HELP / ADVICE?! GUYS MAINLY but girls too!!!?

Ok, so this guy John knows i like him, and he is cool with it, but now this girl who i THOUGHT was my friend is ALWAYS sending him notes! and shes so pretty and funny that i think he might start to like her! i've been telling her to stop but she just says she's not doing anything! UGH!!! any tips on what to do?? Since i sit next to him in geography i was thinking i could start passing him notes, too, so he could start noticing me more. But what should I talk about (im gonna do it tomorrow)?





GUYS: do you think it would be weird to just pass a note saying ';hey whats up?'; and then just talk about school or something? or what do YOU think is a good idea for a girl to talk to YOU about??


thanks for all your help! = )HELP / ADVICE?! GUYS MAINLY but girls too!!!?
how old are you?


Anyways play footsie, you know? play with his feet with yours.


Ask to borrow something pass him a note about anything ask id he wants to hang out this weekend or go to the movies drop your pencil and bend down to get it (wearing a skirt) right in front of him even if your wering leggings so he dosent ';see'; anything he will like the ideaHELP / ADVICE?! GUYS MAINLY but girls too!!!?
Well if you don't have anything to talk about in your notes to him, ask him if he wants to hang out one time. That way, you will have things to talk about, plus you'll be one up on your friend becuase you spent time with him. But if you friend is trying to move in on a guy she knows you like, thats pretty rude, not a true friend! Good Luck!
write him a note asking him if he likes sex...that will get his attention. take it from there.
whatever you do dont let him know you feel in competition or jealous of this other girl\


your confidence with yourself will catch his eye alot faster than the green-eyed monster of jealousy
Talk to him. And if you must pass notes, hey what's up is an alright thing to say, i guess. and things to talk to him about depends on what he's like. if he's really athletic, then talk about him. if he is popular, talk about him, if he is anything else talk about you.
just send a nice note going ';man this is boring...'; and then talk about something that happened, maybe. or ask some interesting question
Wait until you have something to say to him.
write:





lets do something this weekend
He isn't just going to just decide to like you. If he knows you like him and he's cool with that, then why not pass notes? Usually you become friends before you start going out (at least in my experience... i'm not insanely good looking, so I kind of have to talk to people to get them to notice me). However, direct conversation is much more fluid than note-writing, so maybe hang out with whoever he hangs out with at lunch, and if you're nervous about going there to find him, then maybe start talking to him after class is over and work from there. I don't know. i'm still a guy, maybe not the best person to listen to.





Talk about anything. It doesn't matter what, really. And if it doesnt work (conversation doesm't flow well), just forget about it.





Oh, and I agree with whoever just said that if he's already going out with her to just leave it be. She's still your friend, and you don't want that suppressed hostility to build up. My gf's two best friends are... well, sort of fighting over this one guy (one thinks the other likes him, so she's annoyed with her). it's ugly.
Pass that note. But make sure he's the one you want.
pass him notes..;)


but if he knows you like him and he hasnt put the move on you i'd just move on.
yea go for it. and maybe ask him out so he REALLY notices you.
ok if you were a guy and your friend does that to a girl that you like then that would be called ';c*ck blocking'; or in this case, erm ';vag blocking';





just talk and start out with ';wussup'; you know? say something like ';this class blows';, etc etc maybe a game of hangman? tic tac toe?
just ask him out to a movie...be confidant and make a move. Passing notes is so sillyyyyyyy
confidence is the key.





also, if he likes your friend better, then dont bother asking him out. cause if you does go out with you, your friend will be on his mind!! it wouldnt work b/w you too then





good luck!
no pass him a note
no, that wouldnt be strange at all. i wrote a note to a girl today and it was about absolutely nothing. well, technically i wrote 2 notes because the first 1 got taken away and then the teacher yelled at me, so i just wrote her another one. but that wouldnt be strange to me.
dont send him notes instead try to get along with him and youll be ahead your competition. invite him to a party or something
Go for it
forget about him
pass hima note and start a conversation with him and make him fall for u and always compliment him
The note's not weird. If you try too hard you might come across as needy, which might not be good. If that girl is really your friend, she wouldn't be trying to pull that **** and then act like she isn't doing anything. It's cut-throat and undermines your intelligence.
Yeah start the note like that and when its kinda close to the end of class, then ask him if he wants to hang out at lunch


Answer my question too please


http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?…
Kay here's what the note should say





Hey John!!!


hehe my friend _______________ ( whatever that girls name was ) passes you notes alot, doesn't she! lol Yeah she doesn't like you just so you know. I'm serious. So whats up





Make convorsation








How old are you





and email me with the deets.





Irishsweetie1512@yahoo.com
If it was meant to be, it was meant to be. If he decides not to like you, its his loss, and it shows you could do better anyways. =) BUT in the mean time, go for it! MAKE him notice you. Put your friend to shame. lol. =D
If you're serious about this guy, then you should talk to him directly when possible(break time, lunch, after school, etc.).





Notes are not exactly the best way to go about things other than letting them know something, ie: I'd like to talk to you about something. When is a good time for you?





Simple notes like 'Do you like me?' are lame and as someone else said silly in others eyes and they may in turn laugh at you and I know that's not what you want.





Either send a note like I described above or just catch him at some point and talk to him directly. It may be scary, but sometimes the direct approch is the best way.





PS: If you're really scared to talk yo him directly until you know, then write him a letter and get it to him in some fashion (stick it in his locker if you have them, stick it in his backpack when he isn't look; be creative if you want). That should help more so than a note. You decide.
Well, you should talk to him more. And if the girl is your friend, you can talk to her and tell her your feelings about him. She might back off if she IS a friend. If she doesnt care, just stay calm. Dont pass notes, 1. because you'll get in trouble and the teacher will read it aloud. 2. He might think your scared to talk to him or something. So basically just talk to him more. Talk about stuff he likes. ect.


~Good Luck
Sweetheart, he is a guy you like, and if you feel that he is important to you, and you do want to go out with him and only him. Then go for it, write him a note about how you truly feel, and ask him to hang out with you. like to get to know him more. yah know.! but if he does pick the girl or he is more with the chick i would just give it up. I wouldn't fight over a guy if my life depended on it. when you like someone, my method is go for the relatioship, if it doesn't work its not meant to be. Got me. good. luck.!
you should go with that i guess.


wut grade u in?