ok, so there's this guy who is a senior and im a freshman. he started siting by me in one of my classes and giving me compliments until we switched rooms and now he doesn't sit by me anymore. He is always loking at me and looks away when i see him. We have the same lunch period and this week he started walking by my table like 5 times. I still like him but don't know what to do. Does he like me? And I'm to shy to go up and talk to him though I want to. Don't say he's trying to get in my pants because i am 100% sure he is not that kind of guy. Any advice is appreciated. Thanks!!
Most of u r saying hes gay when i said hes not that kind of a guy. What I meant is that he wouldn't have sex right away.
Another question: I have dirty blonde hair, green eyes, am tall. I'm not skinny and not fat. [in the middle] Just out of curiosity would anyone guy go out with a girl like me????Guys I need your advice!!!! GUYS ONLY?
I remember you. Yes, someone would easily want to go out with you, but you're going to have to talk to this guy. Hiding behind shyness is wasting an enormous amount of time. You only have to be brave once.Guys I need your advice!!!! GUYS ONLY?
First off you do not need to worry about your looks. From what you said, he sounds like he defiantly interested in you, but doesn't have the nerve to ask you out yet. If you really want to pursue this, go up to him when you can and see if he wants to see a movie or go to lunch sometime.
u sound hot!(dont worry,im not a creepy 50 year old guy) just a 13 year old boy. and he just sounds kinda shy but doesnt know how to play it out. i would ask him out!!! :) good luck!!!!
Maybe.
all guys are that kind of guys
Hey....he likes you for sure! I know that feeling.. and I do it too! lol, sounds weird, but I think you should go up to him and just ask him out! Go for ice cream or something! It will calm him down A LOT and you too! I know it would help if the girl of my dreams walked up and said, come on.. lets go!
id go out with u
How do you know what kind of guy he is when you don't even know him yet? You don't even know if he likes you and you supposed know 100% that he's not trying to get into your pants?
If he likes you, he will let you know. He's a senior and will be gone next year. Meet a guy in your own grade.
You sound BEAUTIFUL. :-)
Do you have a web site with your pic?
Yes, for sure this guy is checking you out. Sorry but you had better say something to him just to start a coversation. Heck, ask him what time it is. (hide your watch first....lol)
Good luck!!
If you are fat, then, no, otherwise, possibly.
haha
well as much as you know for a fact most guys first intentions are to get into girls pants, well most not all
but sounds like hes intrested guys like to play little looking games just to see if you intrested and dont say you like him if you dont talk to him get to know him you dont what what could happen
yes
Not to be harsh on you dear...I strongly suggest you to leave it as it is and have him come to you.... mainly it is a man's job to approach, talk and ask the girl out. I really dont think there is anything wrong with the folk. Maybe he is very nervous and chokes up on his words that he was suppose to say to you as he approaches you so he tends to walk away. Just give him some time to get comfortable that he knows it is the right time to make the move on you. patience....
Last, dont question weather if any guy would go out with you looking like that...that shows insecurity... just leave it as it is and the turning point will be at your best hand...
until then...get the beers in!!!
Stick with guys your own age. Older guys are very good at pretending to be nice so that they can take advantage of nice girls who trust too much.
I don't know about this guy and what he thinking, but it would be nice to see a picture before commenting about someone going out with you.
Ever heard of false advertising?
yes he does just talk to him and become great friends. then start flirting with him. if he like it he will ask you out
Good Luck!!
i think he tried to make a move on you but didnt get any response , but he still fancies you .
time you made your move and return the complement.
by the discription you give of you i would jump ya bones
Guys love to be approached by gals, so just go talk to him, ask him out. You have nothing to lose, trust me, I dated this ugly (like Mad Magazine Alfred P. Newman ugly) girl for a while just because she approached me with confidence. And, I ain't oogly.
yessss.
lol
i would date you for your personality, not your looks.
Yes .
Lots of boys or even man will fall for you.
But your weight must be per Body Mass Index from health stand point.
So read my articles and do as you please.
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Your weight must be per Body Mass Index.
But most people will need some body parts specific exercises to look good or at least what they see fit to satisfy their own high standards.
So read my articles and do as you please.
You can and I can help.
Please read by articles and do as you please.
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General Advice to Young People
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This is my general advice to all.
You sound very young and if you are under 25, then study hard if in school or college, stay and finish it. Or join a school or college, acquire higher education.
Avoid distraction while studying at home or at school, just concentrate on the thing that you do at the time you are doing.
Build a carrier, youth comes but once take full advantage of it. Study hard, play some enjoy friendship, and then at age 30 if still unattached then try the sites like.
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Quick Weight Loss
By
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It is not recommended but it may be required in some rear case. One such case is before going in for some surgery.
So here it is.
1. A doctor must approve it. Or. You had recent physical.
2. You must take vitamin supplement equal to or batter then Multi vitamin for Man or woman, over 50 years, even if you are much younger.
3. Must not be on this diet for more then 1 month without doctor鈥檚 permeation.
4. Must know that it is considered a starvation diet.
5. Drink at lest 1 gallon of water but do not drink more then 1 陆 gallon of water per day.
6. Exercise 2 hours per day.
7. Keep total calorie at 1000 per day, all vegetable and fruits; avoid fat (2% max calorie in fat).
8. Make sure you eat vegetarian proteins such as lentils and pulses (American call them cereals, but not break fast type that contains mainly crabs
9. Please note. If you use non vegetarian diet you will use up calorie, and will have hunger prangs. This is the main reason for vegetarian diet. Other then that you can use any thing.
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Exercise 2 hours per day:
You do not need to join a gym.
15 minutes walk before each main meal, 15 minutes walk before bed time. Walk any where office, home apartment, side walk, road (if safe). Walk at good clip (fast as fast as you can).
1 hour of other free hand exercises, break it up in 15 minutes, if you can if you like or must.
A. Include free hand upper body exercises.
B. Do seat ups.
C. Do crunches.
D. Do standing bends (try to touch the ground with legs spread to maintain balance)? Make sure you do not tip over. Do not have to touch the ground but must try to go as far as you can.
E. Through the waist tilt your body slightly back, stay close to the wall so you do not fall back ward, be very care full, not to injure the back or back bone at the waist.
F. Do some side bend, by bending at the waist keeping your hand on the side of thighs, may want to spread the legs for balance. Go alternate, do them left, right, left right.
G. Do push ups.
H. Do chin ups (if you can and have a bar available).
Once this period is over, or once the weight loss is achieved then go back to other articles for maintaining the weight loss or for further loss as needed per Body Mass Index or at 1500 calorie level. At this level if you are non vegetarian then you can add 500 calorie of non vegetarian food without getting huger prangs or worry about putting on the weight.
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Tips for Loosing Weight
By
minootoo
You must count calories and at least in initial stages write down what you are going to eat and when then stay on that list. Your total calories for the week must not exceed, 1500 x 7 = 10,500 calories this will give you leave way to indulge at special occasions like wedding and parties, but you must write down what you eat and account for the calories latter and adjust the total intake next week.
Please read my article on this subject and follow them.
While at it build your body too, while reducing by doing body parts specific exercises.
If you are not too old, then best way to reduce your weight is to increase your height.
Vegetarians have a big advantage, in loosing weight, it cost less and they can satisfy the hunger more easily, some vegetables have only 1 calorie per pound, so they can fill themselves up with it before enjoying each meal, and never go hungry.
Most people should take one a day water soluble multi-vitamins when on this program; they can be purchased at the pharmacy near you.
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Life Style Change Program for Loosing Weight
By
minootoo
Who needs to loose weight?
Answer is simply not every one, only the over weight person.
Who is over weight?
This is simple, it is easy to find out and it is available on line, it is call Body Mass Index, and calculations are simple. According to this calculation if you find your self say only 10 pounds more, you may not be over weight. Remember every one is slightly different and you can just watch it, on your own and not let it get out of hand.
What is the reason for being over weight?
This is also simple, have doctor check you out for any physical or hormonal abnormalities. The doctor should be advising you of your ideal weight even though you have already figured out the ideal weight and you are seen a doctor because your weight is not where it should be according to BMI.
Basic understanding of loosing weight.
Every one uses calories at all time. There may be some exceptions to this rule, for most of us; the rate of use, even when we are resting, we use 65 calories per hour minimum. This comes to1560 calories per day. The actual range is between 65 and 100 calories per hour. This is consistent with heart rate of 60 to 80 bits per minute.
Simply put any person eating only say 1500 calories a day will not put on any additional weight. At this level of calories consumption the person should loose some weight over long haul, depending on the individual rate of metabolism.
What is a healthy weight loss?
When one tries to loose weight, one should loose excess fat; there should be a healthy loss of weight. Loosing muscles tissue is unhealthy.
How much is one pound of body fat?
One pound of body fat weight is approximately same as one pound of butter. If you look at a one pound package of butter, you will see it contains between 3200 to 3600 calories. This means that each time a person burns 3600 more calories then what the person takes in, the person will loose one pound.
How many pounds should a person loose in a month?
Any one that is trying to trim down can figure out how long it took to put on the excess pounds. The fact is; it did not happen over night. It usually creeps up, but the person realizes one day suddenly.
This is why a person should not be in a hurry to loose weight. The person should start at once but go slowly. Do not wait for New Year.
Taking above in to consideration a person should not loose more then 2 pounds per month. If a person looses any thing more then that, chances are that the person will not be able to maintain the weight loss. It will take extra efforts to loose and it will take extra efforts to keep it off. Remember slow and steady wins the race.
When an overweight person should start loosing weight?
At once. The person should not be in a hurry to loose weight. The person should start at once but go slowly. Again do not wait for New Year.
How does body react to weight lose?
Any time there is depletion of fat beyond certain level, the body reacts by slowing down metabolism, so that it can build up fat. If the body is use to say 2000 calories per day and detects only 1500 calories per day for considerable length of time it reacts to the situation by reducing the rate of metabolism. When this happens one need to help body by increasing activity. Usually takes about four weeks for body to react.
What is the relationship between body and body fat?
Under ideal condition fat act as a reserved energy source for our body. Certain level of fat is good for healthy living and even may save our life in certain life threatening situations. Every one should have minimum required level of fat on their body.
What if there is no weight loss at 1500 calories in take level?
This is a rear occurrence. Do not panic. The body has slowed down the metabolism to such a great extent that you must help it. The only way to help is to increase activities, this means you have to exercise. You do not need to join Gym but you can go on an an half an hour walk every day or batter still engage in a power walk for same duration. Power walk burns 250 calories per hour and walk burns 100 calories per hour approximately.
What is the importance of body fat for a female?
Females require little more body fat then men. In the absence of certain required level of body fat, females are not able to function properly; in particular they may not be able to conceive. You can find lot more about this on internet.
At 1500 calories intake per day what one must drink and eat?
Drink
One gallon of liquids most of witch should be in the form of water (zero calories).
Calories should be accounted for all other liquids.
Why water?
Water is a universal solvent, means it dissolves almost every thing at least in very minute quantities. This helps purification of body.
Eat
What should be your proportionate in take of fat, Proteins and Complex Carbohydrates?
This depends on what your need are.
1. Need to reduce fat.
Fat: 10 percent of 1500 calorie per day = 150 calories.
Complex Carbohydrates: 30 percent of 1500 calories per day = 450 calories.
Proteins: 60 percent of 1500 calories per day = 900 calories.
2. Need more energy.
Fat: 10 percent of 1500 calorie per day = 150 calories.
Complex Carbohydrates: 40 percent of 1500 calories per day = 450 calories.
Proteins: 50 percent of 1500 calories per day = 750 calories.
3. Need to reduce weight only.
Fat: 25 percent of 1500 calorie per day = 375 calories.
Complex Carbohydrates: 25 percent of 1500 calories per day = 375 calories.
Proteins: 50 percent of 1500 calories per day = 750 calories.
4. Need to increase muscles bulk, but still reduce weight.
Fat: 10 percent of 1500 calorie per day = 150 calories.
Complex Carbohydrates: 15 percent of 1500 calories per day = 225 calories.
Proteins: 75 percent of 1500 calories per day = 1125 calories.
Exercise the muscles you want to develop, you can find right exercise on line, recommend use of light weights.
Foot note: To take fat is so important, while reducing even fat, that it is included in all cases. If the fat is completely cut out, body will think of producing the fat, and will produce the fat by reducing metabolism, without fat in take, you may actually again weight even at lower than 1500 calorie level. You will feel run down and lethargic.
How one must, drink and eat?
Drink
Every one may not be able to follow this regime.
A 16 oz glass of water fist thing in the morning will be very healthy start.
If you need to stabilize your stomach before eating, you can have a glass of water just before each and every meal. This is the easiest way to meet your quota of gallon of liquids.
Eat
To day almost half the world is starving.
In western culture. Standard healthy practice for long time was three warm square meals per day. No eating in between, but children were allowed night cap.
All that has changed, present thinking is 5 to 6 times per day. Any way what practice one follows is up to them; to each his own.
Another best practice will be a glass of water before bed time, nothing to eat for two hours before bed time.
How do I know the calorie count for various drinks and food?
If you are buying packaged items it is on the package.
Go on the internet and find the calorie information.
Lots of cook book now a days list calorie per serving.
Use your best guess, in this method use higher figure then you have guessed.
References:
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http://www.halls.md/body-mass-index/bmi.鈥?/a>
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Increasing the Height
By
minootoo
In rear cases, you can increase the height up to age 30.
Cycling is good exercise and fun too.
You need to adjust the seat so that when you paddle from seating position you will actually stretch your legs, it is a difficult position but doable. For safety you need to be on track and not in traffic, safety first.
The FEW things I did at least helped me.
Swimming.
Not just playing in water, but serious laps type swimming, do not try to beat the clock but steady full strokes swimming. Remember slow and steady wins the race.
Stretching exercises on floor.
Find them on line.
Chin ups.
Full stretch type.
Swinging from a rope.
Full stretch climbing.
In other words do things that require stretching.
STRETCH-STRETCH-STRETCH-STRETCH
PS
In the morning after good night sleep every one is about 1/2 inch to 1 inch taller. This is because the soft tissue between the bones recovers during the time when there is no weight on them.
Older people loose height due to bone loss. I was 5', 7'' I am only 5', 5';.
Issue of Genes:
You know only the active genes but genes can stay dormant for generations.
I believe that every one has some tall height genes, dormant or active; I again believe that certain exercises can activate those.
Again Swimming:
You will start out with half a lap and build up day by day, half a lap at a time. Then you will swim non stop for 1/2 an hour.
The speed is not important but you must use various strokes and do them correctly, completely, slowly and perfectly. This way you will have full stretch, and its benefit.
Eating healthy foods and taking rest as specially sleeping soundly at night is very important. Most people need 8 hours of good sound sleep per night, some need more and few get by with 4 hours only.
In the mean time use high hills and take advantage of hair-do, wardrobe can do wonders too; vertical striped clothing can create a taller look for most people.
Hormones:
Under strict supervision of a doctor they do wonders but the side effects are delayed and unpredictable so doctors do not like to use them.
Surgical Procedures:
There are surgical procedures but most doctors will not do them till the person is 30 years or so. They also have to be very short
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Body Building
BY
minootoo
You are blessed.
Most people put on weight after age 40.
Any way before you try any thing, see a doctor to rule out any abnormalities (Hormone, Pituitary).
Remember it is ten times easier to put on the weight then to take it off.
Body building is opposite of weight loss. But you must understand weight loss in order to build body.
I will include my article on weight loss also.
Most people eat protein reach food and complex carbohydrates, with one thing in mind, that they have to exercise 6 days a week and they have to eat more than what they burn off each day.
If you eat about 300 to 400 more calories per day then you burn off, you have a weight gain of slightly less than one pound per week.
You need to eat about 4000 calories per day minimum.
If that does not work than slow down your exercises routine.
In extreme case you will not exercises for two weeks at all, followed by vigorous exercises routine for six weeks. Repeat this cycle again and again till you reach your goal.
References:
http://search.yahoo.com/search?ei=utf-8%26amp;鈥?/a>
http://www.halls.md/body-mass-index/bmi.鈥?/a>
just talk to him regularly or wat ever, and see wat happens, but he probly does like u. id go out with u
to the last question: yes
to the first question: I don't know, does he like you? The answer lies with that guy... and you have to find out yourself.
Go out there and ask him. Don't be weird about it though.
Dirty blonde eh? I think someone needs a shower!
BTW, TWO POINTS!
He likes you and is being shy too! just go and talk to him!
To answer your two questions:
yes he is probably interested in you. Write your phone number down and a note that says ';For you only';. Walk up to him, hand it to him and tell him when... ';7:00pm'; or whatever time.... it puts the responsibility on him to make the next move. If he is interested, he will move mountains to call you at that time. Now also, don't be so naive... all guys will go along way for sex.... it seems a little odd that a senior would so interested in a freshman only unless he thinks that she is easily impressed and is more likely to pu out. I just tellin' it. So be careful
Second, your brief description....sounds like you have a nice physique, but personality, confidence and other less tangible aspects are important as well.... unless you are just looking get laid. Again, I am just tellin' it.
Good luck.
I would suggst you find someone in your class, most senior simply want to finiash school and graduate, I would assume he may like you but may also have no ';intrest'; in a FReshman, if for no other reason his fellow classmates would give him a hard time about it. Yes I am A guy ans when I was in HS senior would talk to and be with Juniors, they always left the Frosh out, as being ';Too Young'; yea right,
The guy sounds interested. Also seems like he's more shy....seeing that he hasn't really approached you.
Talk to him if you find him attractive...in both personality and looks.
And yes, you will find that many guys will want to go out with a girl like you...unless they're shorter than you. Some guys won't like that.
PS... I think it'd kind of weird/creepy that he walks by you so much without making a move....he must be real shy, anxious, or unexperienced.
it is a good possibility that he likes you, and never trust that, he doesn't want to get in my pants thing, the ones that do it the most often are the ones that know how to act like they don't want to.
on your second question, i would say a lot of guys would want to date you, you described what more than half my guy friends say is sexy and that they like, but don't just fall back on your looks, eventually they will fade, work on your personality,and don't be afraid to go after what you want, if you never try, you've already failed, and think about it this way, if you try and he says no, then your in the same situation you were in to begin with, single. except that now you know wither he likes you or not, and you don't have to sit around wondering.
if he does have sex with u remember condoms can rip and will sip most of the time and they dont protect from std's and he seems nice so far ask him out but if hes like that say no
maybe
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