I know he has a girlfriend (even though she's a few states away- college) so being polite, I haven't flirted with him, I've given him no special attention, no attempts at a one on one conversation, nothing.
My best friend told me the other day, that according to her brother, the guy I like is getting a vibe that I like him. I don't really know how he could've noticed, I never gave him any signs or anything.
So my questions are,
Do some guys just have a radar for that kind of thing?
What are the possibilities that he may like me too? Or do you think he'll just end up avoiding me?I need some advice, guys are so confusing sometimes..?
You need to remember that there's always a chance that one of the people in the middle ie, your friend or her brother, are mixing it up...
Maybe by you avoiding him, he's guessed that you like him; maybe every time he looks at you, you blush or giggle, even if you don't mean to. Your eyes give a lot away; my eyes can give away exactly what I'm thinking ... which really is not always a good thing...
You need to look at his body language when he's around you; does he point his feet towards you, make eye contact etc ?? if the answers are yes, then he probably likes you.
It isn't illegal to flirt gently with someone who's in a relationship; just don't let anything happen until he's single.
Hope I helped. Any more help you need, email me :)I need some advice, guys are so confusing sometimes..?
I got a radar and you just admitted you liked him on here. lol what if he ends up somehow reading this then he knows you like him and can prove it dead end dead end dead end big time.
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Well as a guy the answer to your first question is yes.
Its kind of like what people call Gaydar except that most straight guys have the ability to sense when someone they know has a crush on them.
The possibilities are high because the ';Radar'; finds someone easiest if they also like the person who has a crush on them. Chances are he'll avoid you for a short period of time then get to know you and maybe hang out with you. Then who knows ;)
As a guy who thinks he has some ability to detect these sort of things mentally, the short answer to your first question is yes.
Sort of.
While we don't know for sure, sometimes the signs can be more obvious than you think, such as repeated glances in the guy's direction. Sometimes, when a guy really likes a girl, he starts ';seeing'; signs that she likes him, even if they aren't there. So go ahead, give it a shot. Good luck!
don't do anything. if he has a girlfriend, than he'll want to stay with her. don't flirt with him or anything cause he'll think of you as a home wrecker. some guys DO have a radar for that kinda thing, but most of us are just so dang arrogant we think every girl in the world has the hots for us. he may like you, but remember, its just a crush. even if you do get together, at some point it will end.
1. Some guys are highly intuitive and get the feeling that ladies like them, 2. Some guys pay attention to the way ladies react to them, and 3. Some guys believe that all women are into them. My thinking is, it's option 2. You're probably not aware of the fact that there were times when you actually allowed him to see how you feel about him.
Idk but i'm dealing with the same thing same thing, maybe he's trying to convince himself you like him because he thinks your cute and maybe he can tell you like him if you tell other people or are always staring at him or fixinng your hair in front of him maybe he thinks you like him. You should hang out more and get to know him better and then maybe you should just tell him how you feel even if it isn't returned.
Well it depends... does he look like one of the guys who would stay faithful? If he is, then maybe you shouldn't bother. Try to keep your ';liking him'; on a down low. Maybe its the best thing. You should ask the person who told you that he was getting a vibe to see if he likes you back. Your decision:) good luck
idk what it is but even when your not giving them signs they can still tell, its happened to me, this guy likes me and hes gave me no signs what so ever that he likes me, until me told me and when i told him i knew he was like oh i never gave any signs or anything, i guess you just get this gut feeling..
I think you should not get involved with him because after a while he's going to go back to college and maybe forget about you, but you have to follow you heart and not your mind, do what you think is right.
What you need to do is flirt a little. Maybe you do need to give him the ';I like you'; vibe. It turns out he may like you. Just do what you feel is right in the end.
Some times we think we are being lead on from the littlest of things
Try to smile less maybe? You might be showing some signs on your face or body without even knowing it
Did you stare at him in a sexy way? If so then he might think you want to whack the weeds with him
Um.. well i think for this situation don't be rude but try not to talk to him that much but. But in a week i think u should try to get closer with him but don't make it obvious u like him
Thats just the way guys are most of the time they think you like them because if you are blushing or stuff like that. And there is a 50 50 chance you guys will go out just start off slow for flirting then get serious if he flirts backk
He paid close attention to your body movements and your body language which were the tell tell signs.
He may have noticed you staring. Other then that no they don't have a radar, we do though.
actually we do have a radar :) by just looking into your eyes he would know and the posibilities are like between 60% to 70% that he likes you too he won't be avoiding you trust me ;)
write amazing letters to him and see if her does things weird n don't write ur name in the letter just initials
You're wrong!
Girls are way way way more confusing!
Radar? not as 6th sense as all that. Some guys are just more prone to seeing things weather its a look in your eyes or a way you move/talk etc. even if you've done nothing that you are aware of some things sometimes as subtle as the way you stand can give him a slight idea of how you feel.
The second part is a bit more tricky, because while you like him he has a girlfriend even if she is far away right now, its really changes based on the specific people involved (maybe have your friend's brother feel it out for you, things like the relationship between this guy and his girl friend, weather he likes you or not)
its possible his reaction will be to avoid you but not all guys react to that kind of attention the same way, personally i try my best not to let the person know i know they like me. Some WILL avoid the person, while still others will want to spend MORE time around you because they love the attention
In the end it comes down to the specific people involved
Some have radar some don't...some have it, but shrug it off...Not every guy is a clone of the next even though we like to think of them that way..so there's a possibility that he can tell in just the way you act. Since basically the cat is already outta the bag...i would just be honest. It's not like you walked up to him and told him first knowing he has a girlfriend. You're only saying, ';yes you're right.'; The person each individual is meant to be with isn't Always single and a virgin! Don't push it. Just say you know he has a girlfriend and that's why you didn't say anything cuz you think that's rude..and move on. If he feels enough connection with you, he'll leave her..and don't feel sorry for her if that's the case. She doesn't want to be with someone who wants to be with someone else!
well sometimes when you really like some one have you have deep feelings for them u try not to show that u like them but it just ends up showing its just something u cant help and its something that you dont even know you are doing. soo ya sometimes ppl can just tell that someone like them or they have a really good idea, if u start to notice that he is talking to you more or you guys are hanging outt more..then there is probly a good chance he likes you, cuz now he kinda knows that yu like himm. im sure he wont avoide you if worst comes to worst he will just tell u that he dosent like u and u guys wil ljust be friends :) i hope this helped and good luck:)
Hi..
The question pertaining to some kind of radar.. Well that would be intuition based on your body language, jesters etc.. Also, the more you are trying to not show you like him it could be a dead give away. The possibilities of him liking you versus just wanting you could be equally true. I know that the fact he has a girlfriend is good enough reason to not even consider what could be or not. I have been in your shoes and what I would suggest to do is just let it go for now.
I would advice differently if he was not dating someone. Also, the fact he is in a long distance relationship makes it easy for him to have flings here and there..
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