Girls Please I Need Your Advice...(Guys Answer If You Want)?

i dated this guy for about 5 1/2 months and i broke up with him, he started disrespecting me and then he cheated on me and he lied to me. i'm mad at him for the way i was treated but at the same time i still somewhat care about him. he still talks tries talking to me and he told me today that he still does love me and cares about me but how can someone love you but then hurt you like he did? he's also dating another girl and i told him good for him i want whats best for him and if that means him being with another girl then fine as long as he's happy. is that wrong of me to be mad at him yet still care and be ok with him being with another girl because i want whats best for him?





i feel like i'm messed up or something for still caring for him even tho he did this to meGirls Please I Need Your Advice...(Guys Answer If You Want)?
Congrats on standing up for your- self, and having self respect. The biggest mistake in a relationship is to accept bad behaviour like that and have no respect for your-self. So its ok to still care about him even though you ended the relationship, and to wish him well. I think this shows great maturity. you need to make sure you continue to stand up for your self with all relationships in the future. The best advice I can give you is to treat your self to something nice and remember you made the Best choice in ending the relationship. Wish you the best of luck and am sure that the right guy is just around the corner.Girls Please I Need Your Advice...(Guys Answer If You Want)?
No you should be after all he did cheat on you. It is normal to still have feelings for a guy even if he broke your heart. You should be happy that he is moving on %26amp; you should to. you two can still be friends. But you need to move on and be happy too. I would say you need to have a girls night with just your girl friend and no guys. That's my advice. Will you tell me if it works? Hope it does, it really sounds like you need one really soon.
You're not the messed up one, honey, HE is. I know it's hard, I get it, but it's for the best that you forget about him and try to move on. It's perfectly okay that you have all these mixed emotions, that's very normal, just as long as you understand that it wasn't right for him to be a cheating dick.





Wishing the best to you!
Personally..i probably wouldn't feel that way...and some girls would find it really hard to care about a guy who cheats on them....but u must be a really nice girl to feel that way about him...U have mixed emotions in you but don't worry your not messed up you just have a great way of handling a situation....
buy a gun with a silencer and shoot him in the genitals and see what he thinks of you after that. sounds like he deserves it.
when your in a relationship, a serious relationship..your always gona have an attachement to that person no matter what..ask your parents about their first girl or boy friend and im sure they will remember..
you can get any guy you want, if you ask. forget about him.
Dump him, once a cheater always a cheater
Its called feelings we have for the darn-dis things but we got coup with it your a human
iF ANY MAN CHEATS ON YOU DONT GO BACK ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER AND IF YOU JUST BROKE UP AND HE GOT ANOTHER ***** ON HIS ARM THAN YEA I WOULD KEEP IT MOVIN AND DONT LOOK BACK
for get about him theres more


((hawter,decent ,hawter guys out there for you
i went through the same thing. you are feeling normal emotions. it takes time to get those love feelings out of your system
he is trying to hurt you so dont let him, move on you dont need a pig like him
F|_|ck em
move on, he is trash
would you like to be the other girl cold heart
Yes we girls have this maternal feeling about the people we love cause we born to be mothers and care for love one even how rotten they can be. But its good u can see his flaws and you are not blind to see he is dating someone else. Dearest gal start getting away from him it seem u feel so much for him but please slowly and surely get away and soon stop thinking of wanting him cause it sound like he dont deserve you he is not give the love u are giving him u deserve more gal. take care.
First off, of he really did love you, he would love ONLY you. Not the girl next door or whoever he cheated on you with.





What you need to do, is get dressed up nice, and go to a social place like a bar or something. Get to know someone, BUT NOT if they plan on having the ol' 1 night stand.





Now unless of course if you are under the age of 21 then you shouldnt have sex, and the word 'love' is meaningless coming through the mouths of minors unless it is to a parent.





Sorry, thats just the way it is. =/