Gay guys, any advice here?

my boyfriend and I have sex daily, sometimes twice. It seems like we have a hard time getting into it though and it takes a long time to finish, and its not very intense.Lately my bf has had a hard time staying hard, hes almost 40, I have experienced the same thing a few times, Im 34. Are we possibly doing it too much, should we wait a day or two in between. How often are you other guy having sex, or needing some sort of sexual release during an average week? whats the norm,or rather average? anybody else experienced this?Gay guys, any advice here?
take a day or two off ... Dont you get sore ? Gay guys, any advice here?
HMM sounds like have a good sexual relationship, but maybe you should do it less often but for longer, make him wait then when he is into it he'll love it so much! And hopefully satisfy you more :)
Hey guy!





Here's what I'd do... If your partner is having difficulty staying hard on a regular basis, I would go see the doctor. Find out if there is anything health-wise contributing to this issue. You say you have sex daily so I don't think it's an issue of attraction..





Keep in mind that your partner is 40; He should start getting prostate checkups yearly from this point on. Sometimes an enlarged prostate can be a source of problems staying hard, and a doctor would need to examine him and do some tests. Good news is that it's a treatable condition.





If after you've talked to the doc and gotten all checked out and there isn't anything health-wise with either of you, then maybe a little slowdown in the bedroom would help. Some guys are able to go two, three or even more times a day with no problem staying hard, some aren't. It's nothing to be worried or embarrassed about if you or your partner aren't like those guys.





I'd say what was most important would be answering the questions, ';Do we love each other?'; and ';Do we have fun in bed?'; If those are all good... then keep on doing what you are doing.