Thursday, July 29, 2010

Help!!! PLease.....Need Advice!!! GUYS consider this? girls if you can.?

Okay so there is a guy at my school and he is a cowboy and he is or should i say was, a really nice guy. He had found out that i liked him and i had wrote him notes in the past jus to throw a couple of hints! And he looks at me in the hallway all the time its weird! But anyway so my Bestfriend askd him if he liked me and he told her probably not... (question: Does that mean he is not for sure that he likes me or what?) But now he gives me weird looks in the hallway sometimes there good looks and sometimes their bad looks so i jus throw them right back at him! QUESTION: Am I being to harsh or mean or even maybe blowing this out of proportion..? Do I still try and get him or leave him alone? And he still kinda watchs me sometimes... WHAT DO I DO!???!!Help!!! PLease.....Need Advice!!! GUYS consider this? girls if you can.?
Looks like things just took a turn out of your favor. I think he is to shy to admit he likes you because of the age difference. Maybe not but it seams to be that way. Then again he may not know you enough so he may not know if he likes you. The looks can mean one million things, he may think your odd, he may be afraid you are looking at him, he gets his hormones to kick in sometimes to say your hot and other times to say wtf was I thinking just a second ago. Your not being to harsh but if you want him then you definitely aren鈥檛 helping yourself out much by giving him mean looks back. I say if he is being a prick two wrongs don鈥檛 make a right so don鈥檛 be mean but try to ignore it, because just like girls guys talk and if he said to his friends your not being cool that screws you over hard core. I say if you like him like you say you do write him a sweet letter stating that you really flat out like him and really want to go out with him and at the same time ask him why he was giving you strange looks. If he seems like the real masculine type then say that really hurt your feelings but I think I can get over it if you show me that you really are a good guy. That pulls two cords toward you, one the guilt cord a cowboys biggest weakness and competition to prove he is a good guy. If you don鈥檛 like the way he replies or you don鈥檛 like him now because of his behavior I say screw him you deserve a good man that will treat you right, you seem to have your heart in the right place and your head on right and if he is going to throw you aside because of age or your not ';';';his type';';'; he is just a player cowboy if he can call him self one. Ill tell u what if he tells you no then he is not worth your time. So honestly it is up to u if you like him and cant go on without him or at least need a good reason not to want him then forget him or try another round with him. Hope it works out but if it doesn鈥檛 just tell me and I am always here ifin you need some help finding a new boy. No worries we will eventually if not this one will find a guy worthy of your criteria and charisma. Well hope that helps. Good luck. YEEHAW!!!! if you need a word in your favor I can talk to him if you like we cowboys have somewhat the same lingo.Help!!! PLease.....Need Advice!!! GUYS consider this? girls if you can.?
i think your looking into this a bit too much, put yourself in his shoes. you find out some guy likes you - you didn't know of his existance until now. you are observing him from a distance. do you like him? how could you? you barily know him. that's what's in his head.





chances are, if he said he probably doesn't like you, then he probably doesn't. but not definitly - he's observing you, liking someone takes time.





maybe he's waiting for you to make your move. maybe he's looking at you and wondering why your just standing there like a lunk staring back at him. go there and talk to him, he might look brave, but may not know how to handle girls.
he is trying to figure out who this nutcase is. stop blowing this out of proportion and leave the guy alone. you probably have scared the crap out of him.
If I were him I'de blow you off too. The last thing I need is my friends trying to ';hook me up.'; It's a turn off. Be original and be more honest than you sound here. Of course, I forget school if the one place you are supposed to learn at and instead young people are learning to be more stupid than ever. Don't be stupid, move on. He's not the only fish in the sea and neither are you.
You've let him know you like him and he has'nt acted on it so you are probably best to move on.Just be pleasant when you see him, give him a smile but don't come on to him.
that is sooo totally confusing


i have no idea what you're talking about
baby girl, this is something you need to do on your own. you have to talk to him. just make sure when you do, none of your friends or his friends are around. otherwise, it would influence the true conversation you both will have. it can be a simple, passive conversation like ';hi, how's going';. and see how it will develope from there.
Girl





That guy is a shy as the day as long. Make a move.


Girls love guys with confidence, then shown him how serious you are in starting a relationship.





He might be nervous, maybe he has never really had any girlfriends, maybe he doesn't know what to expect or how far you two are going to go .





I would talk to him, make it clear, but try to be kind and understanding. You don't want to scare him off.





My advise: More hints but don't force him.





All the best - I mean it





Moose
If he's interested let him approach you. Otherwise cast your attentions elsewhere.
Do the only thing left to do -- Talk to him about it... Communication solves life.
Sorry, but he probably isn't interested in you, and there is nothing that you can do.





Get on with your life, and have fun doing stuff you love. You will meet other guys, and hopefully ones that love the stuff that you do, and will appreciate you for who you are.





Best of luck.
It sounds like from day 1, you have been approaching this guy in a childish manner. He probably sees that, and that's why his answer was ';probably not';.





Perhaps if you grow up a little and let him know that you are interested in a more normal, casual way then you will spark his interest.





You never mentioned how old either of you are, so it is a little difficult to give advice. But regardless of age, I think it's a good idea to give a more ';grown up'; approach a try.
well go up to him and talk to him
You ARE blowing this out of proportion and I'm afraid if he says ';probably not'; then he doesn't like you. I'm sorry :( But you can just move on with your life and like a new guy who likes you back. And if not you can wait until someone finds you because there is someone out there for everyone. Good Luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :P
Cowboy, huh? Maybe he doesn't like the way your flanks look. Could be your mane is off-color. Maybe your rump is a little worn. The only way to know if he's serious is that he asks to check your teeth.
he wants YOU not your bestfriend,you ask him out,you;ll be surprised when he is butter in your hands
you sould ask him because he is probly to embarest to tel her

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