Thursday, August 19, 2010

Seeking female advice - guys or girls can answer?

I've known this girl for almost 2 years now, but i would say in the past 6 months though she given me signs such as...





- she calls my cell phone out of the blue


- she really wants to know what im doing


- she'll talk to me on the phone for hrs even if shes tired


- shes asked me to go out with her for dinner/movie


- she even said shes head over heels for me


- gave me her facebook %26amp; msn password





But here's the thing, whenever I have thought about doing something nice for her it back fires because she goes on and on about other guys. Why would u wanna do something nice for someone who does, but shows u the signs of liking u back. I have always been the guy whose been the most patient with her (behavior wise) and the fact that its Christmas time, I bought her a few gifts ranging to $100, she didn't get me nothing.





Here's the last thing I can mention which pisses me off that she did a few days ago. She told me she didnt talk to a guy for a month and said by phone. I checked on her facebook account and noticed on her wall that she typed a msg to the same guy and said ';hey hunny, why didnt u call me, i was waiting';





Ugh, why do some girls thrive off drama situations...it sure seems like it here! Does she like me or is she just f-ing aroundSeeking female advice - guys or girls can answer?
Sounds like you are one of many studs in her stable!Seeking female advice - guys or girls can answer?
Sounds like she's messing around. She's not worth your time.


Why would she say she was head over heels for you if she's not doing anything about it?





You deserve a lot better by the sounds of things!
forget about her she is a Classic attention whore. Trust me i know one when i hear one.
Shes just messing you around.Stay away with her.
I'm on your side


i think she's a slut, no offense


*she calls you...maybe just cuz she's bored


*she wants to know what you're doing - probably because she's just merely interested


*talks to you when she's tired - maybe she can't sleep?


*asked you out - maybe cuz she wants a boyfriend or just wants to watch a movie, not alone


*head over heels - she's just saying that? or maybe she meant it


*facebook and msn pswd - maybe because she wants to get you jealous with things she says to people and stuff people say to her?





I don't understand why she's giving you the cold-shoulder


maybe she's broke that she doesn't have the $$ to get you something


maybe she didn't know what to get you %26amp; didn't have time


she lied to you


i can't say anything about that


maybe you should ask her





what I know, from what you said is that she's..


~flirty


~slutty


~didn't care about people's feelings


~throws herself at people


~very unsuccessful at staying in a long term relationship





good Luck!


don't be mad, it's Christmas!


feel free to email me if you wanna talk =))


check my prof for email


no offense meant about the my comments
Might just see you as a friend... Might be one of those i-want-everyone's- love kinda girl. Either way, you should movie on. If you want to, bring it up to her first and mention that you caught her red handed lying, if she comes up with some lame-*** exuse, just forget about her. If there was a good reason, you could always tell her that you like her and see what she says back.
I agree with another poster, she is an attention wh*re. It seems that she is trying to make you jealous or get back at you for something you've done. Why be patient with that behavior. Man up and let her know that what she's doing is unacceptable. Not a kind of friend i'd want. Return your gift and get your money back. She is totally f-ing around. If you were her and really like someone, you don't seek the attention of other men. Stay away man, its trouble and you'll be back on ';answers'; trying to salvage a total mistake.

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