile contract to your name, so please get this done fast since you have 3 kids at home...





2ndly, ask your best friend why can't she accept your BF? you can work things out... %26amp; if you appeal to her sincerely, i don't think she will be unreasonable...Really need answers and advice guys!! please help me out?!!?
the friendship is over. you r trying to hang on for old times sakes. that is reasonable. but if anyone cares for a person ( a friend or spouse or parent or child i.e. any relationship) then that person gives space for other relationships to develop. you will not be able to gloss over the cracks that have developed. in time the demands will all likelihood get more unreasonable..expectations will get unreasonable..and the break will come. call it off while you are still ahead!
You really should tell her how much you miss her, and how you wish that things could go back to the way they used to be.(in your friendship)





Perhaps consider writing her a letter explaining all this?