READ THIS i need advice GUYS ONLY.?

iam so confused about my ex and i need honest opinions. My ex broke up w, me in the summer b/c i hurt him, we were eachothers 1st loves it was so hard. Well just recent we started talking again on IM but things have been kinda crazy b/c he knows i still have feelings for him from ppl telling him %26amp; his friends would come over %26amp; say that he still likes me but needs to trust me and its gunna take time. This other guy asked him allowed in class if he still likes me and he turned red and said why?'; i dont know'; smiles so even tho he never told me.. i thought if he didnt feel the same he would have just said no. so this march break ive been talking to him on IM everynight we talk about everything and hes really nice sometimes he'll talk about things i ';used'; to do when we were together. But I dont know how he feels cus im the one always starting the convos. How do u think he feels if he didnt care would he of made it clear by now?READ THIS i need advice GUYS ONLY.?
Who gives a crap. It's teenage drama. You're not gonna marry the guy anyway... and if you do... the chances are about 77% that you end up divorced within 5 years.





Marrying anybody you've met in highschool or before is at a massive rate of failure. So why bother taking anything seriously until you've reached the age of reason.READ THIS i need advice GUYS ONLY.?
Just keep talking to him if you're not seeing or with anyone else; he probably is just rekindling old feelings for you.
hes tip toeing, you hurt him after all. I would take it slowly if i was talking to you after u hurt me, actually no i take that back I would be telling you to **** off. Your lucky he is even giving you the time of day
When guys talk about things they used to do with you, that really means they really miss YOU. He's not making it clear because he wants be sure that you want to be with him. It's a scary thing to get turned down by someone you like/love.
that is very mean of you to think that girls wouldnt know how guys feel as well. that is discrimination.
u need to lay of the crack first
you must marry him if he is your first love because you lost your virginity/dignity to him and the only way to prevent the loss is by marrying him instead of finding another guy! he will thank me for this advice lol
It sounds like he still cares for you and likes you. BUT, that doesn't mean he can trust you. I don't know what you did to hurt him the first time, but it sounds like he's not going to let his guard down for you this time.





A person can still have strong feelings for some one, yet is able to stay away from them if they think that person could hurt them again.
I'm a guy, and I think its good that you're still talking to him, cuz that is always good. I do that he actually still likes you but doesn't want to rush into it again. Usually, if a guy didn't still like you, then he would almost never talk to you, or make up an excuse when you try to talk to him. If he didnt care, then you would defintely know by now, based on what you said. And, if he's talking about your old relationship together, then that means he thinks about it a lot, showing a high chance that he still likes you. Hope things go ok.
You should move on...if you broke up before it was for a reason and unless that reason is solved for good it will just be the same old thing next time around.





If you don't want to take the advice above...Stop initiating the conversation, walk away from your computer, don't leave an away message and see if he reaches out to you.
ask him