Need an Advice??? GUYS PREFERRABLEY.?

My friend was talking to this guy, and they quit calling eachother for about a month or so, but yesterday he called her. She likes him alot, but he is not asking her out. And, she is wondering if she should ask him out? I already adviced her not to ask him out because they live 200 miles apart, and she is 24 and he is 35. I do not think he is taking her serious, what do you think should I prevent her from talking to this guy because I don't want her to get hurt. Or do you think there is some kind of feeling there, that this guy feels, but doesn't want to say anything? And why is he calling her back after a month? Thank you for your time.Need an Advice??? GUYS PREFERRABLEY.?
Very tough question. Effort should not be rewarded.





It is the quality of exchange that is important. So many people think that if they keep trying, they'll eventually get there.


This always reminds me of that bee who keeps banging against a closed window when there is an open window just to the side..





My guess is that this guy is searching. Your friend will talk to him so after some failed attempt he comes back to your friend. This isn't bad. Tries at new relationships are delicate and unsure. If she likes him, she should give him the next chance and everyone in the world hopes that it will work.Need an Advice??? GUYS PREFERRABLEY.?
be a good friend a tell her how you feel about this BUT don't force her one way or the other she has to make that decision. I hope that helped at least a little.
Can I ask why you think your friend is not capable of making that call herself? Do you think she is inadequate to do that?
200 miles is a bit long. and a 11 year age difference isn't cool.
ok, at first i was gonna say, ya! tell her to ask him out!





but then you said that they live 200 miles apart, and that they have more then 10 yrs age difference..... soooooo, i agree with you...... she sould not go out with this guy, even if he does ask her!