I got a crush on this guy...need advice (guys and girls)...?

I know this guy for like 3 years and i had a little crush on him. I'm 20 and he's 18. I didn't know if he liked me or not but we say hi to each other when we see each other and we barely talked to each other. One day in July he texted me his number and i was surprised he did that cuz we barely talk. Then one day he texted me cuz he didn't see me where i usually am and then thats when we started textin each other a lot. We were getting to know each other and then a week after he told that he starting to like me as more than a friend and i told him i like him too. I got to like him even more after i got to know him more.


Then the next time i saw him we kissed each other.


Then i asked him if we are gonna stay friends or be more than friends and he said idk cuz we only see each other once a week and he wouldn't like that.


Then the week after that, we did more than kissing but we didnt go all the way...


a few days later he asked me if he went too far and i said ';kinda';


and he said he would stop everything except kissing...





and then after that he didn't talk to me as much anymore.


I was asking him why and he said ';idk jus ran out of stuff to talk about';...


I feel like he dont like talkin to me anymore


idk why..


if we cant be together i want us to be friends..


we got a whole lot in common...


Now we just stopped textin each other.


It's been like a week and a half.


I was thinking to jus wait for him to talk to me cuz if he really wanted to talk to me he would...


So should i jus say something...?


or jus leave him alone and wait..?I got a crush on this guy...need advice (guys and girls)...?
Generally speaking a week isn't that long. It might definitely seem longer for you since you like him, but maybe it's a good thing.





He may have a legitimate point in that there is less and less to talk about. While it's nice to receive messages, if you do it too often you very well might run out of things to say.





However if you guys have a very deep connection and can converse about everything from social issues, politics, religion, personal life, etc then you'll never run out of things to talk about.





But this just sounds like both of your are scratching the surface, so you're not that entirely familiar with each other to get that deep into conversation.





If you're really interested in him and want to get the ball rolling then you should call or text him. Personally, an actual phone call versus a simple text message conveys more thought.





Punching in keys is very easy to do and relatively impersonal. If you wait he very well could be doing the same thing, waiting for you contact to him.

Really need answers and advice guys!! please help me out?!!?

my best friend and i have been friends for 15 years (since 5th grade-we're now 28).





have always been really close up until about 2 years ago when she broke up w/her bf of 5 years b/c he was caught cheating on her (had been with same girl for last 3 years of their relationship). she's been bitter towards men and hasn't dated since then.


hates my bf of 3 years. we've had our ups and downs in our relationship but nothing bad (he just recently decided he needed a little more time to get used to me and the 3 kids being in his house all the time before we moved in after we decided we would live together-but he was being honest-he's never been married or had kids and i'm his first long term relationship). since he made that decision-my friend told me if i stayed with him-she'd end our friendship. is majorly jealous of him too.





i had a cell phone contract with her (it was in her name but was a family plan w/me). after me telling her to butt out of my relationship-things changed....Really need answers and advice guys!! please help me out?!!?
it is only changing the mobile contract to your name, so please get this done fast since you have 3 kids at home...





2ndly, ask your best friend why can't she accept your BF? you can work things out... %26amp; if you appeal to her sincerely, i don't think she will be unreasonable...Really need answers and advice guys!! please help me out?!!?
the friendship is over. you r trying to hang on for old times sakes. that is reasonable. but if anyone cares for a person ( a friend or spouse or parent or child i.e. any relationship) then that person gives space for other relationships to develop. you will not be able to gloss over the cracks that have developed. in time the demands will all likelihood get more unreasonable..expectations will get unreasonable..and the break will come. call it off while you are still ahead!
You really should tell her how much you miss her, and how you wish that things could go back to the way they used to be.(in your friendship)





Perhaps consider writing her a letter explaining all this?

Why are girls so confusing?!?!...any advice guys or girls?

so in the beging of the year i liked this girl...but we never really talked so i gave up on that a little..and i later started going out with this other girl. and the relationship went downhill but i was trying to fix it..later (month's) later i found out that the girl that i liked in the begining of the year likes me..and we both told eachother that we like eachother..i broke up with my gf and she knew that it was going to happen..and then the next day the girl that i like tells me that shes not shure how she feels about me..i know that shes ad some problems in the past with this sort of thing..but any advice on what i should do while i wait for her answer? thanksWhy are girls so confusing?!?!...any advice guys or girls?
she sounds like she doesn't know what she wants. if you really want to wait, then that's ok





just know, she might keep you waiting for awhile :-(





good luckWhy are girls so confusing?!?!...any advice guys or girls?
shes prolly been hurt in the past or something and is afraid of it happening again. reassure that you wont hurt her.
That girl seems mean she's playing with feelings too much and that's not right.

Never been so confused need girl advice guys with input feel free?

so i am 17 years old a freshman in college i feel i am a sex addict ive had sex with 18 people and can never really be satisfied even having sex with more then one person in a day. Has effected me in high school with my relationships (cheating) (sex with girls besfriends) (girls with boyfriends). Broke up with gf from home to have sex wit girls in college but after this weekend when she came and shortly after leaving i had sex with another person even though i love her and am considering getting back with her i feel like i cant ';keep it in my pants'; if i were to and i do not want to do that to her when we were going out i did on several occasions cheat on her. see all women as somewhat sexual objects. i know i sound like a horrible person but i do have good morals am respectful to all women all people for that matter. fact that many people misjudge my character thinking i am a ';little kid'; in college just because i look younger then most. since being at college ';(after breaking up with my gf) have had sex with 3 girls but have had no real connections with any. idk if i am truly a sex addict or just someone who likes to have sex what college kid doesnt?r i broke up with my gf for college(school has %70 women) but am considering getting back with her but idk if its because i just want her to stay or not with be anyone else for my ownselfish reasons or i love her which i know i do but i dont want to hurt her and afraid i cant ';keep it in my pants'; reason why in first place. and if so i dont want to have to fake the relationship because she does not deserve that. i love her so much and i know she really does care for me and i feel if i lost that opportunity with her because when i do realize its too late so ive kept her close and lately i have been considering ';changing my ways'; but idk if i truly cann. (due to female reasoning above)








I know it seems like im givin u a life story here but its been bothering me so much and i really do not know what to do. thank you for reading lookin forward to hearing from u guysNever been so confused need girl advice guys with input feel free?
Try to find counselling





you are showing all the signs of a sex addict and I think only therapy would be able to resolve the issues that you have.





You may want to start with your family doctor for advice before he/she recommends you to a psychiatrist





Counsellors can also be found in college but I wouldn't say they are a better help than a therapist but they are easier to get access to.





Hope this helps

CAN'T HELP THINKING HE CHEATED...advice guys?

MY man and i were together 6 yrs, we fell into a rut snd he said he wanted 'freedom'. he left me over 2 months, was out on the town with the 'boys' he said.Yet his phone wud be switched off lunchbreaks at work and all friday night were he said he had been playing 'poker' with the 'boys'. when i did get though, whether he be at work or in a nightclub, there would always be this loud outgoing girl laughing in the background. he started texting me and we met up and i want to rake things low...he is attentive and loving...swears he just wanted a break.but what do you reckon happened here???CAN'T HELP THINKING HE CHEATED...advice guys?
I reckon someones cheating. 'The boys' is always the excuse. And a loud outgoing girl laughing in the background? He might as well gave you her address and phone number. It was too obvious. I mean... Unless she works where they work or whatever.CAN'T HELP THINKING HE CHEATED...advice guys?
Simple he loves poker ';the Boys'; and drinking more than he loves you. If you truely love some one you always want to be with that person because you love them. Why isn't he with you now? I don't know if he is having sex with other people but that almost does not matter he is not with the one he claims to love. When a guy say I want a break it usually means he is to gutless to say '; get out of my life, it is over'; instead gutless will ask for a break, Sorry you dont like my answer but it is honest. - good luck
YOU DESERVE BETTER


sounds like he wanted to get sum, sumwhere else


and letting you off his hook,,,wasnt cheating to him


but it is
he had find a new girl that he wanted to have fun with and forget about you for months. hush but true

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Is she worth it? need opinions/advice guys, serious please!?

this girl is driving me crazzy. i need to know if shes worth it cause i really like her but dont know what to do. we met in college last semester and have gone out a few times since then and had a really good time together. i could tell she liked me by how she would flirt with me and stuff, and i would flirt back. but all of a sudden she stopped returning my calls, texts, etc. havent heard from her in about a wk and a half now. i keep making excuses for her, like maybe she lost her phone, or maybe something happened. it is driving me crazy. what should i do?? believe me, she is not the type of girl who would just blow some guy off especially since i know she liked me. any advice is appreciated. thank you.Is she worth it? need opinions/advice guys, serious please!?
I would not call her anymore. Wait till she calls you! Some girls like it when you ignore them it makes them like you more. I don't know why they do this. If she is not calling you back she may not big digging your chilli! Some girls just flirt!Is she worth it? need opinions/advice guys, serious please!?
**** her and leave her

Is this the only thing a guy wants? I need some advice. (guys and girls)?

I broke up with my ex bf a couple of weeks ago, when I did (the same day) this other guy (lets call him Bob*) told me he really liked me, %26amp; was going to give me some time, but said that he wanted to ask me out. Recently one of my friends asked me who I liked %26amp; I told her that I liked Bob*, then she said oh really? He doesn’t even like you, he likes Jenny* (who happens to be my other good friend) tonight I was talking to Bob*, %26amp; he was talking about the new GTA game %26amp; said something about only knowing a girl for 2 days in the game %26amp; being able to “get some”, then he said, that he was guessing that it would take longer for me. I said well I don’t know... he kept asking why, %26amp; then when I kept saying I didn’t know he told me to take a guess, I said not anytime soon. He has had sex before, its just I’m worried that if we do go out, I’ll be a disappointment (I don’t really want to have sex right now) it’s like I think he’s expecting it or something.


What bothers me is that he might like me, but he also might like someone else, I don’t want to be a second choice or a “back up” girlfriend. He’s going to talk to me about us going out tomorrow I just want to make the whole, not having to have sex, as well as asking him weather he actually likes me or if I’m just “the next best thing” because I’m not sure and I don’t want to get hurt.Is this the only thing a guy wants? I need some advice. (guys and girls)?
yeah that guy sounds like a womanizer..i would get away from that as fast as possible! just get a guy who actually likes you and just wants to be with you :DIs this the only thing a guy wants? I need some advice. (guys and girls)?
You made yourself sound cheap and easy. If you don't want it to be about sex, don't imply that it may take less than two days for you to give it up. I recommend that you forget this cat and concentrate on your studies, boys will come later.
Yeah that is basically what guys want sex all they think about!