Tuesday, July 27, 2010

Boyfriend advice guys?

I want to be more comfortable around my boyfriend. i think that i'm not because he is so shy, but i don't wanna blame him or anything. We are a new couple, but we have liked each other for the past year or so. I really want to hold his hand and hug him and stuff, but im so shy and self consious. I know that i shouldn't force it, but we have been together for two months. i'm gonna try and get the confidence by friday, but is there any advice that might make me more comfortable? He is 16 and im 15. thank you!Boyfriend advice guys?
what helps me is that i dont think about what i want to do i just do it. with my bf if he doesnt want to kiss or something ill kiss him on the cheek. when i want to hug him i just rap my arms around his neck and tell him he means a lot to me. if you have never held hands before what i learned was during a movie play the poke game. poke his leg till he pokes you back but dont poke every second. every once in a while do it.once he pokes u back poke him again till you start having a poking war or whatever. then poke his hand but if he hasnt grabbed ur hand by then, then tell him to open his hand up with his palm up and kinda tickle his hand. be kind of touchy feely. if he doesnt try and hold your hand by then, match your hands up so that palms are together. and then move your fingers where his arnt and start to kind of grab his hand. i hope this advice works for you like it did for me! good luck!Boyfriend advice guys?
Give it some time. It sounds like you both are shy, and really, two months is not that long of a time. It takes a while to really get to know a person and become comfortable with them.
im sure hes nervous to. i bet you that if you make a move he'll make a move back..as in getting less nervous





id say to... probally just hold his hand and start from there
Just grab his hand just hug him just kiss him, if you can't and if he can't then maybe you two should re-think things.
Just talk to him exactly the same way you talk to us here on Yahoo Answers! Tell him what you just wrote!

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