Sunday, August 22, 2010

I need you advice guys. my friend and i kissed each other...we were talking as friends .?

we were talking about our relationships, and i told him about a boy who likes me, but he never talked about her girfriend.. then we went to his apartment and kissed all nigh.


we were talking during the week and he invited me to out , i accept the invitation..we said hi as a friends,then he invited me to his apartment and i did not want.it was late.. 3 days after i called him and he told me he headed at his girlfriends house.. i felt horrible. i thought we could start something serious but now i feel so bad he doesnt answer the phone and i dont know what to think , i dont know why 铆s he behaving in this way..i want to know if i like him or he just wanted to have fun...i am sad he was a very good friend pls get me an advice.. thanks a lotI need you advice guys. my friend and i kissed each other...we were talking as friends .?
You should talk to him. That is the only way that you'll know for sure. To me though, it seems that he likes you physically and maybe as an acquaintance (or friend - not sure which), but maybe not as a girlfriend (otherwise his current girlfreind would be history). So that is why, after you kissed all night, he tried to make a sexual move on you (the late night call - or the ';booty call'; as it is popularly known) instead of a ';girlfriend'; move - like going out on a date etc.





Be really careful if after you speak to him he waffles or says that he wants to stay friends. If your heart is in this (sounds like it is), then you might need to stay away from him for a while.





You don't want to get into a relationship where you are the ';girl on the side'; - or you are the ';friend with benefits.'; Respect yourself more than that.





Edit: Maybe I was a bit too hard on the guy. While I don't think it was honorable to make a move on you while he had his girlfriend, it is interesting that he is not returning your phone call. It might be that he is confused about where he stands or that he doesn't want to mess up a good thing (friendship). Just be cool and give him time to sort it out. In the mean time you sort if out for yourself. But, I'd still caution you to be careful - you could get your heart involved (it sounds like it already is) and you could really get hurt - especially if he still has a girlfriend. Move cautiously.I need you advice guys. my friend and i kissed each other...we were talking as friends .?
You're so nondescript and vague about the genders of the persons involved it's practically impossible to offer you any advice. Sorry.
i agree with the first person answer
Talk to him about...and just tell him the truth! If he really is a good friend he will understand and get over it! Good Luck!
Well some times guys are funny like that. It can mean a couple things. Maybe he really liked you and wanted to be with you. And when he asked you to come to his apartment and you said no maybe she felt bad or you didnt like him so he probably made up this girlfriend thing to throw you off. Maybe he cant handle rejections so he dont want to see you cause he is embarrassed to see you. Especially friends along time and your rejected him. Yeah I wouldnt like that either. Or, yes maybe we wanted to play with you and he saw a chance to do that. When he saw you rejected him then he just gave up. It can be either or! You should ask what happen. Sorry. Take care hope it help.
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