Guys, some advice please?

I have been seeing this man for about a month and half, he is sooo confusing. I really like him and he has talked about long term with me etc, told me many times thats what he wants, he says he is looking at forever. He has said he loves me twice. I have yet to say it. but one night he may be like this the next day he is kind of cold, and distant. he is like an emotional yo yo. why is this? is he pleying mind games with me or what? we are both adults, both divorced.Guys, some advice please?
Well, I will tell you .. one month and half.. is nothing.. remember that in a short period of time you can not see the reality, you are seen the beautiful part on a relationship.. when you are just flirting and getting in to know each other likes.





A relationship can not be that complicate .. at least not in 2 months... do not waist your time.. another thing my boyfriend tells me all the time.. is that he get sick and tired of me asking him all the time if something is wrong.. remember guys are not like us.. we need to be here.. with them , they just want to be alone.. if he is not showing caring about you right now.. test him.. let him to do the first move.. do not have sex right away.. as conciliation.. stand up for your rights.. in a sweet but strong way...





If you allow that to happened now.. you will regret it later.. take your time.. do not rush. Things need to happened in your time.. and he must please your inside.. if he really wants to keep you... remember do not give pearls to the porks... they will never appreciate it.Guys, some advice please?
You said the answer..you and him are both divorced.


I'm sure you know that it takes a lot more then a month and a half to determine love, hell your still in the lust phase..


My guess is he is not over the ex..
A month and a half, and he's been around the block, and he ';loves'; you already? He's not ready!





As for the moodiness, think: if you had told him that loved him and he didn't respond, how would you feel? You need to address this neediness. I mean that.
Perhaps ... he is waiting to see if you care as much for him....he may be worried he is scaring you off .....





Perhaps ... there is alot going on in his life that is distracting his attention from you......





Time will tell ..... take your time and be sure before you commit.





Good Luck
After a month and a half he says he loves you??? he doesn't really know you.


A lot of people that use the Love word so quickly have a tendency to be controlling personalities. I would use caution here.
Something is wrong with him I'd get out of there quick.


NO TURKEY FOR HIM
Maybe he's not divorced.
You know what led to your divorce, but you have no idea what really led to his. Perhaps this 'mood swing' is a more serious and persistent problem. If you are thinking about pursuing this relationship you should take the opportunity to discuss what you notice about his moodiness with him.





If he acknowledges it and agrees that it is something he does, you can explore options. His getting some help professionally, and/or taking some medication that might balance him out.





If he denies any such thing or is very defensive about it, this will be a big hint that you shouldn't continue in the relationship.
he is too mixed up for a serious relationship, or he is too off balance, either way it is not good for you, if he treats you this way now it will only get worse, find some one who will teat you good all the time, and really knows what he wants
he is completely insane he is a mad man be careful!