Saturday, July 31, 2010

Uhm advice guys?!?

okay, well, talking about the past. whne i was 16, i lost my virginity because i was kind of drunk, and my boyfriend took advantage of me and i dont remember the night.





now its 4 yrs later, and i never had sex after that, so i sort of consider myself a virgin because i didn't remember the first time i had sex. and i have THE best boyfriend Kyle whose 26 and im 20. hes much more experienced, and last week we were on his couch in his apartment, making out when he started to undress me. i quickly stopped him, and told him that i wasn't ready. and that i was taken advantage of %26amp; he was being really cute about it and said that he could wait for me.





so i dont know when to do it with him. i mean, im developing really strong feelings for him, and it will be our month anniversary soon, so i dont know when to have sex. pls advice?Uhm advice guys?!?
wow, you shouldn't feel pressured by anyone in a month; take your time; if he's ready and you're not thats fine, if he waits thats great, if not he isn't worth being upset about.Uhm advice guys?!?
It doesn't sound like he's pressuring you, so I don't know why you would pressure yourself. Do it when you want to, not because you think you should.
its gonna sound cliche, but youll know when youre ready. youll feel it psychologically and physically. So just let it happen when it happens. Now you can always do other things too if you cant get into the whole intercourse part too. so talk to your boyfriend about it and if he understand then thatss great. Good luck
Only have sex with him when you are ready and feel comfortable with it.

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