Why do girls give single guys the worst dating advice of all?

things like:


';when you're not looking for it, it will come';





I don't know if that's what you tell your girlfriends, but it doesn't work accross the line ok!





because guess what..if a guy doesn't ask a girl for her number, he is not gonna get it.





and another thing, why do girls always explain things to guys in the most ambiguous ways.. usually ending the comment by admitting that YOU don't even understand what you wrote.





feeding us such useless garbage as advice only makes the fruit go sour.Why do girls give single guys the worst dating advice of all?
It's stupid how girls say that ';When you're not looking for it, it will come';. Apparently, the guy is the one who is supposed to ask the girl out, or that is what I've been told by numerous girls. If it's a guys job to ask the girl out and not the girls job to ask the guy out, then how will you ever get a girl if you aren't looking for one? That's one thing I don't like about girls. If they like you they won't ask you out because you are the one who is supposed to do the asking. It's so stupid. It shouldn't matter if you are a guy or girl, if you like someone ask them out!Why do girls give single guys the worst dating advice of all?
I don't usually answer a question unless I have a personal experience with it or a perspective...so it won't be like I say that advice ';It will happen to you when you least expect it.';





I don't really even believe that myself.





I think sometimes it is hard to give advice. It is like it's happened to you, but you don't know how to make it happen for others, and it's not like you can go on WikiHow and actually follow their step-by-step directions to living life.





Sometimes...you just have to do the thing yourself. Sorry!
like i just said to someone else...


confidence! confidence, charisma, and a go with the flow attitude will get you everywhere. Dont be the first to look away, do be the first to nod or say hello. People will notice you, and enjoy being around you and then it will be girls asking how to get you to notice them. just remember, not cockyness, not jerk-ishness, just confidence.


and that way it will come to you whether you're looking or not.
yeah... i feel like that sometimes... lol @ heaven...


they always say ';u don't understand'; thing is they can't even explain themselves either...


woman are usually emotional...their decision based largely on emotion...emotion is unstable...so they become unstable and complex to understand... 1+1= 2 is true today for them...but not tomorrow...





Guys are bad at managing emotion ...and lack of discipline...


so....i don't know anymore....
Not all girls give adivice like that...I for one, DON'T. I usually tell them guys to make their move, or they're gonna lose the girl. But I think other girls might say that because they want guys to be respectful to girls. But some girls don't really respond to respect (i.e. the slutty girls) Do you get what I'm saying?
If you are the happy fun honest guy , do you not think that the women out there are looking for that above all else , it is how you appear both inside and out that makes you a wanted item , what you do to get there is up to you..........
well exscuse us for trying to help i mean if you think our advice is crap then dont ask for it and every girl is different so how r we supose to know that exact girl the exact advise
Perhaps they are trying to keep you from getting too discouraged? Also you must remember the ages here vary greatly..you are getting advice here at times from very young teens so some of the advice might not be applicable to your situation.
I hate hearing that too.





';It'll happen when you least expect it';





To me, that is all BS.





I say go out and get it if you really want it!
not all girls give horrible advice, iv never said anything like that. girls havent been in that position, and r prob giving u advice with their experiences as a girl %26lt;,%26lt;
Then the logical solution would be to tough it out and not ask for women's help.
maybe it is because they secretly like you and are droping hints but guys are to blind to see it
And so what have you learned....?
to see if you belive them.
stop asking for dating advice then, just ask for numbers and hope for the best
You're an A$$H0L3!!!