Be a little hard to get...men like the chase and will treat you better if you are not at their beck and call. Focus on making yourself happy first. A fun read is ';He's Just Not That Into You.';What do guys really want in a relationship i need advice...Guys please help me out...?
You are the problem quit going with these types.Respect your self stay kind then You will get the right one.Life is short don't waste it on broken men that will not change. Change yourself Good luck choose to be happy.
Guys want sex; if you don't give it away so easily, they'll treat you with more respect and be much kinder.
Hope this helps!!
A Man wants the world and everything in it.
What do men want? SEX, someone who will do the cleaning, cooking, and laundry so they don't have to.
What kind of women do they use and treat like crap? Women who put them first and try hard to be everything they want.
What kind of women do they respect and want to be with? Women who are strong, know what they want, don't play games, don't take crap off them and demand to be treated with respect.
If you don't respect yourself, they won't respect you either. Know what you want, don't settle for less, and don't allow a man to use you or treat you in a way that makes you feel abused. Don't be so easy to get in bed with them. Get to know the guy, become friends first and when you are sure this guy is what you are looking for, then you can consider having a romantic relationship with. Slow down and take your time.
If you are easy for them to get, they will use you, treat you like crap, then throw you away for the next girl on their list.
look,its very simple.
Sex,food,and money. You try to think that its anything more than that, you will give yourself a headache and make a mans' life a living hell.
a good b.j, and sandwich and a bank account full of money will make any man fat and happy. Now get in the kitchen and make me some pancakes!
just kidding...seriously. We want all three of the above but most of all we want you to SHUT UP. And stop trying to partake in 'guys night out' and do 'guy stuff'. Jeezus...first you take golf and poker away now we got ladies on the football field doing side-line comentary. Leave us the hell alone sometimes and stop trying to make us understand your ';feelings';. We dont think like that. We use reason and logic...not feelings.
Men are sometime soo difficult to understand. They say women are difficult but i think they are more!!..Sometimes giving too much is not always good. You can only give too much to a man when you are 100% that he loves you and only you but if he has someone else in mind or his is not over his ex yet, then you shouldn't give him all the attention. Show him love but not alot of attention.
To me, what i think which this might sound painful, he is still not over his ex!!... saying that he only wants to sleep with her is not a good excuse!!..he is still not over her.. There are many men out there, why stick to someone who still thinks of his ex!!....Oh well, if you really love him that much and still want to work out, then keep trying to change him but that will take alot of time and alot of humilitation and at the end might not work out. My advice, just let him go. If he comes back, make it clear to him, its either you and only you or no use of going back. Good luck.
arg! after reading this i thought it was from a 15 year old.
i think you need to take some serious solo time, like a year or more, to work on your self. really think hard on it then decide what you want in a man and how to find those qualities in someone, also what type of person you need to be to get that kind of man. be HONEST with your self its not easy but do it!!
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