yea u r inlove i think u shoul ask if he likes u or find out from a freindOk i need advice guys and girls help please!!!?
How can you be in love at your age? How can you think you are in love with someone you don't know?
You have a crush...and it seems like love. But love is more than emotion and hormones. It takes a lot of maturity and committment..and at this age you don't have the life experience to fulfill that! Don't mistake crushes for love.
Just talk to him. Flirt with him...and if he is interested you will know. You can't make someone like you if he isn't ready.
If you got him interested in you...would you be happy you are his trophy? With 7 girls interested in him...and you saying he is interested in someone else...would you be able to handle the emotions of jealousy when he talks to someone else?
Think about it. Be his friend first...and stop thinking you are in love. Friends can talk and have fun....and then it can turn into something more. You need to let him get to know you first....so talk to him and be yourself! You don't need to be anyone else!
And goodness...you are both so young...stop thinking he might be gay. He just might not know or be ready to handle relationships right now and I think that is admirable for him when he knows himself that well. He just might not be ready for the ups and downs of relationships and is concentrating on school and sports. It doesn't mean he is gay!
Susanna
Invite him for an ice cream or something and try slowlying chatting to him and see what he says... Take it easy and dont be too easy giving.. Careful his not gay..hehe
Well he might be gay. I don't mean to sound mean, but if 7 girls like him and he does not date any of them, it sounds like he might be. But on to your question. Just pay closer attenchion and talk to him about how your feeling. I know its scary, but you can do it. JUst ask him out. Good luck
Okay ask him. Knowing me, as a guy, I would never ask a friend out if I had known her for 4 years in case it damaged the relationship. But with a girl like you, it is okay. If he does like you, then he will say yes. If he doesn't then just say you are okay with being just friends and your friendship won't be harmed. My friend asked me if I liked her, I said yes. We never went out, but we are still close friends!
Ask for his help or advice on something to give yourself an excuse to talk to him. Then you can flirt to your hearts content. If he still doesn't ask you out, then make the first move yourself and suggest lunch or coffee.
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