I need advice, guys! Why is he acting this way?

So, don't judge me, but I decided to give my best guy friend a BJ for his birthday. I've never given one and I thought it'd be good to first try it with him, instead of someone I actually like romantically. Today, he brought up how excited he is for his birthday since he's getting a laptop. So I go, ';Is that all?'; and he goes, ';And some money.'; And I ask again, ';Is that all you're excited for?'; and he finally gets it and goes, ';Oh, and because you're sucking my penis.'; So I go, ';Wow, I thought you'd be more excited.'; And he just says, ';Yeah...';


WTF?! I mean, I'm giving him head and that's all he has to say?! I know all guys aren't so stereotypical, but he's a man whore so he should be more into this. Why is he acting this way?I need advice, guys! Why is he acting this way?
You did two things wrong:





1. You really devalued the act of sex for him. Instead of it being this great act of sensuality between the two of you, you turned it into a thrill that will come and go and after its gone it won't have any importance.





2. You made the mistake of feeding into the macho guy image that all guys hold onto and believe to be the most important thing in life until they hit their mid 20's and then real life steps in.





He's acting this way because the meaning of the bj no longer has any value. It's a cheap thrill that will come and go and why should he be excited about something that will come and go when he has a laptop and money that offer a type of long-term satisfaction. Guys already think that women owe them bj's just because they're women, according to the guy image that he's buying into.





If you want to reverse the situation, get him a gift and act like the gift is so much more important than oral sex. If you do that and really believe it, then he'll probably be more grateful for a thoughtful gift rather than a quick thrill.I need advice, guys! Why is he acting this way?
if hes your friend he might not be into that i know i would not want my friend to give me a BJ i would a BJ from someone i think is Special not someone i'm that close to because if it doesn't go the way it's expected you might not be friends anymore
It may be new to you girl but that's been around for a while and they are getting better at every time they do it. Imagin what he felt if it's your first time, practice makes eyes roll back then you'll have fools calling your name in there sleep! LOL
You answered your own question. He's a man whore, meaning he gets them all the time. But don't worry, I'm sure he'll give something to you, too. Like an STD.
Ungrateful.
Smut
i guess he wont believe it till he sees it..im sure he'll be excited when ure doing ur thing
cause maybe he not like that or not in the mood
words can not describe
he may be hesitant and unsure of how to feel because even though he is ';a man whore'; he may be nervous about how it will affect ur friendship post-BJ...or maybe hes just not excited