so i am 17 years old a freshman in college i feel i am a sex addict ive had sex with 18 people and can never really be satisfied even having sex with more then one person in a day. Has effected me in high school with my relationships (cheating) (sex with girls besfriends) (girls with boyfriends). Broke up with gf from home to have sex wit girls in college but after this weekend when she came and shortly after leaving i had sex with another person even though i love her and am considering getting back with her i feel like i cant ';keep it in my pants'; if i were to and i do not want to do that to her when we were going out i did on several occasions cheat on her. see all women as somewhat sexual objects. i know i sound like a horrible person but i do have good morals am respectful to all women all people for that matter. fact that many people misjudge my character thinking i am a ';little kid'; in college just because i look younger then most. since being at college ';(after breaking up with my gf) have had sex with 3 girls but have had no real connections with any. idk if i am truly a sex addict or just someone who likes to have sex what college kid doesnt?r i broke up with my gf for college(school has %70 women) but am considering getting back with her but idk if its because i just want her to stay or not with be anyone else for my ownselfish reasons or i love her which i know i do but i dont want to hurt her and afraid i cant ';keep it in my pants'; reason why in first place. and if so i dont want to have to fake the relationship because she does not deserve that. i love her so much and i know she really does care for me and i feel if i lost that opportunity with her because when i do realize its too late so ive kept her close and lately i have been considering ';changing my ways'; but idk if i truly cann. (due to female reasoning above)
I know it seems like im givin u a life story here but its been bothering me so much and i really do not know what to do. thank you for reading lookin forward to hearing from u guysNever been so confused need girl advice guys with input feel free?
Try to find counselling
you are showing all the signs of a sex addict and I think only therapy would be able to resolve the issues that you have.
You may want to start with your family doctor for advice before he/she recommends you to a psychiatrist
Counsellors can also be found in college but I wouldn't say they are a better help than a therapist but they are easier to get access to.
Hope this helps
Monday, August 23, 2010
CAN'T HELP THINKING HE CHEATED...advice guys?
MY man and i were together 6 yrs, we fell into a rut snd he said he wanted 'freedom'. he left me over 2 months, was out on the town with the 'boys' he said.Yet his phone wud be switched off lunchbreaks at work and all friday night were he said he had been playing 'poker' with the 'boys'. when i did get though, whether he be at work or in a nightclub, there would always be this loud outgoing girl laughing in the background. he started texting me and we met up and i want to rake things low...he is attentive and loving...swears he just wanted a break.but what do you reckon happened here???CAN'T HELP THINKING HE CHEATED...advice guys?
I reckon someones cheating. 'The boys' is always the excuse. And a loud outgoing girl laughing in the background? He might as well gave you her address and phone number. It was too obvious. I mean... Unless she works where they work or whatever.CAN'T HELP THINKING HE CHEATED...advice guys?
Simple he loves poker ';the Boys'; and drinking more than he loves you. If you truely love some one you always want to be with that person because you love them. Why isn't he with you now? I don't know if he is having sex with other people but that almost does not matter he is not with the one he claims to love. When a guy say I want a break it usually means he is to gutless to say '; get out of my life, it is over'; instead gutless will ask for a break, Sorry you dont like my answer but it is honest. - good luck
YOU DESERVE BETTER
sounds like he wanted to get sum, sumwhere else
and letting you off his hook,,,wasnt cheating to him
but it is
he had find a new girl that he wanted to have fun with and forget about you for months. hush but truesheer makeup
I reckon someones cheating. 'The boys' is always the excuse. And a loud outgoing girl laughing in the background? He might as well gave you her address and phone number. It was too obvious. I mean... Unless she works where they work or whatever.CAN'T HELP THINKING HE CHEATED...advice guys?
Simple he loves poker ';the Boys'; and drinking more than he loves you. If you truely love some one you always want to be with that person because you love them. Why isn't he with you now? I don't know if he is having sex with other people but that almost does not matter he is not with the one he claims to love. When a guy say I want a break it usually means he is to gutless to say '; get out of my life, it is over'; instead gutless will ask for a break, Sorry you dont like my answer but it is honest. - good luck
YOU DESERVE BETTER
sounds like he wanted to get sum, sumwhere else
and letting you off his hook,,,wasnt cheating to him
but it is
he had find a new girl that he wanted to have fun with and forget about you for months. hush but true
Is she worth it? need opinions/advice guys, serious please!?
this girl is driving me crazzy. i need to know if shes worth it cause i really like her but dont know what to do. we met in college last semester and have gone out a few times since then and had a really good time together. i could tell she liked me by how she would flirt with me and stuff, and i would flirt back. but all of a sudden she stopped returning my calls, texts, etc. havent heard from her in about a wk and a half now. i keep making excuses for her, like maybe she lost her phone, or maybe something happened. it is driving me crazy. what should i do?? believe me, she is not the type of girl who would just blow some guy off especially since i know she liked me. any advice is appreciated. thank you.Is she worth it? need opinions/advice guys, serious please!?
I would not call her anymore. Wait till she calls you! Some girls like it when you ignore them it makes them like you more. I don't know why they do this. If she is not calling you back she may not big digging your chilli! Some girls just flirt!Is she worth it? need opinions/advice guys, serious please!?
**** her and leave her
I would not call her anymore. Wait till she calls you! Some girls like it when you ignore them it makes them like you more. I don't know why they do this. If she is not calling you back she may not big digging your chilli! Some girls just flirt!Is she worth it? need opinions/advice guys, serious please!?
**** her and leave her
Is this the only thing a guy wants? I need some advice. (guys and girls)?
I broke up with my ex bf a couple of weeks ago, when I did (the same day) this other guy (lets call him Bob*) told me he really liked me, %26amp; was going to give me some time, but said that he wanted to ask me out. Recently one of my friends asked me who I liked %26amp; I told her that I liked Bob*, then she said oh really? He doesn’t even like you, he likes Jenny* (who happens to be my other good friend) tonight I was talking to Bob*, %26amp; he was talking about the new GTA game %26amp; said something about only knowing a girl for 2 days in the game %26amp; being able to “get some”, then he said, that he was guessing that it would take longer for me. I said well I don’t know... he kept asking why, %26amp; then when I kept saying I didn’t know he told me to take a guess, I said not anytime soon. He has had sex before, its just I’m worried that if we do go out, I’ll be a disappointment (I don’t really want to have sex right now) it’s like I think he’s expecting it or something.
What bothers me is that he might like me, but he also might like someone else, I don’t want to be a second choice or a “back up” girlfriend. He’s going to talk to me about us going out tomorrow I just want to make the whole, not having to have sex, as well as asking him weather he actually likes me or if I’m just “the next best thing” because I’m not sure and I don’t want to get hurt.Is this the only thing a guy wants? I need some advice. (guys and girls)?
yeah that guy sounds like a womanizer..i would get away from that as fast as possible! just get a guy who actually likes you and just wants to be with you :DIs this the only thing a guy wants? I need some advice. (guys and girls)?
You made yourself sound cheap and easy. If you don't want it to be about sex, don't imply that it may take less than two days for you to give it up. I recommend that you forget this cat and concentrate on your studies, boys will come later.
Yeah that is basically what guys want sex all they think about!
What bothers me is that he might like me, but he also might like someone else, I don’t want to be a second choice or a “back up” girlfriend. He’s going to talk to me about us going out tomorrow I just want to make the whole, not having to have sex, as well as asking him weather he actually likes me or if I’m just “the next best thing” because I’m not sure and I don’t want to get hurt.Is this the only thing a guy wants? I need some advice. (guys and girls)?
yeah that guy sounds like a womanizer..i would get away from that as fast as possible! just get a guy who actually likes you and just wants to be with you :DIs this the only thing a guy wants? I need some advice. (guys and girls)?
You made yourself sound cheap and easy. If you don't want it to be about sex, don't imply that it may take less than two days for you to give it up. I recommend that you forget this cat and concentrate on your studies, boys will come later.
Yeah that is basically what guys want sex all they think about!
Kinda weird but i need kissing advice..[[guys and girls help needed]]?
ok so me and my boyfriend have been going out a little more then four months now and well ive never kissed him hes only kissed me
and the weird part is ive only been kissed ive never kissed someone (if that makes sense
anyways i was thinking about kissing him tomorrow after school and i dont really know how
if u need to know im in 8th grade and i am 13
and yeahhh
so please help
thanks so so so much%26lt;3Kinda weird but i need kissing advice..[[guys and girls help needed]]?
well you could watch a movie together and lay down so he's behind you holding you.
and then just turn around and lay facing him and try to hug him and kiss.
or just simply hug him long and passionatly and then when you're pulling away pull away towards his face and kiss him ;)Kinda weird but i need kissing advice..[[guys and girls help needed]]?
well when i had my 1st kiss and i kissed my bf i gently grab his chin so he would look at me and looked into his eyes and went in for the kiss and it lasted for like a min lol
and the weird part is ive only been kissed ive never kissed someone (if that makes sense
anyways i was thinking about kissing him tomorrow after school and i dont really know how
if u need to know im in 8th grade and i am 13
and yeahhh
so please help
thanks so so so much%26lt;3Kinda weird but i need kissing advice..[[guys and girls help needed]]?
well you could watch a movie together and lay down so he's behind you holding you.
and then just turn around and lay facing him and try to hug him and kiss.
or just simply hug him long and passionatly and then when you're pulling away pull away towards his face and kiss him ;)Kinda weird but i need kissing advice..[[guys and girls help needed]]?
well when i had my 1st kiss and i kissed my bf i gently grab his chin so he would look at me and looked into his eyes and went in for the kiss and it lasted for like a min lol
Does he really like me?PLEASE ADVICE!!~~GUYS AND GIRLS!!?
Well i like this guy and he's always flirting with me and trying to be around me and he always stops what hes doing so he can give me a hug and he gives me like 3 or 4 hugs in one class...also hes starting to try to get me mad but then beg for me to forgive me and he would give me kisses on the cheek and he always is looking at me and using the best excuses to get my attention also he touches his hair alot and he kind of does some of the same postures as me...so what do you guys/girls think?im not sure when to know if he likes me back! im 13 years old... and everytime he sees me and says hi he hugs me...but then he keeps on hugging me like 3 or 4 more times also he gets really jealous if i hug other guys around him...but he's not the jealous type...what does that mean and what are some things guys do to show you they likes you?But the thing that is confusing me is that he acts the same way with just 1 other girl...what do you guys/girls think?Does he really like me?PLEASE ADVICE!!~~GUYS AND GIRLS!!?
He likes you. AND he may like the other girl too. He might be trying to see which girl will take the bait first. This is how some guys act.
If a guy that is 13 hugs you 3-4 times during class then......he really likes you. So if you like him too then tell him. Or you can simply say ';boy you really like to hug. Do you do this to all the girls?'; If he is smart he would say ';only to the ones I like'; That is the perfect spot to call him out on it. ';so you like me?'; Etc..........
Good luck to you
He likes you. AND he may like the other girl too. He might be trying to see which girl will take the bait first. This is how some guys act.
If a guy that is 13 hugs you 3-4 times during class then......he really likes you. So if you like him too then tell him. Or you can simply say ';boy you really like to hug. Do you do this to all the girls?'; If he is smart he would say ';only to the ones I like'; That is the perfect spot to call him out on it. ';so you like me?'; Etc..........
Good luck to you
My ex, it's been 4 months and i still love her. Need some advice guys.?
I was in love with my ex for almost 1 year. 4 months ago we broke up. I'm 17 now, but i loved her. And i stil do. Well she had a boyfriend but she broke up with him. We dont talk anymore, nto even close friends. Well today my friends were in class with her and started talking about her. ';Yea, you hear luis got sent to the office today'; And she overheard, then started apparently 'growling' , but i think she just got mad. I dont know if she still loves me. She has a new life as i have. But i still love her to death, even if she doesnt love me in return. I mean i want a relationship with her, but there is this other guy she is trying to 'get with', and i dont know its just dusturbing to see my once what i called wife with another guy.. when that guy should be me. She broke up with me. [Now, i've almost got a girl myself (i had one but i duped her after the 2nd week) but i would rather have my Ex-Ex. what do i do. Forget about her? I'm sure she knows what i feel.My ex, it's been 4 months and i still love her. Need some advice guys.?
Sorry, bud. that must be tough. You could always just put it on her and ask her straight up. Just don't expect to get the answer you want. Then you'll know you tried, but if it's no dice you've gotta move on man. It'll get easier with time.My ex, it's been 4 months and i still love her. Need some advice guys.?
Be friends with her. Don't be a chicken.
just chat with her online about how much u lov her, then it will be sooooo easy to tell her on the phone.... and a step later you have her back in your arms... trust me
MOVE ON, DUDE!!! Your freakin young, and do you know how many girls there are between your school and the rest of the world. GEEZ!!
well i guess u better do some make-ups... try to win her back... it's not that easy to forget... if she comes back, she's yours... if not, let her go... be free.. that's love baby
she's over you dude, move on, have some pride, find another girl who cares about you.
move on
The best way to get over a woman is to get under or over another one.
just propose her and if u love him for sex or timepass better to forget her u dont love her its ur obessession/if u love her express ur feelings to her before everyone not when she is lonely tell her
u love her before another guy take her.do or die
Sorry, bud. that must be tough. You could always just put it on her and ask her straight up. Just don't expect to get the answer you want. Then you'll know you tried, but if it's no dice you've gotta move on man. It'll get easier with time.My ex, it's been 4 months and i still love her. Need some advice guys.?
Be friends with her. Don't be a chicken.
just chat with her online about how much u lov her, then it will be sooooo easy to tell her on the phone.... and a step later you have her back in your arms... trust me
MOVE ON, DUDE!!! Your freakin young, and do you know how many girls there are between your school and the rest of the world. GEEZ!!
well i guess u better do some make-ups... try to win her back... it's not that easy to forget... if she comes back, she's yours... if not, let her go... be free.. that's love baby
she's over you dude, move on, have some pride, find another girl who cares about you.
move on
The best way to get over a woman is to get under or over another one.
just propose her and if u love him for sex or timepass better to forget her u dont love her its ur obessession/if u love her express ur feelings to her before everyone not when she is lonely tell her
u love her before another guy take her.do or die
I need some serious advice (guys please only answer)?
Ok so the guy is my friend from middle school. We've been in school together since the sixth grade and now in high school all we do is call and text and we only see each other during school reuninons. He says that he liked me since the sixth and I want us to to start dating but my parents don't allow that until senior year and we are sophmores.His issue is that we will never see each other and I want to sneak around and hang out with my other friends at the same time. Is he just saying this because he doesn't like me anymore or do you think that we can actually work this out?I need some serious advice (guys please only answer)?
For what I've read I believe he is trying to use a sort of reverse psychology against you. I believe he is trying to get your attention to see how you really feel for him. He could still have some feelings for you (or not) but he doesn't know how to make an approach. He might be waiting for your reaction because he feels like needs some reassurance from you. If you really like each other just take some time to talk about it. There is nothing wrong with sorting out your feelings. This could save you headaches in the future!
Hope it helps!I need some serious advice (guys please only answer)?
He's just impatient and who can blame him. Your parents are saying you'll have to wait for senior year. That's a long wait. Sad, too, because then you'll never learn what you need to about different guys and when senior year comes you'll only wind up with the abusive types that prey on the naive ones.
look, stop worrying. enjoy life, you're young! i think he still likes you and he is just testing to see if you like him. make sure to act as if you do, and you will work it out. really, just relax and look forward to the time when you can start dating! I'm a girl by the way but i just wanted to help:D
He wants your time and to feel like your committing to it just as much as he is. You need to ask yourself which is more important to you. The possible long term happiness with him, or being with your friends and having good times with them. You need to sacrifice on one front, that choice is yours. Which means more to you in the long run?
Please read mine and see if you can answer it.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
i think he is stating the truth. however, an example you could give to him is to go see a movie with your friends and have him ';meet up'; with you. i know having a date around your friends can be iffy but im trying to get ideas into YOUR head lol. =)
i think you can work it out but he just might not like the fact that you would have to lie to your parents and that you can't date till senior year ouch!
Its not because he doesnt like you. Its because hes being honest about the fact that it cant work out. You rarely see him, you're not allowed to date, and you said it yourself that you'd rather run with your friends.
';Sneak around,'; is your tell tale sign. Very bad.
You want to have fun so explain that to your parents.
Keep things out in the open with your parents approval.
nawwh dont go for him.
if he hasent moved on since sixth grade then hes got issues.
move on babe.
you can prolly do way better anyways. ;)
It can; intrejuc him to your frineds and he could hang out with you while you with you mates :)
he's tryna care for you
he wants to date you
i dont think so. when he says that usally he is talking to other girls and trying to cover up for what he is doing
im a girl....but like i think u should work it outsheer makeup
For what I've read I believe he is trying to use a sort of reverse psychology against you. I believe he is trying to get your attention to see how you really feel for him. He could still have some feelings for you (or not) but he doesn't know how to make an approach. He might be waiting for your reaction because he feels like needs some reassurance from you. If you really like each other just take some time to talk about it. There is nothing wrong with sorting out your feelings. This could save you headaches in the future!
Hope it helps!I need some serious advice (guys please only answer)?
He's just impatient and who can blame him. Your parents are saying you'll have to wait for senior year. That's a long wait. Sad, too, because then you'll never learn what you need to about different guys and when senior year comes you'll only wind up with the abusive types that prey on the naive ones.
look, stop worrying. enjoy life, you're young! i think he still likes you and he is just testing to see if you like him. make sure to act as if you do, and you will work it out. really, just relax and look forward to the time when you can start dating! I'm a girl by the way but i just wanted to help:D
He wants your time and to feel like your committing to it just as much as he is. You need to ask yourself which is more important to you. The possible long term happiness with him, or being with your friends and having good times with them. You need to sacrifice on one front, that choice is yours. Which means more to you in the long run?
Please read mine and see if you can answer it.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
i think he is stating the truth. however, an example you could give to him is to go see a movie with your friends and have him ';meet up'; with you. i know having a date around your friends can be iffy but im trying to get ideas into YOUR head lol. =)
i think you can work it out but he just might not like the fact that you would have to lie to your parents and that you can't date till senior year ouch!
Its not because he doesnt like you. Its because hes being honest about the fact that it cant work out. You rarely see him, you're not allowed to date, and you said it yourself that you'd rather run with your friends.
';Sneak around,'; is your tell tale sign. Very bad.
You want to have fun so explain that to your parents.
Keep things out in the open with your parents approval.
nawwh dont go for him.
if he hasent moved on since sixth grade then hes got issues.
move on babe.
you can prolly do way better anyways. ;)
It can; intrejuc him to your frineds and he could hang out with you while you with you mates :)
he's tryna care for you
he wants to date you
i dont think so. when he says that usally he is talking to other girls and trying to cover up for what he is doing
im a girl....but like i think u should work it out
I need URGENT Crush advice Guys. Only from people who will give me a proper answer though please : )?
My crush knows I like him or has known that I've liked him. Sometimes he's like everywhere I go and other times he acts like I'm not even there : ( He ad I are both REALLY shy with each other because I know that it is possible for him to like me from before. So what do u think. Do u think he likes me ?? or...Don't be too mean because I'm quite sensetive about these things : ) Thanx
Also for 2 days he was like hanging round where I was lunch time (yes we are still in high school) but the other day he didn't seem as interested : (
The other day he was walking towards where I hang out on his own. He was on the phone and he was walking towards me and when he saw me he turned around and started walking to where I was going.
We were in the common room and I heard one of his friends say my name does this mean he doesn't like me?Then lunch time he went to where I hang out. On the way out of school I think he was like trying to be cool infront of friends so he didn't look.
One of my guys friends went camping with the school and with him on the weekend and tey became friends. My friend asked him if he liked me but he said that he did as a friend. If this is true then I don't get why he went out of his way to be near me sometimes. I thaught that maybe he said that because he's just not sure how to act around people he likes. I then thaught that because he always sees my guy friend with me that my crush made friends with him to get closer to me.
On the Saturday he added me on myspace and I commented him asking him how he was but he won't say anything back and he has commented others. I thaught that this might have been so that he didn't make it obvious to other people who he might like. I was also wondering if he added me wouldn't that mean he wants to talk to me??
My friend thinks he's playing it internet hard to get lol!!
Also About 3 weeks ago we spoke and he seemed nervous and his friends kept kicking footballs at us and he said he was going to set up a facebook account on the weekend. I thaught he hadn鈥檛 because he didn鈥檛 add me but I found out today that he does and that he only has a few of his brothers friends as his friends. Why didn鈥檛 he add me and should I add him or would it be too obvious considering who his friends are already??I need URGENT Crush advice Guys. Only from people who will give me a proper answer though please : )?
Honestly I don't think he really likes you because I find it quite clear that you like him buh he doesnt like u bak and tries to ignore you . sorry. good luck though in the future (Y)
Also for 2 days he was like hanging round where I was lunch time (yes we are still in high school) but the other day he didn't seem as interested : (
The other day he was walking towards where I hang out on his own. He was on the phone and he was walking towards me and when he saw me he turned around and started walking to where I was going.
We were in the common room and I heard one of his friends say my name does this mean he doesn't like me?Then lunch time he went to where I hang out. On the way out of school I think he was like trying to be cool infront of friends so he didn't look.
One of my guys friends went camping with the school and with him on the weekend and tey became friends. My friend asked him if he liked me but he said that he did as a friend. If this is true then I don't get why he went out of his way to be near me sometimes. I thaught that maybe he said that because he's just not sure how to act around people he likes. I then thaught that because he always sees my guy friend with me that my crush made friends with him to get closer to me.
On the Saturday he added me on myspace and I commented him asking him how he was but he won't say anything back and he has commented others. I thaught that this might have been so that he didn't make it obvious to other people who he might like. I was also wondering if he added me wouldn't that mean he wants to talk to me??
My friend thinks he's playing it internet hard to get lol!!
Also About 3 weeks ago we spoke and he seemed nervous and his friends kept kicking footballs at us and he said he was going to set up a facebook account on the weekend. I thaught he hadn鈥檛 because he didn鈥檛 add me but I found out today that he does and that he only has a few of his brothers friends as his friends. Why didn鈥檛 he add me and should I add him or would it be too obvious considering who his friends are already??I need URGENT Crush advice Guys. Only from people who will give me a proper answer though please : )?
Honestly I don't think he really likes you because I find it quite clear that you like him buh he doesnt like u bak and tries to ignore you . sorry. good luck though in the future (Y)
Just Need a Little Advice? Guys in Partic?
My bf and I (of 3.5 yrs) got into a fight this past Saturday (long story short, he broke his promise of spending Sat. night w/me for ';our christmas''/gift exchange and opted to go with his friends to a bar instead...for the 3rd night in a row, they're about to go skiing together, but he can't have a christmas date w/me that he promised..) Any way, I haven't really spoken to him since that happened this past Saturday. I did for maybe 5 minutes Sunday, he said sorry...but, seems like he has his fun on Saturday and then just said sorry afterwards as if that it was all ok. Then, Christmas Eve I accidentally picked up the phone when he called b/c I was trying to send a text to someone (clearly, I'm trying to avoid him through the holidays b/c he totally screwed up my xmas w/him) and i was just real short b/c i didn't wanna talk and he said merry christmas.. i just said thanks. well any way now it's Thursday and I haven't talked to him. am i going too long? i just want to talk when the thougJust Need a Little Advice? Guys in Partic?
.Good idea to tell him not to break his next Xmas commitment.Till then goodbye.Make tangible New Year resolutions now.Ones that don't include him, as he'll need the permission of his friends
.Good idea to tell him not to break his next Xmas commitment.Till then goodbye.Make tangible New Year resolutions now.Ones that don't include him, as he'll need the permission of his friends
How do i get a guy to like me? (guys your advice is especially wanted)?
i like this guy, and now im trying to get him to like me back...
we talk a lil and i always try to look/smell nice around him and i try to smile at him as much as possible.... wat else can i do? (other than give it time)How do i get a guy to like me? (guys your advice is especially wanted)?
dear frnd,
looking and smiling is a great sing from a girl to a boy, if he is interested, he will approach u,,,,,,,,,,, more than it depends on the boy whom u look for, try to have ceaseless dates with him and that may help so u hope.......
urs, sexy frnd,,
we talk a lil and i always try to look/smell nice around him and i try to smile at him as much as possible.... wat else can i do? (other than give it time)How do i get a guy to like me? (guys your advice is especially wanted)?
dear frnd,
looking and smiling is a great sing from a girl to a boy, if he is interested, he will approach u,,,,,,,,,,, more than it depends on the boy whom u look for, try to have ceaseless dates with him and that may help so u hope.......
urs, sexy frnd,,
I need advice guys, my husband hit me last night :(?
we've been together for 6 years, we have a 2 yo. We got into it last night cause we've been having lots of issues since our daughter was born, he cmplains about lack of sex and attention but always tells me I am a great mom. I guess he just doesn't understand how hard and demanding it is to have a baby/toddler.
He also has a drug issue (weed) he smokes on a regular basis, never around my daughter, in a terrace we have in our house. Anyways we got into it for something stupid (we like all couples have our ups %26amp; downs, and we are going thorugh a down right now) and I was holding my daughter and he told me he is %$%26amp;/%26amp; tired of me :'( and I told her I was /%26amp;$$ tired of living with a pot head and he came and hit me in the face in front of my daughter....
i am at lost today, sitting in my office wondering how and when did all this go so wrong, and probably is all my fault for loving him and having married him knowing he had addiction issues. I don't wanna feel like I failed at my marriage and feel terrible for my daughter for witnessing such lame show, she really doesn't deserve this, nor do I, I am sure. He right away told me he wouldn't tolerate calling him a pothead in front of our daughter and that he would hit me again if I ever did do again.
Just words of support are fine, I spent all night crying anyways I feel like a wreck. I am young (28) and I seriously don't know what to do. I know he needs help, but I can quit smoking for him, he has to do it on his own. I have seen his behavior change overtime as his smoking as increased, I am sure if he was smoke free he wouldn't act this way.
thanks for reading and any words are greatly appreciated thanks.
Confused wife %26amp; momI need advice guys, my husband hit me last night :(?
weed will do that telll him 2 choose between his family or the weed cause u cant go on like this. video him off his guts n show it 2 him next day n say this is wot yr daugther sees n will grow up thinkin its normal.I need advice guys, my husband hit me last night :(?
Leave him, that's not a safe or happy environment for a child to have to live in, and it's not safe for you either. Domestic violence can turn fatal.
Go and stay with friends or family until you can find somewhere else to live, and if you have any brothers get them to knock the tripe out of that moron to teach him a lesson.
Hi, its was a real shame that he reacted like that, yes i would agree that it has something to do with him smoking addiction, for one it would give him anger problems. You should try and speak to someone on a helpline, because if he's started such a thing, then theres no saying that he can't hit you again the next time round, secondly he mustn't be worth much, if hes as low as to have the nerve to hit you or show violance or any sort towards you in front of your two year old! Its not fair on her, it could really distrub her at that age. I would try and speak to him privatly, say that your sorry for calling him a pothead, but your under a lot of stress and was tired yesterday from looking after your daughter all day (which is true), but also get your point across, choose your words carfully and tell him that he was in the wrong to hit you!!! Alot of couples have issues with attention after they have children, that i would say is natural taht he's feeling as though you don't get to spend as much time with him. Maybe get a baby sitter at some point n go out to dinner %26amp; spend time together as a couple for an evening or two... As hard as it is, men have known to hit women, but change %26amp; there relationship heels, but what will only happen if you want it to get better, maybe you both need some time to think things through, a suggestion would be to stay at a friend or relatives house for a few days, jus so that maybe he can think of things more clearly when he's on his own, if he has any love for you and your daughter, the seriousness of the situation and what hitting you might of done to your relationship should hit him....I'm sorry to have heard of your story, please don't spend tonight crying again...if your religious then i would suggest prayer at this point, hope things get better for you :)
Let me know how it goes x
well i would do what ever your heart says because for the right thing to do is leave but it is still not right for him to hit you.... did he hit you in-front of ur child or what... if i were u i would leave him because i hate it when someone hits me
I suggest stop calling him pothead in front of his daughter or leave. There isn't a whole lot to that.
He already told you he would do it again so you need to deal with this now. You probably should call the police but at the very least you need to go and stay with a friend or another family member. Get away from him for a while and let him know you are serious and that either he stops smoking and gets help you will leave him and take your child with you. You child doesn't need to see that garbage growing up. Good luck.
I'm so sorry. The fact that he said he would hit you again is a big red light. Your daughter should not be living in an environment where her mother is at risk of physical abuse. The other problem is the fact that he has no inclination to change his addiction problem. I'd seek help for you and your daughter and I think if it were me, I'd be looking to get out of the situation. As you know, you can't fix him - only he can decide to change and right now he doesn't want to change. Once again, for you and your daughter, I'm sorry.
Sorry to hear you had such a lousy night. It sounds like you already know he probably won't quit smoking and it will probably just get worst. I hope you have family or friends to support you. I think in your heart you know already what you have to do and I can imagine it will be hard. Take care and good luck..........
As a wife and MOTHER take accountability for your life, and stop asking for advice. What you are doing is asking for people to collude with you.
We come into our relationships with our own baggage. As you begin to heal your mind you will change your world.
If not for you, do it for your children.
Ok first (these are just my thoughts) a man that hits a woman is weak.
Tell him if he hits you one more time you are going to the police, and tell him to step up and quit the pot for his family and be a man.
He hit you and you haven't left YET?
when hes sleep tie him to the bed whip his a$$ flush all his weed down the toilet and tell him to grow up or he will never see his daughter again
Marijuana doesn't make someone act like that. He would be the same jerk, high or not. I would leave, it would ultimately be the best thing for you and your daughter.
I am so sorry for what you are going through. I have a friend who went through some similar issues. They separated for almost a year, he cleaned himself up, and now they are happier than ever. Please do whatever you need to so you and your daughter can be safe. Also, you cant blame yourself for his issues, all you can do is encourage him to get help.
Listen to me. Once you are away from him you are going to have a HUGE weight lifted off of your shoulders and find you are happier than you thought you could be. Right now he is a cloud keeping you from the sun. He obviously is not the man for you. It is better to have a good father at a distance, than a horrible one at home. Leave him because this is not just physical abuse but emotional and mental abuse. Having a child isn't always the easiest journey but if you are sitting wondering how it went wrong then something has to change. MAKE A CHANGE NOW! You are young. I left my husband at about your age and it was SO DIFFICULT AT FIRST. But then when you hold out and be strong for a little while, it starts to get so much better and so many new doors will open up for you. Don't subject yourself or your daughter to this behavior of his and to 2 parents who are not happy with each other. Your daughter will be fine as long as you are happy and fine. Once you leave him allow him as much time with her as he wants but make sure he is responsible and trustworthy enough to even spend time with her alone. You are right you both don't deserve this. You have a job. I didn't even have a job when I left my husband. Do it, try it, be alone for a while and enjoy your baby the way you should be and leave all the losers behind. GOOD LUCK!
The only thing you failed at was picking this jerk! If he hit you once, he'll hit you again. I'm sorry, but it would be over!!!
Do NOT put up with physical abuse! You should seek counselling with or without him, and it should be made crystal clear that if he wishes to remain married, that he will NEVER hit you again. There is absolutely NO excuse for that behavior.
Sounds like a real man you have there... I'm sorry for you.
You married a pot head? It will only get worse, you know what to do. You can't control other people just yourself. You owe it to your daughter to take her out of that enviroment, it's not about just you. Good luck
If you didn't call the cops and have him charged with domestic violence, you are a fool. Hear me out. It will only get WORSE... he's hit you once...he's not going to stop.
Have him arrested, take your child and leave. File for divorce and get away from him. If you don't, you are putting yourself into a situation of becoming seriously hurt or having to take matters into your own hands. Many absusive husbands have died at the hands of a battered wife. He is no good... File charges, have a peace bond issued and stay away from him.
Or you could do what one of Willie Nelson's wives did... when he passed out in bed, sew the sheets together, go get large stick or something and beat him senseless. Then tell him if he ever raises a hand to you again, his mama can bury his no good butt because you're gonna whack him.
I would call the police asap and turn him in for his weed and then tell him about him beating you. However before you do this take your child to a family members house so that you don't have to get chidren services involved. No woman ever should be hit for any reason. Don't think you need to deal with that crap...ever dont' wait just leave.....go to the police station and give up the f'er....
Girl I feel your pain .My husband is far from perfect .I was just told some really upsetting things yesterday myself .I am asking myself right now what the hell am I doing with this dog of a user .I am sure you are a good mom !!My dh abused alcohol too and does other things sooner or later we will see a light I say dont waitto long beacuse right now they are just dimming our moods .Hang in there analize this and go with whats right !
well smoking weed changes people..
but him hitting you is unexceptable if he loves you he woulden't dare lay a hand on you.
I think you should leave him he is threating you.
but idk if you love him then go see someone and talk about the issue
he hit you once he would most likey do it again.
He also has a drug issue (weed) he smokes on a regular basis, never around my daughter, in a terrace we have in our house. Anyways we got into it for something stupid (we like all couples have our ups %26amp; downs, and we are going thorugh a down right now) and I was holding my daughter and he told me he is %$%26amp;/%26amp; tired of me :'( and I told her I was /%26amp;$$ tired of living with a pot head and he came and hit me in the face in front of my daughter....
i am at lost today, sitting in my office wondering how and when did all this go so wrong, and probably is all my fault for loving him and having married him knowing he had addiction issues. I don't wanna feel like I failed at my marriage and feel terrible for my daughter for witnessing such lame show, she really doesn't deserve this, nor do I, I am sure. He right away told me he wouldn't tolerate calling him a pothead in front of our daughter and that he would hit me again if I ever did do again.
Just words of support are fine, I spent all night crying anyways I feel like a wreck. I am young (28) and I seriously don't know what to do. I know he needs help, but I can quit smoking for him, he has to do it on his own. I have seen his behavior change overtime as his smoking as increased, I am sure if he was smoke free he wouldn't act this way.
thanks for reading and any words are greatly appreciated thanks.
Confused wife %26amp; momI need advice guys, my husband hit me last night :(?
weed will do that telll him 2 choose between his family or the weed cause u cant go on like this. video him off his guts n show it 2 him next day n say this is wot yr daugther sees n will grow up thinkin its normal.I need advice guys, my husband hit me last night :(?
Leave him, that's not a safe or happy environment for a child to have to live in, and it's not safe for you either. Domestic violence can turn fatal.
Go and stay with friends or family until you can find somewhere else to live, and if you have any brothers get them to knock the tripe out of that moron to teach him a lesson.
Hi, its was a real shame that he reacted like that, yes i would agree that it has something to do with him smoking addiction, for one it would give him anger problems. You should try and speak to someone on a helpline, because if he's started such a thing, then theres no saying that he can't hit you again the next time round, secondly he mustn't be worth much, if hes as low as to have the nerve to hit you or show violance or any sort towards you in front of your two year old! Its not fair on her, it could really distrub her at that age. I would try and speak to him privatly, say that your sorry for calling him a pothead, but your under a lot of stress and was tired yesterday from looking after your daughter all day (which is true), but also get your point across, choose your words carfully and tell him that he was in the wrong to hit you!!! Alot of couples have issues with attention after they have children, that i would say is natural taht he's feeling as though you don't get to spend as much time with him. Maybe get a baby sitter at some point n go out to dinner %26amp; spend time together as a couple for an evening or two... As hard as it is, men have known to hit women, but change %26amp; there relationship heels, but what will only happen if you want it to get better, maybe you both need some time to think things through, a suggestion would be to stay at a friend or relatives house for a few days, jus so that maybe he can think of things more clearly when he's on his own, if he has any love for you and your daughter, the seriousness of the situation and what hitting you might of done to your relationship should hit him....I'm sorry to have heard of your story, please don't spend tonight crying again...if your religious then i would suggest prayer at this point, hope things get better for you :)
Let me know how it goes x
well i would do what ever your heart says because for the right thing to do is leave but it is still not right for him to hit you.... did he hit you in-front of ur child or what... if i were u i would leave him because i hate it when someone hits me
I suggest stop calling him pothead in front of his daughter or leave. There isn't a whole lot to that.
He already told you he would do it again so you need to deal with this now. You probably should call the police but at the very least you need to go and stay with a friend or another family member. Get away from him for a while and let him know you are serious and that either he stops smoking and gets help you will leave him and take your child with you. You child doesn't need to see that garbage growing up. Good luck.
I'm so sorry. The fact that he said he would hit you again is a big red light. Your daughter should not be living in an environment where her mother is at risk of physical abuse. The other problem is the fact that he has no inclination to change his addiction problem. I'd seek help for you and your daughter and I think if it were me, I'd be looking to get out of the situation. As you know, you can't fix him - only he can decide to change and right now he doesn't want to change. Once again, for you and your daughter, I'm sorry.
Sorry to hear you had such a lousy night. It sounds like you already know he probably won't quit smoking and it will probably just get worst. I hope you have family or friends to support you. I think in your heart you know already what you have to do and I can imagine it will be hard. Take care and good luck..........
As a wife and MOTHER take accountability for your life, and stop asking for advice. What you are doing is asking for people to collude with you.
We come into our relationships with our own baggage. As you begin to heal your mind you will change your world.
If not for you, do it for your children.
Ok first (these are just my thoughts) a man that hits a woman is weak.
Tell him if he hits you one more time you are going to the police, and tell him to step up and quit the pot for his family and be a man.
He hit you and you haven't left YET?
when hes sleep tie him to the bed whip his a$$ flush all his weed down the toilet and tell him to grow up or he will never see his daughter again
Marijuana doesn't make someone act like that. He would be the same jerk, high or not. I would leave, it would ultimately be the best thing for you and your daughter.
I am so sorry for what you are going through. I have a friend who went through some similar issues. They separated for almost a year, he cleaned himself up, and now they are happier than ever. Please do whatever you need to so you and your daughter can be safe. Also, you cant blame yourself for his issues, all you can do is encourage him to get help.
Listen to me. Once you are away from him you are going to have a HUGE weight lifted off of your shoulders and find you are happier than you thought you could be. Right now he is a cloud keeping you from the sun. He obviously is not the man for you. It is better to have a good father at a distance, than a horrible one at home. Leave him because this is not just physical abuse but emotional and mental abuse. Having a child isn't always the easiest journey but if you are sitting wondering how it went wrong then something has to change. MAKE A CHANGE NOW! You are young. I left my husband at about your age and it was SO DIFFICULT AT FIRST. But then when you hold out and be strong for a little while, it starts to get so much better and so many new doors will open up for you. Don't subject yourself or your daughter to this behavior of his and to 2 parents who are not happy with each other. Your daughter will be fine as long as you are happy and fine. Once you leave him allow him as much time with her as he wants but make sure he is responsible and trustworthy enough to even spend time with her alone. You are right you both don't deserve this. You have a job. I didn't even have a job when I left my husband. Do it, try it, be alone for a while and enjoy your baby the way you should be and leave all the losers behind. GOOD LUCK!
The only thing you failed at was picking this jerk! If he hit you once, he'll hit you again. I'm sorry, but it would be over!!!
Do NOT put up with physical abuse! You should seek counselling with or without him, and it should be made crystal clear that if he wishes to remain married, that he will NEVER hit you again. There is absolutely NO excuse for that behavior.
Sounds like a real man you have there... I'm sorry for you.
You married a pot head? It will only get worse, you know what to do. You can't control other people just yourself. You owe it to your daughter to take her out of that enviroment, it's not about just you. Good luck
If you didn't call the cops and have him charged with domestic violence, you are a fool. Hear me out. It will only get WORSE... he's hit you once...he's not going to stop.
Have him arrested, take your child and leave. File for divorce and get away from him. If you don't, you are putting yourself into a situation of becoming seriously hurt or having to take matters into your own hands. Many absusive husbands have died at the hands of a battered wife. He is no good... File charges, have a peace bond issued and stay away from him.
Or you could do what one of Willie Nelson's wives did... when he passed out in bed, sew the sheets together, go get large stick or something and beat him senseless. Then tell him if he ever raises a hand to you again, his mama can bury his no good butt because you're gonna whack him.
I would call the police asap and turn him in for his weed and then tell him about him beating you. However before you do this take your child to a family members house so that you don't have to get chidren services involved. No woman ever should be hit for any reason. Don't think you need to deal with that crap...ever dont' wait just leave.....go to the police station and give up the f'er....
Girl I feel your pain .My husband is far from perfect .I was just told some really upsetting things yesterday myself .I am asking myself right now what the hell am I doing with this dog of a user .I am sure you are a good mom !!My dh abused alcohol too and does other things sooner or later we will see a light I say dont waitto long beacuse right now they are just dimming our moods .Hang in there analize this and go with whats right !
well smoking weed changes people..
but him hitting you is unexceptable if he loves you he woulden't dare lay a hand on you.
I think you should leave him he is threating you.
but idk if you love him then go see someone and talk about the issue
he hit you once he would most likey do it again.
I need advice Guys and Girls!!!?
Ok so here goes, I started a new job in early August.. Almost the first day there I noticed a girl who was also noticing me. We began to talk as friends and stuff getting to know each other, the heavy flirting started, we both were in relationships. We began going to happy hour with co-workers and the flirting turned into hugging, kissing, holding hands, etc. Nothing sexual (it would've happend but I actually like this girl). I then broke up with the girl i was dating of 3 months but she stayed with her boyfriend of 4 years. We began talking about being together and we are SO into eachother, texting great stuff, all that. she is a really special girl and I would do anything to be with her.. Unfortunately the more we talk the more she tells me that she is in a verbally abusive relationship and cannot get away.. Everytime she breaks up with him he threatens suicide and such. He wont leave her alone, its obvious to everyone that she is miserable. Apparently he had a PFA from his last girl for the same stuff. Problem is, we have started falling for eachother and now im pissed because she still hasn't broken up with him and says shes ';trying';. We work together and everytime I stop talking to her work sucks and it's awkward, yet if i talk to her we flirt and its the same thing for 3 months. I want her, I will treat her wonderfully, what should i do?? Walk away or stay consistent as a friend? Please help. Dont give me the ';theres a million girls in the world'; line because she is different and special to me. Plese help!
I need advice Guys and Girls!!!?
I deffinatly agree with Nancy. Do not move on. And even if you want to you probably couldnt because you like her so much. Just help her with her problems. Then you two will become closer and closer. It all takes time.I need advice Guys and Girls!!!?
Her boyfriend seems like he's mentally ill %26amp; needs serious help. As far as you two go, tell her if she wants to be with you then she needs to dump her boyfriend %26amp; be with you. Otherwise you should forget about a relationship with her.
Ok you are right. There are a million girls out there but 999,999 of them wont make you feel the same way this girl probably makes you feel. If you think of her before you go to bed, think of what she will think of what your wearing, want to make her laugh and you realy really like her then NO i don't think you should move on. I think you should comfort her and try to help her get out of the relationship that she is alreayd in so that she can be with you. You have to also figure out if she is just saying she wants to be with you and pretending to want to get out of the other relationship. From the sounds of it, she does want to get out and she does like you. You have to find a way to have her get out of that relationship. Also, just keep having fun with her like and keep the flirting etc... don't turn it into you just can't wait to get her.. beause when you do get her you might have lost all that flare for flirting and forgotten how much fun you two have together. Hope that helps! good luck.
I need advice Guys and Girls!!!?
I deffinatly agree with Nancy. Do not move on. And even if you want to you probably couldnt because you like her so much. Just help her with her problems. Then you two will become closer and closer. It all takes time.I need advice Guys and Girls!!!?
Her boyfriend seems like he's mentally ill %26amp; needs serious help. As far as you two go, tell her if she wants to be with you then she needs to dump her boyfriend %26amp; be with you. Otherwise you should forget about a relationship with her.
Ok you are right. There are a million girls out there but 999,999 of them wont make you feel the same way this girl probably makes you feel. If you think of her before you go to bed, think of what she will think of what your wearing, want to make her laugh and you realy really like her then NO i don't think you should move on. I think you should comfort her and try to help her get out of the relationship that she is alreayd in so that she can be with you. You have to also figure out if she is just saying she wants to be with you and pretending to want to get out of the other relationship. From the sounds of it, she does want to get out and she does like you. You have to find a way to have her get out of that relationship. Also, just keep having fun with her like and keep the flirting etc... don't turn it into you just can't wait to get her.. beause when you do get her you might have lost all that flare for flirting and forgotten how much fun you two have together. Hope that helps! good luck.
Need some advice. guys and girls?
ok so... i really want to find that someone. i have never had a gf or even been on a date. the worse thing is that i am 17 and a senior in hs! i know that 90% of you will tell me to wait and that someone will come but ive been waiting for a while now and nothing has happened. i want to know some tips on how to talk to girls (like how to just randomly go up to them without looking like an idiot), what to do, how to do it, what has worked for you and what hasnt. i have a hard time doing those things because i am really shy.
thanks for your help.Need some advice. guys and girls?
Oh, don't be so nervous. We don't bite, you know.
Just be nice and friendly.
';hello';'s are always awesome, and nobody will think you're an idiot.Need some advice. guys and girls?
Just act natural and say hi and talk to any girls that sit next to you in your classes, just make casual conversion then eventually ask out the girl you like.sheer makeup
thanks for your help.Need some advice. guys and girls?
Oh, don't be so nervous. We don't bite, you know.
Just be nice and friendly.
';hello';'s are always awesome, and nobody will think you're an idiot.Need some advice. guys and girls?
Just act natural and say hi and talk to any girls that sit next to you in your classes, just make casual conversion then eventually ask out the girl you like.
Need legal advice guys, please help.?
I really need your help on this one guys.
My wife had breast cancer and she went for, what I thought, a removal of said cancer. However, when she came back and showed me the result the doctor had COMPLETELY REMOVED HER LEFT TIT. She asked me what I thought and my first response was: ';It's horrible!'; She cried and got angry, so I tried to explain it to her best I could I said ';look honey remember when that one speaker of your car stereo was busted? You hated having to listen to only one speaker!'; She continued crying and so I got mad and called her doctor to ask him what the **** was wrong with him cutting off her complete left tit like that. I said: ';Look pal maybe you buy your wife new **** every year but to me that's at least 9 months of salary!'; to top things off her nipple is gone! They just threw away the tit AND the nipple. So even if I WOULD buy her a new left tit the nipple is god damned gone, now how in the hell is that supposed to make sense?! One tit minus a nipple. I told the doctor he owes me a new tit and a new nipple and slammed the phone on the hook. I god damned loved that tit.
Can I sue this doctor for a new tit? Need legal advice guys, please help.?
your gay lol =]]
My wife had breast cancer and she went for, what I thought, a removal of said cancer. However, when she came back and showed me the result the doctor had COMPLETELY REMOVED HER LEFT TIT. She asked me what I thought and my first response was: ';It's horrible!'; She cried and got angry, so I tried to explain it to her best I could I said ';look honey remember when that one speaker of your car stereo was busted? You hated having to listen to only one speaker!'; She continued crying and so I got mad and called her doctor to ask him what the **** was wrong with him cutting off her complete left tit like that. I said: ';Look pal maybe you buy your wife new **** every year but to me that's at least 9 months of salary!'; to top things off her nipple is gone! They just threw away the tit AND the nipple. So even if I WOULD buy her a new left tit the nipple is god damned gone, now how in the hell is that supposed to make sense?! One tit minus a nipple. I told the doctor he owes me a new tit and a new nipple and slammed the phone on the hook. I god damned loved that tit.
Can I sue this doctor for a new tit? Need legal advice guys, please help.?
your gay lol =]]
Give me advice - Guys?
Alright, so I like this guy.. Richard. Anyways, i'm eleven and he's thirteen. I'll say somethings about what happened. Sometimes the me liking him thing gets so annoying because some grade 8's come up to me AND him and ask us questions like.. ARE YOU DATING? And the one time.. My friends pushed me toward him and his friends pushed him toward me during recess. It was embarasseing Anyways.. Ok.. so... I kissed him on the cheek at least more than 2 times. LMAO, and hugged him alright. He dosent care, I gave him like 43 candy grams, and he said thank you. He's not dating anyone, but at the school dance he didnt want to go with anyone. His ex girlfriend wanted to dance with him, but he said no. My 3 other friends just think he knows I like him (he does) and is confused about what to do, or just confused that he likes you. And on msn he doesnt ignore me or anything like that, and he doesnt block me either, he talks to me, and we talk about like runescape and stuff. Even on afacebook, but.. he posted on my wall 'Stop bothering me, your getting really annoying'' So my other friend think he likes me but.. he just doesnt want his friends to know. Oh, hold on.. This is my best friends brother. LMAO! An yes, she knows I like him. They baby sitted my dog for a week while was in Cuba, and I don't know my friend said he grabed m dog by the neck and started smacking her. =| But my friend bothered my=e to pick out a song fr us so I picked every time we touch - cascada, showed him it, and he said he liked it. =) and a LONG LONG LONG LONNNG time ago, I wrote a love poem (nt to him) and he got it some how and showed it to everyone in his class.. and they all laughed. =| The question is.. Does he like me? And what should I do?Give me advice - Guys?
Sure he ';likes'; you, but neither of you are old enough or mature enough to become romantically involved. Give it a few (like 5) years!!
Sure he ';likes'; you, but neither of you are old enough or mature enough to become romantically involved. Give it a few (like 5) years!!
Need some advice....guys please.?
ok so i have this guy friend and hes soooo sweet. but hes sooo annoying! girl crazed! but ...ughhh i just cant seem to not like him... it drives me insane. i have more of an athletic/average figure. he always goes for more of the girls who are gorgeous and super tiny. ....i think he may know that i used to like him. and i recently found out that he liked me a couple years ago.
idk. but he drives me insane. i ask him to the movies with a couple of my friends and he shows up with this girl.
we go to a big event thing with like 4,000 high school students, and he hits on this girl from school that he just met. i have been his friend for like ever! (1st grade) now we are freshmen. i dont know what else to do. i dont wanna ask him out. i just want it to be an over time thing. i dont wanna lose him as a friend. but ughhh. i cant stand him. he can be nice, and then he can be this idiot guy that only thinks about getting the hot girl.
.......hmmmm. if u need more just email me.Need some advice....guys please.?
It sounds like he is too immature right now. You're better off either waiting for him to grow up, although who knows how long this could take, or just flat out moving on. Stay best friends but get over your romantic feelings. You're only a freshman in high school. You have plenty of time to date and have boyfriends. If you can't stand the thought of down the road wondering ';What if?'; then ask him out. Essentially you have three options. Wait, make a move, or move on.
Good Luck!Need some advice....guys please.?
I am sorry to break to you, but he only sees you as a friend otherwise he wouldn't be hitting on other girls in your presence. If you talk to him directly you may have a chance but you need to do so soon before he finds himself a permanent girlfriend.
Baby we can talk about this. Stop telling yahoo answers our business baby. I love you and i want to marry you one day dont do this to us. Please. I love you. You are my everything. I am cow dung without you. Please.
Just be his friend, and thinks might workout well. If you dont mind, do you say ughhh when you talk. Lol
If you need help, email me
idk. but he drives me insane. i ask him to the movies with a couple of my friends and he shows up with this girl.
we go to a big event thing with like 4,000 high school students, and he hits on this girl from school that he just met. i have been his friend for like ever! (1st grade) now we are freshmen. i dont know what else to do. i dont wanna ask him out. i just want it to be an over time thing. i dont wanna lose him as a friend. but ughhh. i cant stand him. he can be nice, and then he can be this idiot guy that only thinks about getting the hot girl.
.......hmmmm. if u need more just email me.Need some advice....guys please.?
It sounds like he is too immature right now. You're better off either waiting for him to grow up, although who knows how long this could take, or just flat out moving on. Stay best friends but get over your romantic feelings. You're only a freshman in high school. You have plenty of time to date and have boyfriends. If you can't stand the thought of down the road wondering ';What if?'; then ask him out. Essentially you have three options. Wait, make a move, or move on.
Good Luck!Need some advice....guys please.?
I am sorry to break to you, but he only sees you as a friend otherwise he wouldn't be hitting on other girls in your presence. If you talk to him directly you may have a chance but you need to do so soon before he finds himself a permanent girlfriend.
Baby we can talk about this. Stop telling yahoo answers our business baby. I love you and i want to marry you one day dont do this to us. Please. I love you. You are my everything. I am cow dung without you. Please.
Just be his friend, and thinks might workout well. If you dont mind, do you say ughhh when you talk. Lol
If you need help, email me
I need advice!! (Guys and Girls)?
I'm 16 and i've never had a bf. It's not that i couldn't have dated i just don't like wasting my time with people i know i don't really like. But i went out on a date with this guy about a month ago. About a week later i heard that he kind of got turned off because i was too quite during the date. I still like him and i want to ask him to my prom because we go to different schools. I'm just nervous about not having much dating experience and about being too shy again. How do i open up?I need advice!! (Guys and Girls)?
I don't think you should ask a guy to a prom. That's for him to do. I'd get a group of girls together and go with them if I didn't have a date. (Just don't dance with them) You'll have more fun.
There's nothing wrong with being quiet as long as you make an effort to enjoy yourself; 'n be sociable. The important thing is to BE EASY TO BE WITH. Let him impress you. Loosen up and laugh at something if it's funny. (You don't need to drink any alcohol beverages either). Move around a lot; don't stay in one place too long.... go to the rest room to powder your nose; ';work the room'; some more.I need advice!! (Guys and Girls)?
give him your phone number (that's if he doesn't have it yet)
%26amp; start off by talking on the phone everyday!
through daily conversation it will make it easier to get to know eachother so when you go on dates you'll be less shy!
best of luck!
I am a shy young person too who has recently opened up. If I was in the situation, I would ask him to go and apologize for being so quiet on the first date. Then on the day of the date I would observe all the things around before and come up with questions in your mind about the things you see or hear. Or think up stories that you could tell him throughout the date. On the date you could ask questions and questions and tell lots of stories, and have the conversation just spawn from there. Just relax and don't psych yourself out before hand or during the date. Do some yoga or something right before you go.
just be cool.
talk to him like he's your best friend and you've
know him your whole life.
dont tell him all the stuff you tell you true Bff though.
just the minor stuff, and dont over talk either.
just be cool and go with the flow of things.
I think u should ask him sometimes ppl lie about stuff. and if he does go to prom push ur self to talk more ask him about himself and what he plans to do after highschool and he tell him about ur self let no how it goes goodluck
I don't think you should ask a guy to a prom. That's for him to do. I'd get a group of girls together and go with them if I didn't have a date. (Just don't dance with them) You'll have more fun.
There's nothing wrong with being quiet as long as you make an effort to enjoy yourself; 'n be sociable. The important thing is to BE EASY TO BE WITH. Let him impress you. Loosen up and laugh at something if it's funny. (You don't need to drink any alcohol beverages either). Move around a lot; don't stay in one place too long.... go to the rest room to powder your nose; ';work the room'; some more.I need advice!! (Guys and Girls)?
give him your phone number (that's if he doesn't have it yet)
%26amp; start off by talking on the phone everyday!
through daily conversation it will make it easier to get to know eachother so when you go on dates you'll be less shy!
best of luck!
I am a shy young person too who has recently opened up. If I was in the situation, I would ask him to go and apologize for being so quiet on the first date. Then on the day of the date I would observe all the things around before and come up with questions in your mind about the things you see or hear. Or think up stories that you could tell him throughout the date. On the date you could ask questions and questions and tell lots of stories, and have the conversation just spawn from there. Just relax and don't psych yourself out before hand or during the date. Do some yoga or something right before you go.
just be cool.
talk to him like he's your best friend and you've
know him your whole life.
dont tell him all the stuff you tell you true Bff though.
just the minor stuff, and dont over talk either.
just be cool and go with the flow of things.
I think u should ask him sometimes ppl lie about stuff. and if he does go to prom push ur self to talk more ask him about himself and what he plans to do after highschool and he tell him about ur self let no how it goes goodluck
Can i get some advice about guys....?
Are most guys that are upperclassmen in high school/early college really just looking for sex from girls? Or do they care about more than that? ONLY GUYS answer please, %26amp; please be as honest and as specific as possible. preferably 17 and up.Can i get some advice about guys....?
Most guys are.
Don't be so quick to judge them, though. There are still respectable guys out there, you just have to hunt for them [and most of them are in relationships, because once a girl finds them, she doesn't want to let go.]
The best way to protect yourself is to find a guy you like, and talk to him about it. Nothing bad can (generally) come through open communication. If he really likes you, he'll respect your decision about not being sexually active. If not, you can do better.
Hope I helped.Can i get some advice about guys....?
Honestly, most guys just want to do something sexual with you. But, you also have to realize that sometimes there are some guys out there that truly care about you. Now if you get into a relationship with a boy like that, even he will eventually want to get closer to you and start touching. If he didn't then he would have either incredible self control or no feelings for you. It's usually the one about feelings.
Lol Well Its Hormones And Yes Most Guys Are Looking To Get Some
And Well The Girls Want It To And Acting All Whore ish
Unfortunately most of them are. thats just what its about for them. good luck and be smart
Most guys are.
Don't be so quick to judge them, though. There are still respectable guys out there, you just have to hunt for them [and most of them are in relationships, because once a girl finds them, she doesn't want to let go.]
The best way to protect yourself is to find a guy you like, and talk to him about it. Nothing bad can (generally) come through open communication. If he really likes you, he'll respect your decision about not being sexually active. If not, you can do better.
Hope I helped.Can i get some advice about guys....?
Honestly, most guys just want to do something sexual with you. But, you also have to realize that sometimes there are some guys out there that truly care about you. Now if you get into a relationship with a boy like that, even he will eventually want to get closer to you and start touching. If he didn't then he would have either incredible self control or no feelings for you. It's usually the one about feelings.
Lol Well Its Hormones And Yes Most Guys Are Looking To Get Some
And Well The Girls Want It To And Acting All Whore ish
Unfortunately most of them are. thats just what its about for them. good luck and be smart
Need some advice guys and girls?
Well i been talking to this girl for several of wks now and finally we are official YAY!!! Now, here is the problem, i am the type that likes to show affection to my partner she is not. When she does she backs off because she tells me it turns her on to much and she doesnt wonna do anything too bad. I would really like it if she wouldnt back off and just go with the flow now i dont want sex at all because its too early in the relationship but i would like her to loosen up a lil bit ya know. i do respect her wishes about the affection thing but gee it kind of bothers me. Its like i am the reciever and she is the taker but she doesnt give anything in return ya know. As long as she gets what she wants than she is comfortable. For example, i am in to bodybuilding so she wants me to strip well i tell her you do it to and she says NO!! in a seriouse way. I hope this is not too confusing oh yeah and plus she is bossy. Anywayy i need some help here guys and girls.Need some advice guys and girls?
I f you dont talk about it with each other, now...then what do you think your relationship will be like 6 months down the road from now? Communication is the root of all good relationships!!!!Need some advice guys and girls?
My main advice for people is:
WORK HARD!
The harder you work the more motivated you will be.
You should also look for some supplements, maybe just some basic protein for a start. http://www.monsterbodybuilder.com/store/Sports-Supplements/Protein Take it after EVERY workout session, and get at least a day of rest a week.
Good luck, and build hard.sheer makeup
I f you dont talk about it with each other, now...then what do you think your relationship will be like 6 months down the road from now? Communication is the root of all good relationships!!!!Need some advice guys and girls?
My main advice for people is:
WORK HARD!
The harder you work the more motivated you will be.
You should also look for some supplements, maybe just some basic protein for a start. http://www.monsterbodybuilder.com/store/Sports-Supplements/Protein Take it after EVERY workout session, and get at least a day of rest a week.
Good luck, and build hard.
I need advice guys and girls!?
so ive been going out with this guy thats totally out of my league i like this huge dork and hes like this model to be more specific i dont know what he sees in me but he once tried to kiss me by pulling on my arm and i tried to push him away not because i didnt want to kiss him but because i cant show emotions or be affectionate in public specially because my friends were around so i was pushing him away and he keep pulling me tordwards him so he finally gave up and walked away so i was on his top #1 on his my space page now im not even on there so what should i do he doesent respond to my txts whats up with that please help im just getting crazy thoughts in my head and jumping into conclusions.I need advice guys and girls!?
Wow this guy sounds like my ex-girlfriend. First of all don't pay any attentiont to where you are ranked on myspace. Make an attempt to call him, if he doesn't call you back, move on, you will find someone else, you don't need him around.
Wow this guy sounds like my ex-girlfriend. First of all don't pay any attentiont to where you are ranked on myspace. Make an attempt to call him, if he doesn't call you back, move on, you will find someone else, you don't need him around.
I need advice...guys please help...girls too.?
so i am really interested into this guy. he is a year older than me and he is also my brothers best friend. well i think he kinda knows that i like him just because my brother implies it sometimes. but he never adresses it. so hes really nice and hot. and when ever he is over my house we talk and hang out and it's just really fun. but i found out that this girl in my grade likes him. and he said that he didn't like her like a week or 2 ago but she was telling people that he did like her. i don't text him or anything but i think he would think it was weird if i texted him and it would make it more obvious that i like him. i just don't know what to do.
i need advice.
should i text him
should i believe the girl
how would you guys feel if a girl texted you who doesn't often text you.
would you think that she likes you.
what would you do in this situation.I need advice...guys please help...girls too.?
ok. see i am a guy and would welcome an out of the blue txt from a girl. i would think they are just trying to move the friendship forward. and the guy most likely likes u. trust me. i give relationship advice to my female and male friends all the time. i help them when it comes to what to do, say, and everything. that way they don't get shot down. which, by the way, they never have. they usually end up together! or at least great friends. some have got engaged! and i have helped them stay engaged. seems like a lot for a 17 year old doesn't it? well good luck and if u want more advice, just hit up my messenger. i am always available. it's set up with my phone.I need advice...guys please help...girls too.?
i think u should go 4 it! let him know, and maybe he likes u back, but don't text!! don't believe the girl, the guy knows what he's talking about, if you're not sure, ask the guy if he really likes her or not.
i would just tell him in person that i like him if i were in that situation. u never know if he likes u back or not, and don't let that girl interfere with your feelings about him!! just don't be scared 2 take a chance!
Good luck!!! =)
i need advice.
should i text him
should i believe the girl
how would you guys feel if a girl texted you who doesn't often text you.
would you think that she likes you.
what would you do in this situation.I need advice...guys please help...girls too.?
ok. see i am a guy and would welcome an out of the blue txt from a girl. i would think they are just trying to move the friendship forward. and the guy most likely likes u. trust me. i give relationship advice to my female and male friends all the time. i help them when it comes to what to do, say, and everything. that way they don't get shot down. which, by the way, they never have. they usually end up together! or at least great friends. some have got engaged! and i have helped them stay engaged. seems like a lot for a 17 year old doesn't it? well good luck and if u want more advice, just hit up my messenger. i am always available. it's set up with my phone.I need advice...guys please help...girls too.?
i think u should go 4 it! let him know, and maybe he likes u back, but don't text!! don't believe the girl, the guy knows what he's talking about, if you're not sure, ask the guy if he really likes her or not.
i would just tell him in person that i like him if i were in that situation. u never know if he likes u back or not, and don't let that girl interfere with your feelings about him!! just don't be scared 2 take a chance!
Good luck!!! =)
I NEED ADVICE, GUYS TOO! long or short hair on me? IS it unattractive for a girl to have short hair? be honest?
Kay so i have always been cursed with my stupid short hair, and i use to have extensions and felt a lot prettier, but the thing is my hair cant naturally grow that long.....soooo i dont know what to do, should i put my extensions back in and have my long hair back, or stick to the short hair?
Here's me with Short Hair?
second one from the left...
http://i613.photobucket.com/albums/tt217/Muchacha1313/mygirls.jpg
far right...
http://i613.photobucket.com/albums/tt217/Muchacha1313/Mexicoo.jpg
right...
http://i613.photobucket.com/albums/tt217/Muchacha1313/MeandShelby.jpg
far left...
http://i613.photobucket.com/albums/tt217/Muchacha1313/Camping.jpg
And now with LONG HAIR
right...
http://i613.photobucket.com/albums/tt217/Muchacha1313/chuckie.jpg
http://i613.photobucket.com/albums/tt217/Muchacha1313/longer.jpg
http://i613.photobucket.com/albums/tt217/Muchacha1313/fish.jpg
http://i613.photobucket.com/albums/tt217/Muchacha1313/roller.jpg
Please be honest, extensions or short hair....is it unattractive for a girl to have short hair?I NEED ADVICE, GUYS TOO! long or short hair on me? IS it unattractive for a girl to have short hair? be honest?
I think you look better with short hair. It's not just that the extensions look like, well, extensions, but you look older, more mature with the short hair.
I thought, you look like an adult, perhaps in her late 20s, but with the extensions, you look like a high school kid.
So, no, it's not unattractive for a girl to have short hair. Some look good, some look bad in it. You look good with it.I NEED ADVICE, GUYS TOO! long or short hair on me? IS it unattractive for a girl to have short hair? be honest?
i feel as though you can pull of the short hair and not many people can. you are very pretty and the face can carry the short hair. the long hair is nice aswell but its a rare to find a girl who can actually pull off short hair. also with the long hair you look kind of fake like a girl who tans alot and has no brains. and if thats true i am sorry. but short hair looks like you actually have a personality. not a generic jersey girl.
To be honest, I Don't like girls with short hair, U look great with the extensions, and makes u prettier, U can let ur hair grow for two years and Ur hair is gonna grow, if It dosen't try vitamins, but depends on U,
U hav to be honest with urself
What do u like?
Long hair or short hair
U gotta pick the one that makes u feel better.
honestly i like both. The short hair makes you seem more party girl where as the longer hair makes you look more ''grown up'' i know that doesn't help but the truth is that what ever makes you feel better about yourself is the right choice. You are very pretty no matter how you wear your hair.
you're really cute either way. i don't think short hair is inherently unattractive, you look good with it. but what is really attractive is if you love your hair and yourself, because there's nothing better than a pretty girl who's confident in her self
You look like you are 13 with long hair. I thought you were in your 20's with shorter hair. I think you have a great face for short hair. Just not the highlights- natural is always best.
i would say long hair but short is very unique on a Perfectly shaped body like yours but it look so dull on you but you spice it up?
I like the long hair. The short hair makes you look kinda old
Long, it's just more feminine
you look prety either way but long hair makes u look better, let it grow u can do it
I love your extensions. Long hair is best
:)
Here's me with Short Hair?
second one from the left...
http://i613.photobucket.com/albums/tt217/Muchacha1313/mygirls.jpg
far right...
http://i613.photobucket.com/albums/tt217/Muchacha1313/Mexicoo.jpg
right...
http://i613.photobucket.com/albums/tt217/Muchacha1313/MeandShelby.jpg
far left...
http://i613.photobucket.com/albums/tt217/Muchacha1313/Camping.jpg
And now with LONG HAIR
right...
http://i613.photobucket.com/albums/tt217/Muchacha1313/chuckie.jpg
http://i613.photobucket.com/albums/tt217/Muchacha1313/longer.jpg
http://i613.photobucket.com/albums/tt217/Muchacha1313/fish.jpg
http://i613.photobucket.com/albums/tt217/Muchacha1313/roller.jpg
Please be honest, extensions or short hair....is it unattractive for a girl to have short hair?I NEED ADVICE, GUYS TOO! long or short hair on me? IS it unattractive for a girl to have short hair? be honest?
I think you look better with short hair. It's not just that the extensions look like, well, extensions, but you look older, more mature with the short hair.
I thought, you look like an adult, perhaps in her late 20s, but with the extensions, you look like a high school kid.
So, no, it's not unattractive for a girl to have short hair. Some look good, some look bad in it. You look good with it.I NEED ADVICE, GUYS TOO! long or short hair on me? IS it unattractive for a girl to have short hair? be honest?
i feel as though you can pull of the short hair and not many people can. you are very pretty and the face can carry the short hair. the long hair is nice aswell but its a rare to find a girl who can actually pull off short hair. also with the long hair you look kind of fake like a girl who tans alot and has no brains. and if thats true i am sorry. but short hair looks like you actually have a personality. not a generic jersey girl.
To be honest, I Don't like girls with short hair, U look great with the extensions, and makes u prettier, U can let ur hair grow for two years and Ur hair is gonna grow, if It dosen't try vitamins, but depends on U,
U hav to be honest with urself
What do u like?
Long hair or short hair
U gotta pick the one that makes u feel better.
honestly i like both. The short hair makes you seem more party girl where as the longer hair makes you look more ''grown up'' i know that doesn't help but the truth is that what ever makes you feel better about yourself is the right choice. You are very pretty no matter how you wear your hair.
you're really cute either way. i don't think short hair is inherently unattractive, you look good with it. but what is really attractive is if you love your hair and yourself, because there's nothing better than a pretty girl who's confident in her self
You look like you are 13 with long hair. I thought you were in your 20's with shorter hair. I think you have a great face for short hair. Just not the highlights- natural is always best.
i would say long hair but short is very unique on a Perfectly shaped body like yours but it look so dull on you but you spice it up?
I like the long hair. The short hair makes you look kinda old
Long, it's just more feminine
you look prety either way but long hair makes u look better, let it grow u can do it
I love your extensions. Long hair is best
:)
I need someone to talk to... im 18 and never been kissed and i need advice... guys or girls?
i just want to talk to someone online or something... if u wanna talk leave your screename... and pleeeeasse don't be a stalker or ill block you. im not ugly at all, and i've never been in a relationship. i have a lot of friends, but i just have never been kissed. i need help. thanksI need someone to talk to... im 18 and never been kissed and i need advice... guys or girls?
i didn't get my first kiss or first relationship til i was 24. it was a long wait and i know it can be frustrating.. but try not to let it bother you.. there's not much you can do other than live your life and try to keep a possitive attitude.. feel free to click on my profile and send me a message if you'd like to talk further..I need someone to talk to... im 18 and never been kissed and i need advice... guys or girls?
you should not kiss first let him kiss u
I too was a a late bloomer i had a very strict up bringing. didn't even date till I was 20 and the kiss came later and sex later heheh. was too shy. Still have that problem too. You just need a patient man who will go slow till your more comfortable with him and he doesn't rush you. Remember the Movie ROCKY something like that. find a guy who will go slow at first. you can go wild later with him.
hey firtsly take a deep breathe and relax! its no big deal if you have never been kissed! i was once like you, too shy and nervous but confident in the way i loked. i just thought about things too much. oh and if you wnat something to talk to, just email or msg my profile.
oh please. don't try to meet someone online. just let nature take it's course.
contact me, im Ace. we are two of a kind, for i havent kissed either (im 15) also i have been looked down upon by girls all my life because i have morals.
i know how that could be email me if you need someone to talk too
I suspect you already know the answer to your question. Why do you have a lot of friends, but no relationships? Sit at your computer and write out as fast as you can, all of the reasons why you think you haven't been in a relationship. After you have exhausted all of the reasons you can possibly think of in five minutes of time, print it out and spend some time going back over the reasons. Pick out what you think the two or three major reasons are, and then decide if you want to try to work on those two or three.
i didn't get my first kiss or first relationship til i was 24. it was a long wait and i know it can be frustrating.. but try not to let it bother you.. there's not much you can do other than live your life and try to keep a possitive attitude.. feel free to click on my profile and send me a message if you'd like to talk further..I need someone to talk to... im 18 and never been kissed and i need advice... guys or girls?
you should not kiss first let him kiss u
I too was a a late bloomer i had a very strict up bringing. didn't even date till I was 20 and the kiss came later and sex later heheh. was too shy. Still have that problem too. You just need a patient man who will go slow till your more comfortable with him and he doesn't rush you. Remember the Movie ROCKY something like that. find a guy who will go slow at first. you can go wild later with him.
hey firtsly take a deep breathe and relax! its no big deal if you have never been kissed! i was once like you, too shy and nervous but confident in the way i loked. i just thought about things too much. oh and if you wnat something to talk to, just email or msg my profile.
oh please. don't try to meet someone online. just let nature take it's course.
contact me, im Ace. we are two of a kind, for i havent kissed either (im 15) also i have been looked down upon by girls all my life because i have morals.
i know how that could be email me if you need someone to talk too
I suspect you already know the answer to your question. Why do you have a lot of friends, but no relationships? Sit at your computer and write out as fast as you can, all of the reasons why you think you haven't been in a relationship. After you have exhausted all of the reasons you can possibly think of in five minutes of time, print it out and spend some time going back over the reasons. Pick out what you think the two or three major reasons are, and then decide if you want to try to work on those two or three.
Really shy around cute guys! Need some advice?
I am generally a witty, funny girl and can flirt with guys I'm not attracted to, but can't seem to find my voice or wit around guys I'm attracted to. Any advice on calming my nerves or just getting over my shyness?Really shy around cute guys! Need some advice?
I'm a good looking guy. Remember girls are often shy of good looking guys and that isn't easy on us handsome guys you know! There have been many times when a girl I have really liked has refused to talk to me, has chatted and flirted with my mates in front of me and then I've said what's up with her, she's so rude to one of her mates and it's like, oh she finds you cute but she's very shy.. very annoying and not much of a basis for a relationship I'm afraid! I really don't hope you behave like that when there's a cute guy around and if you do set to work on your confidence. just because a guy is good looking doesnt mean he has no feelings and he might even like you.Really shy around cute guys! Need some advice?
I use to be just like that. I got over it within good time. I just told my self that i have to get over it . enough is enough. I took time out from talking to guys to focus on better-ing myself and soon enough i wasn't as shy any more. but you will always have a little shyness about yourself, but some guys find that cute.
LOL...imagine them naked wearing a pair of really thick glasses. The more confidence that you get as you get older...the easier it will come for you. It's easy for you to deal with people that you feel can't walk in your tracks...or can't hold a candle to ya..but you get intimadated by people that you feel might be better than you. Just remember every time you see a good lookin single guy...that there is a girl somewhere that knows that he is a bass turd.
I've found in the past that the best way to talk to a guy you like is try and arrange a group thing. Like invite some of your friends and him and some of his friends out some where as a group. Maybe with some friends behind you, you might be a little less shy.
Hope that helped.
Sorry this answer isn't actually going to help, but I do the same thing around girls I'm attracted to. It's just how most people are I'm afraid. It's a confidence thing I think.
Edit: Oh yeah, alcohol helps too lol.
Dont think bout it or anything...just say hey and then tell him ur name and say wuts up.....dont think bout anything else....imagine its only u and him adn kno one else is there....thats wut i do....works everytime..and my bf says that mostly every guy likes when a gurls make the first move...try it...=o)
pop a ti**y out. that'll help.
cant get over that. Never gona work at for you sorry
um how do u know ur witty and funny, you could be pathetic for all they know...sorry but over-confidence isnt good
I'm a good looking guy. Remember girls are often shy of good looking guys and that isn't easy on us handsome guys you know! There have been many times when a girl I have really liked has refused to talk to me, has chatted and flirted with my mates in front of me and then I've said what's up with her, she's so rude to one of her mates and it's like, oh she finds you cute but she's very shy.. very annoying and not much of a basis for a relationship I'm afraid! I really don't hope you behave like that when there's a cute guy around and if you do set to work on your confidence. just because a guy is good looking doesnt mean he has no feelings and he might even like you.Really shy around cute guys! Need some advice?
I use to be just like that. I got over it within good time. I just told my self that i have to get over it . enough is enough. I took time out from talking to guys to focus on better-ing myself and soon enough i wasn't as shy any more. but you will always have a little shyness about yourself, but some guys find that cute.
LOL...imagine them naked wearing a pair of really thick glasses. The more confidence that you get as you get older...the easier it will come for you. It's easy for you to deal with people that you feel can't walk in your tracks...or can't hold a candle to ya..but you get intimadated by people that you feel might be better than you. Just remember every time you see a good lookin single guy...that there is a girl somewhere that knows that he is a bass turd.
I've found in the past that the best way to talk to a guy you like is try and arrange a group thing. Like invite some of your friends and him and some of his friends out some where as a group. Maybe with some friends behind you, you might be a little less shy.
Hope that helped.
Sorry this answer isn't actually going to help, but I do the same thing around girls I'm attracted to. It's just how most people are I'm afraid. It's a confidence thing I think.
Edit: Oh yeah, alcohol helps too lol.
Dont think bout it or anything...just say hey and then tell him ur name and say wuts up.....dont think bout anything else....imagine its only u and him adn kno one else is there....thats wut i do....works everytime..and my bf says that mostly every guy likes when a gurls make the first move...try it...=o)
pop a ti**y out. that'll help.
cant get over that. Never gona work at for you sorry
um how do u know ur witty and funny, you could be pathetic for all they know...sorry but over-confidence isnt good
What do guys really want in a relationship i need advice...Guys please help me out...?
So my relationships have been shitty and they always end up coming back....well me and my ex hubby he still loves me and he just cant be with me he always came back but i finally moved on and so has he...were just friends now...then i started dating this guy and are relationship was perfect no fights are anything then one day he needs space it so happiends to be when he phycho ex gf becomes single found out hes been sleeping with her and she treated him like crap i talked to him about it and everyone else and all he wants to do is have sex with her not a relationship he tould me hes got alot going and needs space but i kept bugging him so now he doesnt want to talk to me anymore but i had a friend 3 way him and he still claims to love me but he tould that friend to tell me that he doesnt because he doesnt want me to wait on him...My main question is...what do guys really want...Do guys like bitches is that what i should be because i did everything for him and his phycho ex which he only wants sex with treated him like ****...and my hubby and everyone else always leaves but ends up coming back....I don't get it....What can i do to make myself more desirable...isnt it the clingyness what is it that men want in a relationship???What do guys really want in a relationship i need advice...Guys please help me out...?
Be a little hard to get...men like the chase and will treat you better if you are not at their beck and call. Focus on making yourself happy first. A fun read is ';He's Just Not That Into You.';What do guys really want in a relationship i need advice...Guys please help me out...?
You are the problem quit going with these types.Respect your self stay kind then You will get the right one.Life is short don't waste it on broken men that will not change. Change yourself Good luck choose to be happy.
Guys want sex; if you don't give it away so easily, they'll treat you with more respect and be much kinder.
Hope this helps!!
A Man wants the world and everything in it.
What do men want? SEX, someone who will do the cleaning, cooking, and laundry so they don't have to.
What kind of women do they use and treat like crap? Women who put them first and try hard to be everything they want.
What kind of women do they respect and want to be with? Women who are strong, know what they want, don't play games, don't take crap off them and demand to be treated with respect.
If you don't respect yourself, they won't respect you either. Know what you want, don't settle for less, and don't allow a man to use you or treat you in a way that makes you feel abused. Don't be so easy to get in bed with them. Get to know the guy, become friends first and when you are sure this guy is what you are looking for, then you can consider having a romantic relationship with. Slow down and take your time.
If you are easy for them to get, they will use you, treat you like crap, then throw you away for the next girl on their list.
look,its very simple.
Sex,food,and money. You try to think that its anything more than that, you will give yourself a headache and make a mans' life a living hell.
a good b.j, and sandwich and a bank account full of money will make any man fat and happy. Now get in the kitchen and make me some pancakes!
just kidding...seriously. We want all three of the above but most of all we want you to SHUT UP. And stop trying to partake in 'guys night out' and do 'guy stuff'. Jeezus...first you take golf and poker away now we got ladies on the football field doing side-line comentary. Leave us the hell alone sometimes and stop trying to make us understand your ';feelings';. We dont think like that. We use reason and logic...not feelings.
Men are sometime soo difficult to understand. They say women are difficult but i think they are more!!..Sometimes giving too much is not always good. You can only give too much to a man when you are 100% that he loves you and only you but if he has someone else in mind or his is not over his ex yet, then you shouldn't give him all the attention. Show him love but not alot of attention.
To me, what i think which this might sound painful, he is still not over his ex!!... saying that he only wants to sleep with her is not a good excuse!!..he is still not over her.. There are many men out there, why stick to someone who still thinks of his ex!!....Oh well, if you really love him that much and still want to work out, then keep trying to change him but that will take alot of time and alot of humilitation and at the end might not work out. My advice, just let him go. If he comes back, make it clear to him, its either you and only you or no use of going back. Good luck.
arg! after reading this i thought it was from a 15 year old.
i think you need to take some serious solo time, like a year or more, to work on your self. really think hard on it then decide what you want in a man and how to find those qualities in someone, also what type of person you need to be to get that kind of man. be HONEST with your self its not easy but do it!!sheer makeup
Be a little hard to get...men like the chase and will treat you better if you are not at their beck and call. Focus on making yourself happy first. A fun read is ';He's Just Not That Into You.';What do guys really want in a relationship i need advice...Guys please help me out...?
You are the problem quit going with these types.Respect your self stay kind then You will get the right one.Life is short don't waste it on broken men that will not change. Change yourself Good luck choose to be happy.
Guys want sex; if you don't give it away so easily, they'll treat you with more respect and be much kinder.
Hope this helps!!
A Man wants the world and everything in it.
What do men want? SEX, someone who will do the cleaning, cooking, and laundry so they don't have to.
What kind of women do they use and treat like crap? Women who put them first and try hard to be everything they want.
What kind of women do they respect and want to be with? Women who are strong, know what they want, don't play games, don't take crap off them and demand to be treated with respect.
If you don't respect yourself, they won't respect you either. Know what you want, don't settle for less, and don't allow a man to use you or treat you in a way that makes you feel abused. Don't be so easy to get in bed with them. Get to know the guy, become friends first and when you are sure this guy is what you are looking for, then you can consider having a romantic relationship with. Slow down and take your time.
If you are easy for them to get, they will use you, treat you like crap, then throw you away for the next girl on their list.
look,its very simple.
Sex,food,and money. You try to think that its anything more than that, you will give yourself a headache and make a mans' life a living hell.
a good b.j, and sandwich and a bank account full of money will make any man fat and happy. Now get in the kitchen and make me some pancakes!
just kidding...seriously. We want all three of the above but most of all we want you to SHUT UP. And stop trying to partake in 'guys night out' and do 'guy stuff'. Jeezus...first you take golf and poker away now we got ladies on the football field doing side-line comentary. Leave us the hell alone sometimes and stop trying to make us understand your ';feelings';. We dont think like that. We use reason and logic...not feelings.
Men are sometime soo difficult to understand. They say women are difficult but i think they are more!!..Sometimes giving too much is not always good. You can only give too much to a man when you are 100% that he loves you and only you but if he has someone else in mind or his is not over his ex yet, then you shouldn't give him all the attention. Show him love but not alot of attention.
To me, what i think which this might sound painful, he is still not over his ex!!... saying that he only wants to sleep with her is not a good excuse!!..he is still not over her.. There are many men out there, why stick to someone who still thinks of his ex!!....Oh well, if you really love him that much and still want to work out, then keep trying to change him but that will take alot of time and alot of humilitation and at the end might not work out. My advice, just let him go. If he comes back, make it clear to him, its either you and only you or no use of going back. Good luck.
arg! after reading this i thought it was from a 15 year old.
i think you need to take some serious solo time, like a year or more, to work on your self. really think hard on it then decide what you want in a man and how to find those qualities in someone, also what type of person you need to be to get that kind of man. be HONEST with your self its not easy but do it!!
I need advice on guys help us out?
i really like this guy at school and we get on really well. he is a bit of an asshole, but he I still think he is amazing i love him to bits but i really havent got the balls to ask him to prom. im too scared to coz i am completely unnattractive and totaly in love with this guy - and from what i have gathered, he likes me to. i am too scared to do anything though :S help?I need advice on guys help us out?
ask him and win, or dont ask him and lose!I need advice on guys help us out?
remember if u r not asking him then u r not going to get him that means u have lost everything without trying.then why don't have a try?because u have nothing to lose anymore then that.
ask him and win, or dont ask him and lose!I need advice on guys help us out?
remember if u r not asking him then u r not going to get him that means u have lost everything without trying.then why don't have a try?because u have nothing to lose anymore then that.
Teen GUYS! some advice for me please.?
so i read in a magazine that vanilla and laveneder are the two scents that guys love most. Ive been wearing vanilla perfume around school and the guys loveee it. What scent do you like? opinions pleaseTeen GUYS! some advice for me please.?
i will have sex with vanilla if vanilla was a human. that didnt make much sense but i love vanilla. i used to spray it on myself lol but im allergic to the body spay. im 100% strate but i go nutso over vanillaTeen GUYS! some advice for me please.?
My gf and I broke up recently. But i always told her, hey dont worry about perfume or makeup. I told her I wanted the real her and not something covering her like perfume or the makeup. If you want to look for a guy, remember a smell should not matter to the guy at all.
i have a boyfriend,and he likes it when i wear straybeery,watermelon
I know im not a guy, bit mu ex loved the lavender smell, and so did alot of his mates
i will have sex with vanilla if vanilla was a human. that didnt make much sense but i love vanilla. i used to spray it on myself lol but im allergic to the body spay. im 100% strate but i go nutso over vanillaTeen GUYS! some advice for me please.?
My gf and I broke up recently. But i always told her, hey dont worry about perfume or makeup. I told her I wanted the real her and not something covering her like perfume or the makeup. If you want to look for a guy, remember a smell should not matter to the guy at all.
i have a boyfriend,and he likes it when i wear straybeery,watermelon
I know im not a guy, bit mu ex loved the lavender smell, and so did alot of his mates
Plzzz i relly need help && advice [guys & girls]?
kayy. [im only 15 %26amp; i know ppl say kids don't know nuthn bout love but i really cared about him ALOT.] well me %26amp; my ex have been broken up since the end of march, but i still miss him alott, he broke up with me because i wasn't allowed to see him outside of school because of my mom. he broke up with me in a text which made it hurt a whole lot more, he told me that we should still be friends, which i ruined because i always told him i still cared him %26amp; missed him but i never begged him too come back to me.
anyways, after all that i started finding out alott of stuff %26amp; it was really hurtful. %26amp; then the next thing i know he is chasing my best friend!! i couldn't believe it and it was just a month later after the break up!! =( whats wrong with me y do i care for him so much? our relationship was bout 4 1/2 months almost 5.Plzzz i relly need help %26amp;%26amp; advice [guys %26amp; girls]?
Ha. sounds like my ex, why are they both so immauture? it took a long time 2 get over him. he broke up with me on april 1st, aprils fools day in a text, and i asked him if he was joking and he didnt reply back. what a loser, anywho why would you love him? think of him and say no im not in love with him. i know it hurts but you are even saying for yourself why do i care? you dont! you just think that your in love and its good, well at least thats what i thought. but YOU CAN MAKE YOURSELF HAPPIER, do you really want him back? NO, then u have to wait for him 2 call, wait for him 2 text. blah, no thank ur mom for getting u away from him. its going 2 be alright, there are better guys that will treat you better, buy you flowers and wont run atfer your best friend. its going 2 be alright really ! cry, eat ice cream, talk to you other friends and tell them 2 go out with u 2 the movies, then you can see other hot guys there.
remeber you are pretty, you can make yourself happy, love will find you soon. its going 2 be alright hunny, keep ur head up ! :D %26lt;333333333333333http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>Plzzz i relly need help %26amp;%26amp; advice [guys %26amp; girls]?
look i went through the same thing.
HES NOT WORTH IT.
first off he broke up with you thats gay AND MESSED UP!
andd likeing yer friend? wth is that, MOVE ON trust me. your better with out him.
hope that helped you can email me if ANYTHING.
Hey girl. You have to learn to let it go.
From what u have said, I can say that your ex is a player. He plays with a girl, gets bored and goes onto the other. Just dont give a damn abt him! Let him leave his own misery. He will regret what he has done one day when his older.
Moving on. Him breaking up with you using a text message can only mean 2 things. He is a cowardice and it also reinstates the point that he is a player.
But, thats from an outsiders point of view ( which sometimes might be more accurate). From what you have said too, you love this guy a hell lot eh.
My girlfriend once played mind games with me, and conjured up an imaginary guy whom she acts as if she likes alot to draw my attention. I noe this might be far-fetched from ur situation but, guyz have a weakness, they are emotionally weaker than girls. I wont encourage you to go on with this guy but, if you do, play mind games with him.
Act as if you dont care abt him, ignore him except for an occasional hello when u meet him on the road. Pretend you are engrossed in other stuff and you are going on real well. Conjure up a boyfriend, or even better, plot a plan with another guy to make your ex jealous. If he still loves you, he will start cracking down. It would be real obvious.
Whateva u do girl, Ill always be supporting you. Ive went through the same stage as you once, and Ive pulled through. If I can, why cant you?
Good Luck
you have to realize he didnt feel the same way about you or as much as you did and he just look for a lame excuse to break up with you and be with your best friend
if he broke up with you with a text message he is NOT WORTH IT . start looking for other guys, he doesn't seem like a guy who's worth your time.
anyways, after all that i started finding out alott of stuff %26amp; it was really hurtful. %26amp; then the next thing i know he is chasing my best friend!! i couldn't believe it and it was just a month later after the break up!! =( whats wrong with me y do i care for him so much? our relationship was bout 4 1/2 months almost 5.Plzzz i relly need help %26amp;%26amp; advice [guys %26amp; girls]?
Ha. sounds like my ex, why are they both so immauture? it took a long time 2 get over him. he broke up with me on april 1st, aprils fools day in a text, and i asked him if he was joking and he didnt reply back. what a loser, anywho why would you love him? think of him and say no im not in love with him. i know it hurts but you are even saying for yourself why do i care? you dont! you just think that your in love and its good, well at least thats what i thought. but YOU CAN MAKE YOURSELF HAPPIER, do you really want him back? NO, then u have to wait for him 2 call, wait for him 2 text. blah, no thank ur mom for getting u away from him. its going 2 be alright, there are better guys that will treat you better, buy you flowers and wont run atfer your best friend. its going 2 be alright really ! cry, eat ice cream, talk to you other friends and tell them 2 go out with u 2 the movies, then you can see other hot guys there.
remeber you are pretty, you can make yourself happy, love will find you soon. its going 2 be alright hunny, keep ur head up ! :D %26lt;333333333333333http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>Plzzz i relly need help %26amp;%26amp; advice [guys %26amp; girls]?
look i went through the same thing.
HES NOT WORTH IT.
first off he broke up with you thats gay AND MESSED UP!
andd likeing yer friend? wth is that, MOVE ON trust me. your better with out him.
hope that helped you can email me if ANYTHING.
Hey girl. You have to learn to let it go.
From what u have said, I can say that your ex is a player. He plays with a girl, gets bored and goes onto the other. Just dont give a damn abt him! Let him leave his own misery. He will regret what he has done one day when his older.
Moving on. Him breaking up with you using a text message can only mean 2 things. He is a cowardice and it also reinstates the point that he is a player.
But, thats from an outsiders point of view ( which sometimes might be more accurate). From what you have said too, you love this guy a hell lot eh.
My girlfriend once played mind games with me, and conjured up an imaginary guy whom she acts as if she likes alot to draw my attention. I noe this might be far-fetched from ur situation but, guyz have a weakness, they are emotionally weaker than girls. I wont encourage you to go on with this guy but, if you do, play mind games with him.
Act as if you dont care abt him, ignore him except for an occasional hello when u meet him on the road. Pretend you are engrossed in other stuff and you are going on real well. Conjure up a boyfriend, or even better, plot a plan with another guy to make your ex jealous. If he still loves you, he will start cracking down. It would be real obvious.
Whateva u do girl, Ill always be supporting you. Ive went through the same stage as you once, and Ive pulled through. If I can, why cant you?
Good Luck
you have to realize he didnt feel the same way about you or as much as you did and he just look for a lame excuse to break up with you and be with your best friend
if he broke up with you with a text message he is NOT WORTH IT . start looking for other guys, he doesn't seem like a guy who's worth your time.
Advice please guys..!?
im thirteen years old. nearly. :P and, all i want to do is perform. i'm so passionare and determined about making something of myself. i've done a few auditions. modelling. acting. and singing. my family don't exactly have alot of money and all they can afford for me right now is singing lessons. i was wondering if you guys know of any auditions coming up? i know to get an agent would help, but i just can't afford it. :( i need help! any advice, or just anything that would help i would be so grateful!
xoxoAdvice please guys..!?
...i don't know any auditions in your country...
...but i prefer that you should just be in MODELLING...
...what would you get in singing...
...once you started in modelling then you try to be as good as you can then who knows if someone will see you and get you as actor...
hahahaAdvice please guys..!?
Continue to perform locally. Get involved in school and community productions even if it is to pass out programs. You want to be near the performance if you can't be in it. Seeing what is going on an letting the performers know your interest will do much for you.
You may not be able to find an agent right now, but read and have your parents read everything at
www.agentassociation.com
Best of Luck Keep taking those lessons.
I really don't know much about this kind of stuff but if your really passionate try searching on the internet for auditions. If your school has plays etc. join them and if they have a drama teacher or music teacher talk to them because they're bound to know of auditions or may have contacts that are experts in this area.
Hope I helped and Good Luck
You Will be Someone Great when You Grow Up if you are Passionate and Determined enough!!
This is important. NO DECENT AGENT WOULD CHARGE YOU ANYTHING OTHER THAN A PERCENTAGE OF THE FEE FOR THE JOBS THEY GET YOU.
I don't know where you are - if you were in the UK I could give specific advice, but as far as US teen drama classes go you'd be better off watching ';Fame'; than listening to me.
Sorry I can't be of more help,
Added: For the second time in less than 24 hours I agree completely with Kab. That message wasn't posted when I started writing mine.
Truly wishing you all the best luck in the world.
You could become a member of your local amateur dramatics society.Every area has one and they do lots of singing and dancing and acting.For address go to library,or council services or search internet with your area and then ADS something should come up.Or try the local theatre for address.You'll meet lots of others with the same dream
Why dont you stick in at your studies and then enrol for drama / acting college or school. Thats the best advice I can give you. Also check and see if there are any local drama groups which are run in your area in the evenings.
Also if you say where you are from then that would help people give you more informative answers....
Good luck x
You are awfully young and school is pretty important, even though it may not seem like it now. Maybe you should start off by joining the Drama class/club. I'm sure if your teacher sees potential in you, he or she can help you find something suitable for you. Beware of scams on tv and online!!
Heyy I Think Yuu Should Wait Til Yur At Colleg. I'm Doin Performin Arts In Colleg Startin In September. Altho I Never Realised I Wanted To Do It Til About Last Year. Dnt Giv Up On Yur Dreams. Follo Them. I'm Sure Yuu'll Do Wel. Jus Carry On With What Yur Doin. And If Yuu Still Wna Do It By The Time Yu Leav School Do It At Colleg :D
Good Luck :D x x x
Knowing connections - getting to know a few people in the industry - looking on the internet etc, get sponsered?
Maybe try watching some films tht are similar to your situation to get a few answers??
lol
!
Your just like me i have the same problem.We should talk sometimes:]
i don't know any auditon but never give up on your dream no mater what
Hi, I think you should stay in school and join a drama group or something, and they will pick you out if they think your really talented.
I know a girl who wanted to preform, she left school and tried at preforming, but she hasn'tt doneanythinggspectacularr yet, and has has ruined her education, so unless she does get on well she kinda messed up.
Also, and I'm trying to say this astactfull as possible, but yet bluntly, whileI'mm sure you are very talented you have to find out how good you are (which is why joining a drama group might be helpful) , you might not be as good as you think, I have another friend story, well more of aacquaintancece, She thinks she is very talented at singing, shisn'tnt, she is the kind of person that their parents or someone tells thethey rere great but tharen'tnt.
So in short don't give up on your dream but dont give up on school either. Join a drama club are something, (there are prob clubs out there that you don't have to pay for.) to learn and get an honest opinion of your talent and potientional, and of course have fun. Hope this wont upset you though
xoxoAdvice please guys..!?
...i don't know any auditions in your country...
...but i prefer that you should just be in MODELLING...
...what would you get in singing...
...once you started in modelling then you try to be as good as you can then who knows if someone will see you and get you as actor...
hahahaAdvice please guys..!?
Continue to perform locally. Get involved in school and community productions even if it is to pass out programs. You want to be near the performance if you can't be in it. Seeing what is going on an letting the performers know your interest will do much for you.
You may not be able to find an agent right now, but read and have your parents read everything at
www.agentassociation.com
Best of Luck Keep taking those lessons.
I really don't know much about this kind of stuff but if your really passionate try searching on the internet for auditions. If your school has plays etc. join them and if they have a drama teacher or music teacher talk to them because they're bound to know of auditions or may have contacts that are experts in this area.
Hope I helped and Good Luck
You Will be Someone Great when You Grow Up if you are Passionate and Determined enough!!
This is important. NO DECENT AGENT WOULD CHARGE YOU ANYTHING OTHER THAN A PERCENTAGE OF THE FEE FOR THE JOBS THEY GET YOU.
I don't know where you are - if you were in the UK I could give specific advice, but as far as US teen drama classes go you'd be better off watching ';Fame'; than listening to me.
Sorry I can't be of more help,
Added: For the second time in less than 24 hours I agree completely with Kab. That message wasn't posted when I started writing mine.
Truly wishing you all the best luck in the world.
You could become a member of your local amateur dramatics society.Every area has one and they do lots of singing and dancing and acting.For address go to library,or council services or search internet with your area and then ADS something should come up.Or try the local theatre for address.You'll meet lots of others with the same dream
Why dont you stick in at your studies and then enrol for drama / acting college or school. Thats the best advice I can give you. Also check and see if there are any local drama groups which are run in your area in the evenings.
Also if you say where you are from then that would help people give you more informative answers....
Good luck x
You are awfully young and school is pretty important, even though it may not seem like it now. Maybe you should start off by joining the Drama class/club. I'm sure if your teacher sees potential in you, he or she can help you find something suitable for you. Beware of scams on tv and online!!
Heyy I Think Yuu Should Wait Til Yur At Colleg. I'm Doin Performin Arts In Colleg Startin In September. Altho I Never Realised I Wanted To Do It Til About Last Year. Dnt Giv Up On Yur Dreams. Follo Them. I'm Sure Yuu'll Do Wel. Jus Carry On With What Yur Doin. And If Yuu Still Wna Do It By The Time Yu Leav School Do It At Colleg :D
Good Luck :D x x x
Knowing connections - getting to know a few people in the industry - looking on the internet etc, get sponsered?
Maybe try watching some films tht are similar to your situation to get a few answers??
lol
!
Your just like me i have the same problem.We should talk sometimes:]
i don't know any auditon but never give up on your dream no mater what
Hi, I think you should stay in school and join a drama group or something, and they will pick you out if they think your really talented.
I know a girl who wanted to preform, she left school and tried at preforming, but she hasn'tt doneanythinggspectacularr yet, and has has ruined her education, so unless she does get on well she kinda messed up.
Also, and I'm trying to say this astactfull as possible, but yet bluntly, whileI'mm sure you are very talented you have to find out how good you are (which is why joining a drama group might be helpful) , you might not be as good as you think, I have another friend story, well more of aacquaintancece, She thinks she is very talented at singing, shisn'tnt, she is the kind of person that their parents or someone tells thethey rere great but tharen'tnt.
So in short don't give up on your dream but dont give up on school either. Join a drama club are something, (there are prob clubs out there that you don't have to pay for.) to learn and get an honest opinion of your talent and potientional, and of course have fun. Hope this wont upset you though
Help please i need your advice(guys)?
i noticed this kid has been staring at me for like the past 4 days, and i kind of like him, and like out of no where when he was staring at me hard core, he goes ';do you know ~some ones name'; and im like ya ive talked to him on myspace a couple of times, and he goes ';he thinks your cute'; and i was just like oh thats cool, because i kind of like the did telling me this. but my mom thinks that he said that b/c he was trying to see if i had a bf. do you think that too?
ok so my bestie was talking to this kid i kinda like and they were talking about how he had a class with me, and she was explaining what i look like and he goes ';oh ya,the cute little one, yeah ~someones name likes her~ but she said when he said cute little one he said it like a ';baby cute';. what does this mean? like do you think that b/c his friend likes me he just said it like that to hide he likes me?
and today i seen him and his friend walking and his friend goes ~someones name~ says hi. and i didnt know what he said at first so i just looked at him. and when they walked past his friend was laughing, not like hard core, just like a tehe. what does that mean too?
and do you think that the kid i kinda like might like me back?
and the kid that suposedly likes me actually does?
btw. ive only talked to the kid i kinda like, like 2 ~3 times. and sorry i have so many questions, im just really confused.
thanx%26lt;3Help please i need your advice(guys)?
ok ok calm down lol yes he does like you know drought and the Friend was prob laughing because he thought you where hot trust me i know my buds and me do that and when he said cute Little one or what ever it was sorry lol it ment he has a baby crush on you and he thinks your sweet trust me he likes you and you should just wait till he makes a move :)Help please i need your advice(guys)?
He likes you, you should ask him out and when the one you like was talking to your friend he was probably saying cute like a baby to make your friend think he doesn't like you but he does, you should definitely ask him out.
i hate gay people
OK wow that was really confusing, bad grammar, too many ';likes'; and ';hard cores'; and ';~someone's names~'; in there.
Mostly, guys are just flirting. Someone can say hi to you without being head over heels for you.
ok so my bestie was talking to this kid i kinda like and they were talking about how he had a class with me, and she was explaining what i look like and he goes ';oh ya,the cute little one, yeah ~someones name likes her~ but she said when he said cute little one he said it like a ';baby cute';. what does this mean? like do you think that b/c his friend likes me he just said it like that to hide he likes me?
and today i seen him and his friend walking and his friend goes ~someones name~ says hi. and i didnt know what he said at first so i just looked at him. and when they walked past his friend was laughing, not like hard core, just like a tehe. what does that mean too?
and do you think that the kid i kinda like might like me back?
and the kid that suposedly likes me actually does?
btw. ive only talked to the kid i kinda like, like 2 ~3 times. and sorry i have so many questions, im just really confused.
thanx%26lt;3Help please i need your advice(guys)?
ok ok calm down lol yes he does like you know drought and the Friend was prob laughing because he thought you where hot trust me i know my buds and me do that and when he said cute Little one or what ever it was sorry lol it ment he has a baby crush on you and he thinks your sweet trust me he likes you and you should just wait till he makes a move :)Help please i need your advice(guys)?
He likes you, you should ask him out and when the one you like was talking to your friend he was probably saying cute like a baby to make your friend think he doesn't like you but he does, you should definitely ask him out.
i hate gay people
OK wow that was really confusing, bad grammar, too many ';likes'; and ';hard cores'; and ';~someone's names~'; in there.
Mostly, guys are just flirting. Someone can say hi to you without being head over heels for you.
PLEASE HELP!! I NEED SERIOUS ADVICE!! Guys please answer?
so i like the guy at my school a lot...we used to talk on msn freqantly but now hes still always on but when i say hey he ususally doesn't answer
also when i suggusted we should hang out he said call his cell and when i called he didn't answer and after i asked him why and he said he had to go out...that happened like 3 times
is he just not interested in me or what?PLEASE HELP!! I NEED SERIOUS ADVICE!! Guys please answer?
I don't think he's interested. sorry. but maybe if you would ask things might change!
I'm have like the same problem in girl form. I like this girl and all but everytime i wanna talk nothing comes out right and i never want to sit next to her or call her cause i'm afraid i'll say something stupid!PLEASE HELP!! I NEED SERIOUS ADVICE!! Guys please answer?
He is avoiding you. If you really want to be sure, ask him face-to-face! Communicating via instant messenger or e-mail is never a good way to start any kind of real relationship.
i nwould say so sorry ..blush makeup
also when i suggusted we should hang out he said call his cell and when i called he didn't answer and after i asked him why and he said he had to go out...that happened like 3 times
is he just not interested in me or what?PLEASE HELP!! I NEED SERIOUS ADVICE!! Guys please answer?
I don't think he's interested. sorry. but maybe if you would ask things might change!
I'm have like the same problem in girl form. I like this girl and all but everytime i wanna talk nothing comes out right and i never want to sit next to her or call her cause i'm afraid i'll say something stupid!PLEASE HELP!! I NEED SERIOUS ADVICE!! Guys please answer?
He is avoiding you. If you really want to be sure, ask him face-to-face! Communicating via instant messenger or e-mail is never a good way to start any kind of real relationship.
i nwould say so sorry ..
Girls Please I Need Your Advice...(Guys Answer If You Want)?
i dated this guy for about 5 1/2 months and i broke up with him, he started disrespecting me and then he cheated on me and he lied to me. i'm mad at him for the way i was treated but at the same time i still somewhat care about him. he still talks tries talking to me and he told me today that he still does love me and cares about me but how can someone love you but then hurt you like he did? he's also dating another girl and i told him good for him i want whats best for him and if that means him being with another girl then fine as long as he's happy. is that wrong of me to be mad at him yet still care and be ok with him being with another girl because i want whats best for him?
i feel like i'm messed up or something for still caring for him even tho he did this to meGirls Please I Need Your Advice...(Guys Answer If You Want)?
Congrats on standing up for your- self, and having self respect. The biggest mistake in a relationship is to accept bad behaviour like that and have no respect for your-self. So its ok to still care about him even though you ended the relationship, and to wish him well. I think this shows great maturity. you need to make sure you continue to stand up for your self with all relationships in the future. The best advice I can give you is to treat your self to something nice and remember you made the Best choice in ending the relationship. Wish you the best of luck and am sure that the right guy is just around the corner.Girls Please I Need Your Advice...(Guys Answer If You Want)?
No you should be after all he did cheat on you. It is normal to still have feelings for a guy even if he broke your heart. You should be happy that he is moving on %26amp; you should to. you two can still be friends. But you need to move on and be happy too. I would say you need to have a girls night with just your girl friend and no guys. That's my advice. Will you tell me if it works? Hope it does, it really sounds like you need one really soon.
You're not the messed up one, honey, HE is. I know it's hard, I get it, but it's for the best that you forget about him and try to move on. It's perfectly okay that you have all these mixed emotions, that's very normal, just as long as you understand that it wasn't right for him to be a cheating dick.
Wishing the best to you!
Personally..i probably wouldn't feel that way...and some girls would find it really hard to care about a guy who cheats on them....but u must be a really nice girl to feel that way about him...U have mixed emotions in you but don't worry your not messed up you just have a great way of handling a situation....
buy a gun with a silencer and shoot him in the genitals and see what he thinks of you after that. sounds like he deserves it.
when your in a relationship, a serious relationship..your always gona have an attachement to that person no matter what..ask your parents about their first girl or boy friend and im sure they will remember..
you can get any guy you want, if you ask. forget about him.
Dump him, once a cheater always a cheater
Its called feelings we have for the darn-dis things but we got coup with it your a human
iF ANY MAN CHEATS ON YOU DONT GO BACK ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER AND IF YOU JUST BROKE UP AND HE GOT ANOTHER ***** ON HIS ARM THAN YEA I WOULD KEEP IT MOVIN AND DONT LOOK BACK
for get about him theres more
((hawter,decent ,hawter guys out there for you
i went through the same thing. you are feeling normal emotions. it takes time to get those love feelings out of your system
he is trying to hurt you so dont let him, move on you dont need a pig like him
F|_|ck em
move on, he is trash
would you like to be the other girl cold heart
Yes we girls have this maternal feeling about the people we love cause we born to be mothers and care for love one even how rotten they can be. But its good u can see his flaws and you are not blind to see he is dating someone else. Dearest gal start getting away from him it seem u feel so much for him but please slowly and surely get away and soon stop thinking of wanting him cause it sound like he dont deserve you he is not give the love u are giving him u deserve more gal. take care.
First off, of he really did love you, he would love ONLY you. Not the girl next door or whoever he cheated on you with.
What you need to do, is get dressed up nice, and go to a social place like a bar or something. Get to know someone, BUT NOT if they plan on having the ol' 1 night stand.
Now unless of course if you are under the age of 21 then you shouldnt have sex, and the word 'love' is meaningless coming through the mouths of minors unless it is to a parent.
Sorry, thats just the way it is. =/
i feel like i'm messed up or something for still caring for him even tho he did this to meGirls Please I Need Your Advice...(Guys Answer If You Want)?
Congrats on standing up for your- self, and having self respect. The biggest mistake in a relationship is to accept bad behaviour like that and have no respect for your-self. So its ok to still care about him even though you ended the relationship, and to wish him well. I think this shows great maturity. you need to make sure you continue to stand up for your self with all relationships in the future. The best advice I can give you is to treat your self to something nice and remember you made the Best choice in ending the relationship. Wish you the best of luck and am sure that the right guy is just around the corner.Girls Please I Need Your Advice...(Guys Answer If You Want)?
No you should be after all he did cheat on you. It is normal to still have feelings for a guy even if he broke your heart. You should be happy that he is moving on %26amp; you should to. you two can still be friends. But you need to move on and be happy too. I would say you need to have a girls night with just your girl friend and no guys. That's my advice. Will you tell me if it works? Hope it does, it really sounds like you need one really soon.
You're not the messed up one, honey, HE is. I know it's hard, I get it, but it's for the best that you forget about him and try to move on. It's perfectly okay that you have all these mixed emotions, that's very normal, just as long as you understand that it wasn't right for him to be a cheating dick.
Wishing the best to you!
Personally..i probably wouldn't feel that way...and some girls would find it really hard to care about a guy who cheats on them....but u must be a really nice girl to feel that way about him...U have mixed emotions in you but don't worry your not messed up you just have a great way of handling a situation....
buy a gun with a silencer and shoot him in the genitals and see what he thinks of you after that. sounds like he deserves it.
when your in a relationship, a serious relationship..your always gona have an attachement to that person no matter what..ask your parents about their first girl or boy friend and im sure they will remember..
you can get any guy you want, if you ask. forget about him.
Dump him, once a cheater always a cheater
Its called feelings we have for the darn-dis things but we got coup with it your a human
iF ANY MAN CHEATS ON YOU DONT GO BACK ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER AND IF YOU JUST BROKE UP AND HE GOT ANOTHER ***** ON HIS ARM THAN YEA I WOULD KEEP IT MOVIN AND DONT LOOK BACK
for get about him theres more
((hawter,decent ,hawter guys out there for you
i went through the same thing. you are feeling normal emotions. it takes time to get those love feelings out of your system
he is trying to hurt you so dont let him, move on you dont need a pig like him
F|_|ck em
move on, he is trash
would you like to be the other girl cold heart
Yes we girls have this maternal feeling about the people we love cause we born to be mothers and care for love one even how rotten they can be. But its good u can see his flaws and you are not blind to see he is dating someone else. Dearest gal start getting away from him it seem u feel so much for him but please slowly and surely get away and soon stop thinking of wanting him cause it sound like he dont deserve you he is not give the love u are giving him u deserve more gal. take care.
First off, of he really did love you, he would love ONLY you. Not the girl next door or whoever he cheated on you with.
What you need to do, is get dressed up nice, and go to a social place like a bar or something. Get to know someone, BUT NOT if they plan on having the ol' 1 night stand.
Now unless of course if you are under the age of 21 then you shouldnt have sex, and the word 'love' is meaningless coming through the mouths of minors unless it is to a parent.
Sorry, thats just the way it is. =/
Okay please read i need advice guys or girls please?
okay so i recentley broke up with my boyfriend because he ws starting to avoid me and lie to me and do all that he even switched bank accounts because he thought i was going to steal his money now hes telling all of our friends because we hang out with the same people that he broke up with me becuae i stole his money we dated for a year and a half and i cant stop having dreams about him ive gotten everything out of my room that reminds me of him or anything that belongs to him but what i dont get is why im having these dreams there like dreams to where i have no idea we broke up and that were still in love how do i get over him internally i mean ive gotten over him i dont even miss him becuase i just got tired of his bull **** but whats with the dreams ?Okay please read i need advice guys or girls please?
I know exactly how u feel my boyfriend does the same things. But i admire u because you got out of the relationship.....Im still in it.. Dreams are just dreams You cant control them.....Just keep your head up and never look back...
Good Luck!!Okay please read i need advice guys or girls please?
Okay so i had kind fo the same thing happen to me not long ago. I understand what you mean about the dreams i had them for a while to. I had someone tell me that i wasn't over him because the things you dream are things that you really want or that terrify you. I told myself there is no way i would ever like him and that we were done, but the thing is when you share a love between another person you can't just drop it like that. it takes time and had work to get over them. my suggestion for you is to go out and grab a few girl friends go hit some bars and make a night of it. Start dating other people. Have you talked to your Ex about what he did? If not thats the first thing you need to do. Sometimes guys get scared and they start to do stupid things that they don't mean. im not saying what he did was right but i think it needs to be talked about. If you already have and nothing happend move on. once you start doing fun things and dating again the dreams will stop. I know its going to be hard for the first few weeks while they are happening but let them go.
Dancer
I know exactly how u feel my boyfriend does the same things. But i admire u because you got out of the relationship.....Im still in it.. Dreams are just dreams You cant control them.....Just keep your head up and never look back...
Good Luck!!Okay please read i need advice guys or girls please?
Okay so i had kind fo the same thing happen to me not long ago. I understand what you mean about the dreams i had them for a while to. I had someone tell me that i wasn't over him because the things you dream are things that you really want or that terrify you. I told myself there is no way i would ever like him and that we were done, but the thing is when you share a love between another person you can't just drop it like that. it takes time and had work to get over them. my suggestion for you is to go out and grab a few girl friends go hit some bars and make a night of it. Start dating other people. Have you talked to your Ex about what he did? If not thats the first thing you need to do. Sometimes guys get scared and they start to do stupid things that they don't mean. im not saying what he did was right but i think it needs to be talked about. If you already have and nothing happend move on. once you start doing fun things and dating again the dreams will stop. I know its going to be hard for the first few weeks while they are happening but let them go.
Dancer
Could someone give me some advice? Guys and girls answer?
Just wondering if anyone could help me out on this, it's really annoying me. I met this guy on myspace. We've spoken on msn a couple of times and i thought everything was going well, we had good chemistry and spoke for ages. But now, for some reason he hasn't been on msn for a while. I think he kinda made an effort to be on before so we could talk. And something else, just today i realized for some reason he's not on my friends list (myspace) anymore. I'm really confused, we had some great conversations and now its like nothing. Anyone with ideas on what might be going through his head? Oh and he approached me first.
Thanks so much!Could someone give me some advice? Guys and girls answer?
sadly mate i think his led you on a bit
it sounded like he kinda bailed on you and if your not talking as much and his most likely deleted you off his myspace means his mots likely no longer interested
move on, theres plenty more fish in the seaCould someone give me some advice? Guys and girls answer?
Honestly? I think he was taken, and maybe he got caught. Maybe he's covering his tracks by removing certain evidence from view. If it's not there, it does not exist.
Many possibilities, but I feel that is a potential one.
Good luck to you nevertheless. ^^
He's not feelin' it.
Thanks so much!Could someone give me some advice? Guys and girls answer?
sadly mate i think his led you on a bit
it sounded like he kinda bailed on you and if your not talking as much and his most likely deleted you off his myspace means his mots likely no longer interested
move on, theres plenty more fish in the seaCould someone give me some advice? Guys and girls answer?
Honestly? I think he was taken, and maybe he got caught. Maybe he's covering his tracks by removing certain evidence from view. If it's not there, it does not exist.
Many possibilities, but I feel that is a potential one.
Good luck to you nevertheless. ^^
He's not feelin' it.
Im worried bout my friend. advice guys?!?
so my friend is a sophomore. and she's cool and relaxed n shizz. she started dating this freshmen. i dont really like him, i have a very bad vibe around him. well anyways he's kinda like a pimp whore or man whore watevs. and always talks to freshmen girls [which btw are sl*ts] and so my friend heard from her bf's friend that he's been playin u w/ other girls and she told me like he has a gf from this school, that school so around like 4 dif schools. i told her to break up with the mofo. but i guess she doesnt want to..and later that day she confronted him and he said in these exact words ';believe wat u want to believe'; and so she's like watever and then the mofo said sumthing dat i kinda like bitched at him about ';ur one less girl to take care of'; haha fu**ed up no?.. and she's stupid not to leave him. what do i do as a friend?Im worried bout my friend. advice guys?!?
As a friend it is a tough situation. Her boyfriend does sound like a complete asshole, but you really do not want to push her away. I would continue to listen and be there for her making sure she always knows that she deserves better.Im worried bout my friend. advice guys?!?
in these types of situations there is noting much u can do except be a friend. Something similar happend to my best friend who is more like a brother to me because i've been friends with him ever since kindergarten. he was going through this long distance relationship with this younger girl who lied about her age and what she looked like. she told him that she was being abused and all this other stuff and he would always call me. all i could do is be a friend to him and eventually he found out that she was lying about pretty much everything he stopped talking to her and he was better off after that. so all u can do is be her friend and be there for her when ever she needs to talk and everything should work itself out in time
As a friend it is a tough situation. Her boyfriend does sound like a complete asshole, but you really do not want to push her away. I would continue to listen and be there for her making sure she always knows that she deserves better.Im worried bout my friend. advice guys?!?
in these types of situations there is noting much u can do except be a friend. Something similar happend to my best friend who is more like a brother to me because i've been friends with him ever since kindergarten. he was going through this long distance relationship with this younger girl who lied about her age and what she looked like. she told him that she was being abused and all this other stuff and he would always call me. all i could do is be a friend to him and eventually he found out that she was lying about pretty much everything he stopped talking to her and he was better off after that. so all u can do is be her friend and be there for her when ever she needs to talk and everything should work itself out in time
Need A Little Bit Of Advice Guys :)?
My Dog Died Of Parvovirus Last Night
Iv Disinfected My House With Bleach
Need Some Ideas Of How 2 Disenfect The Garden
I Have Concrete Which Im Guessin I Could Just Bleach Aswell
But I Have ALittle Grass
Any Suggestions?
Thanks :) Need A Little Bit Of Advice Guys :)?
Lyme is suppose to kill it
I am so sorry you loss your dogNeed A Little Bit Of Advice Guys :)?
I am very sorry this has happened, it is very hard to loose a dog to Parvo.
My suggestion would be to thoroughly disenfect as you are and then wait awhile before adding a pup to you home again. When you do, make sure it has had 2 Parvo boosters before you bring it home.
I'm so sorry Dani.
Bleach kills parvo on concrete. I worked in a shelter for years, and that's what we used on the concrete. You can even bleach the grass area, but it will probably kill the grass, too.
Iv Disinfected My House With Bleach
Need Some Ideas Of How 2 Disenfect The Garden
I Have Concrete Which Im Guessin I Could Just Bleach Aswell
But I Have ALittle Grass
Any Suggestions?
Thanks :) Need A Little Bit Of Advice Guys :)?
Lyme is suppose to kill it
I am so sorry you loss your dogNeed A Little Bit Of Advice Guys :)?
I am very sorry this has happened, it is very hard to loose a dog to Parvo.
My suggestion would be to thoroughly disenfect as you are and then wait awhile before adding a pup to you home again. When you do, make sure it has had 2 Parvo boosters before you bring it home.
I'm so sorry Dani.
Bleach kills parvo on concrete. I worked in a shelter for years, and that's what we used on the concrete. You can even bleach the grass area, but it will probably kill the grass, too.
Relationship advice. (Guys mostly, please)?
I like this boy a lot, and he says he likes me back, and keeps asking me to be with him,
I don't know what to do, because hes made out quite a bit, with his girlfriend (ex now) and I have never in my LIFE.
I refuse to date him because of this, and telling him in NOT an option..
and I don't really fall for the ';if he truely likes you he wont care';
because face it, all guys care.
What would you do in my position?
and for the guys, have you ever dated a bad kisser?Relationship advice. (Guys mostly, please)?
I have dated a bad kisser and it sucks. You can always teach them. dude he kissed her or madeout with her get over it . when you get older you'll relize it doesn't matter what he did before as long as he liks you :)Relationship advice. (Guys mostly, please)?
I have not ever kissed a girl that is not on my priority list
( i have dated 3 different girls so it's not like I have never dated)
If you don't practice with someone, you'll always be in the same position. If you like him and he likes you, go for it. The kissing will come later, and you can get in some good practice.
i've dated bad kissers before, but they learned. and if you are still a bad kisser after a couple weeks then its because your boyfriend is a bad kisser too. just go out with him. seriously he doesn't care if you know how to kiss. he just wants to kiss you. the funnest part about kissing is just doing it, not being good at it. especially when you are young, i remember in junior high, i just kissed girls cause it was cool. back then making out with someone was called ';macking'; (idk if i spelled that right) btw i'm 23
kissing will come natural. he probably is just as nervous as you!! dont worry :)
If you don't ask for respect you won't get it.
Sorry I'm not a guy but i do have some advice. K first of all I know exactly how u feel. I have been in that same position and i was scared i was gonna be a bad kisser and he was gonna go talk about me with all his friends. And honestly i think everyone is a bad kisser when they first start. I told my guy that i never had before and he was way cool about it. like he guided me through it- part ur lips a lil blah blah blah. Haha actually he did go talk about me but it is only cuz i broke his heart. Lol and it wasn't a big deal. Anyways it is better to start practicing when u are younger (u didn't say ur age) cuz kissing is more important when u get older. Besides if he has only made out with his gf a couple times he probably isn't that good either so relax. I would be honest with him about it though but the choice really is urs. But i would go for it! Everything will be fine! I promise! I hope this helps and good luck!!!!!
well... he trys to kiss you... then just kinda act uninterested! kinda move your head back... unless you are ready!
You dont have to tell him!
A bad kisser?
Every kiss is good! just move your tounge and dont be a dead fish! ya know? A kiss shows bondage between 2 people! Dont worry.... if he thinks your bad.... he will help ya a little bit!
Try reading this free e-book called 97 steps to a happy relationship. I've read it (a while ago) and I still think about the advice given in it.
I've dated bad kissers. Some learn, and some get the boot. At your age, most people can't kiss, so don't worry about it. He'll teach you.
So you refuse to date him because he's had sex more times than you? just grow up. Also who decides what a bad kisser is? each person has there own style so there's no such thing.
bad kisser? everyone has to start somewere
If i were you i would go out with the person. Think of it like this, he didn't start out as a good kisser, he had to work on it; it could also be that he isn't even good if you think about it. I have dated a bad kisser but i still continued the relationship because it didn't matter that much.blush makeup
I don't know what to do, because hes made out quite a bit, with his girlfriend (ex now) and I have never in my LIFE.
I refuse to date him because of this, and telling him in NOT an option..
and I don't really fall for the ';if he truely likes you he wont care';
because face it, all guys care.
What would you do in my position?
and for the guys, have you ever dated a bad kisser?Relationship advice. (Guys mostly, please)?
I have dated a bad kisser and it sucks. You can always teach them. dude he kissed her or madeout with her get over it . when you get older you'll relize it doesn't matter what he did before as long as he liks you :)Relationship advice. (Guys mostly, please)?
I have not ever kissed a girl that is not on my priority list
( i have dated 3 different girls so it's not like I have never dated)
If you don't practice with someone, you'll always be in the same position. If you like him and he likes you, go for it. The kissing will come later, and you can get in some good practice.
i've dated bad kissers before, but they learned. and if you are still a bad kisser after a couple weeks then its because your boyfriend is a bad kisser too. just go out with him. seriously he doesn't care if you know how to kiss. he just wants to kiss you. the funnest part about kissing is just doing it, not being good at it. especially when you are young, i remember in junior high, i just kissed girls cause it was cool. back then making out with someone was called ';macking'; (idk if i spelled that right) btw i'm 23
kissing will come natural. he probably is just as nervous as you!! dont worry :)
If you don't ask for respect you won't get it.
Sorry I'm not a guy but i do have some advice. K first of all I know exactly how u feel. I have been in that same position and i was scared i was gonna be a bad kisser and he was gonna go talk about me with all his friends. And honestly i think everyone is a bad kisser when they first start. I told my guy that i never had before and he was way cool about it. like he guided me through it- part ur lips a lil blah blah blah. Haha actually he did go talk about me but it is only cuz i broke his heart. Lol and it wasn't a big deal. Anyways it is better to start practicing when u are younger (u didn't say ur age) cuz kissing is more important when u get older. Besides if he has only made out with his gf a couple times he probably isn't that good either so relax. I would be honest with him about it though but the choice really is urs. But i would go for it! Everything will be fine! I promise! I hope this helps and good luck!!!!!
well... he trys to kiss you... then just kinda act uninterested! kinda move your head back... unless you are ready!
You dont have to tell him!
A bad kisser?
Every kiss is good! just move your tounge and dont be a dead fish! ya know? A kiss shows bondage between 2 people! Dont worry.... if he thinks your bad.... he will help ya a little bit!
Try reading this free e-book called 97 steps to a happy relationship. I've read it (a while ago) and I still think about the advice given in it.
I've dated bad kissers. Some learn, and some get the boot. At your age, most people can't kiss, so don't worry about it. He'll teach you.
So you refuse to date him because he's had sex more times than you? just grow up. Also who decides what a bad kisser is? each person has there own style so there's no such thing.
bad kisser? everyone has to start somewere
If i were you i would go out with the person. Think of it like this, he didn't start out as a good kisser, he had to work on it; it could also be that he isn't even good if you think about it. I have dated a bad kisser but i still continued the relationship because it didn't matter that much.
HELP PLEASE. NEEd AdVICE. GUYS PLEASE (GiRLS tOO i GUESS)!?
one of my really good guy friends and I have been texting a lot lately, ever since a few weeks ago I got kind of drunk and just happened to text him. I have liked him for a few months but before he had a girlfriend, whom he broke up with a month ago.
We talk about a lot of things when we text such as...
1. He told me that we should get drunk together and who knows what would happen..
2. Sometimes he only thinks of me, and he occasionally before falling asleep
3. Late one night when we were talking, he said he wanted to come over and sit with me on my bed
4. He's asked me if I think he is hot and stuff too and if I would ever hook up with him and was like darn when he thought I would never be FWB
We also have normal conversations too about each other and life and stuff too.
And we talk for long amounts of time..
But, The weird thing is when we are at the same parties and stuff we never really talk because he says he gets shy
Does he want just a hook up or possible relationship?HELP PLEASE. NEEd AdVICE. GUYS PLEASE (GiRLS tOO i GUESS)!?
i dont know but go for it if you like him you myt regret it if you dont when hes gone. take it from someone with experience :(HELP PLEASE. NEEd AdVICE. GUYS PLEASE (GiRLS tOO i GUESS)!?
i like texting but if you really like him and if he really likes you why not talk to him over the phone? i think he just wants to hook up with you for either a one night stand or untill he gets sick of you then he will dump you like an old rag doll find a better suitor
We talk about a lot of things when we text such as...
1. He told me that we should get drunk together and who knows what would happen..
2. Sometimes he only thinks of me, and he occasionally before falling asleep
3. Late one night when we were talking, he said he wanted to come over and sit with me on my bed
4. He's asked me if I think he is hot and stuff too and if I would ever hook up with him and was like darn when he thought I would never be FWB
We also have normal conversations too about each other and life and stuff too.
And we talk for long amounts of time..
But, The weird thing is when we are at the same parties and stuff we never really talk because he says he gets shy
Does he want just a hook up or possible relationship?HELP PLEASE. NEEd AdVICE. GUYS PLEASE (GiRLS tOO i GUESS)!?
i dont know but go for it if you like him you myt regret it if you dont when hes gone. take it from someone with experience :(HELP PLEASE. NEEd AdVICE. GUYS PLEASE (GiRLS tOO i GUESS)!?
i like texting but if you really like him and if he really likes you why not talk to him over the phone? i think he just wants to hook up with you for either a one night stand or untill he gets sick of you then he will dump you like an old rag doll find a better suitor
Girls... i need advice [guys welcome to answer also]?
I like this girl [Frankie], and we talk occasionally, and she seems to like me, kinda. anyway, the only things that are a down fall w/ her is she wears too much make-up, and she's a vegetarian, which really isn't a downfall, but anyway. she lives right down the street from my cousin so i could go over whenever i'm at my cousin's house. I need a way to impress her, and really say ';I love you,'; and eventually ask her out. (my friend Dave said that i should send flowers to her house) please give me adviceGirls... i need advice [guys welcome to answer also]?
My advice is not to be all up in her face, that might creep her out. I would talk to her, become her friend, and then ask her out. Sending flowers to her house would be really sweet. If you find out her favorite color you should get that color flower. She will probaly think it's sweet. Like on my birthday my boyfriend sent me purple flowers because purple is my favorite color.
Good LuckGirls... i need advice [guys welcome to answer also]?
Mate slow and steady wins the race first be friends with her (which i suppose u r) Make her feel special by telling her some sort of secrets and stuff and tell her everything about urself and if u get a chance ask everything about her too man
make her feel the best person of ur life if u feel like that(which i suppose u do) and eventually wen u have faith ask her out she will go definitely and then wen yous are in relationship then send flowers man i reckon its to early for flowers now
You need an introduction. Does your cousin know her? If not, when you see her just say hi and introduce yourself. Get to know her little by little. Talk to her and find out what she likes, after some time feel free to ask her out once you know her better. She will appreciate you much more and your relationship will have a foundation.
I would just get to know her very well first. Girls find it creepy when guys comeoout of no where and say i love you or send them flowers.
just tke it slow.
hey everybody answer this:http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
First off....Do not tell her that u love her....yet. When you go to see her, take a simple flower.聽 Carry it in your hand and give it to her.聽 It works every time.聽 If she likes to laugh that always works as well, be funny and charming.聽 We love that.
Ok first of all DO NOT SAY I LOVE YOU To someone you just met!!! It's very CREEPY!!! You should just take a chance and ask her out. And don't send flowers to her door if she has no clue who you are, because that's also creepy.
don't send flowers to her house ... way to early for that. She will think its creepy. First you need to ask her out ... which means you need to talk to her so you can do that. Take one step at a time.
makeup's amazing...just love it.
and vegetarian, dude that=good body.
something simple would be nice,
but if you dont adore abosolutely everthing,
you better be careful.
one heartbreak and she could be outa ur life for good.
flirt with her and tell her shes beautiful, even without makeup
let her eat what she wants lol
ask her out before you tell her you love her
lie in the grass with her under the stars and tell her how you feel
ur friend dave sound like a smart person def flowers for a first impression if she thinks its sweet move on to the bigger stuff lata
flowers would be good!
i love when my bf sends me flowers and i come home to a bouquet on my door step!
dont say i love you until your dating, youll sound like a creeper.
it depends on what kind of girl she is and only u know that.
so you want a way of saying ';i love you';
make it into a joke start with a joke then get her a way to understand that you love her like or a riddle that will do fine the thing a bout the FLOWERS i will say just give her two find out her favorite kind of flowers some people like roses but for me they are way original i like different unique stuff oh i know i don't know if you have seen those chocolates that are wrapped up in a way that they look like flowers that will do just fine one or two no more than two flowers maybe even 3 but not more because she might not have an idea that you like her but what I (and only me in my own opinion) will love and so-ooooo tottaly love will be a bracelet or a stuffed animal
My advice is not to be all up in her face, that might creep her out. I would talk to her, become her friend, and then ask her out. Sending flowers to her house would be really sweet. If you find out her favorite color you should get that color flower. She will probaly think it's sweet. Like on my birthday my boyfriend sent me purple flowers because purple is my favorite color.
Good LuckGirls... i need advice [guys welcome to answer also]?
Mate slow and steady wins the race first be friends with her (which i suppose u r) Make her feel special by telling her some sort of secrets and stuff and tell her everything about urself and if u get a chance ask everything about her too man
make her feel the best person of ur life if u feel like that(which i suppose u do) and eventually wen u have faith ask her out she will go definitely and then wen yous are in relationship then send flowers man i reckon its to early for flowers now
You need an introduction. Does your cousin know her? If not, when you see her just say hi and introduce yourself. Get to know her little by little. Talk to her and find out what she likes, after some time feel free to ask her out once you know her better. She will appreciate you much more and your relationship will have a foundation.
I would just get to know her very well first. Girls find it creepy when guys comeoout of no where and say i love you or send them flowers.
just tke it slow.
hey everybody answer this:http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
First off....Do not tell her that u love her....yet. When you go to see her, take a simple flower.聽 Carry it in your hand and give it to her.聽 It works every time.聽 If she likes to laugh that always works as well, be funny and charming.聽 We love that.
Ok first of all DO NOT SAY I LOVE YOU To someone you just met!!! It's very CREEPY!!! You should just take a chance and ask her out. And don't send flowers to her door if she has no clue who you are, because that's also creepy.
don't send flowers to her house ... way to early for that. She will think its creepy. First you need to ask her out ... which means you need to talk to her so you can do that. Take one step at a time.
makeup's amazing...just love it.
and vegetarian, dude that=good body.
something simple would be nice,
but if you dont adore abosolutely everthing,
you better be careful.
one heartbreak and she could be outa ur life for good.
flirt with her and tell her shes beautiful, even without makeup
let her eat what she wants lol
ask her out before you tell her you love her
lie in the grass with her under the stars and tell her how you feel
ur friend dave sound like a smart person def flowers for a first impression if she thinks its sweet move on to the bigger stuff lata
flowers would be good!
i love when my bf sends me flowers and i come home to a bouquet on my door step!
dont say i love you until your dating, youll sound like a creeper.
it depends on what kind of girl she is and only u know that.
so you want a way of saying ';i love you';
make it into a joke start with a joke then get her a way to understand that you love her like or a riddle that will do fine the thing a bout the FLOWERS i will say just give her two find out her favorite kind of flowers some people like roses but for me they are way original i like different unique stuff oh i know i don't know if you have seen those chocolates that are wrapped up in a way that they look like flowers that will do just fine one or two no more than two flowers maybe even 3 but not more because she might not have an idea that you like her but what I (and only me in my own opinion) will love and so-ooooo tottaly love will be a bracelet or a stuffed animal
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