Need some advice guys.... please!!!?

this has nothing to do with mens health, just want to hear what the guys perspective would be on this... need some advice.





ok, im such a wreck i cant even sleep and i've been crying all day. i just dont know what to do..





ive been dating my boyfriend for over a year, he's a virginia tech football player. im going to college about 45 minutes away from tech. ive been a cheerleader my whole life and i've always wanted to be a college cheerleader since forever ago and finally my dream has come true =) problem is.. with his crazy insane busy football schedule he won't have any time to come see me or pick me up... and the fact that i'm doing cheerleading... my weekends won't be open either. we were talking today over the phone of course (since his crazy practice schedule has already begun...) and basically we have no idea when the next time we're going to see each other will be =(. his season will be over in january, so thats 5 months of us not seeing each other (including this month, 6). i mean lets be realistic... he can barely go a few weeks without sex, 5 months? he will most def find someone else. so basically, for us to stay together, i'd have to quit cheerleading. if i quit cheer, i'd be able to see him every single weekend. this is probably one of the hardest decisions i've ever had to make. this may sound stupid to all of you ha, but its just absolutely tearing me apart. what in the world am i to doNeed some advice guys.... please!!!?
if you love him trust him thats all anyone could really ever do in that situation live your dream and if it doesnt work out then it wasnt meant to be i guess





i know it sounds like something youd hear when your in like a high school relationship but thats really all i can offer





best of luck to you two thoughNeed some advice guys.... please!!!?
Well to start off I would say that when you go away to collage you should just make arrangements before you go with your bf and or gf.


If you really want cheer leading go for it because that was in you life first right. You also Should break up with him but be good Friends and maybe you will be good enough Friends to become gf and bf and maybe even marriage





That's what i would do
ride it





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|Unfortunately life is all about choices, only you can make that choice do you give up something you love doing or carry on. Think carefully make the right choice or you may end up regretting it later.
if cheerleading if one of your life goals forget him but if its just for fun then it depends how much you love him
your only 45 minutes away...his schedule is crazy for 6 months, I dont know your schedule is, but what if you go see him and stay the night on saturday nights after his game. You can spend at least 1 night a week. If both of you want to be together then give it a try. but PLEASE DO NOT ASK HIM ABOUT CHEATING/GIRLS HE SAW EVERYTIME YOU SPEAK. That will drive him crazy and make him want to do it, just so you will shut up about it.





To sum it up, talk with him about it and be honest with each other if you want to try this. talk/text wheen you can %26amp; try to see him saturday night - sunday evening.
I'll start off by saying I don't know anything about you two, but this is my advice:


If all you guys have in common is that you wanna have sex, then this relationship probably won't work out so well.


But if you think that there is more then you should trust that he won't have sex with other people.





Ask yourself, do you think that you'll marry this guy?


If no, what's the point in messing around now?


You should do what makes you happiest, and for me that would be my dream job, and if that is cheerleading for you, what guy should hold you back... No one.