Anyones advice. Guys what are you really thinking!!?

First things first i'm 26 dating a 30 year old guy. We both have children who are with us most of the time. We've been dating for the last 4 months and latly things seem kinda distant. At the begining he called and text me all the time, even when he was at work. We would see each other at least 2x a week and lately more. things were great. Then about 2 weeks ago he stoped responding right away to my text, he would still call and we still got together. Then one day when we were hanging out things felt weird he was kinda moody so I bring it up. We have a little tiff. We went out on the weekend things were fine and then this week he is ';busy'; so I believe him. It's legitimate stuff. Family so forth. Other words checks out no cheating. Then he says that we can't get together at his house when his kid is there, He thinks he's figuring out whats going on. But we can still get together with the kids and when we don't have them. So what do you think. Maybe he just needs some space or what.Anyones advice. Guys what are you really thinking!!?
Something has changed- don't kid yourself.


Move on. Whats meant to be will be!Anyones advice. Guys what are you really thinking!!?
I would say yes he needs some space...or YOU need some space... It's hard when kids are involved. Also, what's the big deal with the kid being around??? You're children are your life now...if all of a sudden he doesn't want you to come around when the kid is there he might be thinking this is a lot more temporary then you do...





I would give the whole thing space...go on a few other dates...you might find someone a little less flighty...
Ok, now in ';female terms'; he is playing hard to get. So you have two choices, chase or turn the tables. He wants the attention from you of being desired. So if you like to give this attention give it to him as much as he needs. But it sounds like the problem is that you do not like his behavior that he is using to get this attention. So do not give him attention for playing hard to get. Do not chase him or seek his attention. Instead desire him sexually let him know constantly how you need him this way, or another way if you do not crave him this way. When he is getting the amount of attention that he wants/needs he will not play hard to get. He will have what he needs/wants and you will be at pease until your next relationship problem.
He is just not that into you...
Maybe he is trying to get back with his ex. Who knows. Maybe he does just need some space. Try giving him some, and if he bites, then good. If he continues being that distant, then he's not the one for you.
maybe his kids are giving him some trouble about him dating someone? kids can be pains when their single parent starts dating again... i know some friends that said they used to actually tell their parents not to see whoever they were dating... kids...
Sounds to me he might be losing interest in you or is also interested in someone else. Guys don't often ';need space';. If we really like a women we want to be with them as much as possible, but still maintain a life outside the relationship. Try and distance yourself from him a little bit. If he chases you, hes obviously still interested.
If you're already worried about him cheating, that doesn't sound good. It seems to me that he may have some second thoughts about the relationship and wants some space. I would give him his space and not invest too much of myself in this relationship. I'm a guy and I've done what he's done, and at that time I was losing interest in the relationship.





I hope this isn't too harsh, I'm just trying to be straight. Good luck.
I say give him some space. As a 26 yo male, when you say ';he's figuring out whats going on';... makes me believe that hes trying to distance himself and possibly just needs some time. Plus he has a kid too, so he could be focused on him/her at this time. I wouldnt react too much to what has been going on in just a couple weeks. its too early.