ive posted this b4, ut havent gotten anything that rly helps.
ok.. im not exactly the slimmest or coolest guy at school.. im more of a nerd and have a lil xtra weight. at times.. i feel im being used. so. theres this girl i like at school and on myspace she tells me stuff she claims she tells no one else. she says she trusts me me and today said my eyes are awefully blue if that means anything.. she also told me she thought i was a pretty nice guy. what are my chances? should i ask her out? anything is greatly appreciated. thanks in advance.Mid skool sating advice (guys and girls) PLEASE HELP?
ask her out. make sure that u make it clear that u guys can still be friends if she says no. u dont wanna lose a good friendMid skool sating advice (guys and girls) PLEASE HELP?
Well, it depends on what kind of girl she is. Have you seen her with other friends before, and if so, does she stop and talk/look at you? If you've seen her before with other people, and think she's pretty trustworthy, chances are that she really does think you're nice. Just go ahead and ask her out, the worst she could say is no.
Monday, August 23, 2010
I need some advice! Guys only please!!?
Ok here's my story... I am 21, never had a bf be4 which obviously means never had s3x be4. Well I am a beautiful girl, I am friendly and sweet BUT I am very shy when it comes to boys! I mean I am kinda overprotective cause most guys want 1 thing.. and please do not deny that! I know that most guys like to have a one nite stand with girls or having a gf just to use her for that thing! I am not saying ALL but MOST of them. Anyways, the point is that there are many guys who want me but I am very shy and I can understand WHEN someone wants me just to have fun.. so I just ignore those guys! But there are some guys who want to have a serious relationship with me and they told me many times that I drive em crazy and stuff but I don't want to have a bf because I don't know how to kiss! I mean I am freaking scared! I don't want to be humiliated you know? Cause all the men respecet me cause they know exactly what kind of girl I am it's just that if my ';future'; bf makes fun of me I will be sooooooo disapointed and humiliated! And this is what I am afraid of and can't have a bf! I like this guy and he likes me too but.... I don't know! =( We barely know each other... we just say a ';hi'; and that's all. I am sure you're wondering how I know that he likes me.. well here's the answer: My mom hangs around with his mom so... ya! He told my mom that he likes me and he asked many Qs about me... you know.. how old I am, when and where I go out with my girls and stuff...
Please help me.. Tell me is it normal to act like that? If I was your girl would u make fun of me or use me??? PLEASE I want honest answers!!! Thank u!!! =))I need some advice! Guys only please!!?
Dont feel bad about being shy little girl , most real people who want what they want are all shy at first. And yes, it's very normal! It just takes time to get to know youself . So you have never had a bf or been intimate w/ someone...so what ! Not everyone starts haveing sex or getting into serious relationships in their early teens, though popular TV would have us thinking otherwise . Its true that a lot of guys these days only want that one thing, though as I'm sure you may have experienced through other friends...girls are guilty of that 'player' mentality as well. But don't judge every guy, or put them in that catagory.....some of us are really cool and do want to treat that special someone w/ respect......unfortunately some of us are as shy if not more so than you ! You say that ';you don't know how to kiss!';......got to start somewhere. Sure, kissing someone is very intimate,and yes really scary the first time, but it's also a very enjoyable experience. You don't have to be an expert right out of the box.....just enjoy yourself....everyone gets better w/ practice! You have to be willing to put yourself out there sometime. Saddly....you may come accross that paticular ****** that criticizes your ability...so what ! Take it w/ a grain of salt....life is full of constant criticizem....its how you deal w/ it that reflects on your character. Never let anyone get away w/ belittleing you ! No one deserves that.
You mentioned this guy you like but hardly know....put yourself out there. Until you risk yourself, or your emotions, you will never truly know yourself. Now I'm not saying go up to him and act the part of a Porn star.....just be yourself. Wow, ..I think we've all heard that atleast 4 times in our life huh !?! Anyway,... just talk to him like you would one of you're friends....You already know he ';likes'; you, so..really....there isn't all that much preasure, or risk of rejection...know what I mean ? Don't be scared to live your life ! Just take everything slow....there's really no hurry to be like everyone else, or do what they do.....is there ? Go as far as you are comfortable going, but don't jump into anything you may regret later. I had a lot of female friends growing up that went too far before they we're ready....most of them regret it !
If this guy is cool, and really like who he is...then approach him first....you never know....he may be as shy as you. Plus, ...if he's like me....he'll be totally impressed ! And if your're lucky....he might just be that first great guy that you always remember fondly ! Be safe little girl......I wish you luck !I need some advice! Guys only please!!?
It is normal, if you never kissed before, you wonder if you are going to do it right, truth is, its really simple, a french kiss is basically massaging the other person's tongue with your own. If you were my girl, i wouldnt make fun of you becuase i understand see.
Relax. If you're straight foward with the guy he won't care that you've never kissed or done anything. Yes some guys only want one thing but don't think all guys are the same. Quit worrying so much and just go out and have some fun.
Wow! Heading for 50 year old virgin here. Loosen up. Just cause its a guy dont mean he only wants one thing. Rejecting them all is no way to handle things.
wow, its really surprising that youve never had a bf before. shocking.
i would think guys would be lining up to date a neurotic paranoid girl.
I guess it's no big deal. Just calm down and meet him better :). If you like each other don't hesitate and try to be with him more time!
Stop mind f*cking yourself and just go for it.
Honestly, I would never make fun of any girl if she was a bad kisser and frankly, I wouldn't care. If this guy truly wants to date you, neither will he. Girls like you are attractive because they have haven't been corrupted by other guys or haven't been with 10 friends of the guy that likes you. I wish I could find someone like that. Usually, I can find someone in as little as two phone calls that has hooked up with or knows someone who has hooked up with the girl I am talking to at that time. Keep the faith, everything will work out when the time is right.
It sounds like your mom has a good relationship with his mom. Confide in your own mom and explain your fears. Perhaps she could share some of this info with his mom. When he hears from his mom that you like him but feel awkward for never having kissed a boy before, he will think it is sweet and I'm sure he will treat you with respect. Believe me on this.
All first kisses will be a little bit awkward but trust me, you'll know how to kiss when the time comes, and the guy is supposed to be the one who initiates it so just follow his lead, that's what my gf does even though she's got more experience then me, just start off with a peck and then go from there if you feel the need to. Oh, and if any guy makes fun of you for it, then he's OBVIOUSLY a dick and not deserving of you, so just dump his ***. I wish you all the best.
awww i think your kinder cute :) sorry hehe.
on a serious note. I am alot younger than you but i went through the same kind of thing with my current GF she was really scared and stuff about relationships , kissing, sex , etc etc. but she did talk to me about her concerns when we got together and my being a understanding let her go at her own pace and let her discover and enjoy them things in her own time.
this guy that likes you clearly seems like a nice person asking questions not jumping in saying ';fancy a shag';. get to know this guy and just do what you feel is natural. if your beautiful and caring he will be just a nervous to impress you dont forget that. so you can both experience new things and talk about it and gain more experience and always remeber to laugh when things dont go so well. it will make it easier to relax when doing private stuff. this guy seems nice and wont make fun of you. he will be more scared than you.
GOOD LUCK!
Please help me.. Tell me is it normal to act like that? If I was your girl would u make fun of me or use me??? PLEASE I want honest answers!!! Thank u!!! =))I need some advice! Guys only please!!?
Dont feel bad about being shy little girl , most real people who want what they want are all shy at first. And yes, it's very normal! It just takes time to get to know youself . So you have never had a bf or been intimate w/ someone...so what ! Not everyone starts haveing sex or getting into serious relationships in their early teens, though popular TV would have us thinking otherwise . Its true that a lot of guys these days only want that one thing, though as I'm sure you may have experienced through other friends...girls are guilty of that 'player' mentality as well. But don't judge every guy, or put them in that catagory.....some of us are really cool and do want to treat that special someone w/ respect......unfortunately some of us are as shy if not more so than you ! You say that ';you don't know how to kiss!';......got to start somewhere. Sure, kissing someone is very intimate,and yes really scary the first time, but it's also a very enjoyable experience. You don't have to be an expert right out of the box.....just enjoy yourself....everyone gets better w/ practice! You have to be willing to put yourself out there sometime. Saddly....you may come accross that paticular ****** that criticizes your ability...so what ! Take it w/ a grain of salt....life is full of constant criticizem....its how you deal w/ it that reflects on your character. Never let anyone get away w/ belittleing you ! No one deserves that.
You mentioned this guy you like but hardly know....put yourself out there. Until you risk yourself, or your emotions, you will never truly know yourself. Now I'm not saying go up to him and act the part of a Porn star.....just be yourself. Wow, ..I think we've all heard that atleast 4 times in our life huh !?! Anyway,... just talk to him like you would one of you're friends....You already know he ';likes'; you, so..really....there isn't all that much preasure, or risk of rejection...know what I mean ? Don't be scared to live your life ! Just take everything slow....there's really no hurry to be like everyone else, or do what they do.....is there ? Go as far as you are comfortable going, but don't jump into anything you may regret later. I had a lot of female friends growing up that went too far before they we're ready....most of them regret it !
If this guy is cool, and really like who he is...then approach him first....you never know....he may be as shy as you. Plus, ...if he's like me....he'll be totally impressed ! And if your're lucky....he might just be that first great guy that you always remember fondly ! Be safe little girl......I wish you luck !I need some advice! Guys only please!!?
It is normal, if you never kissed before, you wonder if you are going to do it right, truth is, its really simple, a french kiss is basically massaging the other person's tongue with your own. If you were my girl, i wouldnt make fun of you becuase i understand see.
Relax. If you're straight foward with the guy he won't care that you've never kissed or done anything. Yes some guys only want one thing but don't think all guys are the same. Quit worrying so much and just go out and have some fun.
Wow! Heading for 50 year old virgin here. Loosen up. Just cause its a guy dont mean he only wants one thing. Rejecting them all is no way to handle things.
wow, its really surprising that youve never had a bf before. shocking.
i would think guys would be lining up to date a neurotic paranoid girl.
I guess it's no big deal. Just calm down and meet him better :). If you like each other don't hesitate and try to be with him more time!
Stop mind f*cking yourself and just go for it.
Honestly, I would never make fun of any girl if she was a bad kisser and frankly, I wouldn't care. If this guy truly wants to date you, neither will he. Girls like you are attractive because they have haven't been corrupted by other guys or haven't been with 10 friends of the guy that likes you. I wish I could find someone like that. Usually, I can find someone in as little as two phone calls that has hooked up with or knows someone who has hooked up with the girl I am talking to at that time. Keep the faith, everything will work out when the time is right.
It sounds like your mom has a good relationship with his mom. Confide in your own mom and explain your fears. Perhaps she could share some of this info with his mom. When he hears from his mom that you like him but feel awkward for never having kissed a boy before, he will think it is sweet and I'm sure he will treat you with respect. Believe me on this.
All first kisses will be a little bit awkward but trust me, you'll know how to kiss when the time comes, and the guy is supposed to be the one who initiates it so just follow his lead, that's what my gf does even though she's got more experience then me, just start off with a peck and then go from there if you feel the need to. Oh, and if any guy makes fun of you for it, then he's OBVIOUSLY a dick and not deserving of you, so just dump his ***. I wish you all the best.
awww i think your kinder cute :) sorry hehe.
on a serious note. I am alot younger than you but i went through the same kind of thing with my current GF she was really scared and stuff about relationships , kissing, sex , etc etc. but she did talk to me about her concerns when we got together and my being a understanding let her go at her own pace and let her discover and enjoy them things in her own time.
this guy that likes you clearly seems like a nice person asking questions not jumping in saying ';fancy a shag';. get to know this guy and just do what you feel is natural. if your beautiful and caring he will be just a nervous to impress you dont forget that. so you can both experience new things and talk about it and gain more experience and always remeber to laugh when things dont go so well. it will make it easier to relax when doing private stuff. this guy seems nice and wont make fun of you. he will be more scared than you.
GOOD LUCK!
I need some advice(Guys preferably girls are fine too.) :))?
There is this guy in my spanish class and he sits kinda across from me (the desks are set up on different side of the rooms facing each other), but like two rows diagonal so i have to kinda turn my head to see him...anyways! haha. I always seem to catch him staring at my face, not like ALWAYS but like at least 6 times during the class....
and the other day my friend cody(who sits right behind him) and i were making funny faces back and forth and cody did somethig with him tongue and i mimicked him because i was caught up in the game and i didnt know it was innapropriate haha and he like acted all shocked and made a hilarious face and said ';no,no!'; and i laughed really loud and the guy that i caught staring at me all of the sudden started kinda giggling(haha) at me laughing even though he didnt know what me and cod were laughing about....so was he laughing at ME or did he think my laugh was cute? Do you think hes interested at all? and if so what can I do to kinda flirt with him and not sound like an idiot...? haha.
Thank you in advance :))I need some advice(Guys preferably girls are fine too.) :))?
He thought your laugh was cute in my opinion, flirting in a way which i don't know much.I need some advice(Guys preferably girls are fine too.) :))?
When he laughed at your laughing, he wasn't laughing AT you, he was noticing you and was smiling with you. If he's not seeing anyone, i'd say just go up to him and start making small talk. Ask something about class, and just ask what he's doing on the weekend and if he wants to do something.
and the other day my friend cody(who sits right behind him) and i were making funny faces back and forth and cody did somethig with him tongue and i mimicked him because i was caught up in the game and i didnt know it was innapropriate haha and he like acted all shocked and made a hilarious face and said ';no,no!'; and i laughed really loud and the guy that i caught staring at me all of the sudden started kinda giggling(haha) at me laughing even though he didnt know what me and cod were laughing about....so was he laughing at ME or did he think my laugh was cute? Do you think hes interested at all? and if so what can I do to kinda flirt with him and not sound like an idiot...? haha.
Thank you in advance :))I need some advice(Guys preferably girls are fine too.) :))?
He thought your laugh was cute in my opinion, flirting in a way which i don't know much.I need some advice(Guys preferably girls are fine too.) :))?
When he laughed at your laughing, he wasn't laughing AT you, he was noticing you and was smiling with you. If he's not seeing anyone, i'd say just go up to him and start making small talk. Ask something about class, and just ask what he's doing on the weekend and if he wants to do something.
I need MALE advice!! Guys, please help me out (10 easy points)!?!!!?
there is this guy who will stare at me then look away when I look back or stare at me when he thinks I don't notice. this has been going on for almost two years now. he has a class right across from mine. I walked into class and I sat down. I looked into the hallway and there he was in the middle of the hallway staring at me with two of his friends on both of his sides. they were staring too.
can you tell me what this might mean?
were they talking about me?
something good/something bad?
what?
any ideas of what this guy thinks about me?
I appreciate the help!!I need MALE advice!! Guys, please help me out (10 easy points)!?!!!?
i reckon he loves ya=)) coz it is when ya notice he always looks at ya but stare away when u look @him that he is in luv w/ ya , send him sth this val dae!:-DI need MALE advice!! Guys, please help me out (10 easy points)!?!!!?
He is most likely attracted to you, however if he cannot step up and make the first move he may not be worth it. He may be shy but don't spoon feed yourself to him My advise is to stay cool and treat him like you would anyone else, if he smiles smile back he says hi say hi. If he wants more let him say so, then you can define the limits of what ';more'; is otherwise you will be guessing ll through the relationship.
Good Luck
i say he diggs ya
first off, this guy is a scrub, don't wanna say a loser yet, but definitely not a winner!
when a guy likes a girl, he moves up a knotch and talks to her, a simple ';hi'; would be nice, a..';here let me get that for ya';, a ';hi my name is Chris..what's your name?';
get it?
those that hide in the shade, look away, hide, have never-are never-and will never be good bf's to be with.
hope that helps you out!
now where the heck are my 10 points!!!! (??????)blush makeup
can you tell me what this might mean?
were they talking about me?
something good/something bad?
what?
any ideas of what this guy thinks about me?
I appreciate the help!!I need MALE advice!! Guys, please help me out (10 easy points)!?!!!?
i reckon he loves ya=)) coz it is when ya notice he always looks at ya but stare away when u look @him that he is in luv w/ ya , send him sth this val dae!:-DI need MALE advice!! Guys, please help me out (10 easy points)!?!!!?
He is most likely attracted to you, however if he cannot step up and make the first move he may not be worth it. He may be shy but don't spoon feed yourself to him My advise is to stay cool and treat him like you would anyone else, if he smiles smile back he says hi say hi. If he wants more let him say so, then you can define the limits of what ';more'; is otherwise you will be guessing ll through the relationship.
Good Luck
i say he diggs ya
first off, this guy is a scrub, don't wanna say a loser yet, but definitely not a winner!
when a guy likes a girl, he moves up a knotch and talks to her, a simple ';hi'; would be nice, a..';here let me get that for ya';, a ';hi my name is Chris..what's your name?';
get it?
those that hide in the shade, look away, hide, have never-are never-and will never be good bf's to be with.
hope that helps you out!
now where the heck are my 10 points!!!! (??????)
I need dating advice (guys preferable) women are also welcomed 2?
okay i'm 18 and moving to san francisco in a couple of days to go 2 school. I am very good at giving relationship advice. I give relationship advice to all my friends, it almost seems like I know men and women when it comes to relationships like the back of my hand. The thing is that I have had the worst luck with relationships and can't seem to find someone. I have been single for a year. I consider myself to be an attractive person with a great personality, I wear nice clothing and present myself in a professional mature way, but why is it that I can't seem to find a date. I always seem to attract the losers with no brains that will come up to anyone. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong!I need dating advice (guys preferable) women are also welcomed 2?
Instead of being professional %26amp; mature, be warm %26amp; fun. Give some smiles with teeth showing and occasionally wave your fingertips at a guy you notice. Give off some signals to the right guys and they will want to talk to you.I need dating advice (guys preferable) women are also welcomed 2?
You dear have got to be the one that goes up to the guys, you see its because you are attractive and good looking and mature etc etc that guys kinda think they are not good enough or that you probably have a bf.
So what you do is just find a guy you really like, be bold and go up to him and ask him out.
Trust me, guys love confidence and you will definitely get the guy you want!
Hope this helps!
youre not doing anything wrong..you cant help what kinda guys that are attracted to you...just find a guy that you think would be a good match for you ....and get to know him..and if he doesnt seem interested..then theres more fish in the sea!!
good luck!
Instead of being professional %26amp; mature, be warm %26amp; fun. Give some smiles with teeth showing and occasionally wave your fingertips at a guy you notice. Give off some signals to the right guys and they will want to talk to you.I need dating advice (guys preferable) women are also welcomed 2?
You dear have got to be the one that goes up to the guys, you see its because you are attractive and good looking and mature etc etc that guys kinda think they are not good enough or that you probably have a bf.
So what you do is just find a guy you really like, be bold and go up to him and ask him out.
Trust me, guys love confidence and you will definitely get the guy you want!
Hope this helps!
youre not doing anything wrong..you cant help what kinda guys that are attracted to you...just find a guy that you think would be a good match for you ....and get to know him..and if he doesnt seem interested..then theres more fish in the sea!!
good luck!
Sunday, August 22, 2010
Why do girls give single guys the worst dating advice of all?
things like:
';when you're not looking for it, it will come';
I don't know if that's what you tell your girlfriends, but it doesn't work accross the line ok!
because guess what..if a guy doesn't ask a girl for her number, he is not gonna get it.
and another thing, why do girls always explain things to guys in the most ambiguous ways.. usually ending the comment by admitting that YOU don't even understand what you wrote.
feeding us such useless garbage as advice only makes the fruit go sour.Why do girls give single guys the worst dating advice of all?
It's stupid how girls say that ';When you're not looking for it, it will come';. Apparently, the guy is the one who is supposed to ask the girl out, or that is what I've been told by numerous girls. If it's a guys job to ask the girl out and not the girls job to ask the guy out, then how will you ever get a girl if you aren't looking for one? That's one thing I don't like about girls. If they like you they won't ask you out because you are the one who is supposed to do the asking. It's so stupid. It shouldn't matter if you are a guy or girl, if you like someone ask them out!Why do girls give single guys the worst dating advice of all?
I don't usually answer a question unless I have a personal experience with it or a perspective...so it won't be like I say that advice ';It will happen to you when you least expect it.';
I don't really even believe that myself.
I think sometimes it is hard to give advice. It is like it's happened to you, but you don't know how to make it happen for others, and it's not like you can go on WikiHow and actually follow their step-by-step directions to living life.
Sometimes...you just have to do the thing yourself. Sorry!
like i just said to someone else...
confidence! confidence, charisma, and a go with the flow attitude will get you everywhere. Dont be the first to look away, do be the first to nod or say hello. People will notice you, and enjoy being around you and then it will be girls asking how to get you to notice them. just remember, not cockyness, not jerk-ishness, just confidence.
and that way it will come to you whether you're looking or not.
yeah... i feel like that sometimes... lol @ heaven...
they always say ';u don't understand'; thing is they can't even explain themselves either...
woman are usually emotional...their decision based largely on emotion...emotion is unstable...so they become unstable and complex to understand... 1+1= 2 is true today for them...but not tomorrow...
Guys are bad at managing emotion ...and lack of discipline...
so....i don't know anymore....
Not all girls give adivice like that...I for one, DON'T. I usually tell them guys to make their move, or they're gonna lose the girl. But I think other girls might say that because they want guys to be respectful to girls. But some girls don't really respond to respect (i.e. the slutty girls) Do you get what I'm saying?
If you are the happy fun honest guy , do you not think that the women out there are looking for that above all else , it is how you appear both inside and out that makes you a wanted item , what you do to get there is up to you..........
well exscuse us for trying to help i mean if you think our advice is crap then dont ask for it and every girl is different so how r we supose to know that exact girl the exact advise
Perhaps they are trying to keep you from getting too discouraged? Also you must remember the ages here vary greatly..you are getting advice here at times from very young teens so some of the advice might not be applicable to your situation.
I hate hearing that too.
';It'll happen when you least expect it';
To me, that is all BS.
I say go out and get it if you really want it!
not all girls give horrible advice, iv never said anything like that. girls havent been in that position, and r prob giving u advice with their experiences as a girl %26lt;,%26lt;
Then the logical solution would be to tough it out and not ask for women's help.
maybe it is because they secretly like you and are droping hints but guys are to blind to see it
And so what have you learned....?
to see if you belive them.
stop asking for dating advice then, just ask for numbers and hope for the best
You're an A$$H0L3!!!
';when you're not looking for it, it will come';
I don't know if that's what you tell your girlfriends, but it doesn't work accross the line ok!
because guess what..if a guy doesn't ask a girl for her number, he is not gonna get it.
and another thing, why do girls always explain things to guys in the most ambiguous ways.. usually ending the comment by admitting that YOU don't even understand what you wrote.
feeding us such useless garbage as advice only makes the fruit go sour.Why do girls give single guys the worst dating advice of all?
It's stupid how girls say that ';When you're not looking for it, it will come';. Apparently, the guy is the one who is supposed to ask the girl out, or that is what I've been told by numerous girls. If it's a guys job to ask the girl out and not the girls job to ask the guy out, then how will you ever get a girl if you aren't looking for one? That's one thing I don't like about girls. If they like you they won't ask you out because you are the one who is supposed to do the asking. It's so stupid. It shouldn't matter if you are a guy or girl, if you like someone ask them out!Why do girls give single guys the worst dating advice of all?
I don't usually answer a question unless I have a personal experience with it or a perspective...so it won't be like I say that advice ';It will happen to you when you least expect it.';
I don't really even believe that myself.
I think sometimes it is hard to give advice. It is like it's happened to you, but you don't know how to make it happen for others, and it's not like you can go on WikiHow and actually follow their step-by-step directions to living life.
Sometimes...you just have to do the thing yourself. Sorry!
like i just said to someone else...
confidence! confidence, charisma, and a go with the flow attitude will get you everywhere. Dont be the first to look away, do be the first to nod or say hello. People will notice you, and enjoy being around you and then it will be girls asking how to get you to notice them. just remember, not cockyness, not jerk-ishness, just confidence.
and that way it will come to you whether you're looking or not.
yeah... i feel like that sometimes... lol @ heaven...
they always say ';u don't understand'; thing is they can't even explain themselves either...
woman are usually emotional...their decision based largely on emotion...emotion is unstable...so they become unstable and complex to understand... 1+1= 2 is true today for them...but not tomorrow...
Guys are bad at managing emotion ...and lack of discipline...
so....i don't know anymore....
Not all girls give adivice like that...I for one, DON'T. I usually tell them guys to make their move, or they're gonna lose the girl. But I think other girls might say that because they want guys to be respectful to girls. But some girls don't really respond to respect (i.e. the slutty girls) Do you get what I'm saying?
If you are the happy fun honest guy , do you not think that the women out there are looking for that above all else , it is how you appear both inside and out that makes you a wanted item , what you do to get there is up to you..........
well exscuse us for trying to help i mean if you think our advice is crap then dont ask for it and every girl is different so how r we supose to know that exact girl the exact advise
Perhaps they are trying to keep you from getting too discouraged? Also you must remember the ages here vary greatly..you are getting advice here at times from very young teens so some of the advice might not be applicable to your situation.
I hate hearing that too.
';It'll happen when you least expect it';
To me, that is all BS.
I say go out and get it if you really want it!
not all girls give horrible advice, iv never said anything like that. girls havent been in that position, and r prob giving u advice with their experiences as a girl %26lt;,%26lt;
Then the logical solution would be to tough it out and not ask for women's help.
maybe it is because they secretly like you and are droping hints but guys are to blind to see it
And so what have you learned....?
to see if you belive them.
stop asking for dating advice then, just ask for numbers and hope for the best
You're an A$$H0L3!!!
Okay someone give advice..guys or girls!!?
okay so me and my bf and are going to have sex.. and well he thinks that biying a lot of condoms will prevent the chance of the condom breaking! im a little worried now if he thinks that! however it'll be both of our 1st times.. but still i mean i dont what to do! were of age.. and i dont know.. im a little worried of getting pregnant! please give adviceOkay someone give advice..guys or girls!!?
only use 1 condom at a time. anymore could cause friction and therefore break easier.Okay someone give advice..guys or girls!!?
Get on the Pill, It has 99.9% success rate, use condoms, again 99.9% success if applied correctly. plus the pill relives cramps, or so my Girlfriend says.
do anal, you cant get pregnant that way
i think that you should,watch some teen porn it will help lol
i highly suggest condoms WITH another form of birth control-- the pill, depo provera shots, etc.
what does buying a lot of condoms have to do with anything? I don't get it. maybe he's hoping that if he buys a lot he'll get to use them all, lol.
you should be worried about getting pregnant, it's definitely good that you'll be using a condom.
what do you mean exactly by ';I dont know what to do';?
it sounds like you might be a little too young to have sex or just not completely ready to do it, you sound unsure
Well, it's your game of risk. If you worry about it, I think the likely hood of getting pregnant are higher. So relax, keep it casual, and don't worry! Things should go smooth.
21 and still a virgin! That is impressive! You are on the pill good thing and only one condom at a time. It sounds to me like you are still not ready to have sex. And you need to tell him this. There is no easy way to talk to somebody about sex. Unless you are open and not shy. So the best approach is the straight approach just come out and talk to him about it. If he loves you he will accept what you have to say. Good luck!
Uncle Rob
honestly, i think that if ur afraid of getting pregnant or that he may be a little unsure when it comes to condom use, then u should just put it off for a while until ur a little more comfortable. if he doesn't understand he isn't worth it.
good luck.
only use 1 condom at a time. anymore could cause friction and therefore break easier.Okay someone give advice..guys or girls!!?
Get on the Pill, It has 99.9% success rate, use condoms, again 99.9% success if applied correctly. plus the pill relives cramps, or so my Girlfriend says.
do anal, you cant get pregnant that way
i think that you should,watch some teen porn it will help lol
i highly suggest condoms WITH another form of birth control-- the pill, depo provera shots, etc.
what does buying a lot of condoms have to do with anything? I don't get it. maybe he's hoping that if he buys a lot he'll get to use them all, lol.
you should be worried about getting pregnant, it's definitely good that you'll be using a condom.
what do you mean exactly by ';I dont know what to do';?
it sounds like you might be a little too young to have sex or just not completely ready to do it, you sound unsure
Well, it's your game of risk. If you worry about it, I think the likely hood of getting pregnant are higher. So relax, keep it casual, and don't worry! Things should go smooth.
21 and still a virgin! That is impressive! You are on the pill good thing and only one condom at a time. It sounds to me like you are still not ready to have sex. And you need to tell him this. There is no easy way to talk to somebody about sex. Unless you are open and not shy. So the best approach is the straight approach just come out and talk to him about it. If he loves you he will accept what you have to say. Good luck!
Uncle Rob
honestly, i think that if ur afraid of getting pregnant or that he may be a little unsure when it comes to condom use, then u should just put it off for a while until ur a little more comfortable. if he doesn't understand he isn't worth it.
good luck.
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