Thursday, August 19, 2010

Need guy help boost of confidence and advice GUYS on clothing too should i tell him that i play guitar/tomboy?

I REALLY like this guy from my junior high, (7th grade) and his name is Dylan. He is sooooooo cute. Sorry.... thinking to myself.... anywayz, he is in my Spanish class.... the only class we have together and we can't even speak english? how f***in twisted is that!? anyway, i want my 1st kiss to be with him. the only prob is that he dusnt really know that im alive except that he smiles at me every so often... good sign i guess? how do i find out if he is single? none of my friends know... boosts of confidence to talk to him also? tnx, oh, and how should i dress, guys? what looks good vs. bad on a girl?





tnx!





luv,


~.*Lola*.~





ps. anything else i should make sure of, like hair or breath? =]p





pss. should i tell him that i play guitar? acustic and electric? or too much bragging?Need guy help boost of confidence and advice GUYS on clothing too should i tell him that i play guitar/tomboy?
Im an 8th grade guy and if I saw a girl in a really great outfit i would notice them a lot more. So where ur sexiest outfit that you have. Make sure your teeth are always clean (especially w/ braces). And curl your hair(personal preferance). For ur personality just be yourself





Hope this helpsNeed guy help boost of confidence and advice GUYS on clothing too should i tell him that i play guitar/tomboy?
just start talking to him.


and i know its hard but introduce yourself and dont be something your not.


talking to him wont just get him to notice you but i will boost your confidence.


when you guys start talking more then you ask him his interests and stuff then you can tell him about your guitar skills. = ]


just have fun with it.


good luck.
you don't have to dress up just to talk to him. Just be yourself and it's his fault if he doesn't like you for that. Also, you should get to know him more and just be friends first before you think about kissing him. When you start talking to him more, then just ask if he has a girlfriend or not.
go ask him if he's single, and try to start a conversation.





or if you want him to think that your a strong, independant girl just go up and say ';so, when are you going to ask me out?';


that'll work





and for your post scripts, its pps not pss (post post script, not post script script)
Ok well . . .


Try to talk to him more.


Once you get closer, you'll find out more about him . . .


With the dressing, try form fitting clothes, not baggy . . .


I don't know, just be yourself!!


=)





and makes sure that your breath doesnt smell like ***


thank you
Ok. Ask him to study or something. Dress as lovable or whatever trend you dress in. Guitar = NoNo. Guitar Hero = Best possible thing to say. Image is what most guys look for.





P.S. Breathe and hair Yes.
Dont lie 2 him. Just go up to him and say hola! lolz and start a convo in spanish. Trust me it will work :)
dont lie to him just be yourself
just talk to him if you mess up just say you cant talk today
I love how everyone that's answered this is a girl. I think.





Anyway, yeah I'm in your grade, and if you're nice to him, but not freakishly nice, he should go for you. Before you tell him you play guitar, I'd make sure he doesn't listen to the **** people are listening to on the radio. Usually doesn't involve guitar. Also, if I were in his situation, and you came up to me, I'd probably be impressed that you could do something that I couldn't. Odds are that he's interested in you, just as you are him. If so, he probably wants you to talk to him first.





Wait nevermind I saw more people answered now. I wasn't the only guy.

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First wedding night?, wow! how nice to be in that situation, actually that is very nice one!, just go on enjoy the night!
This isn't a joke: consider putting ';things'; off until the next morning. After the ceremony and reception, you are both going to be mentally and physically exhausted, and maybe a little drunk. Sounds like a good night to cuddle a little and then get the first good night's sleep you've had for a week.





In the morning, you will be rested and refreshed. If this is your first time, then I promise it will be better for waiting until you both feel good and rested and alert, waiting until you have a whole unhurried day ahead of you. If this isn't your first time, then you already know it's better when you aren't tired





Talk to your intended about this in advance.
Congratulations..


Just relax on that night..let ur husband to play the role..

I caught my girlfriend cheating..... advice? (Guys & Girls both plz)?

The other night my girlfriend came home late after going out with some friends... I found some pictures on her camera of her making out with another guy. She said she was drunk and that she as soon as she realised what happened she pushed him away and asked to leave... she said that it was all that happened, but there were like 4 or 5 pictures..





she said how sorry she was, she deleted her myspace and changed her phone number.. and said she wouldnt go anywhere without me from now on.





I dont really believe her that it was all that happened, and the fact that there were 4 or 5 pictures makes me not beleive that she was trying to push him away.. and she didnt seem like she was pushing him away..





My question is... what should I do...? I told her I would take her back, because she deleted her myspace, and changed her phone number.





I think I should have her call this guy on the spot, and say ';I was drunk, what did we do the other day'; and see what he says (if she's lying..?)I caught my girlfriend cheating..... advice? (Guys %26amp; Girls both plz)?
shes only human, and young. while it doesnt excuse her behavior, everyone makes mistakes and is entitled to another chance. give her the benefit of the doubt, and give her another chance. besides, it was only a kiss, right?I caught my girlfriend cheating..... advice? (Guys %26amp; Girls both plz)?
Once a cheater always a cheater.....Next time she'll say ';Oops honey I fell on top of his penis and kept trying to get off but I was drunk';.....she should have never gotten drunk if she can't handle it.....If my girlfriend of 6 years did that to me.......bye bye
Seriously i dont know how else to say this because i know it hurts ya. But dump her. once a cheater always a cheater. The SAME thing happenend to me dude. the whole ';I was drunk'; thing is a bunch of bs. Ive been hammered and i would never make out with some random chick if i didnt want to. When your drunk you do things you want to do but usually wouldnt. In my opinion tell her to pound sand, and get a chick that would never hurt you like that
that must have been tough, no-one should have to go through that. it really depends on how much you want to be with this girl, i mean, if you really like, or love this girl its hard to let go if she doesnt want to breakup. i believe in second chance, but you need to know the truth and it will always come out no matter what. Maybe try to speak to this guy and ask him what happened. He's has nothing to loose in telling the truth if yu ask him calmly and not with punches, you know what i mean! If she isnt telling the truth, she will be forever looking over her shoulder and telling more lies to cover for whatever she really hiding. but she may be telling the truth, but after 5 photos, i think its pretty cler what did happen. Good luck mate!
thats a great idea...i hate cheating,been cheated on far too many times
Give her a second chance. If she cheats again, the you need to move on.
i think if you cant trust her word you need to break up with her.. if you cant trust somebody, you cant have any type of relationship with them





that's a crappy situation ive been through before, and the only thing i learned is that sometimes people change, but usually they dont





good luck man
anyone who's drunk is well aware of what they're doing no matter how they lie and say they don't, their guard is down but they are aware. if i were you i wouldn't take her back, she'll do it again. and why the pics?
Get over this..she did it...it's done. You took her back because she deleted her my space!!! LOL Oh wow...cmon...





At least say because you loved her!!! LOL





Good luck...
You know, there is a saying: ';The drunk man does what the sober man wants to do.'; I would think that you want a girlfriend who knows how to be respectful of you whether she is drunk or not. I got married at a very young age (19) and I have been drunk many a time. I have NEVER even kissed another dude. And how is it that she was sober enough to have pictures of it? She may be remorseful and willing to give up a few things, but if you let her get away with this behavior now, it will come up again. The only question will be when. When she is pregnant with your child? Before your wedding? At a party with your family members? Do yourself a favor. While you are still young, go for the gold. No need to settle for trash!
shes lying and you are stupid for beliving her. the reason she deleted her myspace is so she wont be busted again because the guy has already sent or will send her **** and of course the cell phone because he already has the # and she wont accedently receive a call from him while you are around. 99% says she already has another myspace acct and an alternate number where she can be reached
No matter what she will do it again. Once she realizes you won't dump her, what reason does she have to stay loyal?
If she did it once, she'll do it again, but if she does not, you have to think, how important is this relationship to you, because to her is not as important, case she cheated on you, it don't matter if she was drunk or whatever, she did it, me personally, I would break up with her, but it's your decision
i can tell she is lying never talk to her and find a new girlfriend
Calm down, Be sensible. If you ask her to call, the other person might think you are so childish or something. It's not a problem with the other guy. It's problem with your girlfriend. Try to talk clearly with your girlfriend and try to get solutions. Good luck!
great idea
I think that you need to get her to tell you the truth. Tell her that if she doesn't tell you exactly what happened, then you know that you can't trust her anymore. But if she does tell you what happened, you can move past it.
i think you should re-evaluate your relationship with her, and if she's somone worth keeping, let it go. Everyone makes mistakes, let her know that you're not happy with it, that alcohol should not be an excuse, and that it should never happen again (and if it does, dump her). it sounds like she's sorry, so give her a second chance.





also, 4 or 5 pics could have been taken one after another during 30 seconds or so, so i'm not sure thats a good indicator.





good luck
What more do you want from her? People do all kinds of strange things when they are drunk. If you are really worried about her going further than a few kisses, ask her to get tested for STD's (drunk people don't use condoms either). If you are going to take her back, don't harp on the subject. If you can't let it go, then drop her.
u should of called him and if your girlfriend was lying u should of broken up
first of all dont call the guy you cant get mad at .he was only doing what she let him do.but if you think shes than you know what you have to do.
Will you still trust her? do you want to be always worried about her? Do you think she`s the only woman around? It`s not and easy answer, and it`s not easy to give and advise in such situations. Maybe this questions help you some. Try to think with time, no one hurries you (she shouldn`t be the one), and always think in the bottom line of what`s happening.

Relationship advice. (Guys mostly, please)?

I like this boy a lot, and he says he likes me back, and keeps asking me to be with him,


I don't know what to do, because hes made out quite a bit, with his girlfriend (ex now) and I have never in my LIFE.


I refuse to date him because of this, and telling him in NOT an option..


and I don't really fall for the ';if he truely likes you he wont care';


because face it, all guys care.


What would you do in my position?


and for the guys, have you ever dated a bad kisser?Relationship advice. (Guys mostly, please)?
If you don't ask for respect you won't get it.Relationship advice. (Guys mostly, please)?
i've dated bad kissers before, but they learned. and if you are still a bad kisser after a couple weeks then its because your boyfriend is a bad kisser too. just go out with him. seriously he doesn't care if you know how to kiss. he just wants to kiss you. the funnest part about kissing is just doing it, not being good at it. especially when you are young, i remember in junior high, i just kissed girls cause it was cool. back then making out with someone was called ';macking'; (idk if i spelled that right) btw i'm 23
If you don't practice with someone, you'll always be in the same position. If you like him and he likes you, go for it. The kissing will come later, and you can get in some good practice.
I have not ever kissed a girl that is not on my priority list


( i have dated 3 different girls so it's not like I have never dated)
So you refuse to date him because he's had sex more times than you? just grow up. Also who decides what a bad kisser is? each person has there own style so there's no such thing.
Sorry I'm not a guy but i do have some advice. K first of all I know exactly how u feel. I have been in that same position and i was scared i was gonna be a bad kisser and he was gonna go talk about me with all his friends. And honestly i think everyone is a bad kisser when they first start. I told my guy that i never had before and he was way cool about it. like he guided me through it- part ur lips a lil blah blah blah. Haha actually he did go talk about me but it is only cuz i broke his heart. Lol and it wasn't a big deal. Anyways it is better to start practicing when u are younger (u didn't say ur age) cuz kissing is more important when u get older. Besides if he has only made out with his gf a couple times he probably isn't that good either so relax. I would be honest with him about it though but the choice really is urs. But i would go for it! Everything will be fine! I promise! I hope this helps and good luck!!!!!
Try reading this free e-book called 97 steps to a happy relationship. I've read it (a while ago) and I still think about the advice given in it.
kissing will come natural. he probably is just as nervous as you!! dont worry :)
If i were you i would go out with the person. Think of it like this, he didn't start out as a good kisser, he had to work on it; it could also be that he isn't even good if you think about it. I have dated a bad kisser but i still continued the relationship because it didn't matter that much.
well... he trys to kiss you... then just kinda act uninterested! kinda move your head back... unless you are ready!


You dont have to tell him!


A bad kisser?


Every kiss is good! just move your tounge and dont be a dead fish! ya know? A kiss shows bondage between 2 people! Dont worry.... if he thinks your bad.... he will help ya a little bit!
I have dated a bad kisser and it sucks. You can always teach them. dude he kissed her or madeout with her get over it . when you get older you'll relize it doesn't matter what he did before as long as he liks you :)
I've dated bad kissers. Some learn, and some get the boot. At your age, most people can't kiss, so don't worry about it. He'll teach you.
bad kisser? everyone has to start somewere

Girls... i need advice [guys welcome to answer also]?

I like this girl [Frankie], and we talk occasionally, and she seems to like me, kinda. anyway, the only things that are a down fall w/ her is she wears too much make-up, and she's a vegetarian, which really isn't a downfall, but anyway. she lives right down the street from my cousin so i could go over whenever i'm at my cousin's house. I need a way to impress her, and really say ';I love you,'; and eventually ask her out. (my friend Dave said that i should send flowers to her house) please give me adviceGirls... i need advice [guys welcome to answer also]?
My advice is not to be all up in her face, that might creep her out. I would talk to her, become her friend, and then ask her out. Sending flowers to her house would be really sweet. If you find out her favorite color you should get that color flower. She will probaly think it's sweet. Like on my birthday my boyfriend sent me purple flowers because purple is my favorite color.


Good LuckGirls... i need advice [guys welcome to answer also]?
Mate slow and steady wins the race first be friends with her (which i suppose u r) Make her feel special by telling her some sort of secrets and stuff and tell her everything about urself and if u get a chance ask everything about her too man


make her feel the best person of ur life if u feel like that(which i suppose u do) and eventually wen u have faith ask her out she will go definitely and then wen yous are in relationship then send flowers man i reckon its to early for flowers now
You need an introduction. Does your cousin know her? If not, when you see her just say hi and introduce yourself. Get to know her little by little. Talk to her and find out what she likes, after some time feel free to ask her out once you know her better. She will appreciate you much more and your relationship will have a foundation.
I would just get to know her very well first. Girls find it creepy when guys comeoout of no where and say i love you or send them flowers.


just tke it slow.


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First off....Do not tell her that u love her....yet. When you go to see her, take a simple flower.聽 Carry it in your hand and give it to her.聽 It works every time.聽 If she likes to laugh that always works as well, be funny and charming.聽 We love that.
Ok first of all DO NOT SAY I LOVE YOU To someone you just met!!! It's very CREEPY!!! You should just take a chance and ask her out. And don't send flowers to her door if she has no clue who you are, because that's also creepy.
don't send flowers to her house ... way to early for that. She will think its creepy. First you need to ask her out ... which means you need to talk to her so you can do that. Take one step at a time.
makeup's amazing...just love it.


and vegetarian, dude that=good body.


something simple would be nice,


but if you dont adore abosolutely everthing,


you better be careful.


one heartbreak and she could be outa ur life for good.
flirt with her and tell her shes beautiful, even without makeup





let her eat what she wants lol





ask her out before you tell her you love her





lie in the grass with her under the stars and tell her how you feel
ur friend dave sound like a smart person def flowers for a first impression if she thinks its sweet move on to the bigger stuff lata
flowers would be good!





i love when my bf sends me flowers and i come home to a bouquet on my door step!
dont say i love you until your dating, youll sound like a creeper.
it depends on what kind of girl she is and only u know that.
so you want a way of saying ';i love you';


make it into a joke start with a joke then get her a way to understand that you love her like or a riddle that will do fine the thing a bout the FLOWERS i will say just give her two find out her favorite kind of flowers some people like roses but for me they are way original i like different unique stuff oh i know i don't know if you have seen those chocolates that are wrapped up in a way that they look like flowers that will do just fine one or two no more than two flowers maybe even 3 but not more because she might not have an idea that you like her but what I (and only me in my own opinion) will love and so-ooooo tottaly love will be a bracelet or a stuffed animal

I need advice! Guys and Girls!! Please Read...?

So last year, I told my friends to tell my crush I liked him. And he didn't speak to me for the rest of the year. I still remember the day December 20th, Before Winter break. I only wanted him to know because he was suppost to move away. But when class started again, He was still here. He didn't speak to me, like always. And now that the new year has started, He still dosen't speak to me, I've sometimes walked by him when he is completely alone and he dosen't do anything, just glance. And sometimes he does glance at me in the school halls. But now I don't know what to do? Apologize for ignoring him?!? I really need a guy to answer this, Maybe he can tell me what he migh be thinking. I also need a girl to help me get through with this. I've told myself i'm going to forget him, That I won't look or even glance at him, But no one ever told me It was this hard. He's the only guy I've laid eyes on in my school for almost 2 years!!! help!!!





But he did speak to me 2x, I do glance at him and he sometimes glances back








and he is really used to people having a crush on him.





now that i remembered...Sometimes when he looks at me, I get all nervous anf I get butterflies in my stomach. It makes me want to scream! And when I walk by him, I feel my knees shacking And I feel I'm gonna fall!!!








now that i remembered...Sometimes when he looks at me, I get all nervous anf I get butterflies in my stomach. It makes me want to scream! And when I walk by him, I feel my knees shacking And I feel I'm gonna fall!!!I need advice! Guys and Girls!! Please Read...?
This may not be pleasant to hear but I am just gonna say it: If a guy likes you, he will make it happen.I need advice! Guys and Girls!! Please Read...?
give him space,
He thinks your as ugly as fu-ck. He would like you to wear a paper bag to school.
Im so sorry wat your going through something like that happen to me.


and its about to be 2 years also. bt till now I saw him, his arms all around his girlfriend at school, it really hurt me bt I stayed strong. if I was u I wont go up to him it just not right for u or for him (if he is the who stopped talking to u.) just be patient for a few more days and see how things go, if he still don't talk to u take things slow say hello first, don't feel bad if he don't say it back. so don't back down. and keep saying hi, hello, how was your day. just small steps like its your first time meeting him.
ooooo girl you just got burned but any way i had the same problem in grade school and it aint gonna happen so get over him focus on another guy to get his looks out of your mind and you wont have to worry about him any ways 2x means man am i being obbsesive i know it wont help but still he it isnt worth it or your time .focus on school and you wont have problems sorry if i offended but true
You're being wayy too obsessive...haha.





Guys don't like it, they like a little space.





He's probally being nice, and just trying to ignore you.





I'd say leave the guy alone...
I am not sure but many things may be in his head right now... If you really do like him... The only way you will know if he does to would be to approach and ask him... I have a rough past when it comes to relationships... I was shot at even... but you know you may have to move on... It's hard but you gotta find the strength...
Ask him did i make you feel awkward wen i told you this.......ask him if he feels the same and if he doesnt say i understand and wont bother you anymore...dont be afraid....tell him how you feel
jus b casual and b like dude wats ur problem? and if he asks if u like him b like o noo that was a year ago i jus thought u were cute but i think a lot of guys r cute silly...dont b nervous round him hes jus another cute face...pretend hes gay or sumthin so u can tlk to him haha
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  • I need advice guys & girls please readdddddddddd??????

    i like this kid in my biology class


    we never talked


    but today we got put in the same group for a project


    i want to talk to him


    but idk what to say


    i dont want it to sound like im trying to hard :(


    and i just get nervous b/c i dont think i look good and stuff


    i want to talk to him so bad


    im really outgoing and i guess pretty cool when people get to know me


    but i dont know if he even wants to


    he has a gf so its not like hes looking and thats not what im even worried about


    i just wanna be friends


    PLEASE HELP me


    i wanna be cool and approachable and not weird or awkward


    so i need some advice





    thanksI need advice guys %26amp; girls please readdddddddddd??????
    hey


    thats a really cool question im glad there r people out there who are interested in just being friends, teenagers get such a bad rep its good we have people like u out there.


    now down 2 ur q


    ur prob gona have to talk about ur assignment rite?


    just ask him what hes interested in, like if he likes this subject, etc.


    its easier to ask somone to talk about themselves and if you sound generally interested he will like it and it mite start further conversation


    if you wana make a good first impression, have a real ripper of a corny joke to tell him, that will make him groan but still willbe funny.


    guys like girls who try to be different, to show they're not trying to be


    ';cool n hip'; n stuff all the time and are just trying to be genuine


    u sound like a nice person, just let it shine through and if he doesnt be nice back then know its not cause of you, he must be a jerk.


    but best of luck! :)I need advice guys %26amp; girls please readdddddddddd??????
    Just be your usual outgoing self and let him see the real you.





    Talk about the class and the project. Compliment him on what he contributes to the project. Tell him that you enjoy working on the project with him. Just be yourself and everything will fall into place.


















    B:just say something to him, start a conversation,B: or if u want 2 go like a story i read yesterday, let the submarine be ur role model, track the target, without it knowing u are, and find out what it likes, does, when it breaks up jk, BUT if your target starts dropping depth charges on u, go with plan a
    go up to him and introduced yourself. say something like'; hey, im having a big party on the weekends wanna come?';


    you know something to start a conversation. tell him that you love his eyes,, make him smile(confidence)..soon yal be the best of friends..and later gf/bf=sex!






    me too!


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    just talk to him